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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if she likes it or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends if she likes it or not? "

What if I just let myself go and be my filthy self

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends if said husband knows...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends if she likes it or not?

What if I just let myself go and be my filthy self "

Then you might offend her and get a slap.

Try it and see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends if said husband knows..."

Well if he did know that she was meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends if she likes it or not?

What if I just let myself go and be my filthy self

Then you might offend her and get a slap.

Try it and see. "

Hmm

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, don’t say ‘ur’ say ‘your’ otherwise when you speak to her it will sound like gibberish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes, don’t say ‘ur’ say ‘your’ otherwise when you speak to her it will sound like gibberish. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

For me yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And this reason why I don’t meet men alone

Mrscxxx

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

Some women would love it, some would become apoplectic with rage.

Do you feel lucky ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends if she likes it or not?

What if I just let myself go and be my filthy self

Then you might offend her and get a slap.

Try it and see.

Hmm"

To be fair, if someone randomly came out with that while with me, he'd get a slap and no more sex.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Go for it.. what's the worst that can happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk "

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

I'm gonna spunk all over you.. Phone your husband and tell him and I'm going to cum over you, you dirty fucking slut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Any good or what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

Some women would love it, some would become apoplectic with rage.

Do you feel lucky ? "

I kinda do feel lucky

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

I'm gonna spunk all over you.. Phone your husband and tell him and I'm going to cum over you, you dirty fucking slut! "
thats why you discuss boundaries. Some women will love it and some will throat punch you

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Definitely

let us know if she comes back for round 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

I'm gonna spunk all over you.. Phone your husband and tell him and I'm going to cum over you, you dirty fucking slut! "

Nope. Fuck that. You’d be lucky if you only got a slap from me, I’d be raging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends if she likes it or not?

What if I just let myself go and be my filthy self

Then you might offend her and get a slap.

Try it and see.

Hmm

To be fair, if someone randomly came out with that while with me, he'd get a slap and no more sex. "

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Any good or what? "

To say that? No, be more imaginative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

I'm gonna spunk all over you.. Phone your husband and tell him and I'm going to cum over you, you dirty fucking slut! thats why you discuss boundaries. Some women will love it and some will throat punch you"

Yes good point

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By *o_eye_deerMan over a year ago

The South Near That London

Make sure you don't use Yodel to send her back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

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By *irth VaderMan over a year ago

glasgow

I guess it would only be acceptable if she said she liked to be called those names and that would be talked about as you get to know each other. I’d hate to say something like that only to find out she has had a bad experience with a similar outcome previously and that causes her alarm.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you actually want a meet with a real life woman? I assume not.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck. "

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd write out your speech and seek her approval

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you actually want a meet with a real life woman? I assume not..... "

I do. Why do you say that?

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway"

Is this a wind up ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you actually want a meet with a real life woman? I assume not.....

I do. Why do you say that? "

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

What is it with the OP was a"slag" thread yesterday.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway"

Are you being serious or just a wind up merchant? Serious question.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Anyone who referred to me as a dirty slut would be dicing with death.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway

Is this a wind up ?

No. I'm just thinking out loud tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone who referred to me as a dirty slut would be dicing with death. "

Awe come on Babs be naughty

Live life in the edge

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

*Laments the lost art of conversation*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway

Are you being serious or just a wind up merchant? Serious question. "

I'm serious

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

If you said it to me you'd get a slap.

I suggest you check to she if

She likes that kind of thing.

Her husband knows she meets people

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"Anyone who referred to me as a dirty slut would be dicing with death.

Awe come on Babs be naughty

Live life in the edge "

I think the consensus is that you would be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another wind up...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck. "

Would totally put me off and would end any meet straight away. Just because people meet for sex doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be treated with respect.

Agreed boundaries have to be adhered to, and if something like this hadn’t been discussed and agreed I’d find it insulting, abusive and extremely childish xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway

Are you being serious or just a wind up merchant? Serious question.

I'm serious "

Hmmm. No offence and this is only my opinion, but you seem a bit naive.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You need to get to know what she likes first before diving in with a bit of verbal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You need to get to know what she likes first before diving in with a bit of verbal. "

Bend me over and fuck me in the bum with your pineapple, you filthy boy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

Can we live stream this?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

Would totally put me off and would end any meet straight away. Just because people meet for sex doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be treated with respect.

Agreed boundaries have to be adhered to, and if something like this hadn’t been discussed and agreed I’d find it insulting, abusive and extremely childish xx"

I have a lot of respect for women.. I saw another thread about dirty talking during sex,so I thought I'd say my bit about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

I thought it would be fun to go down that route straightaway

Are you being serious or just a wind up merchant? Serious question.

I'm serious

Hmmm. No offence and this is only my opinion, but you seem a bit naive. "

I've been described as naive quite a few times on this site.

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pretty sure theoretical hubby would have a lot to say as well in this scenario. The wife may make a call to him, but wouldn’t be about what the OP imagines...potential ouch! xx

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You need to get to know what she likes first before diving in with a bit of verbal.

Bend me over and fuck me in the bum with your pineapple, you filthy boy. "

Ok. (See? It works....)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

Would totally put me off and would end any meet straight away. Just because people meet for sex doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be treated with respect.

Agreed boundaries have to be adhered to, and if something like this hadn’t been discussed and agreed I’d find it insulting, abusive and extremely childish xx

I have a lot of respect for women.. I saw another thread about dirty talking during sex,so I thought I'd say my bit about it "

‘I’ll just give it a bash with no consideration of her feelings, may as well dive in straight away during the sex and not discuss it beforehand’

Some people may like it. I’d consider it with someone I’d be sleeping with for a while, if we had discussed it beforehand. If someone just came out with that, even my own husband, the sex would be over with instantly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

Can we live stream this?..."

Nah I'm not sure about that. But I do like the thought of her hubby on the phone to her, whilst I'm being a dirty fucking bastard! Physically and verbally

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Pretty sure theoretical hubby would have a lot to say as well in this scenario. The wife may make a call to him, but wouldn’t be about what the OP imagines...potential ouch! xx "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

Would totally put me off and would end any meet straight away. Just because people meet for sex doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be treated with respect.

Agreed boundaries have to be adhered to, and if something like this hadn’t been discussed and agreed I’d find it insulting, abusive and extremely childish xx

I have a lot of respect for women.. I saw another thread about dirty talking during sex,so I thought I'd say my bit about it "

The problem is that this is just coming across as disrespectful, even though it’s theoretical. Dirty talking is fine, as long as it’s agreed on, and if there is a partner then you have even more boundaries to consider.

Not everyone likes to be treated in such a manner.

For example, with my partner, I’m fine with it. We’ve discussed it at length and built up trust before this type of thing, but with anyone else- would be a massive no go, and he’d have a lot to say about it.

It’s just about knowing what some people do and don’t want. Try not to assume what works with one person will work with another x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

Can we live stream this?...

Nah I'm not sure about that. But I do like the thought of her hubby on the phone to her, whilst I'm being a dirty fucking bastard! Physically and verbally"
what you going to be doing to her physically

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck.

Would totally put me off and would end any meet straight away. Just because people meet for sex doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be treated with respect.

Agreed boundaries have to be adhered to, and if something like this hadn’t been discussed and agreed I’d find it insulting, abusive and extremely childish xx

I have a lot of respect for women.. I saw another thread about dirty talking during sex,so I thought I'd say my bit about it

Not everyone likes to be treated in such a manner.

It’s just about knowing what some people do and don’t want. Try not to assume what works with one person will work with another x"

Gotcha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

Can we live stream this?...

Nah I'm not sure about that. But I do like the thought of her hubby on the phone to her, whilst I'm being a dirty fucking bastard! Physically and verballywhat you going to be doing to her physically"

I saw that too. He probably means fucking her, but as he’s taking about being verbally abusive and a bastard, it would set alarm bells- terminology counts for so much xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

Can we live stream this?...

