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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

1. People are allowed preferences, and women here get away with being fussy ... it is cock fest sometimes

2. It's not rant Thursday yet!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put flowers or a vibrators in the subject box, outplay those fussy bitches.....!

....or you could just think fuck it and scroll down to the next?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that is a small man.... 8 inches?

i'm only little too at 5'4 but would struggle to hold his hand

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By *ellytransvTV/TS over a year ago

Leicester

I dont consider any of the above to be fussy. It is just normal traits that are important for that person hence it being on their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You men can be fussy too you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You men can be fussy too you know

Guilty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You men can be fussy too you know

Guilty

See, there’s one right here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Il fuck who i want not because a guy has sent me a hiya message with a dick pic attached

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep I’m fussy, extremely fussy. And I have no beards on my profile, that’s because I don’t like beards

. Also no men under 6ft either. I’ve been on here over a year had loads of socials and only met 2 people for a second time. I’m sorry would you like me to fuck everyone who messages me? I’ll get on it straight away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ugh yeah I know man, us women who have preferences can be a real nightmare

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

Precisely. Some blokes (not all) give the impression that they assume we are just waiting for that next message so we can hop skip and jump over hoops just so they can blow their beans.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

Precisely. Some blokes (not all) give the impression that they assume we are just waiting for that next message so we can hop skip and jump over hoops just so they can blow their beans."

But being on here means shag fest ... doesn't it?

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer

Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

Oh... And "Biscuits" for those whom happen to be of the savoury preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm letting him put his cock in my mouth too right I'm going to be fussy. I hope he is being fussy too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you prefer they didn’t reply at all? Can’t please all of the people all of the time I’ve lesrned

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer

Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate

The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Il fuck who i want not because a guy has sent me a hiya message with a dick pic attached"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer

Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate

The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes"

Enormous flappy shoes and one of those squirting flower things..... But you can't say "squirting" on here without getting a load of PMs!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer

Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate

The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes

Enormous flappy shoes and one of those squirting flower things..... But you can't say "squirting" on here without getting a load of PMs! "

As you're a bloke .. I'd expect a squirt or 2 to be a prerequisite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile.

well if you like exceptional men who don’t have beards then why not write it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you find women less fussy on other apps, OP, I suggest you stick to them

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes, I am fussy, and I only fuck men I am attracted to and get on with.

Saying that, I haven't fucked anyone in two years, so what does that tell you?

I also say I do not like beards, I don't mind stubble but anything more and I will not go there!

Will I drop my standards because I haven't found someone I've wanted to fuck in two years?

Not a chance in hell!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would you prefer they didn’t reply at all? Can’t please all of the people all of the time I’ve lesrned "

No. If someone asked me a question and I didn't find her attractive.. I would still have the decency to answer the question.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Fab is the exception to the usual rule of engagement mate . Simply because they are so many men clamoring after so few women .

Do a simple search in your local area , and you’ll find up to ten times as many men as women online at any time .

So , quite simply , a woman gets to pick one from ten men at any given time . Unlike other apps which are much more evenly balanced . As is the real world , night clubs , pubs etc where women and men are pretty much equal .

Why is this ?

Because men are wired to get off on meaningless nsa sex much more than women . And they can get that from fab with couples , TVs , or on the odd occasion from a woman . And as most men on here are attached , it’s ideal as there’s less likelihood of getting caught and pretty much everyone they meet know they are cheating .

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever

Danish x

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I think it’s a good thing to be fussy, although I would choose to use the word ‘selective’, same difference though. If you’re not fussy what are you?

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

Rant all you like.

I will only meet men I am extremely attracted to. That is my preference and my prerogative. Will not settle for anything less.

Thankfully, Fab hasn’t let me down in that regard.

lots of hot men to choose from!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't use other sites. But I hope everyone holds to their standards, whatever they might be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile.

well if you like exceptional men who don’t have beards then why not write it?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Rant all you like.

I will only meet men I am extremely attracted to. That is my preference and my prerogative. Will not settle for anything less.

