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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Know what? we all have em 
All different in some ways
All wrong and all right cause know what?? yeah there is no real wrong or right to anything moral
Some major ones we all agree on (well the majority of us )such as murder andrape and such like and thats ok cause we then make laws to deal with them
But im on about peoples other judgements
Everyone of us is bought up differently
Everyone of us has lead a different life
Thats how our opinions are formed
It does make us right and it dosent make us wrong either
It simply makes us human
Some folk have very strong opions and convictions and will not for the life of them belive that they can be anything but right
Some folk listen to others and somtimes see anothers point of View and alter their opions accordingly
The diversity is great life is great the choice to make choices is great
Which are you?
Fixed and opionated or willing to learn?? xx |
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"Know what? we all have em
All different in some ways
All wrong and all right cause know what?? yeah there is no real wrong or right to anything moral
Some major ones we all agree on (well the majority of us )such as murder andrape and such like and thats ok cause we then make laws to deal with them
But im on about peoples other judgements
Everyone of us is bought up differently
Everyone of us has lead a different life
Thats how our opinions are formed
It does make us right and it dosent make us wrong either
It simply makes us human
Some folk have very strong opions and convictions and will not for the life of them belive that they can be anything but right
Some folk listen to others and somtimes see anothers point of View and alter their opions accordingly
The diversity is great life is great the choice to make choices is great
Which are you?
Fixed and opionated or willing to learn?? xx"
tou forgot the third type - those who are willing to learn but would never admit to being wrong |
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Opinions i hold strongly i am unlikely to change because they are based on my values and beliefs.
However i do not think ppl have to share my opinion, a good example is that i have friends who are creationists, i respect their view, they respect mine.
One of the things i like about having different compartments to my life (swinging,bdsm,church,home,family, studying) is that i meet different sorts of people with different ideas and backgrounds.
To like someone i dont have to agree with them but we will share fundemental values. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opinions i hold strongly i am unlikely to change because they are based on my values and beliefs.
However i do not think ppl have to share my opinion, a good example is that i have friends who are creationists, i respect their view, they respect mine.
One of the things i like about having different compartments to my life (swinging,bdsm,church,home,family, studying) is that i meet different sorts of people with different ideas and backgrounds.
To like someone i dont have to agree with them but we will share fundemental values."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters  "
Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters
Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx "
Do you actually change your opinion or do you just say you do?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters
Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx Do you actually change your opinion or do you just say you do? "
Quite a few of my opinions have been changed or at least adapted slightly over the years on forum by the simple fact of many different people putting something in a way ive not thought about before so no i dont just say it lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think there is a false distinction here that opinionated does not mean willing to learn...hating curry is an opinion, it doesnt mean u are clos eminded about all food "
That you dont like Curry is a valid opinion...
If I offer you a curry with a whole new recipe and you decline to eat it because it is a curry.... Would you be opinionated...?
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"Lets not forget the fence sitters...i said sitters
Fence sitter here admittidly cause willing to learn from others and alter my opinions accordingly if nessasary (after great personal debate with my other self obviously yes i can argue with myself lol) xx Do you actually change your opinion or do you just say you do?
Quite a few of my opinions have been changed or at least adapted slightly over the years on forum by the simple fact of many different people putting something in a way ive not thought about before so no i dont just say it lol xx "
maybe the one advantae of over intellectualizing everything is rarely something comes up that i havnt thought about before
However when it comes to something new i am more than willing to listen to any and all before i make my mind up.This was very much my experience with bdsm, i was leaning towards high protocol because of the first ppl i met...it took a lot of different ideas and people before i reached my current views. |
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"i think there is a false distinction here that opinionated does not mean willing to learn...hating curry is an opinion, it doesnt mean u are clos eminded about all food
That you dont like Curry is a valid opinion...
If I offer you a curry with a whole new recipe and you decline to eat it because it is a curry.... Would you be opinionated...?
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no, thats not an opinion,its a preference |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say I am a bit of both, although Soapy would argue that I am an opinionated stubborn git who doesn't listen. But of course he would be wrong!! "
Actually you are wrong babe i wouldnt argue
Yes ya opinionated and stubborn but ya do listen sometimes and ya do give in occasionally xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hay everyone how's everyone doing tonite x
We think we are fine...
Whats your opinion...?
Im my opinion Euro nutter pmsl xx "
You and my boss share the same opinion... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am all three depending on who I am talking to, that is because if I know the person I am talking to, I know what they are like and sometimes its like banging ones head against a wall to get them to listen especially when they are in the minority but still a know-it-all and belong to the "I am ALWAYS right" brigade 
On the other hand, I do like to listen to what other people say, sometimes I try to comment but they, I have realised now are lost in the passion of the moment |
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