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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The girl I nearly married but she ended it has been in touch again we are messaging and she has told me it was her mistake and she wants me again any thoughts??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The girl I nearly married but she ended it has been in touch again we are messaging and she has told me it was her mistake and she wants me again any thoughts??? "
Didn't we do this the other day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The girl I nearly married but she ended it has been in touch again we are messaging and she has told me it was her mistake and she wants me again any thoughts??? "
once trust is broken cannot be joint.. Love yes see is it love bringing her back to you or other thing ... Make move cautiously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Familiarity is comforting but.... ...try to resist it coz it won't be long before all the not so nice familiar things crop up, unless you know you can live with that.... |
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"The girl I nearly married but she ended it has been in touch again we are messaging and she has told me it was her mistake and she wants me again any thoughts??? "
If she knows about your other life , and is happy about it , I’d go back to her . The chances of finding another woman who is happy for you to dress and be a bottom to dom guys is remote .
But having said that I don’t know why she split with you before so what do I know ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you recently come into money, has she just had some disaster happen where you would be useful to her, cynical questions first.
Does she already know and accept tv side of you. Ask her why she left initially and what has changed.
Do you want her back.
Are all things I would be asking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please don't make it easy for her. Just because it's flattering and nice to feel wanted but she did end the relationship in the first place. You need to be honest and open if you had problems in the past and start from fresh, like proper dates and build again xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never worth it, i've done it twice. The same t hings that caused problems before are always there, you've moved on already no need to jump back in the hole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The girl I nearly married but she ended it has been in touch again we are messaging and she has told me it was her mistake and she wants me again any thoughts??? "
Dont go there.. i did recently and remembered why he was my ex, it didnt work then and wouldnt work now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The girl I nearly married but she ended it has been in touch again we are messaging and she has told me it was her mistake and she wants me again any thoughts???
Dont go there.. i did recently and remembered why he was my ex, it didnt work then and wouldnt work now "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't go for it. I had a similar situation when my last ex got in touch by email over a month ago who wanted to be friends with me again but as soon as I read that, I instantly blocked her email address and that was it.
Never look back, always move forward. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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Only you can know the dynamics of the situation, what happened and why. Many people advocate not going back but I don't necessarily agree as issues can be worked through if you're both willing.
Obviously there are going to be a lot of questions as to the whys and wherefores on here. None of us know the truth of it though.
It's an entirely personal decision to be made OP, I hope that you make the best choice for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn’t matter what people on here say OP, only you know how you’re feeling about her. Take some time away from here and consider why you were together and why you split.
Good luck |
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Some people are worth getting back together with, think about the reason why you split, did she love you and show you she did? When you was together was it a good rejationship ?
If it is a possibility but take time and first thing is the problems of the past are gone, if she cheated can you forgive or vice versa, will you both work things out it has to be a joint decision don’t just fall back into a bad relationship because you are lonely and miss them etc
Good luck and if you do I hope it works out
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"My ex girlfriend said if I borrowed her some money she would let me fuck her arse. I think she has just split up with her boyfriend. I’m very tempted  "
Correct me if I’m wrong but sex workers exist, don’t they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex girlfriend said if I borrowed her some money she would let me fuck her arse. I think she has just split up with her boyfriend. I’m very tempted
Correct me if I’m wrong but sex workers exist, don’t they? "
I would class it as interest on a short term loan. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely use her for amazing sex then bail. But don't get sucked in. "
This post was made over a year ago.
But the advice still stands for anyone going through this. |
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