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By *he Captain OP Man over a year ago

Cadihead

I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some people really suit it depends on the tattoos and the person. Would you really turn down a stunner if she had a lot of tattoos?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they want to!

Just like some men like to grow beards/go to the gym/have piercings

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By *yrdsisWoman over a year ago

Gleam Street

Because we want to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good tattoos can be a definite turn on, bad tattoos a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

Got to say I am not that keen myself a womans body is perfect the way it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its personal choice. I dont criticise other people for their decisions about their body.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want to!

Just like some men like to grow beards/go to the gym/have piercings "

Or men that grow beards don’t go to the gym and look like Father Christmas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they want tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want tattoos. "

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm partial to a woman with anchors on her forearms....

hehe hehe hehe

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

We get tattoos for ourselves not to please other people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People who are tattooed, of either sex, do it for themselves not for the approval of people who are so narrow minded to judge someone because of them.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I got my tattoos for me no one else I don't give a flying f**k what others think about them.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos. "

Indeed. We present ourselves (hair, clothes, makeup, jewellery, tattoos) the way we want to. Not for the approval of men we don't know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own...but..

tattos....hubba

peirced ... hubba hubba

knee high boots....God damn I'm hungry!!

peirced navel...about to faint

Scottish accent..... Kaboom!!!

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos.

Indeed. We present ourselves (hair, clothes, makeup, jewellery, tattoos) the way we want to. Not for the approval of men we don't know. "

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By *he Captain OP Man over a year ago

Cadihead

Im not criticising and every body as a choice. Its there body to do as they like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm partial to a woman with anchors on her forearms....

hehe hehe hehe"

Have you been looking at my pics

MrsC x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos.

Indeed. We present ourselves (hair, clothes, makeup, jewellery, tattoos) the way we want to. Not for the approval of men we don't know. "

Yep!

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By *artin ramseyMan over a year ago

kendal

I find heavily tattooed women a fantastic turn on

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I sometimes get stopped in the street and told by guys that I'm presenting myself wrong (skirt too long, hair wrong, makeup not to their liking, etc). I don't take that from family.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't imagine any of those ladies will give a toss as to whether you like them or not.

I know when I get mine, what someone else thinks has zero influence on me getting them done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not criticising and every body as a choice. Its there body to do as they like. "

So why start a thread asking why women get tattooed and state that you find it a turn off?

I've had several messages from couples and males on here telling me how much they disapprove of my ink or how I've ruined my body. It really baffles me why anyone would care to be honest. Or why they feel the need to contact me to state their disapproval.

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"Because they want to!

Just like some men like to grow beards/go to the gym/have piercings

Or men that grow beards don’t go to the gym and look like Father Christmas

I find that a total turn off personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"
perhaps we get out tattoos to please us .....most ( not all) men i meet love them

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Im not criticising and every body as a choice. Its there body to do as they like.

So why start a thread asking why women get tattooed and state that you find it a turn off?

Oh, Mr/Ms Internet Stranger! I have seen the error of my ways and will cater to your aesthetic preferences immediately!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On a beautiful body a beautiful tattoo can look like a piece of art.

I used to go to aquarobics where a woman had beautiful roses all over her body.

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By *thwiltsmMan over a year ago

salisbury

I always find it weird how people want to judge how other people look whether it’s tattoos, piercings, hair colour, and then ask if other people agree that it is a turn on or off.

People like that are generally boring twats and need to fuck off!

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By *he Captain OP Man over a year ago

Cadihead

Its getting a few replies and the ladies are all saying they the same thing its not for the benefit of other people. Thats answered my enquiry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP was giving his personal preference. No need to attack him personally for having a preference.

I think some tattoos on men and women look awful, but I don't care that the person has them and am not judging them.

Some tattoos I like, some I don't; regardless of why the person has them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos. "

^^^ Exactly this and I have quite a few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its getting a few replies and the ladies are all saying they the same thing its not for the benefit of other people. Thats answered my enquiry"

You don't have to pretend you like them though.

I don't like belly button or Prince Albert piercings, and I'm not going to pretend I do to curry favour with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love tattoos and I am picky with what I have done. Its definitely not to everyone's taste but I like them and that's what matters to me xx

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By *he Captain OP Man over a year ago

Cadihead

Thankyou Katlyn you got my drift

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tattooed girls so hot

*drools*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love women who have tattoos, and also love women who don't have them, it doesnt matter to me

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By *ng1983Couple over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Because we like them and don't get tattooed so others find us attractive. We get them tattooed because we find them attractive on ourselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"
it's all about preferences what turns you off some might find it irrisistable! Thank God for individuality.