Nah I'm not sure about that. But I do like the thought of her hubby on the phone to her, whilst I'm being a dirty fucking bastard! Physically and verballywhat you going to be doing to her physically"

Don't get me started now lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

Can we live stream this?...

Nah I'm not sure about that. But I do like the thought of her hubby on the phone to her, whilst I'm being a dirty fucking bastard! Physically and verballywhat you going to be doing to her physically

Don't get me started now lol "
come on out with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes."

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes.

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

What do you prefer to be called during sex then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then? "

I don’t go to clubs and have never been, but again - if a random man done it to me I’d be raging. Someone I had discussed this type of thing with beforehand, I’d be fine. But I seem to be getting ignored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes.

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

What do you prefer to be called during sex then? "

My name

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes.

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

What do you prefer to be called during sex then?

My name "

just your name?

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then? "

Your issue is that you're not taking any advice in, with someone regular I love rough, filthy sex but if a random in a club started talking to me like that I'd send him home with his cock in a bag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes.

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

What do you prefer to be called during sex then?

My name

just your name? "

What’s wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes.

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

What do you prefer to be called during sex then?

My name "

I always find it weird when people say my name.in sex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think you watch to much porn op and think one size fits all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

Your issue is that you're not taking any advice in, with someone regular I love rough, filthy sex but if a random in a club started talking to me like that I'd send him home with his cock in a bag.

Maybe me and clubs won't get on then. I dont get it sometimes.

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By *winkleFairyCouple over a year ago

"Some women would love it, some would become apoplectic with rage.

Do you feel lucky ? "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much?

For me yes.

Me too, I’m no slut, hate that terminology

What do you prefer to be called during sex then?

My name

just your name?

What’s wrong with that?"

there's nothing wrong with it. Everyone to their own.

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By *o_eye_deerMan over a year ago

The South Near That London

"I'd send him home with his cock in a bag.

BDSM night then

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

Your issue is that you're not taking any advice in, with someone regular I love rough, filthy sex but if a random in a club started talking to me like that I'd send him home with his cock in a bag.

Maybe me and clubs won't get on then. I dont get it sometimes. "

No, you just need to accept that not all women are the same and some don't want you talking to them in a derogatory way. No offence but you seem very young for your age.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I'd send him home with his cock in a bag.

BDSM night then "

No, that's just how i roll

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then? "

Never been to a club, but I suspect that if someone random tried this type of thing in a club they’d be thrown out and banned! Respect has to be given, nothing in your responses have even suggested respect- giving it lip service by saying you respect women, then following it with what you have negates that claim.

Offensive terminology, no idea about boundaries or appropriate behaviour. So to answer the question you initially posed- yes, it’s inapropriate x

Please try to understand, it’s not about shutting you down, but trying to enlighten you to how mature, respectful men approach women and swinging x

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

"
I'm sure you can be emphatic? Never had a problem myself. I'm not sure about raging, bit strong. I think I'd laugh and say you must try harder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

I'm sure you can be emphatic? Never had a problem myself. I'm not sure about raging, bit strong. I think I'd laugh and say you must try harder

Nah I’d be raging

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This site was recommended to me by a lady who I met from another app and had sex with.

She was in the swinging scene and after we met and had some fun.. We later chatted on the phone and she told me that I was like a virgin compared to her ex lol.

I asked why and she basically said, because I wasn't rough enough and didn't talk dirty enough.

We only had fun the one time and I didn't want to go all out.. But after she said that and now thinking back.. I think I would of and its made think that I should be more full on next time.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

I'm sure you can be emphatic? Never had a problem myself. I'm not sure about raging, bit strong. I think I'd laugh and say you must try harder

Nah I’d be raging

"
But why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I should of*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Things like this need discussing first

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd probably burst out laughing as it sounds a bit ridiculous out of the blue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

I'm sure you can be emphatic? Never had a problem myself. I'm not sure about raging, bit strong. I think I'd laugh and say you must try harder

Nah I’d be raging

But why? "

Because I find it disrespectful. I’d be angry if someone felt they could speak to me like that with no problem. Lots of women on this thread have said they feel the same. Like I’ve said on my other posts, if it was discussed beforehand and we both agreed to it, it would be fine. Randomly speaking to me like that, is not fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

Offensive terminology, no idea about boundaries or appropriate behaviour. So to answer the question you initially posed- yes, it’s inapropriate x

Please try to understand, it’s not about shutting you down, but trying to enlighten you to how mature, respectful men approach women and swinging x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This site was recommended to me by a lady who I met from another app and had sex with.

