Do you think you can be to polite and none pushy on fab ?
Do You find yourself talking to someone and loving it but you don't know whether they just enjoy chatting to you or if they're waiting for you to ask if they'd like to meet ?
I'm thinking the worse that can happen is they say no, but what are your thoughts.
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"We are always polite and non pushy. We want to meet someone who is the same! Unfortunately we usually speak to someone for a few messages and then no more chatting  "
Great attitude, I love chatting but probably to much !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Polite. Respectful. Always the best approach. Would people chat for long on here if not interested?
I think so, I've chatted to a few people for years on here.
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Ok that is good to know. Thank you! |
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Apart from "can I ask you a question" or "can I have some of your time" type first messages (don't waffle, get closer to the point), no, not before a social.
After a social, yes. If it's gone well, do ask when you want to see the other person again, etc. Rather than just... waiting, or dropping off contact. |
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over a year ago
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I'm also always polite and respective whether it be here or outside of Fab. I can be straightforward if I feel the situation calls for it, such as ladies profiles that ask for men to be straightforward and to be "a man" about showing them you are interested. I take from this that they don't want to beat around the bush(pardon the pun) so if I'm interested I'll tell then and tell them why in my initial message.
I don't think it's disrespectful to ask a lady if she wants to fuck if that's what her profile says she came to the site for. Other profiles mention having not joined to make friends so, again, I think straightforward would be the key there. Straightforward doesn't have to mean cheeky or disrespectful in any way if worded correctly.
The only time I wonder am I being too polite is on the forums, I worry that people think I'm acting sickly sweet or that I'm just acting full stop. I'm not though, I was just raised well  |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
You can never be to polite can you? You have to go with what you feel is right, yes it's much harder to read the situation behind a computer it's much easier when in person with body language and eye contact. |
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"Do you think you can be to polite and none pushy on fab ?
Do You find yourself talking to someone and loving it but you don't know whether they just enjoy chatting to you or if they're waiting for you to ask if they'd like to meet ?
I'm thinking the worse that can happen is they say no, but what are your thoughts.
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Sure many people are and they do well from it. |
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For a first message, I like somewhere less polite/ timid than "can I ask you a question?" (which is not so much timid as boring) but more polite than "fancy a fuck", and way more polite than "You're coming to mine to x my y, oh baby I'm gonna make you squirt everywhere".
Bit of small talk, bit of why you're talking to me, and yes I'm here to get laid, but massively forward from a stranger is not appealing. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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Speak to people like they were sat in front of you having a drink. Would your first message in real life be showing them your dick from multiple angles and telling them exactly how you are going to ruin them?
No?
Don't do it on here then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always answer politely when entering a conversation. Sadly a lot of people on here can’t distinguish between polite conversations and a come on before spoiling it |
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"Do you think you can be to polite and none pushy on fab ?
Do You find yourself talking to someone and loving it but you don't know whether they just enjoy chatting to you or if they're waiting for you to ask if they'd like to meet ?
I'm thinking the worse that can happen is they say no, but what are your thoughts.
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We're always polite, friendly and pleasant..
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"Speak to people like they were sat in front of you having a drink. Would your first message in real life be showing them your dick from multiple angles and telling them exactly how you are going to ruin them?
No?
Don't do it on here then."
I think it's somewhere between that and applying for a (sexual) job tbh. The latter isn't necessary per se, but you've got to have something to make you stand out. Being in front of me will work in a pub. Won't on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, a first message should be natural, direct, friendly but not trying too obviously hard.
I enjoy humour, honesty and gentle flirtation, all without forgetting that good manners cost nothing |
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