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

If they are done properly they are very sexy I used to fuck a woman with a Walt Disney thyme down one side of her body she looked so sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love tattooed women.

My tattoo collection is growing, if that rules me out of meeting certain women I don't really care.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love ladies with tattoos, not necessarily all over there body but nice design ones are great , which as I don’t have any people may find it a surprise x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tattoos are very personal ..I have many, including a full whitby inspired gothic sleeve ..each to their own, if you don’t like ladies with ink, meet the ones without. Thankfully, people with ink aren’t nearly as judgemental as some would have you think. How many threads have been started by a someone saying “ I really don’t get people that have bare skin, why don’t they get at least one tattoo????”

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"Tattoos are very personal ..I have many, including a full whitby inspired gothic sleeve ..each to their own, if you don’t like ladies with ink, meet the ones without. Thankfully, people with ink aren’t nearly as judgemental as some would have you think. How many threads have been started by a someone saying “ I really don’t get people that have bare skin, why don’t they get at least one tattoo????”"

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By *otBunsHunWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Don't like my tattoos...don't look

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Best post of the thread

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not criticising and every body as a choice. Its there body to do as they like.

So why start a thread asking why women get tattooed and state that you find it a turn off?

Oh, Mr/Ms Internet Stranger! I have seen the error of my ways and will cater to your aesthetic preferences immediately!

Yep. Straight to the laser removal clinic for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not criticising and every body as a choice. Its there body to do as they like.

So why start a thread asking why women get tattooed and state that you find it a turn off?

Oh, Mr/Ms Internet Stranger! I have seen the error of my ways and will cater to your aesthetic preferences immediately!

Yep. Straight to the laser removal clinic for me

I like yours; flowers and birds are my favourite.

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By *inkysexpotMan over a year ago

leeds

Personal choice, you don't go out getting tattoos in the hope of attracting the opposite sex or the same sex. It's what the individual likes and wants and some tattoos have a deeper meaning to them aswell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got my tattoos for me no one else I don't give a flying f**k what others think about them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love the aesthetic of them. Our bodies become a canvass for our artwork and expression. Personally, they all represent a time in my life so have a particular meaning for me xx

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By *artin ramseyMan over a year ago

kendal

Personal preference all of mine are personal to me no Chinese words tribal art even though I am of Viking decent just what mean something to me each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best post of the thread

Nita "

Shux

xxx

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By *uzukiNo1Woman over a year ago

Rhyl

Some absolutely beautiful ladies on here with amazing tattoo,s.... definitely well thought out art, for example the stunning and brave lady at #1 in hot pics.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wrong emoji...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine are for me. I like them. I didn't give other people a second thought when I got them.

I really want another one

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By *evils-couple13Couple over a year ago

Neath

Didn't cross my mind if people would like them whilst having mine done..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have one, it's just rather a large one

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Wrong emoji...

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By *hris99Man over a year ago

Liverpool

Bit of an offensive post really OP, each to their own

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By *eiaorganaWoman over a year ago

Dundee

I get my tattoos because I want them, I couldn’t care less if no one else likes them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think they look amazing and especially on women with the 1950s look. I wish I could get loads but my job doesn’t allow. Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite like ladies with tattoos, although bad tattoos (bad quality not style) aren't good

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By *rGuyMan over a year ago

Croydon

Women with proper tattoos look gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely wouldn’t let something so trivial bother me tbh lol but I love tattoos and find them sexy on women but it’s each to there own I guess....if you don’t like simply don’t look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos. "

Exactly this. It's none of anyone's business why I get tattoos.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

It's OK.

My tattoes don't like you either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women, and men, come in all shapes, colours, sizes and with different hair styles and preferences etc. I get we all have our own preferences and as long as we respect each other's wants and are honest from the start then fab could be such a great place. I myself have tattoos, some women like them, some don't. I think on certain women, ink looks sexy and gives them great appeal, but as it is with men too, they don't suit or compliment everyone. It's a matter of personal choice, but ink on skin doesn't make the personality and person underneath.

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By *oodguyeddieMan over a year ago

l36

A lady with ink is a massive turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus

It's OK.

My tattoes don't like you either "

I for one think you and your Tats look amazing and very sexy too xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit of an offensive post really OP, each to their own

Wouldn't say it's offensive, it's more a matter of personal preference, everyone is entitled to their own opinions.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Got mine done as a way of reclaiming my body back. I got them fairly cheap as well at the time because nobody else was covered in them (not even men).

I also grew up in an art gallery, love drawing (and am good at it), so body pic collecting was perfect for me.