She was in the swinging scene and after we met and had some fun.. We later chatted on the phone and she told me that I was like a virgin compared to her ex lol.

I asked why and she basically said, because I wasn't rough enough and didn't talk dirty enough.

We only had fun the one time and I didn't want to go all out.. But after she said that and now thinking back.. I think I would of and its made think that I should be more full on next time. "

That was just one woman. I think most would hate it without discussing it first. Don't try to be something you're not, just be you.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Nah I don't want to add any more, because il just get shot down, like allways.

Do you lot not do any of this stuff in swinging clubs then?

I'm sure you can be emphatic? Never had a problem myself. I'm not sure about raging, bit strong. I think I'd laugh and say you must try harder

Nah I’d be raging

But why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This site was recommended to me by a lady who I met from another app and had sex with.

She was in the swinging scene and after we met and had some fun.. We later chatted on the phone and she told me that I was like a virgin compared to her ex lol.

I asked why and she basically said, because I wasn't rough enough and didn't talk dirty enough.

We only had fun the one time and I didn't want to go all out.. But after she said that and now thinking back.. I think I would of and its made think that I should be more full on next time. "

But that's one woman OP. Different women like different things.

Not everything you watch on porn sites is true.

Stop watching porn.

(I need my face palm emoji.)

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By *o_eye_deerMan over a year ago

The South Near That London

"This site was recommended to me by a lady who I met from another app and had sex with.

She was in the swinging scene and after we met and had some fun.. We later chatted on the phone and she told me that I was like a virgin compared to her ex lol.

I asked why and she basically said, because I wasn't rough enough and didn't talk dirty enough.

We only had fun the one time and I didn't want to go all out.. But after she said that and now thinking back.. I think I would of and its made think that I should be more full on next time. "

Thats you equating one woman on here, to all the women on here. Everyone has their 'thing' but not everyone has the same 'thing'

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By *cousesubsallyWoman over a year ago

Somewhere out there

"This site was recommended to me by a lady who I met from another app and had sex with.

She was in the swinging scene and after we met and had some fun.. We later chatted on the phone and she told me that I was like a virgin compared to her ex lol.

I asked why and she basically said, because I wasn't rough enough and didn't talk dirty enough.

We only had fun the one time and I didn't want to go all out.. But after she said that and now thinking back.. I think I would of and its made think that I should be more full on next time. "

Every girl is different though Joe, just because one girl thinks you weren’t rough enough doesn’t mean every one will - we’re all unique...

You definitely need to have these conversations about what is acceptable beforehand if that’s how you want to be or you could get yourself in big trouble

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't meet without giving the man the gist of what I don't like.

I only meet someone when I'm comfortable enough for them to be who they are, and that it's something I want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This site was recommended to me by a lady who I met from another app and had sex with.

She was in the swinging scene and after we met and had some fun.. We later chatted on the phone and she told me that I was like a virgin compared to her ex lol.

I asked why and she basically said, because I wasn't rough enough and didn't talk dirty enough.

We only had fun the one time and I didn't want to go all out.. But after she said that and now thinking back.. I think I would of and its made think that I should be more full on next time.

Every girl is different though Joe, just because one girl thinks you weren’t rough enough doesn’t mean every one will - we’re all unique...

You definitely need to have these conversations about what is acceptable beforehand if that’s how you want to be or you could get yourself in big trouble

Jjst to be clear though sticking your tounge up her ass is universally acceptable right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

I'm gonna spunk all over you.. Phone your husband and tell him and I'm going to cum over you, you dirty fucking slut! "

I’d tell you to fuck right off...!

