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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No 
My husband gets messages of thanks for ‘sharing’ me. Makes my skin crawl
Or I get told my husband is so cool, sharing his wife, giving his wife permission etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
My husband gets messages of thanks for ‘sharing’ me. Makes my skin crawl
Or I get told my husband is so cool, sharing his wife, giving his wife permission etc
Cringe "
Somebody doesn't sound grateful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
My husband gets messages of thanks for ‘sharing’ me. Makes my skin crawl
Or I get told my husband is so cool, sharing his wife, giving his wife permission etc
Cringe
Somebody doesn't sound grateful "
Grateful for what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us everyone should be respectful and complimentary of each other full stop it's fun and if the right chemistry that we shine through...
Were here to be enjoyed and enjoy every aspect of a meet and show anyone we meet respect and have fun..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
My husband gets messages of thanks for ‘sharing’ me. Makes my skin crawl
Or I get told my husband is so cool, sharing his wife, giving his wife permission etc
Cringe
Somebody doesn't sound grateful
Grateful for what?"
Doesn't matter  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No
My husband gets messages of thanks for ‘sharing’ me. Makes my skin crawl
Or I get told my husband is so cool, sharing his wife, giving his wife permission etc
Cringe
Somebody doesn't sound grateful
Grateful for what?"
Getting your hands on the wife's pussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I'm asked to meet a couple for the pleasure of the woman, should I be grateful to them for him allowing me access to his wife's pussy?
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of course why wouldn't you be grateful, a great meet is a great meet everyone will be gratified  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why should single men be grateful if I don't have to be? I'm just after the pussy the same as them. "
Funny how many times we've all read those kind of comments directed at single men isn't it? It's a funny old place this... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I agree that everyone should be grateful and respectful, however I think that in this case its very much down to the singles attitude towards the couple and its also a case that gender does play a part.
When I was here as part of a couple before, we primarily looked for single guys and in the majority of the cases their attitude towards us frankly, stank!
I'm my opinion it should be about working with the dynamic of the couple and the couple respecting the guys or lady in return. Ladies inherently get that, a lot of guys seem to assume that every male partner is a cuck.
This is simply one of those situations where reversing the genders to make a point doesn't work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree that everyone should be grateful and respectful, however I think that in this case its very much down to the singles attitude towards the couple and its also a case that gender does play a part.
When I was here as part of a couple before, we primarily looked for single guys and in the majority of the cases their attitude towards us frankly, stank!
I'm my opinion it should be about working with the dynamic of the couple and the couple respecting the guys or lady in return. Ladies inherently get that, a lot of guys seem to assume that every male partner is a cuck.
This is simply one of those situations where reversing the genders to make a point doesn't work. "
If I met a couple I would be primarily after the man's cock, with the wife's pussy being an extra, if I felt like giving her some pleasure.
That's a shit attitude too, but rarely challenged. Although, I have come to find that a lot of (possibly most) women in a relationship aren't too happy seeing their man pleasure another woman. That is why I stopped looking for couples as I'm not here for the pussy alone.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree that everyone should be grateful and respectful, however I think that in this case its very much down to the singles attitude towards the couple and its also a case that gender does play a part.
When I was here as part of a couple before, we primarily looked for single guys and in the majority of the cases their attitude towards us frankly, stank!
I'm my opinion it should be about working with the dynamic of the couple and the couple respecting the guys or lady in return. Ladies inherently get that, a lot of guys seem to assume that every male partner is a cuck.
This is simply one of those situations where reversing the genders to make a point doesn't work. "
It does work though. It's the attitude of the couple towards single men-using them as a spare cock. If I was thought of like that my attitude would be ok then, you don't respect me, I'll just use your pussy and cock for my pleasure.
Which, apparently is ok for a woman to do and not a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I'm asked to meet a couple for the pleasure of the woman, should I be grateful to them for him allowing me access to his wife's pussy?
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Him allowing?
I'd get the sack if I assumed that sense of entitlement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if I'm asked to meet a couple for the pleasure of the woman, should I be grateful to them for him allowing me access to his wife's pussy?
Him allowing?
I'd get the sack if I assumed that sense of entitlement."
Isn't that what the man does? Allow men and women to touch the wife's pussy?
I don't agree with you though. If I met with my partner I would have no say in who he meets, and vice versa. Also, whoever we met as a couple would be treated as we treat each other, not as a body part. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I agree that everyone should be grateful and respectful, however I think that in this case its very much down to the singles attitude towards the couple and its also a case that gender does play a part.
When I was here as part of a couple before, we primarily looked for single guys and in the majority of the cases their attitude towards us frankly, stank!
I'm my opinion it should be about working with the dynamic of the couple and the couple respecting the guys or lady in return. Ladies inherently get that, a lot of guys seem to assume that every male partner is a cuck.
This is simply one of those situations where reversing the genders to make a point doesn't work.
It does work though. It's the attitude of the couple towards single men-using them as a spare cock. If I was thought of like that my attitude would be ok then, you don't respect me, I'll just use your pussy and cock for my pleasure.
Which, apparently is ok for a woman to do and not a man. "
I think it's that attitude towards ladies from couples that has made them considered to be rare and brought about the moniker 'unicorn' for single bi females.
Couples should approach an extra person in the same fashion, they don't though because some guys will put up with being the extra cock, ladies won't put up with being just an extra pussy.
Basically it's down to the entitlement of some couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree that everyone should be grateful and respectful, however I think that in this case its very much down to the singles attitude towards the couple and its also a case that gender does play a part.
When I was here as part of a couple before, we primarily looked for single guys and in the majority of the cases their attitude towards us frankly, stank!