Don't really care if it turns people off coz i am bored of being fetishized for having them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have 13 myself. I find them very very sexy on women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got mine done as a way of reclaiming my body back. I got them fairly cheap as well at the time because nobody else was covered in them (not even men).

I also grew up in an art gallery, love drawing (and am good at it), so body pic collecting was perfect for me.

Don't really care if it turns people off coz i am bored of being fetishized for having them."

Well I for one think you look amazing and very sexy too xx

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By *ina and SamCouple over a year ago

newcastle / leyburn

Love to see a tattoo on all sexes, think those getting tattoos these days are on for a some great tattoos, that will still look good long down the line

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a nice tattoo on a women’s thigh and side

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit of an offensive post really OP, each to their own

Wouldn't say it's offensive, it's more a matter of personal preference, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

Ladies stop getting tattoos, this man doesn’t like them, I repeat this man doesn’t like them. Over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women with tattoos are sexy as feck!! Women without tattoos are sexy as feck!! Women full stop are sexy as feck!!

Only the sexy ones though...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

I find overweight,old grey haired men a turn off

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By *he Captain OP Man over a year ago

Cadihead

I respect anybodies choice to have a tattoo. Just not for me so why are people taking my opinion as a personal attack. It is just a debate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus

Ladies stop getting tattoos, this man doesn’t like them, I repeat this man doesn’t like them. Over."

Well I wish I’d known before hand, it’s a tad late now. As “trends” go, it’s been going on for quite a while .....

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Because they want to!

Just like some men like to grow beards/go to the gym/have piercings "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it a trend I love inked ladies and it’s an ancient art

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I respect anybodies choice to have a tattoo. Just not for me so why are people taking my opinion as a personal attack. It is just a debate. "

What was the point to your debate?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I respect anybodies choice to have a tattoo. Just not for me so why are people taking my opinion as a personal attack. It is just a debate. "

If you post anything like your statement be prepared for a backlash

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Because they want to!

Just like some men like to grow beards/go to the gym/have piercings "

Yours are gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Small tattoos are fine but big ones are a bit of a turn off for me. We all like different things i guess

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I respect anybodies choice to have a tattoo. Just not for me so why are people taking my opinion as a personal attack. It is just a debate.

If you post anything like your statement be prepared for a backlash "

Basically it reads like "why do women do this, because I don't like it." It may not have been intended that way, but that's a very easy way to read it.

I also don't think debating other people's bodies is in particularly good taste.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos.

Indeed. We present ourselves (hair, clothes, makeup, jewellery, tattoos) the way we want to. Not for the approval of men we don't know.

Well said and I agree 100%. My tats are mine, my decision, my reasons, my skin!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't even have/ want tattoos, lol. But, to each their own!

And it's a pretty pointless thing to debate tbh. They're difficult to remove. It'd be like someone telling me that I'd be sexier with different coloured eyes. That's... not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Choice. Tattoos can have many positive aspects to an individual; expression of individuality, overcoming personal crises, beliefs or even just creative preference. It is their bodies. Some find it attractive, some dont. Who cares? As long as the right to choose is respected. I find tattoos a turn on but there are many other ways a woman is attractive to me than how they decorate their skin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Miss F has tattoos, I don't really take alot of notice of them as she is way more than a bit of ink on her skin. She loves heavily tattooed guys but isn't turned off by guys who have none

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the body is a temple, you may as well decorate the walls

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

I had a tattoo the other year, love it, (matches my son’s) but I cried like a baby and will never EVER have another lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not criticising and every body as a choice. Its there body to do as they like.

So why start a thread asking why women get tattooed and state that you find it a turn off?

I find tattoos and piercings so sexy on a lady. I know I have a few tattoos myself and I do get a lot of compliments about them. I had them done for me and over the years each tattoo has a story to tell about important events in my life. If you look at the origins of tattoos they do represent a life story. So for me it's a personal thing .. You either love them or hate them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well done pieces of art work - yes total turn on

Bits done by the local scratcher for £20 not so much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well done pieces of art work - yes total turn on

Bits done by the local scratcher for £20 not so much "

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

The consensus is that what other people choose to do with their bodies is none of your business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably because women don't get tattooed just to please random men and do it because they want to?

Crazy thought

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus

Ladies stop getting tattoos, this man doesn’t like them, I repeat this man doesn’t like them. Over.

Well I wish I’d known before hand, it’s a tad late now. As “trends” go, it’s been going on for quite a while ....."

I'm sure this particular trend has been going on in northern Europe for well over 3000 years....

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

I’m quite heavily tattooed

Be fair to say the ones that don’t like them are never my type anyway

I think they match my personality and the look I like - that’s right - the look I like

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By *oodfella101Man over a year ago

CRAIGAVON

I love tattoos on women,each to their own.

