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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ability to listen, seek understanding, consider multiple perspectives, challenge assumptions and allow own assumptions to be challenge. Recognise that there is no absolute truth anyway. just a more accurate map of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to get to the truth of something?"
I will put some point might help you,
1. Face reading (you can improve ability plenty of books in market)
2. Body language again as mention above.
3. Ability to frame question after analysing all permutations combination and dimension (law enforcement agency used this)
4. Most important background and good knowledge on subject
(Whom you are asking what and why)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ability to listen, seek understanding, consider multiple perspectives, challenge assumptions and allow own assumptions to be challenge. Recognise that there is no absolute truth anyway. just a more accurate map of it."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"to get to the truth of something?
I will put some point might help you,
1. Face reading (you can improve ability plenty of books in market)
2. Body language again as mention above.
3. Ability to frame question after analysing all permutations combination and dimension (law enforcement agency used this)
4. Most important background and good knowledge on subject
(Whom you are asking what and why) "
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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In my experience the following have helped:
A suspicious mind
Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.
Dogged Determination
Gut Instinct
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ability to listen, seek understanding, consider multiple perspectives, challenge assumptions and allow own assumptions to be challenge. Recognise that there is no absolute truth anyway. just a more accurate map of it."
I especially like that bit where you mentioned about allowing ones own assumptions to be challenged.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In my experience the following have helped:
A suspicious mind
Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.
Dogged Determination
Gut Instinct
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Instead of a suspicious mind how about thinking of it as having an inquiring mind? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"In my experience the following have helped:
A suspicious mind
Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.
Dogged Determination
Gut Instinct
Instead of a suspicious mind how about thinking of it as having an inquiring mind?"
Oh i like that. That sounds better  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seem to have that ability. When I'm around people they tend to spill there guts out to me... tell me their life stories etc. Must be my persona?  "
I think persona can sometimes help people open up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In my experience the following have helped:
A suspicious mind
Trust issues. I tend to think the worst of folk until they show me different, it’s a bit sad but that’s how i roll.
Dogged Determination
Gut Instinct
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Dogged determination grrr! |
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