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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website"
I look at profiles as to what they say about how someone might treat me. If there's a photo of an unknown woman on a male profile... might that be me if I meet this person? Does she know? Does she consent? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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Well they’re generating attention for themselves when it could be someone nothing to do with the site/what’s on offer? What’s it got to do with their profile etc? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website
I look at profiles as to what they say about how someone might treat me. If there's a photo of an unknown woman on a male profile... might that be me if I meet this person? Does she know? Does she consent? "
Really well said... |
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Yes to avoiding but when I see men's profiles where *every* single pic is at least 95% random woman - with maybe an inch of cock or a finger featured in a blink and you'll miss it fashion - I am well and truly baffled. I mean, if a man wants to attract women, how on earth is that supposed to help? ... you have no idea what he looks like, *and* you also have the whole issue of wondering if he's got permission to display those pics. Just very odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Standby lads. Another one telling you what you can and can’t have on your profiles.
All you need is someone to say 'I use it as a filter' and we have Fab Forum Bingo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website
I look at profiles as to what they say about how someone might treat me. If there's a photo of an unknown woman on a male profile... might that be me if I meet this person? Does she know? Does she consent? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the guys that have photos of naked women and you can just tell that there taken in secret and then listed on here its just so obvious surprised they get passed"
How can u tell |
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"Its the guys that have photos of naked women and you can just tell that there taken in secret and then listed on here its just so obvious surprised they get passed
How can u tell"
Well the woman is in the shower paying no attention or its a,sneaky pic of female by a,wardrobe about to dress and also does not know she is being photographed fir example, dame as beach shots most likely someone they have never met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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isn't that weird how dare they  |
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I generally think that the body shown in photos should predominantly, if not totally, be.the user. The people who include others almost invariably make it hard to work out how they look.
They produce these pics as of they were wanting someone like themselves to view their profile. It typically shows someone who is not particularly adept at understanding others' needs, so possibly not great shag material.
I think permission should be uploaded from the part to consent to having them on the internet. Easier to ban them. |
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"Yes to avoiding but when I see men's profiles where *every* single pic is at least 95% random woman - with maybe an inch of cock or a finger featured in a blink and you'll miss it fashion - I am well and truly baffled. I mean, if a man wants to attract women, how on earth is that supposed to help? ... you have no idea what he looks like, *and* you also have the whole issue of wondering if he's got permission to display those pics. Just very odd."
These are the ones that get me too - I don't mind the odd play pic here and there. But when almost every picture is basically of someone he's played with, well what - is it her profile or his?! |
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"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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Why do they have to say whether it's a fwb,fb or something else?. If you like the guy,what's picture's of others got to do with anything. Least if all it being odd as you put it. How do you know it's not a regular fwb or fb. Did you ask or just assume it's odd by your logic?. Why do so many people judge others when they know nothing about them. And then start a thread about them. If it's not a profile that entices you. Simply scroll onto the next one..no?  |
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"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website
I look at profiles as to what they say about how someone might treat me. If there's a photo of an unknown woman on a male profile... might that be me if I meet this person? Does she know? Does she consent? "
Bothers me that people pass judgement on a personand a situation they know nothing about. But yet have so much to say about it. Then you have the guys who agree with whoever is spouting potentionl lies,in the hope they'll get a leg over PMSL!!!. Even if you agree. You still ain't getting her haha.
I could say. Yes she does know and yes she did consent. But you wouldn't know unless you spoke to said person and stopped assuming the worst .  |
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"I must be the only person that’s never been bothered by this mehhh, there are worse things in the world "
It's because you're not a judgemental person who thinks the worst of a stranger. Plus you obviously have better things to do  |
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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago
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Hmm, I’ve changed my profile to remove all the pictures of me with women, after reading this thread.
The pictures I’ve posted here are also on Fet-Life tagged with the womens’ profile (who have given their consent for it to be shared). But they haven’t explicitly given consent for this site (apart from my wife). I felt justified posting here, given prior Fet-Life consent, and given that I obscured recognisable features. But I was wrong to do this.
