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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago
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My wife has told me shes arranged to go out for the evening with her BBC friend and after go back to the hotel to fuck now shes never done this before without me shes only ever played with me around and she wants me to pick her up in the early hours of the morning ,its a turn on for me but going into the unknown in terms of never experienced it before has anyone else experienced it if so were they great experience for you and is it something you done again after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only ever play alone, my husband doesn’t want to play at all so here I am.
We both enjoy it, but we discussed it for weeks before I joined here, then a month passed before anything happened. I would never just say ‘well that’s me off to go fuck someone else’ and expect him to be okay with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She did say I hope u dont mind hun so I just went with it as a lady is it sexier and more exciting with out ur hubby watching I'm curious to know"
He’s never watched so wouldn’t know 
The fact you’re asking a forum kind of shows that you two need to have a proper chat about this. Boundaries need to be set... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd suggest sitting down and having a proper chat about it all. Sometimes the reality of the situation doesn't quite match up to the fantasy. As far as it being hotter when my partner watches? It depends on our particular dynamic etc. Different times we like different things. |
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It kinda sounds like she made the decision for you which is worrying for me
My partner and I have clear rules as a couple and solo meets but depends on your dynamic I suppose
Surely you communicate about these things first than her just making the arrangements? |
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By *risjane OP Couple
over a year ago
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I probably didn't explain it right sorry the point I'm making is I haven't got a problem with her arranging it without me knowing its I just want to know if anyone else on here has experienced it and if so what was it like and did as a cple you made it happen again |
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I have solo meets and my partner is fine with that as I am with him because we’ve takked about it a lot
We have rules to make sure that no ‘dating’ stuff leaks into meets like no dinner dates, no sleepovers or weekend meets
It’s always nerve wracking the first time as you’ll be thinking about it a lot so I’d recommend you do something yourself on the same night to keep your mind occupied if you’re worried |
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"Thank you that was the sort of thing I wanted to know didn't explain myself properly anyone else had the same experience "
Also definitely be open and honest with her when she’s home so you both know how it felt
It’s natural to feel a pang if jealousy and that is TOTALLY healthy  it’s how you handle it and how you feel about it that counts |
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"When u say weekend meet u mean dont let them spend the whole weekend together"
Yeah no sleepovers at all and we only do couple meets on a Saturday or the odd social if he needs to
Sunday we save for us and only us, we don’t even chat to anyone else
Keeps our relationship healthy and balanced |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ah right. Now I've read Playful's response I get your question. Apologies Op.
Yeah, it's been great. I always sort of debrief with my partner. It's also great knowing I can call at any time if I have a down or a problem etc. For us, we make sure we focus on each other first and foremost - if either wobbled at any point we would discuss it etc. The first time we fucked for hours when I got back which was... tiring.  |
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"I started meeting solo then opened my own single account so I can arrange my own meets without hubby "
Yep I did the same years back with this one
My now primary and I have a couple profile and solo ones each and it works so much better |
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