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By *ad123Man over a year ago

ayr Scotland

I love to see tattoos on a girl .it's about the person not just her tattoos

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

It's all very well women and men for that matter claiming that it's their body and they can do what they like with it. I associate tattooing with self-harm. No one approves of people who eat too much then stick their finger down their throats to vomit it out. Or those who actually self-harm. We view these sort of behaviour as unacceptable. There are many other examples I can site but you get the idea.

Since I am a straight man I can only speak from my point of view. I loathe tattoos on women. Even small discreet ones are hideous to me. The point is this, every part of the body has the potential for being arousing and sexy at various stages of our moods and minds.

Once you add bits of graffiti on that part of the body it ceases to sexually arouse. Instead distracts your eyes and mind. We all know how the Victorian men found women's bare ankles alluring and ever so risque. Now women tend to target their ankles to disfigure. Imagine what the Victorians would have made of this desecration?

As a man, I find every part of a woman's body beautiful to look at. Well most anyway. When they decide to ink bits of it, the shape and line of the naked body alter permanently. I no longer am able to see the body entirely.

As I fuck a woman from behind I don't want to be literate or an art critic. Clearly, we men are not capable of intelligent thought at that moment anyway, are we? I want to see a female arse, not pictures.

I expect I will attract women with tattoos to throw rotten eggs at me. So be it. I still fucking hate tattoos. You cannot possibly better nature by scribbling nonsense on your natural sexual skin. And all for a moment of glory. It is not trendy, hip or cool as most who get tattoed believe. All they end up doing is looking a mess and tacky. I thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love tattoos on a woman , if I see a full sleeve I’m basically weak at the knees

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"It's all very well women and men for that matter claiming that it's their body and they can do what they like with it. I associate tattooing with self-harm. No one approves of people who eat too much then stick their finger down their throats to vomit it out. Or those who actually self-harm. We view these sort of behaviour as unacceptable. There are many other examples I can site but you get the idea.

I'm a hideous, tacky mess?

Jeez... Pass me a Kleenex

You've broke my heart

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By *rickyd72Man over a year ago

Sheffield

As others have said, tattoos are personal and exclusive to the individual. Each one tells a story. I've seen some beautiful artwork on people's bodies (especially on here). I'm in awe as I've never had the bottle to get ink done myself. Each to their own, I'd never be so shallow to judge someone just by how they look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love tattoos in women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good job women don't get tattoos for your approval then isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tattoos are in the same league as eating disorders ? What a total crock of shit.

Thankfully people with tats don’t talk such utter garbage about people without ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re entitled to your opinion, I respect that, what I don’t respect is you calling people like me a mess and tacky. I would never be so crass as that.

I also think that you don’t give yourself, or other men the credit deserved. Men are more than capable of intelligent thought when having sex. They are more than a penis, just as tattooed women are more than a canvas.

My body is inked because I love it. I’ve never been, or desired to be trendy, hip or cool, I’m simply me.

My body, my choice.

There are plenty of women who don’t adorn themselves with body art, so I’m sure that women like me, not appealing to you, isn’t actually an issue, in the grander scale of things.

To each their own x

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t have tattoos but a I love to see women with ink. I find it very alluring.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tattoos are in the same league as eating disorders ? What a total crock of shit.

Thankfully people with tats don’t talk such utter garbage about people without .."

Haha, what about tattooed women with eating disorders? They are doomed!!

Nothing attractive about them xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the list of things id focus in that would be waaaaaaay down the bottom

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

I think it's all about personal choice if you don't like them block them from your profile. Personally the tattoos can go both the ways some people look amazing others look like they would hold up your granny but its the person not the body art.

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

Like it, funny! But I stand by my thoughts. I accept it's about personal choice and all that shit. but what about the naked body?

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By *horehouseprincessWoman over a year ago

small town near Munich

"Because they want tattoos.

When getting a tattoo I was never worried if men would find it a turn off...I don’t care. I wanted tattoos so I got tattoos. "

This

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Well that's this week's prize for "stupidest thing I've read on the internet" won.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's all really well thought out.

I got most of my tatts to put people off me. Most people think my tatts are shit and tacky so it works really well. They also hide things so win win. No rotten eggs from me.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan over a year ago

Seen in far off places

It's not so much a question of liking / disliking tattoos on women, rather, who is the woman beneath the inking? / what do the tattoos themself represent? / what degree of creativity has gone into the design? / uniqueness? / how does this complement the type of overall look (fashion) being projected?