I'm my opinion it should be about working with the dynamic of the couple and the couple respecting the guys or lady in return. Ladies inherently get that, a lot of guys seem to assume that every male partner is a cuck.
This is simply one of those situations where reversing the genders to make a point doesn't work.
It does work though. It's the attitude of the couple towards single men-using them as a spare cock. If I was thought of like that my attitude would be ok then, you don't respect me, I'll just use your pussy and cock for my pleasure.
Which, apparently is ok for a woman to do and not a man.
I think it's that attitude towards ladies from couples that has made them considered to be rare and brought about the moniker 'unicorn' for single bi females.
Couples should approach an extra person in the same fashion, they don't though because some guys will put up with being the extra cock, ladies won't put up with being just an extra pussy.
Basically it's down to the entitlement of some couples. "
If everyone treated everyone as equals I think there would be a lot more sex happening between 3 people on here. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I agree that everyone should be grateful and respectful, however I think that in this case its very much down to the singles attitude towards the couple and its also a case that gender does play a part.
When I was here as part of a couple before, we primarily looked for single guys and in the majority of the cases their attitude towards us frankly, stank!
I'm my opinion it should be about working with the dynamic of the couple and the couple respecting the guys or lady in return. Ladies inherently get that, a lot of guys seem to assume that every male partner is a cuck.
This is simply one of those situations where reversing the genders to make a point doesn't work.
It does work though. It's the attitude of the couple towards single men-using them as a spare cock. If I was thought of like that my attitude would be ok then, you don't respect me, I'll just use your pussy and cock for my pleasure.
Which, apparently is ok for a woman to do and not a man.
I think it's that attitude towards ladies from couples that has made them considered to be rare and brought about the moniker 'unicorn' for single bi females.
Couples should approach an extra person in the same fashion, they don't though because some guys will put up with being the extra cock, ladies won't put up with being just an extra pussy.
Basically it's down to the entitlement of some couples.
If everyone treated everyone as equals I think there would be a lot more sex happening between 3 people on here. "
I agree, or at least more ffm meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I said on another thread earlier, the mmfs I have been involved in have all been amongst three equal partners working together to provide as much mutual pleasure as possible. The dynamic has been different depending on whether it was straight or bi MMF but ultimately the aim was the same. There was more focus on her hubby and me working as a team to maximise her pleasure in the straight MMF and funnily enough more focus on me in the bi MMF. Whatever the dynamic mutual respect was of the utmost importance and after it ended mutual gratitude for the part we all played in the pleasure and fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think sex is a mutual pleasure and nobody should feel grateful to anyone really. I know some people think others should be grateful to them but I don't understand why"
Gratitude for a great experience seems perfectly natural to me.I always say thank you. Maybe that’s just me though.
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"I think sex is a mutual pleasure and nobody should feel grateful to anyone really. I know some people think others should be grateful to them but I don't understand why Gratitude for a great experience seems perfectly natural to me.I always say thank you. Maybe that’s just me though."
Oh I agree but I think the gratitude should be a mutual thing. I don't like the attitude some have for instance that single men should be grateful to couples but not vice versa.
I also don't like the attitude that men should be grateful to women for sex.
The only exception is my request for young, grateful, oiled up young gentlemen   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sex is a mutual pleasure and nobody should feel grateful to anyone really. I know some people think others should be grateful to them but I don't understand why Gratitude for a great experience seems perfectly natural to me.I always say thank you. Maybe that’s just me though.
Oh I agree but I think the gratitude should be a mutual thing. I don't like the attitude some have for instance that single men should be grateful to couples but not vice versa.
I also don't like the attitude that men should be grateful to women for sex.
The only exception is my request for young, grateful, oiled up young gentlemen "
Oh I agree that’s self-entitled nonsense but mutual gratitude is lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would both be grateful
Why should us men get all the credit
We should be extremely grateful
We have meet a partner who for forfills our fantasy’s x"
Would you feel the same about a man joining you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples are always guaranteed a fuck as they can fuck each other.
Anyone else has to either work for it or be invited.
I rarely meet couples as I have to second guess two ego's instead of one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I'm asked to meet a couple for the pleasure of the woman, should I be grateful to them for him allowing me access to his wife's pussy?
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It depends. If her pussy is magical and opens up a doorway to a Narnian world then possibly yes. However if it's just the standard pussy I would hold off and reserve judgment until the meet has ended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being mutually grateful about the experience and the fun had together is one lovely thing, being grateful to anyone for ‘allowing access’ to somebody else’s body parts, which is what the OP said, a completely different thing, and feeling entitled to be owned that kind of gratitude is frankly cringey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think sex is a mutual pleasure and nobody should feel grateful to anyone really. I know some people think others should be grateful to them but I don't understand why Gratitude for a great experience seems perfectly natural to me.I always say thank you. Maybe that’s just me though."
Shouldn't they be grateful too and show gratitude?
I don't feel grateful for anyone who I have sex with and they shouldn't be grateful to me either.
We aren't doing each other favours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being mutually grateful about the experience and the fun had together is one lovely thing, being grateful to anyone for ‘allowing access’ to somebody else’s body parts, which is what the OP said, a completely different thing, and feeling entitled to be owned that kind of gratitude is frankly cringey "
Exactly. Why should anyone feel grateful, or expect gratitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All should be grateful 
That's what I believe too, but going by what I read on here they should be grateful I'm meeting them.
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Women are gold dust. Keepers of The Pussy. All others must bow down before them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should be mutual, no one is "the prize".
I do think it suits *some* women and couples to view themselves as the prize. I smile a bit when single men are accused of expressing entitlement "
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