Thankfully, Fab hasn’t let me down in that regard.

lots of hot men to choose from!

So no ranty fuckers for you then?

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Welcome to 90% of the females on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever

Danish x"

That depends on the man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile.

well if you like exceptional men who don’t have beards then why not write it?

But I don’t get it?

Absolutely everyone is entitled to have preferences. I like it when men state on their profile the type of women they like; if it doesn’t describe me, I won’t waste my time or their time by messaging them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever

Danish x"

For some men any hole is a goal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Fab is the exception to the usual rule of engagement mate . Simply because they are so many men clamoring after so few women .

Do a simple search in your local area , and you’ll find up to ten times as many men as women online at any time .

Why is this ?

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change ."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% they’re allowed to be picky, imagine getting 200 messages a second n see how responsive you are lol.

It’s simple fact women are outnumbered massively on this site

Dnt take it personally

Happy fabbing

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"It’s not our fault we have standards, while the men are happy with whatever

Danish x

For some men any hole is a goal

I'd better put protection on the downstairs loo overflow pipe then

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By *rkeb3Man over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Just saying hullllooo lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"100% they’re allowed to be picky, imagine getting 200 messages a second n see how responsive you are lol.

It’s simple fact women are outnumbered massively on this site

Dnt take it personally

Happy fabbing

I get maybe 30 messages a day at absolute most (more atm cause I’m in the hot pics). When I have single men blocked, I get none (unless from female friends).

And I’m still entitled to be fussy. It doesn’t matter how many messages anyone gets, everyone can be as fussy as they like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hear you brother, how dare women have standards or opinions in 2019, they will be giving them the bloody vote next

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Correct, i also think some men can be lazy as fuck with there effort, copy and paste is used far too much. And that’s personally from the messages I receive from blokes. I’m straight is says so yet still get copy n pasted lol.

Although I do send imaginative and specific messages I very rarely get replies but as I said I dnt take it personally as I doubt all messages are read in detail.

Or I’m way off lol

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I didn't get any messages and got no attention, I'd still have standards. Sex isn't the be all and end all! Respect, safety, consent, and preferences trump my libido by a very long way.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change ."

Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

I know, it's bloody awful, I thought we were all here just to shag anyone that asked, can't we just shut up, open our legs then fuck off?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

What makes them arrogant??

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change .

Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering

Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

That’s not how you worded it to begin with.

And yes, there is. Mine probably being one of them. But if it works for them, then oh well. I just worry about my own profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

Maybe they're just informative?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Unfortunately woman want 1 man out off a 1000 so 999 men have to be eradicated somehow and the only way of doing it is gunning down their appearance and intelligence.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Unfortunately woman want 1 man out off a 1000 so 999 men have to be eradicated somehow and the only way of doing it is gunning down their appearance and intelligence."

DDT may help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

I started with the nicest profile ever. It’s gradually got more to the point and more specific. I don’t see an issue in being specific in what you’re looking for. Not that it really makes a difference anyway as most people obviously don’t bother reading it.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

If a profile isn't for you or is too "fussy" just move on to another.

We are all entitled to ask for what we like on our profiles

Some men and couples are also fussy ,I like fussy ,it means they aren't just on here for a quick shag with whoever they can get.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I imagine women would consider me an arrogance arsehole if I wrote things like that in my profile.

I imagine they would see a person who knew what they wanted, rather than just vagina.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

Just as you're entitled to that opinion, so they're entitled to ask for what they want. If it doesn't appeal to you then obviously they're not the person for you.

I can't really understand why other people's profiles would irritate you so much. They're clearly not the kind of people you want to meet so just move on, no need for the big rant... Unless of course its because you feel a bit put out that they're excluding you or that they can do it and you can't.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Good grief..... Its OK.... There's someone here for everyone.... I have things I want and don't want too..... Just suck it up, put it down to preference and move your ass on..... Simple stuff geezer

Although I'm over 8 inches, exceptionally good looking, have a beard, am trimmed, both have and don't have tats and am a funny fucker.... Delete where appropriate

The rest may or may not be true ... bit I take issue with the funny fucker bit .. unless of course you do it wearing a spinning bow tie a red nose and big flappy shoes

Enormous flappy shoes and one of those squirting flower things..... But you can't say "squirting" on here without getting a load of PMs!

