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apart from PHYSICAL attributes ( which seldom impress me ) what would you like others to see in YOU...... to think about YOU ...... when you walk away , what kind of impression do you hope to have had on others ? Do you never think about the effect you have on others ?
Conversely, what impression would you NEVER want to leave ?
Only YOU can answer about YOU.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd like people to think of me as kind of intelligent and lovely (apologies for the vague word!).
I'd dislike it if people were to think I'm uncaring, draining, standoffish, an utter wankstain. Definitely not the latter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly x"
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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly xand u are that "
Stuck up or fun and friendly?? Choose wisely haha x |
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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly x"
I think you’re definitely fun and friendly! 
Tbh that’s the impression I like to leave too - that I’m fun, friendly, ‘nice’ for want of a better word - and shaggable if they happen to be hot!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of my friends' first impressions of me was that I was stuck up. I was mortified. I used to be so painfully shy when meeting new people. I like to think I'm fun and friendly xand u are that
Stuck up or fun and friendly?? Choose wisely haha x"
fun friendly and sticky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like people to think that IM friendly and honest and generally just an all-around decent person. Obviously I have Faults but I do like to think they don't leave a negative lasting impact on anybody. I do consider the impact I have on others particularly Close family and friends and like I said I just hope it's a good one on the whole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So long as I'm not seen as a dick head. If I am, I'd like one of you in trust to pull me aside.
I know I can be needy *Stares at Meli* ( ) But I dont want to be annoying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like people to see me funny and kind because that's what I like in others.
I would not like people to see me as boring and unintelligent.
However, as my Nan once told me "what other people think of you in none of your business"
Ps. My Nan didn't really say that.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is also circumstantial
Most of the guys and girls I have worked with have pretty much all said the same thing
They all thought I was stern and a bit serious at interview then I warmed up a bit when they started to work with me
It took them about a month to 6 weeks to see the real me
'Best boss I've ever had' is something I've heard quite a bit
I should be proud of that I guess, but even typing it out, I am thinking 'eek that sounds really big-headed'
I should start having more confidence in selling myself
I've never been good at it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"So long as I'm not seen as a dick head. If I am, I'd like one of you in trust to pull me aside.
I know I can be needy *Stares at Meli* ( ) But I dont want to be annoying."
Aww GK! I was gently mocking you. You're not annoying.
Fuck I can be as needy as anything sometimes. Like I have been for the past month or so with my eternally suffering friends.  |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous  , kind and good fun.
I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary.
I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My biggest attribute is my kind heart, I'm that soft I pick up snails from pavements and move them to safety! I can't begin to tell you the number of injured birds I've bought home... None have survived to date sadly. I definitely wear my heart on my sleeve but certainly need to grow a thicker skin but hey you are what you are.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So long as I'm not seen as a dick head. If I am, I'd like one of you in trust to pull me aside.
I know I can be needy *Stares at Meli* ( ) But I dont want to be annoying.
Aww GK! I was gently mocking you. You're not annoying.
Fuck I can be as needy as anything sometimes. Like I have been for the past month or so with my eternally suffering friends. "
I hoped that was true x You did smile as you said it, I was sharing at you out of fun.. but I mean it.. if anyone who I talk to privately thinks I'm being a fool, I don't mind my friends speaking hard truth as they see it. |
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"I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous , kind and good fun.
I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary.
I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”.
V x "
You are ALL those things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to be careful at work - don't we all nowadays - as I cast a very large shadow so influence a lot of people. Who I am still shines through, but you do have to think more.
In all areas of my life, respect is the core value. It should be everybody's but it too often isn't. Positivity is also a big thing with me. Very tiring at work as well, especially if not feeling positive myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is also circumstantial
Most of the guys and girls I have worked with have pretty much all said the same thing
They all thought I was stern and a bit serious at interview then I warmed up a bit when they started to work with me
It took them about a month to 6 weeks to see the real me
'Best boss I've ever had' is something I've heard quite a bit
I should be proud of that I guess, but even typing it out, I am thinking 'eek that sounds really big-headed'
I should start having more confidence in selling myself
I've never been good at it "
You are a girls best shopping friend too |
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I discovered long ago that the impression one leaves on people is so influenced by their first impression of you based on how you look ie clothes, hair, size, perceived attractiveness, which in its turn is influenced by their own personal prejudices and preferences that it's difficult to make a true impression. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"apart from PHYSICAL attributes ( which seldom impress me ) what would you like others to see in YOU...... to think about YOU ...... when you walk away , what kind of impression do you hope to have had on others ? Do you never think about the effect you have on others ?
Conversely, what impression would you NEVER want to leave ?
Only YOU can answer about YOU.
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I'd like for people to think that i'm a fun, outgoing and level headed person that was well worth their time in meeting.
I'd never want to leave the impression that i'm arrogant or self centered, which i'm not and I believe i've never come across that way. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous , kind and good fun.
I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary.
I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”.
V x
You are ALL those things "
 an utter moose?????? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to be thought of as funny, interesting, gorgeous , kind and good fun.
I know I’m often thought of as a bit standoffish and occasionally a bit scary.
I’d hate people to think “fuck me what an utter moose”.
V x
You are ALL those things
an utter moose??????
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Isn't that what you wanted me to say
No, you're no moose x |
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"What people think of me is their business, not mine and not really of any interest or concern to me.
I know what I am, and what I am not and that's good enough for me. "
That's pretty much the conclusion we came to just now when we were discussing this. I think if you're consistent, genuine and can face yourself in the mirror what other people think of you is largely beyond your control. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only impression I would ever wish to give is authentic. What you see is what you get.
I don’t like it when people have an overly rosy view of me because it means they haven’t seen the real me. |
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"What people think of me is their business, not mine and not really of any interest or concern to me.
I know what I am, and what I am not and that's good enough for me.
That's pretty much the conclusion we came to just now when we were discussing this. I think if you're consistent, genuine and can face yourself in the mirror what other people think of you is largely beyond your control."
Absolutely, why try to control it anyway? Some people will like you, others won't. Be yourself and what will be will be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Large dicks over 8 inches and super ripped bodies. Or even those who only have dick pics on show.
Fab may predominantly be about sex, but if you rely on the above physical attributes to pull, that doesn't impress me much!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What people think of me is their business, not mine and not really of any interest or concern to me.
I know what I am, and what I am not and that's good enough for me.
That's pretty much the conclusion we came to just now when we were discussing this. I think if you're consistent, genuine and can face yourself in the mirror what other people think of you is largely beyond your control.
Absolutely, why try to control it anyway? Some people will like you, others won't. Be yourself and what will be will be. "
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I do spend a lot of time thinking about what others think of me, it’s not a good thing 
I wonder if it’s connected to my ocd, perhaps it is xxx
Mrs blue eyes 
