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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I value my safety more than satisfying my Instahorn. Plus I like to get to know people and build up some rapport first. Also, on a practical level it's not possible due to children etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think i'm the slowest meeter in the world.. practically know your life story before we meet.
Actually i'm not that bad, just prefer to build a rapport with someone if i'm planning on shagging them.. 
and it's safer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve done a spontaneous social before and that worked out okay, not something I’d look to do again though.
Plus I have no idea how I can fit any spontaneity into my life at this current time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had quite a few back in the hey day of not giving two fucks about my safety, I went to all sorts of strangers houses and god knows what, I am thankful that I am still here to be quite honest.
I don’t really recommend it if you want the truth, everyone is old enough to make that decision of course but from my experience and I did meet a couple of borderline nutters along the way and I didn’t tell anyone where I was going ever, it’s something I would think long and hard about.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined Fab I had kid in a sweet shop syndrome and did spontaneous things and enjoyed myself without giving any fucks 
But one has experience has taught me that I need to value my safety more and rarely meet because of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined Fab I had kid in a sweet shop syndrome and did spontaneous things and enjoyed myself without giving any fucks
But one has experience has taught me that I need to value my safety more and rarely meet because of it "
Exactly what happened to me!! Had a huge wake up call once and that’s when I decided to stop fucking about on the fly.
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Its interesting how many men like instant hook ups, and women like to get to know someone or value their safety.
I like a quick meet every now and then, but do prefer to get to know someone first and have a long friendship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think i'm the slowest meeter in the world.. practically know your life story before we meet.
Actually i'm not that bad, just prefer to build a rapport with someone if i'm planning on shagging them..
and it's safer"
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done in the past and I have to say it wasn’t particularly fulfilling was a total cum and go affair, swear he was in my room for less than 10minutes tops, not even enough time for me to get going.
Having said that, nothing ventured nothing gained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not with a total stranger no, unless it was in a club maybe, but I couldn't see myself going to a club alone.
If Someone I already knew phoned me up and said are you free now, then yes. If I was free
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not with a total stranger no, unless it was in a club maybe, but I couldn't see myself going to a club alone.
If Someone I already knew phoned me up and said are you free now, then yes. If I was free
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How well do you have to know them Autumn? |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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Have done on occasion. I put up a meet now. Ended up meeting a lovely forumite who was in the area and I had been chatting to but hadn't got round to meeting.
May consider again but not really my MO. |
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