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I'm just a flirt machine....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you flirt?
We all know the "signs" we're meant to look out for, eye contact, hair twirling, mimicking behaviour etc but do you ever actually actively do them in the hope someone will pick up on it?
Are you even aware when you're flirting or does it just happen naturally when you fancy someone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about the eyes for me. If I see someone with mischievous eyes and a cheeky grim I'll give it back or vice versa. Also I'm fond of using innuendo but not hi G too crude and I generally apologise after it, "pardon the expression. Sorry, I don't mean to lower the tone"   |
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No I just flirt with people I know generally but yes I do
Some are kinda tongue in cheek over the top silly style, guys a seem to love that, rubbing a cucumber!
If I’m very sultry mood I do tend to run my hands and fingers over things like furniture quite slowly, I do touch my clothes smoothing fabric is quite sexy and feels very natural for me to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuinely can't.. even in person I give off a 'don't get too close' vibe and I come across very reserved, if not giddy.. I hug guys like they're mates so give off no signals whatsoever. Can't read signals either as think of everyone like a friend until it slaps me in the face.. useless!! |
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"Im crap at flirting and for knowing when someones flirting with me  "
I struggle noticing when someone is flirting with me but notice it quite easily when other people are flirting....how does that work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it just happens naturally without me realising. But have been told I kind of widen my eyes in some way kind of like come to bed with me eyes. I didn't believe it at first but I've caught myself doing it a few times since and was like oh shit, I'm flirting right now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im crap at flirting and for knowing when someones flirting with me
I struggle noticing when someone is flirting with me but notice it quite easily when other people are flirting....how does that work "
no idea |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think I do flirt. I laugh a lot more, I think that's because my vagina seems to respond more to someone I find funny. Or maybe I find them funnier because I find them attractive.
If I do it must be a bit cringey and abysmal. Sorry if anyone has borne witness to it. |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"How do you flirt?
We all know the "signs" we're meant to look out for, eye contact, hair twirling, mimicking behaviour etc but do you ever actually actively do them in the hope someone will pick up on it?
Are you even aware when you're flirting or does it just happen naturally when you fancy someone? "
I am absolutely rubbish at flirting with someone I'm attracted to.
I'm equally hopeless at recognising when I'm being flirted with.
Evenue using  and doesn't help one iota, I am the barren land of flirtville.
I might make that my new profile name.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you flirt?
We all know the "signs" we're meant to look out for, eye contact, hair twirling, mimicking behaviour etc but do you ever actually actively do them in the hope someone will pick up on it?
Are you even aware when you're flirting or does it just happen naturally when you fancy someone? "
It's not a conscious thing I think. Just being cheeky,engaging eye contact and smiles (and probably blushing lots) are what would pass for ne flirting as far as I am aware |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you flirt?
We all know the "signs" we're meant to look out for, eye contact, hair twirling, mimicking behaviour etc but do you ever actually actively do them in the hope someone will pick up on it?
Are you even aware when you're flirting or does it just happen naturally when you fancy someone? "
I smile ,works every time |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I’m rubbish at flirting in person. I hate to be really obvious in case someone is horrified by my attentions. So I tend to get tongue tied and blush and usually make some totally inappropriate comment whilst dying a little inside.
Even via text or messages sometimes I get a little be flustered and don’t know what to say.
I’m like it if I just really admire someone though not even in a sexual way. There’s certain people on here that if they acknowledge me in some way I get all blushy and flustered just because I like and respect them. Lack of self esteem I assume makes me feel like this   |
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"I’m rubbish at flirting in person. I hate to be really obvious in case someone is horrified by my attentions. So I tend to get tongue tied and blush and usually make some totally inappropriate comment whilst dying a little inside.
Even via text or messages sometimes I get a little be flustered and don’t know what to say.
I’m like it if I just really admire someone though not even in a sexual way. There’s certain people on here that if they acknowledge me in some way I get all blushy and flustered just because I like and respect them. Lack of self esteem I assume makes me feel like this "
My profile alludes to how damn useless I am if I'm attracted to someone.
It shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the question ?
Help
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OK I get it now.. I am rubbish at doing it socially and rubbish at doing it online or by texting...
Is this a good time to reference dusty bin again
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