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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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get yourself down to a 'munch'
There should be some organised local to you.
Not sure if you are a member of other sites but there are some UK ones that have great folks as members. |
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over a year ago
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For me it's not so much the pain, when it comes, it's the knowing (or not knowing) when it's coming.
The anticipation is frightening and also exhilarating, which is more of a turn on than the actual pain itself.
Also, knowing that he is turned on by me wanting it, that he cares deeply for me and isn't just a sadistic prick who likes hurting people, turns me on too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's not so much the pain, when it comes, it's the knowing (or not knowing) when it's coming.
The anticipation is frightening and also exhilarating, which is more of a turn on than the actual pain itself.
Also, knowing that he is turned on by me wanting it, that he cares deeply for me and isn't just a sadistic prick who likes hurting people, turns me on too."
By the time we get to the painful part I'm already fit to burst. |
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"But from people who enjoy it
Surely enjoying pain is still painful?"
No, that’s incorrect. Pain and pleasure are very closely linked and to do with the endorphins released when experiencing pain. |
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"But from people who enjoy it
Surely enjoying pain is still painful?
No, that’s incorrect. Pain and pleasure are very closely linked and to do with the endorphins released when experiencing pain. "
I enjoy pain (to a degree, I have a very low pain threshold) but to me...it’s still pain. I just happen to enjoy it, and the situation I’m in |
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"Pain for a masochist isn’t pain it’s actually pleasure "
I’m not really a masochist though, I just happen to enjoy some amounts of pain, and find it pleasurable...I’m allowed to find some pain pleasurable you know  |
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"But the pain is what turns a mascoaist on "
Not necessarily, in my own experience it depends on who your play partner is and why you are playing. For me communication, expectations, limits and goals are essential for all parties before play.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you talking swinging slap and tickle = pain? Or Bdsm pain?
As bdsm is not about pain.  . There may be deemed to be painful actions taking place, but for the most it's not about the pain. Power exchange, control, pushing boundries ect. I've been a sub for 4 years. Never had "pain" during a sceane. And my ass has ended up so black and blue you'd think I's need a&e. It's not a pain thing.   "
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