For example;

Amy Winehouse - talented, troubled, creative, iconic etc - her tattoos created part of her overall style and uniqueness;

Versus;

A Jeremy Kyle Show type of guest, shopping in Asda and chuffing on cigarettes, toothless and displaying a naff tattoo on her bingo winged arm (or even worse, sagging tit)...

This is the kind of thing I mean.

(Side note - a tattoo of ones childs name / date of birth I find particularly tacky and vulgar).

Just my opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I started getting mine when most women hated how they looked even on men. The whole fashion tattoo thing is pretty awful tbh. I got mine without taking anybody elses opinion on them into consideration so whether you like them or not, as it should be for all, means naff all I am pleased to say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Luckily, there's much more to me than just ink.. and I'm intelligent enough to not worry about those that think tattoos define a person. But Thankyou for your rather distasteful comment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people really suit it depends on the tattoos and the person. Would you really turn down a stunner if she had a lot of tattoos?"

I agree some people do suit it, others don’t. I can take it or leave it tbh but preferably less tattoos rather than more for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good tattoos are sexy, a bad tattoo is a bad tattoo

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Thank fuck I never knew of your existence when I had mine done as I wouldn't want to put you off! Oh wait, I don't know who you are nor care what you think, I had mine done for me, and if men don't like them they can pass me by, as I really couldn't give a shit to be honest

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By *ust chilled out meMan over a year ago

Peterborough

I love tattoos on a woman always have I got my 1st ink when I was 17 before it became a fashion statement

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By *yrdsisWoman over a year ago

Gleam Street

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

Like the song says, 'you give yourself away.'

The fact that you have chosen to attack on a personal level rather than engage with the point, you have a certain mindset. tattoos and you, of course, go together.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Like the song says, 'you give yourself away.'

The fact that you have chosen to attack on a personal level rather than engage with the point, you have a certain mindset. tattoos and you, of course, go together. "

Says the person who equates body adornment with bulimia...

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

I take your point. However, in my view, tattooing is a form of self-harm. Body adornment has been around since the start of human history. But they have always been limited to basic social structures. The Mouri people and other Polynesians applied tattoos to scare others from attacking them. We have evolved to react to more sophisticated cue's. Tattoos alter and distract from the body. It is permanent and momentary. Bulimia is no different. A person goes to extreme lengths to alter their body. Not get fat in this case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I swear I’ve got a magnet for drama, seems like everywhere I go it kicks off, even when I haven’t said fuck all

now now ladies, keep the disagreements civil at least

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By *sylockeWoman over a year ago

East Anglia

I love all my tattoos and have had them done for me first and foremost. I’m sure some love them and some hate them and that’s fine by me.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"I take your point. However, in my view, tattooing is a form of self-harm. Body adornment has been around since the start of human history. But they have always been limited to basic social structures. The Mouri people and other Polynesians applied tattoos to scare others from attacking them. We have evolved to react to more sophisticated cue's. Tattoos alter and distract from the body. It is permanent and momentary. Bulimia is no different. A person goes to extreme lengths to alter their body. Not get fat in this case. "

Maori tattoos (moko) traditionally tell the family history.

They're a form of adornment for westerners. A permanent fashion. Most of mine didn't even hurt so i don't get how those ones could be a form of self harm at all? Just because i like being covered in pictures doesn't mean that, you can equate patterned clothing as the same thing except those are removable and changeable.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

I literally can’t wait to start my next chapter of ‘self harm’

Who would have known that me having the opportunity to find express myself after years of suppression would have such a negative effect of small minded people ??

Opinions are like orgasms - once I’ve had mine I don’t give a shit about yours

Peace out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women look great with tattoos, but at the end of the day it is a trend that is current. Sadly in 20 years they are going to look shite.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who are tattooed, of either sex, do it for themselves not for the approval of people who are so narrow minded to judge someone because of them.

This

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

Thank you for not resorting to personal insults in your response. I am as you have gathered being accused of having a small mind. I still say it's bigger than my cock though. I remain unmoved by the explanations. Although not sure why you refer to westerners. Do you feel I might be a nonwesterner? Or is this an attempt to educate me? But you will agree cultures who use tattoos also view them as the westerners. Yet I fear the point is being lost in the midst of the defense of self-expression. As in, 'I can do whatever the fuck I like with my body, who the fuck are you to say otherwise?' I get it, it means all sorts of things to those who tattoo their body. It's really important and says whatever it is they think its saying. But the bottom line is; when I look at a naked body I want to see a naked body. I am by nature programmed to find a female body sexually alluring. Once you introduce interference to that shape, form, and line, you inevitably disturb the view. This will sound a bit cheesy but how many of us scribble on a flower before we arrange them. None of us in our right mind would paint a flower before we display it? We appreciate the natural beauty. You get the idea.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

That’s a shame

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do some people post pictures of their fat bodies? I find it a total turn off.

