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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I've not posted a thread here in over 2 years as it usually ends in abuse. Lets see if there are any geniune nice people about. If you are going to make rude, nasty comments and call it "banter" please don't. Not into that stuff.
Here goes.
So as someone who is a multiple cummer with an abnormally high drive I'm into alot of kinks and fetishes however I've never had a woman able to make me cum with her mouth only. Usually they need to use their hands and sometimes I need to help them. Now am I just not getting quality BJs or is there something wrong with me? Granted I'm someone who takes a while to cum but is this normal? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, if they stop trying to make you cum, it just happens."
You know this is what i was thinking. Sometimes their eagerness and annoyance makes me not able to cum. Perhaps it's the girl and the technique |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it’s normal. I very rarely cum from just oral.
Luckily, there’s more to sex than the squirty bit at the end; it’s the journey rather than the destination so enjoy it  "
I know but i just want to fire hose into a girls mouth without her using her hands. Am I a savage? Haha |
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"I think it’s normal. I very rarely cum from just oral.
Luckily, there’s more to sex than the squirty bit at the end; it’s the journey rather than the destination so enjoy it
I know but i just want to fire hose into a girls mouth without her using her hands. Am I a savage? Haha"
No
But no hands ... not even gripping the base? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very normal from what I can gather reading here.
Not sure if that's a good thing
It's the only place I have access to where men discuss sexual issues openly. "
I'm too open so talk to anyone about it. I need to drive to Manchester tomorrow but I can't leave here without the answers doh |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone is different, I can in honesty tell you a man will never make me cum if I have had a glass or two of wine, it will just never happen, so maybe it is the same with you, you just need to learn your own body and what works and what doesn't! |
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There’s a pressure on men to satisfy a woman before they get off themselves . I’m not sure where or when this developed , but it’s very apparent on fab with men constantly saying they don’t cum till the woman’s satisfied . This leads to issues in being able to cum naturally , and ultimately needing extra help with such things as blow jobs and cumming with a condom on .
Fact is that here are plenty of women who get off on the fact that their men cum quickler and naturally , but it’s too late for most guys who are conditioned not to . If there wasn’t the pressure on men to save their orgasm for after the woman I think way more men would cum from a bj . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There’s a pressure on men to satisfy a woman before they get off themselves . I’m not sure where or when this developed , but it’s very apparent on fab with men constantly saying they don’t cum till the woman’s satisfied . This leads to issues in being able to cum naturally , and ultimately needing extra help with such things as blow jobs and cumming with a condom on .
Fact is that here are plenty of women who get off on the fact that their men cum quickler and naturally , but it’s too late for most guys who are conditioned not to . If there wasn’t the pressure on men to save their orgasm for after the woman I think way more men would cum from a bj ."
I'm a multiple cummer so i can go all night. Most I've done is 8 times in 1 night so that isn't an issue. I think .maybe its technique and women getting cheesed off that it's taking a while. Maybe i need to not wank for a couple weeks before sex so i last only 10 mins or so when getting oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes, if they stop trying to make you cum, it just happens.
You know this is what i was thinking. Sometimes their eagerness and annoyance makes me not able to cum. Perhaps it's the girl and the technique "
If you find a woman who does it just because she loves doing it you may find you can't stop yourself from coming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it’s normal. I very rarely cum from just oral.
Luckily, there’s more to sex than the squirty bit at the end; it’s the journey rather than the destination so enjoy it
I know but i just want to fire hose into a girls mouth without her using her hands. Am I a savage? Haha
No
But no hands ... not even gripping the base?"
I've done it. It's more difficult to keep it in my mouth, but it's doable. |
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"There’s a pressure on men to satisfy a woman before they get off themselves . I’m not sure where or when this developed , but it’s very apparent on fab with men constantly saying they don’t cum till the woman’s satisfied . This leads to issues in being able to cum naturally , and ultimately needing extra help with such things as blow jobs and cumming with a condom on .
Fact is that here are plenty of women who get off on the fact that their men cum quickler and naturally , but it’s too late for most guys who are conditioned not to . If there wasn’t the pressure on men to save their orgasm for after the woman I think way more men would cum from a bj .
I'm a multiple cummer so i can go all night. Most I've done is 8 times in 1 night so that isn't an issue. I think .maybe its technique and women getting cheesed off that it's taking a while. Maybe i need to not wank for a couple weeks before sex so i last only 10 mins or so when getting oral"
Good plan , even if only the once to just see if it’s possible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s normal. I very rarely cum from just oral.
Luckily, there’s more to sex than the squirty bit at the end; it’s the journey rather than the destination so enjoy it "
Well said! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe just Karma!
Your not in harmony with each other
Now and then it doesn't hurt to let the female win occasionally and just enjoy it!
Think of the satisfaction she would have!"
I think I've slept with women who didn't actually like oral so they never bothered to do it properly. Maybe you're right |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"As long as your enjoying the build up does it matter if hands are then needed?
I mean i can use my own hand, that's lazy. Mouth only haha"
Hope you employ that when performing oral on others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As long as your enjoying the build up does it matter if hands are then needed?
I mean i can use my own hand, that's lazy. Mouth only haha
Hope you employ that when performing oral on others"
Always do. |
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