FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Really struggling to get replies
Really struggling to get replies
Jump to: Newest in thread
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Add a bit more to your profile dude. Let people know what kind of guy you are. Be polite and respectful and maybe list some if the things you're into. That might get some ladies attention |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "
Lots of women want to chat. Just not to you apparently.
Make sure you’re what they’re looking for, you’ve read their profile, you have a good profile and variety of pics. Have fun. Put the effort in and you’ll see results. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It is hard for single guys....even if we are polite and respectful and complementary.....making yourself stand out is key!!!! And what you have to understand is women on this site get inundated with messages I’ve seen my fbs inbox and it’s constant.....unfortunately it can be frustrating sometimes so don’t take it to heart to much |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It is hard for single guys....even if we are polite and respectful and complementary.....making yourself stand out is key!!!! And what you have to understand is women on this site get inundated with messages I’ve seen my fbs inbox and it’s constant.....unfortunately it can be frustrating sometimes so don’t take it to heart to much "
![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "
Maybe you just don'r appeal to the people you are messaging. I will be hones tis not a scintillating profile and there are a lot of men on here who make theirs more appealing. Maybe try changing a bit or a lot to improve it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "
You look kind of geeky, no sexy, which is totally some people's type... But not all.
Your profile text is super dull. So your message would have to be pretty stellar. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat
Patience is the key.
That's nonsense.
"
I concur. Being hot is the key. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I'll say to you what I say to all guys who post this kind of thread; take a look around at other singles guys profiles, how they present themselves, the kind of pictures they use, etc, then do what you think will work for you. No one can tell you how to be you, but you can show yourself better.
My profile wouldn't work for anyone else but it attracted the people that I wanted to meet (before I rewrote it).
Do your research and put the effort in. Fab is very much an effort = result, type environment.
Manage your expectations, many single guys will be on here for months before they meet for the first time, I was here for 7 months my first time.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat
Patience is the key."
Shag will have you for nicking his catchphrase, lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
![](https://fabs-as.fabswingers.com/images/default.jpg) |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I wouldn't say i was ugly. But i don't know what i am doing wrong. Nobody women seem to want to chat "
There are many more men on here than women so you have ti be really inventive with messages. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic