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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"There is no doubt that the average age on here is high enough to make someone like me an outlier
The question is... why is the average age high? "
What's the average age then op? The site is open for 18 to 99 plus there are a good few million on the site, not knowing the exact
Number and every site members age I couldn't even give a rough estimate of the average age! |
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This site is a swinging site generally swinging is an activity that people older than you get into. I would guess sites like tinder would have younger average age where they are just looking for sex |
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over a year ago
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"There is no doubt that the average age on here is high enough to make someone like me an outlier
The question is... why is the average age high? "
Take the legal age to join the site and how long we live now and see where is the middle you'll end up in. Or do you think there's a cut-off age from which people don't want sex anymore?
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"There is no doubt that the average age on here is high enough to make someone like me an outlier
The question is... why is the average age high?
What's the average age then op? The site is open for 18 to 99 plus there are a good few million on the site, not knowing the exact
Number and every site members age I couldn't even give a rough estimate of the average age! "
Or is it a "woe is me look at me" thread?   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This site is a swinging site generally swinging is an activity that people older than you get into. I would guess sites like tinder would have younger average age where they are just looking for sex"
Yeah I'd agree - tinder's average age is probably way lower
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There is no doubt that the average age on here is high enough to make someone like me an outlier
The question is... why is the average age high?
What's the average age then op? The site is open for 18 to 99 plus there are a good few million on the site, not knowing the exact
Number and every site members age I couldn't even give a rough estimate of the average age!
Or is it a "woe is me look at me" thread? "
No not really - was just a question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't have had the confidence nor the street smarts when I was younger. "
Interesting... what do you mean by street smarts?
Like being discrete etc? |
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"I wouldn't have had the confidence nor the street smarts when I was younger.
Interesting... what do you mean by street smarts?
Like being discrete etc?"
Being discreet would never have been an issue. Trusting my gut, working out who to trust and who to avoid, avoiding bad situations, being pressured into things I didn't want to do. A place like this would have been terrible news for me under about 25. |
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I suspect OP is right about average age being higher than early 20s. I think traditionally swinging is a couples thing and not necessarily something you launch into in the early days of a relationship so that will push the age up a bit, many couples won't play with people younger than their kids so early 20s do seem to find it harder, plus I know I have always preferred a guy with more experience and maturity and while there are exceptions younger guys just don't do it for me.
With those things in mind its to be more difficult for a younger person to find meets so unless you're dead set on swinging I'd guess many use hook up sites like POF rather than battle on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I suspect OP is right about average age being higher than early 20s. I think traditionally swinging is a couples thing and not necessarily something you launch into in the early days of a relationship so that will push the age up a bit, many couples won't play with people younger than their kids so early 20s do seem to find it harder, plus I know I have always preferred a guy with more experience and maturity and while there are exceptions younger guys just don't do it for me.
With those things in mind its to be more difficult for a younger person to find meets so unless you're dead set on swinging I'd guess many use hook up sites like POF rather than battle on here. "
This is the kind of insightful post I was looking for 
Some good points, especially the fact that many couples get involved after years of a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is no doubt that the average age on here is high enough to make someone like me an outlier
The question is... why is the average age high? "
But what is the average age?
I think us ‘young’ folks are mostly on tinder. And most young ones that join fab (and it’s mostly men who do) think it’s insta fuck and it doesn’t work for them
Young women don’t tend to join sites such as fab as frequently as women are shamed for liking and enjoying casual sex, men aren’t |
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"There is no doubt that the average age on here is high enough to make someone like me an outlier
The question is... why is the average age high?
But what is the average age?
I think us ‘young’ folks are mostly on tinder. And most young ones that join fab (and it’s mostly men who do) think it’s insta fuck and it doesn’t work for them
Young women don’t tend to join sites such as fab as frequently as women are shamed for liking and enjoying casual sex, men aren’t "
Yeah. This is the other reason that younger me would have been eaten alive on a site like this. |
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