Back at you, OP. Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I love a tattooed lady.. Gorgeous

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

You know what always amuses me?

I've never heard a person with tattoes push their views on others, be offensive, moan, bitch or put down people with unmarked skin or how they find it a turn off

Opinions are like arseholes, we all have them, some just stink more than others.

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By *appytrailmanMan over a year ago

Manchester

Tattoos are hot!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You know what always amuses me?

I've never heard a person with tattoes push their views on others, be offensive, moan, bitch or put down people with unmarked skin or how they find it a turn off

Opinions are like arseholes, we all have them, some just stink more than others.

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well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank you for not resorting to personal insults in your response. I am as you have gathered being accused of having a small mind. I still say it's bigger than my cock though. I remain unmoved by the explanations. Although not sure why you refer to westerners. Do you feel I might be a nonwesterner? Or is this an attempt to educate me? But you will agree cultures who use tattoos also view them as the westerners. Yet I fear the point is being lost in the midst of the defense of self-expression. As in, 'I can do whatever the fuck I like with my body, who the fuck are you to say otherwise?' I get it, it means all sorts of things to those who tattoo their body. It's really important and says whatever it is they think its saying. But the bottom line is; when I look at a naked body I want to see a naked body. I am by nature programmed to find a female body sexually alluring. Once you introduce interference to that shape, form, and line, you inevitably disturb the view. This will sound a bit cheesy but how many of us scribble on a flower before we arrange them. None of us in our right mind would paint a flower before we display it? We appreciate the natural beauty. You get the idea. "

Personal insults aren’t required, and serve no benefit. Personally my response was more about how insulting you were about women with tattoos, and trying to equate them with being psychological issues- ie, self harm.

You can say you don’t like something, without resorting to crass and ill informed comments.

You appreciate what you like, I don’t think you being a straight guy has anything to do with that though, many straight guys admire tattooed women, so not sure how you can equate your sexuality with it. Maybe I’m missing the point you were trying to make.

Personally I love how diverse people are. I love body art, but also appreciate the beauty of those without it. I’ve been insulted so many times by the non inked for my tattoos, how ugly my body/they look, and the ageing argument, but what I fail to understand is why anyone deems it acceptable to launch into personal attacks, when I’ve not even invited discussion of my tattoos. They’ve simply felt entitled to bring up the subject to do so.

I’m not saying that’s what you’re doing, nothing has been directed to me personally, but I would hope you see my point. A viewpoint does not mean that someone should feel justified in insulting someone else, for no other reason than they don’t agree with something. One of the women I admire most is beautiful, she has no body art, chooses not to have it, and that’s my mum. One of the things that makes her beautiful is her tolerance of others, and not just her skin.

For those of us who love body art, we will continue to do so, for those who don’t, you will do the same. Imagine how dull the world would be, if we didn’t have differing views. If we were all uniform in our train of thought.

Thankfully we’re not, and live in an enlightened and delightfully eclectic society. That’s what matters, not whether or not someone has a tattoo x

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By *irth VaderMan over a year ago

glasgow

I am just as attracted to a woman with tattoos as those without. Don’t get me wrong. LOVE and HATE on the knuckles doesn’t tickle my pickle but art does

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Just because you hold those views doesn't mean they're not a form of personal attack. You're allowed to hold those views, but maybe expressing them in this context isn't wise.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You know what always amuses me?

I've never heard a person with tattoes push their views on others, be offensive, moan, bitch or put down people with unmarked skin or how they find it a turn off

Opinions are like arseholes, we all have them, some just stink more than others.

I have, although this isn't the place for it. I don't have tattoos, nor want them, but people having tattoos doesn't bother me one jot.

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By *ainbowblueCouple over a year ago

Spain

You make your point eloquently so it deserves a response at least in kind. Even if it does not match yours.

A point of clarity. I mention my sexuality because I am only attracted to women sexually. So how a female body looks is of concern to me. I cannot say the same for the male body.

I agree with everything you say. The need to be able to exercise freedom of choice and expression is fundamental to our sense of being.

I, of course, have not held back from expressing exactly how I feel. To me, tattooing is disfigurement of the body. I cannot but associate this act other than self-harm. Of course, I accept you and everyone else who has tattoos see it the opposite. In the general scheme of things, what difference will it make what I say or think about tattoos?