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By *o_eye_deerMan over a year ago

The South Near That London

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense "

Again your comparing 'all' to 'one'

All Fab men men must be like you by the same token

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense "

So you think being called a dirty slut by a stranger means you're more experienced?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

So you think being called a dirty slut by a stranger means you're more experienced? "

And more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

Again your comparing 'all' to 'one'

All Fab men men must be like you by the same token"

Fair point

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense "

Having experience doesn’t mean that you automatically enjoy verbal abuse,it means you’ve learned what you like and don’t like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense "

I may be on here, but I hadn’t met many men before I met my partner, and it was a progression in our relationship that led to our dynamic.

Before then I was more dominant, but only in a capacity that myself and the guys were happy with.

I wasn’t experienced in numbers, and certainly wouldn’t tolerate a stranger being disrespectful, as I treat others with respect. I value myself too much to be treated in any other way.

It always comes down to that. Discuss what the other person wants. If they want to be spoken to like your lady friend did, speak to them that way, but only if they do. Approach sex like you would with anything, by first finding out the rules/what’s acceptable x

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense "

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you.

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

How old are you OP?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I may be on here, but I hadn’t met many men before I met my partner, and it was a progression in our relationship that led to our dynamic.

Before then I was more dominant, but only in a capacity that myself and the guys were happy with.

I wasn’t experienced in numbers, and certainly wouldn’t tolerate a stranger being disrespectful, as I treat others with respect. I value myself too much to be treated in any other way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you. "

Why worrying?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How old are you OP?!?!?!

not as old as you Daddy

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

"How old are you OP?!?!?!

not as old as you Daddy

With your recent threads in the last few days.. I'm surprised you are old enough for this site!

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you.

Why worrying? "

Because taking your posts at face value you don't seem to grasp basic respect or understanding of other people's emotions. Looking at your slag thread last night and this one tonight makes me think that you don't 'get' people and that worrys me if you're wanting to meet.

That's if you're being honest and not some wind up merchant. I'm leaning towards the latter with you, as your thread titles indicate that you know full well that what you're writing is disrespectful or offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you.

Why worrying?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would say it is inappropriate.

The fact you have already decided what to say in the heat of the moment makes it premeditated and therefor not spontaneous in the slightest."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have we reached peak virtue signaling of accusing the op of being closet r*pist/sexual abuser yet?

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By *layfulpairsxCouple over a year ago

Southend

Do you have some unresolved anger issues about women OP?

You've had a number of ladies explain to you why what you said is not appropriate without express permission from them.

Ladies who swing in clubs deserve respect. That is not respect in any way. Do that with one of the ladies in this trio and one would have you thrown out and the other would probably ensure you had a night in A and E whilst they tried to sew your glans penis back on.

Your one experience is not indicative and I suspect the more you talk the worse you are making it. We'd definitely get a bad feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Any good or what? "

No...it's fucking awful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not set play rules before you play and not be a random div

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

If a married woman is having sex with a stranger from a swinging site , the suggestion that she may be a slut is perfectly reasonable in my eyes . It’s all a part of the game , and I’d have no problem with a guy calling my wife these names and doing what the op wants to do at all . And after asking her , neither would she , but we never did the whole meeting on our own thing . Plenty of guys did call her these names though when we met them , and as they enjoyed it so did we . Because for us it was always about mutual enjoyment and we could adapt to any situation .

If that’s what the op wants to do , then there are no doubt women who would enjoy it too . It takes a lot of the spontaneous fun away if everything has to be discussed first , but a general level of understanding is always good .

It should be understood that a good meet isn’t just about what one person wants from it . It’s about what everyone wants including the single guy . If he wants to role play like this then that’s cool with us . We certainly wouldn’t be offended at all .

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Have we reached peak virtue signaling of accusing the op of being closet r*pist/sexual abuser yet?"

Not every person raising concern is a virtue signaller or are you saying that what the OP is saying is OK?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you.

Why worrying?

Luckily the immaturity/naivety of the posts are not making people bite. They are answering in a mature manner and refusing to be antagonised by the constant “why?”