As you're a bloke .. I'd expect a squirt or 2 to be a prerequisite

Oh go on then, if you insist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Fab is the exception to the usual rule of engagement mate . Simply because they are so many men clamoring after so few women .

Do a simple search in your local area , and you’ll find up to ten times as many men as women online at any time .

Why is this ?

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change ."

Ive punched above my weight sometimes and below my weight too.

Its not always about looks for many on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"that is a small man.... 8 inches?

i'm only little too at 5'4 but would struggle to hold his hand "

At 8” you could use him as a dildo hun xx

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

Welsh Lass

These threads are so enlightening sometimetimes

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I'm very fussy, only on here as Idris Elba and Daniel Craig keep on trying to arrange a threesome with me, due to our diaries (and I'm so busy) , not happened yet

once it does I'm off

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

Oh for sure.

Cool, sex, interest, great!

After reading some messages: omg I've got bad luck, some of these men are monsters.

After more: are people really this stupid and rude?

More: oh ffs you morons.

Etc.

It can be really hard not to get overtly pissed off!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Not taking the piss but it a website for SEX not dating so if you want SEX you want the best hottest sex you can get so why go for chop liver when there so much steak out there...

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

The way I see it, coming on Fab is a risky business, being exposed as a swinger, for some could have a negative impact on there lives. So why take such a huge risk and not get what you want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find fussy attractive as they have standards at the end of the day it is someones partner and is entirely a joint decision

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The way I see it, coming on Fab is a risky business, being exposed as a swinger, for some could have a negative impact on there lives. So why take such a huge risk and not get what you want?

That too. A lot of guys expect me to jump to and fuck them on the basis of a dozen words or so. Absolutely not. Too much risk involved. It might be NSA, not meaningful emotionally, but I still consider my safety, my anonymity, etc.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Sexual autonomy in Women. Who would have thought it.

Dark days indeed.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change .

Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering

Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On my couple's account I do have a word that I ask to be mentioned. But that's just to show it's not just another chancer that is gonna say fancy a fuck or gonna suck this.

If they take 2 minutes out their time to read my bio it shows me they could be a decent guy that I could get along with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not at all im on the last boss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as the lady in the ad says

"I can't be bothered I suppose"

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"The way I see it, coming on Fab is a risky business, being exposed as a swinger, for some could have a negative impact on there lives. So why take such a huge risk and not get what you want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't get the issue.. many male profiles request exceptional females only too.. I simply step to the side and remove that from my viewing as we clearly aren't compatible. If I worried about how many men I wasn't suitable for on here I'd be miserable so I don't.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

Why does it matter to you if you perceive a woman's profile to be fussy?

Are you suggesting they should meet any old random they don't find attractive?

Personally, I don't list 'must have' or 'mustn't have' physical attributes because I don't think I have a 'type' and am more a 'I know it when I'll see it' kind of person. However, it seems a jolly sensible idea for someone to state specifics if it matters to them, not least because anyone who doesn't match those requirements won't waste their time sending a message that'll be rejected (notwithstanding people who don't read profiles of course).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

Oh for sure.

Cool, sex, interest, great!

After reading some messages: omg I've got bad luck, some of these men are monsters.

After more: are people really this stupid and rude?

More: oh ffs you morons.

Etc.

It can be really hard not to get overtly pissed off! "

I found it quite entertaining and funny at first. That soon wears off. I’m just not feeling it at all at the moment hence the hidden profile. Maybe my mojo will return

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

Oh for sure.

Cool, sex, interest, great!

After reading some messages: omg I've got bad luck, some of these men are monsters.

After more: are people really this stupid and rude?

More: oh ffs you morons.

Etc.

It can be really hard not to get overtly pissed off!

I found it quite entertaining and funny at first. That soon wears off. I’m just not feeling it at all at the moment hence the hidden profile. Maybe my mojo will return

I hear you. The at times deluge of crap can be disheartening.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change .

Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering

Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either. "

We all know that the majority of guys wouldn’t date a woman from here . So it’s hardly news to read that you think it doesn’t make them look good . And least of all , do you really think they’re bothered by what we think on the forum ?

I didn’t say anyone was only fuckable because guys didn’t have any other choice . I merely stated a fact , that women on here have a massive choice compared to other apps and the real world . Hence they can , and often do make rules and have preferences that wouldn’t carry any weight in the real world . If you interpret that as that men only fuck you because they have no other choice then that’s cool with me .

You would have a tough job convincing me otherwise , unless things are hugely different up north compared to here in the South .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You have all taken this to personal.

I don't think it matters what else I write here now, because you have already made up your mind about me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fussy as fuck and happy to be so. There are very few people that make it as far as putting their willy inside me and I like repeat meets so I meet new people so rarely that those I decide to fuck are stuck with me for a while

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Don't get the issue.. many male profiles request exceptional females only too.. I simply step to the side and remove that from my viewing as we clearly aren't compatible. If I worried about how many men I wasn't suitable for on here I'd be miserable so I don't. "

Quite. I did/ do block the profiles that say, under size 12 only fatties need not apply, but that's because that's unnecessary in its wording and I'm not going to meet their criteria any time soon if ever, so I'll make it so I don't clutter up their search.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me."

But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can be a fussy as I like.

Sue me!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"If I didn't get any messages and got no attention, I'd still have standards. Sex isn't the be all and end all! Respect, safety, consent, and preferences trump my libido by a very long way. "

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change .

Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering

Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either.

You would have a tough job convincing me otherwise , unless things are hugely different up north compared to here in the South ."

It’s your turn of phrase that I didn’t care for. Who is to say people are ‘punching above their weight’? The attractive person with an ugly personality or the unattractive person with the amazing personality? All subjective.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do?"

I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do?

I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood. "

See fussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me."

You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why have spam when you can have fillet steak...O

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities. "

You can consider then decline, too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do?

I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood.

See fussy

No. That's called a choice. If I was fussy, I wouldn't have opted for them in the first place. Anyway

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities. "

Why should anyone HAVE to do something to please someone else?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

But are you selective over your toys? Or will any one do?

I was selective when I ordered my toys. I use one or more depending on my mood.

See fussy

No. That's called a choice. If I was fussy, I wouldn't have opted for them in the first place. Anyway

I am waving the teasing flag .. tongue firmly lodged in cheek

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Single women on fab most definitely rule the roost and punch way above their weight compared to the real world and to other apps . It’s just the way it is . And it’s unlikely to change .

Rule the roost and punch above their weight? - that’s flattering

Yeah, I just love being told that I'm only fuckable because guys don't have any other choice. One, lovely, and two, it doesn't make the guys look good either.

You would have a tough job convincing me otherwise , unless things are hugely different up north compared to here in the South .

I agree with you , it’s very subjective .

I would say both with regard to single women on fab .

A single guy can have a great personality and be physically an Adonis , yet will struggle to get an answer to a message .

A single woman can be anything from Waynetta Slob to Katie Hopkins and still be inundated with offers . This is what I was eluding to .

Perhaps the ‘punching above ones weight’ was a bit tactless on my part .

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By *nicecoupleXCouple over a year ago

Hitch

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Guilty as charged

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities. "

Another selfie entitled guy if you had a clue what some guy's send to the women even one with partners you would see this another way I s surprised there even women on here at all so they have to be strong and resilient with the shit.

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t think it’s fussy its about preference I must say from a man’s point of view it can get annoying but that’s how it is on here. And also the BIG factor is the law of averages on here you ladies have got the pick of the bunch simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities.

Why should anyone HAVE to do something to please someone else? "

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'd rather be a fussy bitch than an easy slut.

I have toys so not desperate to get laid - unlike majority of men who contact me.

You don't have to be fussy or a slut just more open to opportunities.