I am simply clearing some of the cobwebs. Which clutter my mind. However, I fear as this has no other way to go but become a debate about self-expression and basic human rights. The simple fact will dissolve into the background. Once again, when I look at the naked body, I want to see a naked body. It is not just a matter of preference or to belittle those with tattoos. I find like most straight men most female naked body delightful and alluring. The tattoos disturb the pleasure. The body is no longer visible in its raw natural state. How can I appreciate a sexy arse if I can't see it? Instead, it's covered in whatever. Whatever it is which turns me on to the female body is not there. What would be the point in trying to work through the ink and see the shape? Incidentally, I trained in the creative arts. So am in most cases capable of looking at an image or shape as intended. As for being closed minded. Well, I am on a swingers site exploring my sexual urges together with the love of my life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some look nice, some don't but either way it's their choice.

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By *illen5Man over a year ago

Bath

"Its personal choice. I dont criticise other people for their decisions about their body."

I agree. However i do wonder how long ink takes to fade. Shame we cant get ones which last a year in case we change our minds

Personally not a fan, but as with visiting an art gallery, you wont get to view it often and unlikely to take it home and see on a daily basis.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You make your point eloquently so it deserves a response at least in kind. Even if it does not match yours.

A point of clarity. I mention my sexuality because I am only attracted to women sexually. So how a female body looks is of concern to me. I cannot say the same for the male body.

I agree with everything you say. The need to be able to exercise freedom of choice and expression is fundamental to our sense of being.

Some opinions are best kept in private. You can have them, you can limit your search to those without tattoos, and more power to you. But your theories about tattoos are incredibly offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me I love a lady with tattoos.. I have my tattoos done for me and no one else.. It's a personal choice and I respect people that don't have them equally. I also find peirced nipples a huge turn on .. Read my bio. X

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

I have both tattoos and piercings.

I chose to do this for myself as a way of exspression, not for other people approval . Same as my various hair colours and my dress ssense .

If people choose not to meet me on that basis then I zero issue with that . I'm happy and comfortable in my own skin and with me as a person ,so I'm not loosing any sleep if that's not for others .

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"You know what always amuses me?

I've never heard a person with tattoes push their views on others, be offensive, moan, bitch or put down people with unmarked skin or how they find it a turn off

Opinions are like arseholes, we all have them, some just stink more than others.

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

You met guys with tattoos lol. So clearly didn't have any distraction caused by their tattoo .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have both tattoos and piercings.

I chose to do this for myself as a way of exspression, not for other people approval . Same as my various hair colours and my dress ssense .

If people choose not to meet me on that basis then I zero issue with that . I'm happy and comfortable in my own skin and with me as a person ,so I'm not loosing any sleep if that's not for others ."

Wouldnt stop me love woman that are inked and pierced

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By *ad123Man over a year ago

ayr Scotland

I think girl s with tattoos are so sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know its a trend but why do so many women get heavely tattooed. I find it a total turn off personally. I know some guys like them. Whats the concencus"

Maybe we just don’t stop and consider what other people think of our body and its art...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite like the Edinburgh tattoos

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By *oJo69ukCouple over a year ago

LONDON

My wife has 2 tatoos, a small one on her hip and large on her left ankle, and my heart sinks whenever I see them. I hate them both and would gladly pay to have them removed. The small one looks like it was done by a friend in primary school with a sharpie, the large one is a "version" of Botticelli's Birth of Venus. Over ambitious, badly drawn and done too big so the figure of Venus looks OK (well OK as in a pencil drawing by a 5th form art student) and well proportioned, but the shell wraps round her ankle so looks silly from most angles, totally ruining the gracefullness of her ankles - and totally detracts from her hotwife anklets!

In fact, both tatoos are only visible during what should be "sexy times"; when she's naked, wearing a bikini or a posh frock for a night out. So they have very little impact in her day to day life or her public image, but a huge impact on the way she presents visually to me, at times when she would hope to look at her sexiest and most alluring to her partner.

She had them both done when she was in her early twenties. She wants more, I say no way, not unless she removes the first 2 disasters (in fact I offered her a deal, get her nipples pierced and she can have another tat, she says no way, lol). To my eyes they are simply hideous disfigurements on my otherwise prefectly beautiful wife, like birth marks or burn scars but self inflicted!

I get people see them as an expression of creativity, but if you want to express your creativity by painting your house bright pink, you may love it, but you must accept the pool of potential future buyers is limited by your decision, and the market value of your property greatly decreased due to to lower levels of potential interest.

I've seen there's also a growing backlash online against over tatood women amongst young men. I think the free-for-all acceptance over the last 20 years of women's decisions to tat up is coming to an end and people are becoming more openly judgemental.