My motivation for posting the pics, I guess, was to communicate my experience, thinking that it’d help my cause here as it does on Fet-Life. To show that hey, I’ve been with people, I’ve got something to offer, Don’t just take my word for it. I also posted the pics out of hubris... to exhibit, to brag. They got attention, and that feels good. It turns out that women fabbed and commented on these ‘couple’ photos far more than my ‘solo’ photos, so it seemed to validate my assumptions.
Anyways, I’ve removed them. I shan’t do it again. |
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"Lots of things bother me on here but I just take no notice. It's only a website
I look at profiles as to what they say about how someone might treat me. If there's a photo of an unknown woman on a male profile... might that be me if I meet this person? Does she know? Does she consent?
Bothers me that people pass judgement on a personand a situation they know nothing about. But yet have so much to say about it. Then you have the guys who agree with whoever is spouting potentionl lies,in the hope they'll get a leg over PMSL!!!. Even if you agree. You still ain't getting her haha.
I could say. Yes she does know and yes she did consent. But you wouldn't know unless you spoke to said person and stopped assuming the worst . "
Any red flags, I delete and move on. It's not about being misanthropic, it's about protecting myself. |
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Well it is breaking the rules so I report and carry on reporting till they are taken down. The only thing a guys profile that's full of pictures that he's not even in is going to attract is other men. |
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"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Yep and I have reported profiles where they have a profile pic of a woman,when its a single Male.
Miss
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Reporting is the best thing to do. Even if it only has a smale part of the male in its not breaking photo rules though, ie a fingertip, toe etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The most competitive profiles are single men. We generally don't get first attention and type away trying to meet. But some of us do have buddies we can call on from time to time. Nothing wrong in showing that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow this was divisive. Nice to read the different opinions, consensus seems to be that guys (understandably) are trying to get noticed, but the majority of couples and women (not all) actually find it off putting... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This may seem a bit of a silly point but the other side to the argument is single women's profile that say they only meet with there husbands present xx surely they should be a couples profile xx |
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"This may seem a bit of a silly point but the other side to the argument is single women's profile that say they only meet with there husbands present xx surely they should be a couples profile xx "
If husband is present it should be a couples profile. |
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"Wow this was divisive. Nice to read the different opinions, consensus seems to be that guys (understandably) are trying to get noticed, but the majority of couples and women (not all) actually find it off putting... "
The vast majority of single guys do not have a clue what people are looking for this is demonstrated by hundreds of profiles with dick pictures as Avatar and then lack of understanding around discreet by publishing photos of a lady who may or may not know she's on the site.
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" Did you ask or just assume it's odd by your logic?. Why do so many people judge others when they know nothing about them. And then start a thread about them. "
It’s what forum threads are about..open discussion and mixed opinions.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow this was divisive. Nice to read the different opinions, consensus seems to be that guys (understandably) are trying to get noticed, but the majority of couples and women (not all) actually find it off putting... "
Whoops! I misread. If they're not in the pic then report it. As already stated, it's not allowed. |
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"Does anyone else find it odd that a fair few number of fellas on here have pics of women (sometimes lots of different ones) on their profile, and i don’t mean of them and a woman entwined or her pleasuring him, just a pic of her lying naked or with a close up of vag/ass with a toy in her, but no mention of a reg fwb set up etc?
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I just see it, as an extra filter.
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How about the couples profiles with a mmf photos or showing a 4 some, should they be banned too did they have permission to publish them? and what about couples who only show the female and not the male.
If you're going to ban then make it a level playing field |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about the couples profiles with a mmf photos or showing a 4 some, should they be banned too did they have permission to publish them? and what about couples who only show the female and not the male.
If you're going to ban then make it a level playing field "
Well i wouldnt quite say that’s what we’re discussing, yes they should have permission and on the basis that they do, then as long as part of the couple posting is present in the pic, then that’s fair.
It’s the equivalent of us meeting a couple, then posting a pic of just them at it, unless one of you is in the picture it’s not relevant |
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