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Having a gf who has done stuff with your mate
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over a year ago
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Has anyone else got a gf who has done sexual stuff with one of your friends ? I have been with my gf for years now but just before I got with her she ended up giving my mate head in a bathroom at a party, and she later told her mates about how big he was which is Evan worse, I know it's in the past and I should get over it but it's always in the back of my head and bothers me but kinda turns me on at the same time but just wondering how somebody else in the same position feels ? |
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"Has anyone else got a gf who has done sexual stuff with one of your friends ? I have been with my gf for years now but just before I got with her she ended up giving my mate head in a bathroom at a party, and she later told her mates about how big he was which is Evan worse, I know it's in the past and I should get over it but it's always in the back of my head and bothers me but kinda turns me on at the same time but just wondering how somebody else in the same position feels ?"
Why is it worse?
Is she with you for the person you are? Or the size of your cock?
I think people can a little hung up on the small stuff ..
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"Because she obviously enjoyed it more if she was talking about the size too all her mates so I can't help it affect my confidence"
Now I'm gonna be rebellious here ..
Try talking to her about it and how you feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because she obviously enjoyed it more if she was talking about the size too all her mates so I can't help it affect my confidence
Now I'm gonna be rebellious here ..
Try talking to her about it and how you feel"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone else got a gf who has done sexual stuff with one of your friends ? I have been with my gf for years now but just before I got with her she ended up giving my mate head in a bathroom at a party, and she later told her mates about how big he was which is Evan worse, I know it's in the past and I should get over it but it's always in the back of my head and bothers me but kinda turns me on at the same time but just wondering how somebody else in the same position feels ?"
Just remember that she’s with you now , not your mate , your the winner here mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it"
Dunno, ask her. If you two were seeing each other wouldn’t that be classed as cheating? |
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"I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it"
Don't forget to mention you thought you'd ask her after talking to a load of strangers on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah looking for a big dick too suck because the whole situation has made me feel like abit if a cuck and not good enough but I'm going too talk too her about it lil |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah looking for a big dick too suck because the whole situation has made me feel like abit if a cuck and not good enough but I'm going too talk too her about it lil"
Does she mind you being on here? |
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"I get that im being abit over the top it just really made me feel like crap especially around that time, we were seeing eachother a while not doing anything sexual, but then she goes and gives my friend a blowjob ? Like why would she do that to him first? I guess I'll talk to her about it"
How long ago was this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you are going to talk to your gf about something that happened years ago? What exactly are you hoping to get out of this conversation? What do you want her to say.. she sucked a cock and liked it but needs to make your fragile ego feel better
Are you going to mention you are on a swinger sure to make your relationship better??
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"Yeah looking for a big dick too suck because the whole situation has made me feel like abit if a cuck and not good enough but I'm going too talk too her about it lil
Does she mind you being on here? "
And as I said above, you're talking to her after discussing it with a load of strangers on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dunno the fact she did it as we were seeing eachother and before she did anything with me I just wanna know why"
I thought you said in another thread that it’s really hot and turns you on?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It does in a way but it's annoying at the same time I guess I am being a drama queen I guess I want her too tell me it was a mistake and she didn't enjoy it but I know its not true I just need to get over it, just wanted too see if anyone had similar experience too |
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"It does in a way but it's annoying at the same time I guess I am being a drama queen I guess I want her too tell me it was a mistake and she didn't enjoy it but I know its not true I just need to get over it, just wanted too see if anyone had similar experience too "
Right, taking your post at face value.
Things like this can play on people's mind and ruin relationships. Talk to her, say its playing on your mind and ask for reassurance. Once you've discussed it move on, put it out of your mind and concentrate on the present not the past. Insecurity and constant mistrust also destroys relationships. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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But in your opinion if she did that as we were seeing eachother and did gave my mate a blowjob before me ? I think she may have a thing for him ? Or you think it was purely sexual |
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"But in your opinion if she did that as we were seeing eachother and did gave my mate a blowjob before me ? I think she may have a thing for him ? Or you think it was purely sexual"
Only she can answer that 
I’d be more angry that she cheated to be honest |
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"It does in a way but it's annoying at the same time I guess I am being a drama queen I guess I want her too tell me it was a mistake and she didn't enjoy it but I know its not true I just need to get over it, just wanted too see if anyone had similar experience too
Right, taking your post at face value.
Things like this can play on people's mind and ruin relationships. Talk to her, say its playing on your mind and ask for reassurance. Once you've discussed it move on, put it out of your mind and concentrate on the present not the past. Insecurity and constant mistrust also destroys relationships."
Then talk to her about being on fab as a single male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Danish’s ex husband is actually one of my best friends lol we don’t broach the subject of sex with her because I for one would be uncomfortable and I’m certain he would be too
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