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Is this a dating site (cont.)
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It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex  |
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over a year ago
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you  "
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex "
I agree with you on this.
For a single in the scene its the perfect place to meet others. Couples won't do that for obvious reasons, neither approach makes the other any less justified.
Personally I don't understand why couples dislike singles meeting, dating and coupling up. Surely that then increases the pool for them! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem."
I would've mentioned that but it seemed far too much for me to re-type.
I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it? |
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem. I would've mentioned that but it seemed far too much for me to re-type.
I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it? "
Well we obviously need some people to worry about it ,because how else would we get our afternoon amusement without reading the numerous threads about peoples lifestyle choices,and other peoples opinions on their lifestyle choices. |
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem. I would've mentioned that but it seemed far too much for me to re-type.
I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?
Well we obviously need some people to worry about it ,because how else would we get our afternoon amusement without reading the numerous threads about peoples lifestyle choices,and other peoples opinions on their lifestyle choices."
Easy. Take part in the Fuck, kiss, pint, avoid threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem. I would've mentioned that but it seemed far too much for me to re-type.
I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?
Well we obviously need some people to worry about it ,because how else would we get our afternoon amusement without reading the numerous threads about peoples lifestyle choices,and other peoples opinions on their lifestyle choices. Easy. Take part in the Fuck, kiss, pint, avoid threads "
Hmmm to have my reply ignored so that the 40 odd regulars can quote and reply to each other every day at the same time?? Yh tempting but...no |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem. I would've mentioned that but it seemed far too much for me to re-type.
I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?
Well we obviously need some people to worry about it ,because how else would we get our afternoon amusement without reading the numerous threads about peoples lifestyle choices,and other peoples opinions on their lifestyle choices. Easy. Take part in the Fuck, kiss, pint, avoid threads
Hmmm to have my reply ignored so that the 40 odd regulars can quote and reply to each other every day at the same time?? Yh tempting but...no "
pint. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because someone else wouldn't start a thread. Would you
I believe the words i used were i couldnt care what other people on this site choose to do with their time.i don't need or want a social, sex comes first,if the sex is great then i will build up a mutual friendship with them, if not i move on.people wanna call me a slag or whatever then i aint going to cry about it either.each to their own.we make our own choices and if it fucks us over then thats our problem. I would've mentioned that but it seemed far too much for me to re-type.
I'm very much an 'to each their own' person. If it doesn't affect me, why should I worry about it?
Well we obviously need some people to worry about it ,because how else would we get our afternoon amusement without reading the numerous threads about peoples lifestyle choices,and other peoples opinions on their lifestyle choices. Easy. Take part in the Fuck, kiss, pint, avoid threads
Hmmm to have my reply ignored so that the 40 odd regulars can quote and reply to each other every day at the same time?? Yh tempting but...no "
My sentiments exactly but I best be careful as I daren’t allude to a forum being clique     |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
I agree with you on this.
For a single in the scene its the perfect place to meet others. Couples won't do that for obvious reasons, neither approach makes the other any less justified.
Personally I don't understand why couples dislike singles meeting, dating and coupling up. Surely that then increases the pool for them! "
It increases the pool for couples who only want to meet couples , so yes I agree . There are couples who won’t meet fb couples though , I’ve never really understood why , but it’s true .
It’s a funny old game really , and it’s bloody hard not to sound judgemental when commenting on this subject . On the last thread there were singles slating couples and vice versa , which is ridiculous really .
The theory that the swinging community is non judgemental is way off the truth I’m afraid ! |
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over a year ago
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex "
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It shouldn't be as it's a swinging site, not POF or Craigslist.
If you're our type of couple, you like a supply of single men and others single ladies - so generally the swinging community is fairly tolerant of status and kinks in order to maintain the supply chain |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone just use the site how it suits you, quite simple really.