OP, you can not simply keep making offensive and sweeping generalisations about women on here. It may be unintentional, but it isn’t doing you any favours. If anything it’s putting women off meeting you.

Offensive men are akin to immature boys- don’t keep the attention of women for very long x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You certainly need to have a look at yourself and your attitude. And question why you start these threads. I like being talked dirty too and rough. But with someone I trust and love. And feel safe with. If on a first meet a bloke started talking to me like that he'd have a punch. But that's my personal opinion.

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By *layfulpairsxCouple over a year ago

Southend

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you.

Why worrying?

Luckily the immaturity/naivety of the posts are not making people bite. They are answering in a mature manner and refusing to be antagonised by the constant “why?”

Offensive men are akin to immature boys- don’t keep the attention of women for very long x"

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If she's filthy enough go for it

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

That's considered mild foreplay in South Wales you've got to do better than that

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends on how much you wanna say it to take the risk

Id want to say it alot.

You dirty fucking whore/slut etc

Exactly this.

I might potentially enjoy that kind of talk from a man who I know respects my body and my mind and if we'd already discussed it. Not from someone who's just a fuck. "

Hit it on the head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Would it be too much? If I didn't know someone well and have a level of trust that I was comfortable with it would be for me, yes.

Someone I know reasonably well I woùldnt mind it so much!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

You watch too much porn

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want"

Thanks , and to be honest that’s how we’ve always been for the whole eight or nine years of being on fab . We were very prolific swingers and never met anyone from the forums ( well one or two but more by chance than by arrangement ! ) , and feel it’s a good point you make . The forum isn’t a true representation of the site or the people on it at all . Most people on the site who are actually out there swinging would be shocked at what gets said on the forums !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well you gave her opportunity to reply.. personally I think it’s mild and no big deal just your average kinky night ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

Yep ive been around about the same time as you guys. And ive always found you refreshing because you dont mert from the forums so dont give 2 shits how you're percived.

And your right people off the forums wpuld be shock how people judge them here and peopke on the forums would be shocked how the rest of the site acts.

I mean people meet for sex without indepth interviews, background checks or even facebook stalking off the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want"

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did."

Why can't i?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I am single but if anyone spoke to me that way? They would never be getting back in the door!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

Why can't i?"

Well of course you can, it’s a free world, but you’re not necessarily going to be correct so what does it achieve?

I think the OP has got pretty good feedback, that shows him overall if that’s his fantasy than great but it might not be what every partner he meets is in to..

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By *ames_dieselMan over a year ago

London

Reminds me...Did anyone else see that programme about Peter Sutcliffe tonight....

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By *layfulpairsxCouple over a year ago

Southend

So, learned a new phrase today. (Peak) virtue signalling.

What a monumental, self-aggrandising, cynical pile of excrescence that is.

Even the inventor of the phrase, James Bartholemew describes it as lazy, self righteous and silly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

Why can't i?"
cos its pointless and intimidating to the people he asked the question of he asked people answered some like it some dont as normally happens but trying to assumptions about whst folks are saying is just rude a bit like assuming folks are bullys as seen in other threads iv seen you on

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did."

So often on the forums one person who carries some influence makes a comment and everyone and his wife follow suit . It’s so predictable , and yet in reality the opinions are not truly indicative of swingers per se .

The forums have always been a place where swingers retire to ( including us ) or where people with way too much time on their hands go . And inevitable , like any social media platform , friendships develop . Equally as inevitable is the siding with like minded people and friends on subjects that come up in the forum .

So many people used to say to us when we met them that they wouldn’t go anywhere near the forums on here . Full of people who think they know it all , constantly shooting down newbies etc..... and that’s a shame .

So we get what we have , which I don’t think is so bad , but I do tire of the way newbies , single men especially get shot down in here . And this particular thread is a good example . I bet loads of people think like he does , and yes the opinion of many women on the forum is that it’s wrong . But , and this is honestly the truth now , we and many like us would have no issue at all with it . Most who think like us wouldn’t say anything as it’s one voice against everyone else , but as Carter says , we don’t mind if the forum don’t agree with us .