I have two young kids who I will therefore counsel to avoid tats until they have found their life partners. We all make so much effort to look good to the opposite sex, then why do something which has the potential to turn off a large chunk of our "target market"? It makes no sense to me at all.

I love my wife absolutely, but I feel sad I have to live with bad decisions she made when she was young, when I cast my gaze over her naked form adoringly only to cringe at the sight of those two artless doodles.

I'll try to help my kids avoid making the same decisions until they have partners with whom they can discuss and agree whether and what colour to paint the house!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anyone creating a backlash against what people do with their bodies is welcome to go to hell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Find it very attractive myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they want to!

Just like some men like to grow beards/go to the gym/have piercings "

Love them. This lady is a stunner x

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By *ibblingnewtWoman over a year ago

by the sea

I love tattoos, I’d actually love to be a tattoo artist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love tattoos on women but it very much dependant on style and placement for the individual xx

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By *ibblingnewtWoman over a year ago

by the sea

"My wife has 2 tatoos, a small one on her hip and large on her left ankle, and my heart sinks whenever I see them. I hate them both and would gladly pay to have them removed. The small one looks like it was done by a friend in primary school with a sharpie, the large one is a "version" of Botticelli's Birth of Venus. Over ambitious, badly drawn and done too big so the figure of Venus looks OK (well OK as in a pencil drawing by a 5th form art student) and well proportioned, but the shell wraps round her ankle so looks silly from most angles, totally ruining the gracefullness of her ankles - and totally detracts from her hotwife anklets!

I'll try to help my kids avoid making the same decisions until they have partners with whom they can discuss and agree whether and what colour to paint the house!

Why not just treat her to sone fantastic cover up tattoos if they are so bad.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

I'll try to help my kids avoid making the same decisions until they have partners with whom they can discuss and agree whether and what colour to paint the house!

All I’m seeing here is a statement of ownership and regret that the model you obtained had unfortunate marks on the chassis that you can only just bear to overlook.

She was an autonomous human being before she met you.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll try to help my kids avoid making the same decisions until they have partners with whom they can discuss and agree whether and what colour to paint the house!

All I’m seeing here is a statement of ownership and regret that the model you obtained had unfortunate marks on the chassis that you can only just bear to overlook.

She was an autonomous human being before she met you. "

Well said.

She's still an autonomous human being and if she wanted more tattoos then it's still her body.

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By *oJo69ukCouple over a year ago

LONDON

"Anyone creating a backlash against what people do with their bodies is welcome to go to hell. "

I don't think anyone is "creating" a backlash, there's no organised anti tat movement, but young guys are noticing and commenting on a high level of tats among "troubled" young women: strippers, prostitutes, cam girls, porn stars, drug users, party girls, insta girls etc. Also there's apparently a lot of tattooing among ex-cutters, perhaps contributing to the unpopular views expressed above relating to self harm and tats?

I'm picking up a general swing towards conservatism among young men these days, they seem to be rejecting the permissiveness of the last decades and expressing desires for more traditional women in their lives. In particular there also seems to be a growing concern over the past sexual history of potential partners, following research suggesting a high partner count early in life correlates with difficulty long term partner bonding and high divorce probability/single motherhood!

Times they are a changin' folks... who'd be a parent!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll try to help my kids avoid making the same decisions until they have partners with whom they can discuss and agree whether and what colour to paint the house!

All I’m seeing here is a statement of ownership and regret that the model you obtained had unfortunate marks on the chassis that you can only just bear to overlook.

She was an autonomous human being before she met you.

Well said.

She's still an autonomous human being and if she wanted more tattoos then it's still her body. "

“Until they have partners they can discuss it with?” Are you for real?

It’s their body not yours, no one else’s ...this has got to be a wind up ...maybe an April fools joke ?

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By *oJo69ukCouple over a year ago

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"Why not just treat her to sone fantastic cover up tattoos if they are so bad."

Ohh I hate all tattoos, even bigger cover ups would not restore the elegance to her high heeled ankle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll try to help my kids avoid making the same decisions until they have partners with whom they can discuss and agree whether and what colour to paint the house!

She made bad decisions? In your opinion, maybe she likes them. If she doesn’t then why not get her cover ups? But let her decide what, it’s still her body, even if you do have to look at it.

We all have a past, it just depends on whether we meet someone supportive enough to recognise that. And painting a house together doesn’t mean tastes won’t change or joint “ownership” won’t alter.

If we all put our lives and decisions on hold, until we met someone who would make them for, sorry, with us, we’d never experience anything. Sure you have made bad decisions that your wife has to contend with, even if they’re not visual reminders. Hers just make it easier for you to criticise her past x

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