Definitely. The "offers" I get on a daily basis make my skin crawl.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never really seen a guys profile say that he's into women that look a certain way etc.

There is a bit of a double standard, if a guy were to have a list of 'preferences' then he'd probably be shot to pieces.

I remember a guy posting in the forum that he liked slim women and most of the thread were from women that weren't slim, or his 'preference', saying "what about us?!?".

Double standard is alive and well!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be upfront no matter how fussy, if you don't you end up with shit sex.

Everything comes to those who wait, even if on fab that is a long time.

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By *ease123Woman over a year ago

central Bedfordshire

"Il fuck who i want not because a guy has sent me a hiya message with a dick pic attached"

Ditto.... the effort that goes into the ‘hiya’ says a lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never really seen a guys profile say that he's into women that look a certain way etc.

There is a bit of a double standard, if a guy were to have a list of 'preferences' then he'd probably be shot to pieces.

I remember a guy posting in the forum that he liked slim women and most of the thread were from women that weren't slim, or his 'preference', saying "what about us?!?".

Double standard is alive and well!"

To be honest, I’d have more time for a guy who was fussy and had a list of preferences personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have all taken this to personal.

I don't think it matters what else I write here now, because you have already made up your mind about me. "

Yeah see, thats the thing about putting stuff on the internet.

Other people read it.

In your case, the people you're trying to have sex with"

Hey atleast I don't try to be something I'm not. Honesty is the best policy.. I'm not the type of man who will fill a woman up with bullshit online, just to see what i can get from her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. "

I always end up bulk deleting and probably miss some nice ones as it just gets ridiculous. If people actually read profiles and only messaged if they fit what you’re looking for this place would be much better

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"If you get 10 shit messages a day from blank profiles saying here for fun and having no pics or worse just a cock pic, is that better than getting none?

Exactly! I can't remember the last time I responded to a total stranger on here, I find it easier to just ignore!

I just don't understand why men think it is easier to ignore what I want or what I am looking for and end getting more frustrated!

Some really don't do themselves any favours from the off!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Those bitches only wanting certain dicks in their boxes.

There are some who aren't very fussy....

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

I'd like to set a character minimum for my messages received, but I know it'd just result in "fancy a fuck xxxxxxxxxxx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Fair rant.

I answer all first messages and often get men thanking me for actually being nice. I dread to think what their experience on here must be like for them to be so appreciative of a reply.

I've also replied to pissed off men and they've ended up apologising for being rude.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Some men on here think, the fact women are on fab must mean we are all easy and we would wanna " drop our knickers" for any one.

Unfortunately that does seem the case a lot of the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. "

And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

Fair rant.

I answer all first messages and often get men thanking me for actually being nice. I dread to think what their experience on here must be like for them to be so appreciative of a reply.

I've also replied to pissed off men and they've ended up apologising for being rude.

I get pissed off on a regular basis lol and after I feel sorry and allways end up apologising, because I know how much hassle women get online.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple over a year ago

Taunton

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

I suggest you read some of the very useful articles that Google produces when you search on "Supply and Demand"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question. "

By saying I’m not here to answer questions, I don’t think that’s impolite. You’re not allowed to discuss pm’s anyway and starting a thread about is pretty petty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some men on here think, the fact women are on fab must mean we are all easy and we would wanna " drop our knickers" for any one.

Unfortunately that does seem the case a lot of the time

Wait a minute.. You mean that's not the case!!?? Haha I feel badass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do feel like I should have ventured into the forum earlier. Having said that, I have found it now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Besides being up to them if they want to have specifics wants or nots, doesn't it save your time if they list a load of stuff and you don't like that kinda thang? They've just filtered themselves for you.

Unless of course you are the kinda person that sends a message to say you noticed you aren't what they are looking for but just wanted to alert them to your existence in case they may make an e ception in your case and change their mind.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Besides being up to them if they want to have specifics wants or nots, doesn't it save your time if they list a load of stuff and you don't like that kinda thang? They've just filtered themselves for you.

As is often the case, I have a lot of teenagers message me saying I know I am outside you age criteria, older men just ignore it altogether!