It’s good to have a bit of balance I think , and we didn’t swing as we did for so long without picking up a few bits and pieces we are happy to share on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

It’s good to have a bit of balance I think , and we didn’t swing as we did for so long without picking up a few bits and pieces we are happy to share on the forums

"
much better way of putting your point accross

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I quite like being called a dirty slut during sex. Be different if he called me it in the queue at Tesco’s, but that be unlikely to happen so no harm.

I like a bit of filth talk

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

I think the majority of the responses to the op question was it’s best to find out if the person enjoys that kind of thing before embarking on it.

Which I feel is sound advice, it can be ascertained in a quick conversation asking about dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

It’s good to have a bit of balance I think , and we didn’t swing as we did for so long without picking up a few bits and pieces we are happy to share on the forums

It’s good to have balance and you’re certainly not bothered about going against the grain of the “popular” poster.

I agree with a lot of the comments you’ve made above and my reply would have been the same regardless of who the OP was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

Depends on he person and what's in it for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I see where you are all coming from.

I thought fab ladies were much more experienced in general and more

I thought they wanted it more full on so to speak.

Hope I'm making sense

I think that you probably need to stop watching porn.

Treat people as individuals, earn a person's respect and them yours. Then, if they're into it and it's been indicated before, then maybe.

Remember meeting someone for sex is about mutual enjoyment, not just you getting to do what you want or focusing on your enjoyment alone.

Personally you seem, at best, rather naive, at worst, somewhat worrying. I'm sure I'm not the only person to think this about you.

Why worrying?

I don't pretend to be anyone I'm not. If I am not sure about anything or if I have something on my mind then il speak my mind in the forums and why not.

You Sir are coming across to me again as if you are looking for an argument and you also seem to suck upto people in order to get your dick wet.

If people don't like what I say in the forums then so be it. But I'm not going to pretend I'm a know it all.. When I know I'm not.

I'm sure there are lots of questions that many of you would like to ask, but you bottle it all up, because you don't want to upset anyone.

Heaven forbid that could stop you getting laid

My aim is not to disrespect or offend anyone and I apologise if I have disrespected or offended anyone tonight or at any other time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

It’s good to have a bit of balance I think , and we didn’t swing as we did for so long without picking up a few bits and pieces we are happy to share on the forums

much better way of putting your point accross

Hahahaha litteraly the same point made by somone in possession of a vagina and suddenly its acceptable.

I fucking love this place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

I think a lot of others have made valid observations too.

The OP asked a question and people have said what they thought, you can’t second guess everyone’s reasoning for posting the replies they did.

It’s good to have a bit of balance I think , and we didn’t swing as we did for so long without picking up a few bits and pieces we are happy to share on the forums

much better way of putting your point accross

Hahahaha litteraly the same point made by somone in possession of a vagina and suddenly its acceptable.

I fucking love this place"

I have no motive to chase vagina or boost female egos fella iv got what i want from here iv no need to ego boost its was just a less accusatory way of saying something i love this place too its bloody wonderful also as its a couple iv no idea if its the bloke or the woman speaking im just not that psychic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know if you're a wind up merchant or genuinely clueless OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know if you're a wind up merchant or genuinely clueless OP"

He cant be that clueless

He's 38.

Oh no, wait...this is Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "

If you discussed it prior and it's hot for you both, I can't see why not.

If you called me a slut out of the blue, rather than as part of role-play, I wouldn't be impressed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was having sex with a married lady who I met from this site and in the heat of the moment.. I tell her I'm going to cum all over you and send you back home to ur husband, you dirty slut.

Would this be too much? "
yes because it all of a sudden made her feel guilty about what she was doing ,learn from this

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"He's a little misguided, that's all. I had no idea what to expect from anyone when I joined up.

Exactly

Gloswingers are basicaly my marker for swinging.

They seem uniquely able to enjoy everything for the sake of it and not others opinions of things.

They seem to represent the site ourside of the forum where people are themsleves as opposed to the forums where people try to be who they think others want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the porn industry has a lot to answer for

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