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Why put straight when your not.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Being transgender on a site like this I've realised most men who message don't show they like transwomen.

So my question is if this site is fun why is it necessary to lie in order to get fun? Or is the stigma that bad that it has to be hidden on a site like this like in real life.

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By *ilth500Man over a year ago

Merseyside

"Being transgender on a site like this I've realised most men who message don't show they like transwomen.

So my question is if this site is fun why is it necessary to lie in order to get fun? Or is the stigma that bad that it has to be hidden on a site like this like in real life. "

everyone has their own reasons i suppose

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By *hill44Man over a year ago

hinckley

"Being transgender on a site like this I've realised most men who message don't show they like transwomen.

So my question is if this site is fun why is it necessary to lie in order to get fun? Or is the stigma that bad that it has to be hidden on a site like this like in real life. "

Its strange why not be honest from the start

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, everyone here is Always truthful and open about everything!

The term "FAB straight" was coined for a reason.

There is still a stigma.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I understand where you are coming from but they might know someone on here who doesn't know their likes so they hide that the are bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That's like someone hiding that they have sti's because they don't want people to know the truth. Is that fair ?

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By *ust ClareTV/TS over a year ago

Settlewick!

It's because they think it will harm their prospects of meeting women on here

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By *hill44Man over a year ago

hinckley

"That's like someone hiding that they have sti's because they don't want people to know the truth. Is that fair ?"

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The concept hiding information that can change the course of meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get asked all the time by straight single males on here if they can suck my cock. I am a straight single male.. Not fab straight.lol. If you are bi then put bi .. People are more acceptable of it these days .Just be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they don’t see meeting transgender as being bi. I remember a thread about it a while ago, by a man who said he was still straight.

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By *hill44Man over a year ago

hinckley

"Maybe they don’t see meeting transgender as being bi. I remember a thread about it a while ago, by a man who said he was still straight. "

Now I'm confused

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By *londiniMan over a year ago

Norhern Costa Blanca, Spain

Plenty of guys fancy transsexual women but wouldn't dream of going near another guy. I think it's fair in those circumstances to say straight is the closest fit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I understand where you are coming from but they might know someone on here who doesn't know their likes so they hide that the are bi"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Just seen a guys status, who’s looked at my Profile or Pictures. He’s complaining about Men looking at his Profile, when it’s obvious he’s looking for Couples or Women. That’s ironic

My biggest issue is feeling second best, when straight guys contact. A bi Guy is at least indicating his preference and I could actually be what he’s looking for, and not ‘the next best thing’ if he’s randy and cannot get a meet.

I do understand by putting Bi on you Profile it will put off some Women and Couples, and unfortunately that’s how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being transgender on a site like this I've realised most men who message don't show they like transwomen.

So my question is if this site is fun why is it necessary to lie in order to get fun? Or is the stigma that bad that it has to be hidden on a site like this like in real life. "

Some men won’t admit they’re bi because they think it will improve their chances with women. They’ll either lie, or have a ‘straight’ profile, and then a ‘true’ profile.

I wouldn’t meet anyone who couldn’t admit their sexuality, at least I wouldn’t willingly meet someone (who knows, maybe the men I’ve met are secretly bi. I wouldn’t be bothered)

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