Which one is better? The one who acknowledges or the one who just blatantly ignores what I want?

The fact my wants and needs are blatantly ignored on a regular basis really does piss me off either way!

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

Yeah Fuck those fussy women!

Or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah yes we should really all just be less fussy about who we want to bump uglies with. Sex without attraction or connection- that's the gold standard of sexual exploration.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah yes we should really all just be less fussy about who we want to bump uglies with. Sex without attraction or connection- that's the gold standard of sexual exploration."

Exactly .. make yourself available here lol

A message to all fussy women btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on. "

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

I am the opposite, I prefer normal looking guys. But will talk to any one to see if there is anything there. Variety is the spice of life they say

xxx

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them."

That is such a ridiculous response.

Are you implying that women should have to chat to every single person that messages them just so that fragile, male egos don't get bruised?

Maybe if you have such issues with no replies it should be you that should get off here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ugh yeah I know man, us women who have preferences can be a real nightmare "

Precisely. You should all be ashamed of yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anybody else noticed how fussy some women are on this site compared to other apps?

Here's a few things I've come across today..

"only looking for exceptional men“

"No beards"

“put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“

“Must be gym fit"

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same"

"only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you"

I'm probably not going to gain any fans by writing this, but I felt like a rant

If you want zero efrort sign up to grinder its basicaly instashag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them."

Workload?

Do you really want to be seen as work?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question.

By saying I’m not here to answer questions, I don’t think that’s impolite. You’re not allowed to discuss pm’s anyway and starting a thread about is pretty petty. "

Haha it was you?

"Im not here to answer questions" is down right civil in that case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

And you've never been impolite to someone who asked you the first random question.

By saying I’m not here to answer questions, I don’t think that’s impolite. You’re not allowed to discuss pm’s anyway and starting a thread about is pretty petty.

Haha it was you?

"Im not here to answer questions" is down right civil in that case

I am actually quite nice in my pm’s, to start with

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

What’s wrong with us women being fussy

I wouldn’t just shag anyone for the sake of it

If I was attracted to someone there may be a possibility but I’m certainly not desperate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely everyone can be fussy. For a lot of people this site is seen as a way of bringing sexual fantasy to life a little. I would expect men to be just as fussy.

In comparison to online dating I actually think people are more open to something different. I've been on dating sites where men specify what you should weigh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them."

Umm mate don’t tell me what I should or shouldn’t be doing on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them."

Brilliant. Having sex with strangers and having an account on fabswingers is exactly like advertising a house, you’re right.

Also if I was selling a house I would hope they would arrange it with the solicitor and not just knock on my door

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I doubt I’d have any of the friends I do on here if I’d been sending the first message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or is it that most guys want to stick their cock anywhere and don’t need an attraction I commend the fussy people

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them."

Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I doubt I’d have any of the friends I do on here if I’d been sending the first message

I’ll also add that many of them I don’t fit their stated criteria either.

Fab’s a funny old world

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

From a man who'll meet ANYONE from 19 - 99.

Obviously not picky at all!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"From a man who'll meet ANYONE from 19 - 99.

Obviously not picky at all!

19???? What about all those poor unfortunate 18 year olds he's excluding???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From a man who'll meet ANYONE from 19 - 99.

Obviously not picky at all!

Some 99 year olds are hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

Ignore those then, I don’t like beards find them a turn off and I’m only interested in locally based people, likewise a lot of people won’t like my body type but that doesn’t worry me. Prefer to spend time replying to people who I’m interested in meeting as opposed to worrying about the people who won’t meet me.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

"I'm not saying women shoudnt have preferences.. All I'm saying is there are lots of arrogant profiles on this site.

And even more profiles belonging to self-entitled men.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's my body, and therefore my choice who gets to touch me.

If somebody doesn't like it there are lots of other profiles for them to peruse.

I'm here to enjoy my sexual fantasies and for my own journey not to pander to someone elses taste, so if what I'm looking for means they feel I am fussy, (as they are not what I am into) then so be it.

