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Little boys and their winkies!
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Hi all, just after some advice with regards to my son and cleaning his winky!
Unfortunately it appears that his dad that I am separated from hasn't discussed it with him at all so it's left to me, which i'm happy to do but not having had a penis, I don't really know for sure what i'm doing!
He is 8 1/2 now and for a while I have been trying to encourage him to clean his winky (sorry but I hate the word penis for a little boy!)by explaining to him to pull his foreskin back gently and give it a gentle washover with water. He says he can't though and its sore. Its does seem to move but not really pull back.
Now what I want to know is, does this take time? Am I encouraging it too early? And finally should he be doing it by now and should I be going to speak to his doctor?!
I've tried looking online but everything seems very american based and what i do find seems to indicate he should easily be able to do it by now!
Any advice etc would be very greatfully received!
Mrs FG x |
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over a year ago
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as I recall when I was that age my foreskin didn't pull all the way back over the head like now, so maybe it is a bit uncomfortable for him. You could propably get good advise from the nurse at your local GP. |
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I had to do this with my son, he wasnt very old, under three i think. I did it in the bath under water. It made me feel funny to do it, but i soaped it up and pulled it back, it looked raw bless him. But once i had done it i did it another couple of times and taught him to do it. If your having problems let the health visitor/doctor advice you they are best to know. Good luck |
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over a year ago
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Main thing is not to force it back, it can cause it to get really sore.
Foreskin should roll back behind the head without any real problems, even when erect. If it doesn't a trip to the doctor may be in order to see if he needs something to help loosen it a bit.
( Usually steroid cream and some stretching exercises, circumcision, partial or otherwise is rarely needed).
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over a year ago
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PS for young children the foreskin in the first few years of life the foreskin probably won't retract as it is there to protect stuff and shouldn't be forced back. |
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over a year ago
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At 8 and a half a boy should be able to pull his foreskin all the way over the head of his 'winkie'. If he's experiencing pain he may be too tight and there's not enough elasticity in his foreskin. You need to speak to your doc about the options available to rectify the problem.
(I was wanking by the time I was 9 years old so it should be working by 8 & 1/2 lol) |
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over a year ago
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We've gone through this with our three boys.
Whisk him off to a male doctor, not for medical treatment as he probably doesn't need it, but so the doc can tell him how important it is that he cleans his willy. Then, follow this up with a bath every night (better than a shower for willy cleaning!) until it's not sore anymore. If he's anything like ours, he'll need constant reminding.
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over a year ago
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At what age am i meant to start washing my winkie?!
On as serious note; he will know when its comfortable enough to pull back enough and wash. If its too raw to when trying to pull back dont force him! |
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over a year ago
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My forskin has never gone back only by accident twice and the pain was excruciating for me
My dr noticed it a few years ago and asked if I wanted a circumcision I said do I have to?
He said do you have any pain or problems with it at all
I said no
He said leave it then if ta happy
So not everyone's goes back
But if it's sore other than when ge tries to pull it back I would get it checked out
As for cleaning it a couple of times a week I kinda pour water down if ta get me 
I have no problems with it though although I realise it's not quite as sensitive sex wise as most blokes that do go back xx  |
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Once he starts masturbating he will start washing it in the bath and shower, don't worry about it. If you can get him to take a bath voluntarily then your job is done. |
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over a year ago
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but i couldnt imagine not cleaning it once you're sexually active
-the smell!!!-wretch!
"more cheese gromit?"
"err no thanks, think i have enough!" as wallace smears another cracker round the edge of his knob! Thunk.
er no. adult. pull it back or cut it off.
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For young boys especially, any kind of swelling or soreness around the head of the penis or on the foreskin should be checked out by a GP. It could be Balanitis, which isn't usually serious but might need treatment.
http://www.nhs.uk/conditions/Balanitis/Pages/Introduction.aspx |
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"When I was that age it was too tight and I had to be circumcised. Not saying that's the case here but might be best to get it checked out."
Yeah, have a word with your doctor. |
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"When I was that age it was too tight and I had to be circumcised. Not saying that's the case here but might be best to get it checked out."
Hubby says he had a problem with his foreskin and it grew together which was very painful. He eventually was circumsised at aged 14. May be wise to have a word with doc as others have also advised x Good luck with it! |
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Thanks everyone for your advice and suggestions
I think i'll try the regular approach with him in the bath for a bit and lots of support and encouragement as we're going to Aus for the next 3 weeks and then if it hasn't improved at all i'll get him a docs appointment so we can discuss it!
Mrs FG x |
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but my youngest son had same sort of problems at 8 and dr sorted his to 