I do get pissed off that some couples don't see the risk that singles can be put in, as you always have your other half as some sort of back up. I personally have put myself in a risky position in the past and therefore would never do so again, and go out of their way to berate others that don't meet as they seem to deem fit.
However, I do have my own rules and I wont be swayed by others, I have also made it quite clear on my profile, so others can clearly sideline me if they so wish, so win win in my eyes
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee! "
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the "
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues). |
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I don’t think of Fab as a dating site. For me it’s a website that facilitates me meeting like minded people. If one of those people turned out to be dateable and they felt the same way then I’m not against giving it a chance. The serial Fab daters seem to find it easy enough. It’s a good a place as any.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues). "
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the "
There is every need for it when somebody is being condescending. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thought it was a swinging site so why is it some people want to have coffee or a so called social??"
I'd like to answer the question in the original thread.
I like to have a social meet to make sure there is a mutual attraction in person, and that we get on.
Nothing whatsoever to do with dating.
If you don't want a social meet, then don't meet people that do. Not that difficult really. |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
There is every need for it when somebody is being condescending. "
There was absolutely nothing condescending in my post , the one you quoted and made the condescending snide remark about . Pot , kettle , black springs to mind  |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I don't do socials to ascertain attraction (I do that by talking on here first), I do like a couple of drinks and a chat in a pub/bar before we retire to bed.
It's not a date, as I'm not looking for a boyfriend-just sex with a friendly man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
There is every need for it when somebody is being condescending.
There was absolutely nothing condescending in my post , the one you quoted and made the condescending snide remark about . Pot , kettle , black springs to mind "
I made it very clear that I I was referring to a previous post on a previous thread! You seemed to have a real issue with anybody wanting to meet anybody for a social and you suggested that it was clearly a date type thing and why would any couple want to do that and as I pointed out your question has already been answered on another thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum? filthy beast! "
I'll buy them a coffee first though, just to be safe |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum? filthy beast! I'll buy them a coffee first though, just to be safe "
oh, you know the ways of the wicked. Kissed the Blarney Stone to be sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For what it is worth...
A social is an opportunity for me to see if the lady in question is interested in me as a person or a stunt cock of convenience.
If we get along, we will go our seperate ways and then decide (in the cold light of day) if we are likely to meet again and take things further.
If you have been chatting for a while and find the person you meet is different from their online persona, you can sup up, bid them good day and be on your way.
If you just want an nsa one off fuck, or you have no interest in a person beyond their genitals, a social is probably a better option for you.
For others that want a friends with benefits arrangement, knowing the other person will be patient enough to not demand sex on tap, a social will be a good (not failsafe, but good) indication of their intentions. |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum? filthy beast! I'll buy them a coffee first though, just to be safe "
I’d love a coffee , thanks |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum? filthy beast! I'll buy them a coffee first though, just to be safe oh, you know the ways of the wicked. Kissed the Blarney Stone to be sure. "
Kissed the Blarney Stone without a social first ?
Whatever next |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum? filthy beast! I'll buy them a coffee first though, just to be safe "
He's lying |
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"It is for some , and not for others .
Many couples and singles would be horrified to think of dating on a swingers site , but where else would a single find another person who would be up for swinging together ?
I’ve never really understood why couples want date type meets , but that’s cool too .
For us it was never a dating site . Simply a great place to get great sex
As was explained on to you on the other thread, you they are not date type meets to meet someone for a coffee!
This is exactly what I meant on the forum attitudes thread .
There really is no need to tell me I have had something explained to me on the other thread , and I fail to see why there is a need for the
Also, Glos couple, you should have a social first before you have sex and then after the social send letters and stuff and visit for tea and then a few weeks later agree to meet up to take 3 bits of clothing off and kiss (no tongues).
Wrong!! The holding hands comes before kissing when is it ok to touch the bum? filthy beast! I'll buy them a coffee first though, just to be safe
He's lying "
drop me in our why don't you. All because I told you I bought you one when in fact I used my mcds token for a free flat white. |
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