It needs to be a match of chemistry, interests, and excitement for me, with good communication, certainly more selective than first message in my inbox when I've got the horn gets an instatag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

I love cherry bakewell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

I love cherry bakewell

Me too. We can have all the cherry Bakewells.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

I love cherry bakewell

Me too. We can have all the cherry Bakewells."

But also I like lemon drizzle too, I'm torn!!

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

I'd take fussy and knowing someone was actually attracted to me over 'any hole's a goal' to be honest

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd take fussy and knowing someone was actually attracted to me over 'any hole's a goal' to be honest

V x"

I like holes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them.

Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking. "

But it's ok for a woman to have her ego stroked and then get fussy when she only gets a attention from a Pauper and not the prince.

and you are right about the fun that what we are all here for or supposed to be adults unlike kids in a playground cutting out the fat kid because they are too slow to play kiss chase.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them.

Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking.

But it's ok for a woman to have her ego stroked and then get fussy when she only gets a attention from a Pauper and not the prince.

and you are right about the fun that what we are all here for or supposed to be adults unlike kids in a playground cutting out the fat kid because they are too slow to play kiss chase. "

Are you saying we should have sex with someone we aren’t attracted to? Just to be inclusive of everyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's their time and their bodies. You may call it fussy, others may call it standards, someone else will call it preference.

If I fancy lemon drizzle cake, I'm not gonna eat a cherry bakewell. I don't like cherry bakewell and I'm not gonna eat it just because it's available

I love cherry bakewell

Me too. We can have all the cherry Bakewells.

But also I like lemon drizzle too, I'm torn!!

Buffet? You're allowed to sample more than one ya know, if that's what you like.

Cherry bakewell can fuck off with avocado into room 101 for me

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By *attooedBBWWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"only looking for exceptional men“ "

Even for me that’s a bit vague

"No beards" "

Personally preferences aren’t allowed? Although I love me a beard and prefer them actually ha

" “put biscuits in the subject box or get blocked“ "

It proves that at least someone has taken the time to skim read through your profile that you’ve spent ages writing to make your needs and who you are clear to anyone approaching you to hopefully prevent wasting other people’s and my own time.

Profiles are a great filter that SO many people don’t seem to use or take note of.

E.g if a guy or gal has said they’re married and their spouse doesn’t know, I instantly know they’re not for me. Or if someone read my profile and saw I don’t want to meet anyone in armed forces then they know not to waste their time messaging

“Must be gym fit" "

Again it’s a personal preference, why can’t someone have a type?

"I am a very attractive lady(that is a matter of opinion) and I expect the men who I meet to be the same" "

Don’t see what’s wrong with that statement other than again it’s a bit vague because attractiveness is subjective

" "only looking for men over 8inches" (even though the dicks in the pics look smaller)

Yeah I have a 6 inch rule now because honestly anyone below 6 just doesn’t do anything for me unless they’re purely up for oral but it’s rare. Again personal preference but some women mistake size for pleasure when actually it can be what they do with it that counts for me

I once asked someone what something meant in her profile and she replied.. "I don't want to answer that because I'm not attracted to you" "

Hell at least she replied LOL

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Wonder who the woman was that told you that!

Imagine having over 1000 unread messages and then they just keep building up and up, it becomes impossible to reply to them all especially if you reply to one and then they keep on.

If you can't deal with the work load don't be on here.

Don't advertising out for a room to rent if you can't deal with the constant knock on the door for viewings. And slam the door in their face because you don't like the look off them.

Would you rather things as they stand, or even less women on here? Those are your realistic options. I'm here to have fun, not cater to adult men who need their egos stroking.

But it's ok for a woman to have her ego stroked and then get fussy when she only gets a attention from a Pauper and not the prince.

and you are right about the fun that what we are all here for or supposed to be adults unlike kids in a playground cutting out the fat kid because they are too slow to play kiss chase. "

If I don't get the attention I want, I don't moan about it. I hold out until I do. And believe me, most of my experience here is not my ego being stroked.

I'll uphold inclusion in the rest of my life. Here, I uphold my bodily autonomy.

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