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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why block they are not going to bother you are they when people say thank you for your message but your not my type that usually opens up a torrent of abuse so a simple delete and maybe them blocking the messenger I can understand don’t be so sensitive move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always read my messages and quite often they get deleted.
I’ve never sent the first message.
I only block when they keep pestering me"
Again fit beautiful and female you don’t have too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why block they are not going to bother you are they when people say thank you for your message but your not my type that usually opens up a torrent of abuse so a simple delete and maybe them blocking the messenger I can understand don’t be so sensitive move on "
Why worry yourself? Don't take it to heart! It's happened to me loads of times. Yes it stings a bit but if you can't handle rejection then you really need to stop messaging people. What sort of things do you say in your messages? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why block they are not going to bother you are they when people say thank you for your message but your not my type that usually opens up a torrent of abuse so a simple delete and maybe them blocking the messenger I can understand don’t be so sensitive move on
Why worry yourself? Don't take it to heart! It's happened to me loads of times. Yes it stings a bit but if you can't handle rejection then you really need to stop messaging people. What sort of things do you say in your messages? "
Who me or the op I’m not worried lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very rarely will we not reply, even if its a no thanks. If you've taken the time to write a message then I will take the time to reply. Tends to be the one liners with no effort that doesn't get replied too
Jenny x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why block they are not going to bother you are they when people say thank you for your message but your not my type that usually opens up a torrent of abuse so a simple delete and maybe them blocking the messenger I can understand don’t be so sensitive move on
Why worry yourself? Don't take it to heart! It's happened to me loads of times. Yes it stings a bit but if you can't handle rejection then you really need to stop messaging people. What sort of things do you say in your messages?
Who me or the op I’m not worried lol"
OP lol don't worry not having a go at you... today!  |
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"I wouldn't bother blocking. I'd probably just make a private note so I wouldn't mail again. "
My point really, I block not for them (as they wouldn't bother me like someone rightly said), it's so, I don't message them again. It's hard to track who you have sent a message to in the past... |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?"
same. block and move on, plus i block if no reply after a certain time even if it hasnt been deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve just got a singles profile and to be totally honest I’ve read most of the messages but I don’t see them being message back worthy, so I do a mass delete. I’ll reply to the ones that make me smile or giggle!
Danish x |
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"Very rarely will we not reply, even if its a no thanks. If you've taken the time to write a message then I will take the time to reply. Tends to be the one liners with no effort that doesn't get replied too
Jenny x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?"
Nothing. Don’t contact them again. I’ll make a private note on their profile so I don’t forget. But usually the wee summary at the top of their profile is enough for me to know not to message again.
But it’s only happened twice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?"
I send a message then carry on with my day |
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"Don't be a slave to your sent messages.
Send it, delete it from your sent messages, problem solved."
This is a good plan, but then you might be looking at locals near you after months and don't remember if you have made contacted them before. Which will become pestering... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?"
Change my username, modify my profile, age and location to suit and try again.
Regards,
Thunderstomper
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Wigan
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?
Change my username, modify my profile, age and location to suit and try again.
Regards,
Thunderstomper
34
Wigan
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Hahahaha so, is the 34 from a modified or real profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?
Change my username, modify my profile, age and location to suit and try again.
Regards,
Thunderstomper
34
Wigan
Hahahaha so, is the 34 from a modified or real profile? "
Real.
Regards,
Trevor Tight Trousers
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Mevagissy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I make a mental note and move on 
Not use private notes"
Nah, I don’t see the point in getting fussed over it. People have their own tastes and limited time, even tho polite responses would be pleasant, I can’t see there being any women on here even capable of responding to all the mail they get |
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?"
Wish more men would take your approach, or at least use the notes facility.
Getting a message, check profile, read message decide for any number of reasons not to reply, so delete.
Only to receive the exact same or similar message a few weeks later.
Blocking simply stops people contacting other people who obviously are not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It never happened to me. But I never send a message first. Could be why.
That or you have tits
You have tits as well.
Not as attractive though"
Not gonna argue with that |
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?"
I never look to find out what happens to any first message I send. It will get a reply or it won’t. |
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"When I send a message to someone and I notice they've read and deleted it, all I do is block.
What do you do?
I never look to find out what happens to any first message I send. It will get a reply or it won’t."
Maybe I would try that... |
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