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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Attraction is a strange phenomenon that sometimes defies logical explanation.
A combination of looks, personality and intelligence. Each in their own proportion that when mixed together sets off that spark of attraction   |
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"Attraction is a strange phenomenon that sometimes defies logical explanation.
A combination of looks, personality and intelligence. Each in their own proportion that when mixed together sets off that spark of attraction "
quite agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction is a strange phenomenon that sometimes defies logical explanation.
A combination of looks, personality and intelligence. Each in their own proportion that when mixed together sets off that spark of attraction "
It really does defy logic sometimes. Love the unpredictability of it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dunno. You just are sometimes for no obvious reasons other than everything feels right "
sounds like your s very indecisive lol are you a librarian by any chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno. You just are sometimes for no obvious reasons other than everything feels right sounds like your s very indecisive lol are you a librarian by any chance "
I would love to be a librarian. Just stroking books all day long. Heaven. |
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Nothing that can be defined for me. There has to be a physical attraction but sometimes if I get to know someone it's their personality I'm attracted to. A mischevious smile, a naughty glint in their eye, the way they look at me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dunno. You just are sometimes for no obvious reasons other than everything feels right sounds like your s very indecisive lol are you a librarian by any chance
I would love to be a librarian. Just stroking books all day long. Heaven. "
turning them pages sends a quiver down my back awwwww |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A beautiful sparkly face that lights up when they look at me and vice versa, and a magic mind that spirals and tangles with mine in the same way.....
.....cheeky's beautiful body is secondary, but it compliments the above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would seem the threat of impending death works for me! "
I have no idea what this means but it made me laugh.
I hope it doesn't mean you or they have a fatal disease. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would seem the threat of impending death works for me!
I have no idea what this means but it made me laugh.
I hope it doesn't mean you or they have a fatal disease. "
Maybe it's like if they're the last ppl on earth...... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It would seem the threat of impending death works for me!
I have no idea what this means but it made me laugh.
I hope it doesn't mean you or they have a fatal disease.
Maybe it's like if they're the last ppl on earth...... "
Not quite but in the past I imagined that that situation might improve my chances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would seem the threat of impending death works for me!
I have no idea what this means but it made me laugh.
I hope it doesn't mean you or they have a fatal disease.
Maybe it's like if they're the last ppl on earth......
Not quite but in the past I imagined that that situation might improve my chances"
Aww  x |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It would seem the threat of impending death works for me!
I have no idea what this means but it made me laugh.
I hope it doesn't mean you or they have a fatal disease.
Maybe it's like if they're the last ppl on earth......
Not quite but in the past I imagined that that situation might improve my chances
Aww x"
I'm OK now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all....what really attracts you to a person is looks personality size age or something else "
Can’t really explain it... it’s subjective I suppose. The obvious ones I guess are typical: eyes, smile, animated when chatting, funny, someone that you just feel drawn to, I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality first and foremost for me, I mean when I met doughnut we had the rare thing where we had seen each other’s bits and bobs beforehand (it was all very naked attraction) but when he messaged there was something in those messages that stood out for me.
I mean he is a pain in the arse now but I love his personality, not many can handle it lol.
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's more their presence for me. How they conduct themselves. A great personality and humour has always be a huge lure for me. Looks to a certain extend, but if they have that presence, I'm hooked. It's difficult to describe. It's just a feeling... |
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I’m really attracted to personalities especially the sort that make me laugh, there is just a certain something that makes you want to meet a person, I have met guys from 5’2” to 6’4”, chunky to muscular build so it’s not about the body for me, you just cannot get any better than meeting someone on the same wavelength as yourself who makes you laugh like a complete fool |
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"Hey all....what really attracts you to a person is looks personality size age or something else "
Something that clicks. Being intrigued and engaged by her, her personality that compliments mine, her eyes, the thought that it might be reciprocated, her humour, yes her looks, and her physical appearance but overwhelmingly all these things are there to make me want to communicate in a unique way with her.
In short, all the boxes need to be ticked. And if i knew which boxes they are, I’d be a very wealthy and certainly not a lonely man.
Just us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m really attracted to personalities especially the sort that make me laugh, there is just a certain something that makes you want to meet a person, I have met guys from 5’2” to 6’4”, chunky to muscular build so it’s not about the body for me, you just cannot get any better than meeting someone on the same wavelength as yourself who makes you laugh like a complete fool "
tottaly agree there has to be that personality connection and a good dose of humour banter |
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By *el71Couple
over a year ago
Preston |
Difficult question to answer.. I don’t have a certain preference but something in someone’s eyes can send me wild! Love a good set of shoulders on a man, someone who smells good enough to eat. Personality, attraction and a need to rip their clothes off. I can’t for the life of me be attracted to “skinny boy” body’s (even in older guys) even with an amazing personality it just totally puts me off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's more their presence for me. How they conduct themselves. A great personality and humour has always be a huge lure for me. Looks to a certain extend, but if they have that presence, I'm hooked. It's difficult to describe. It's just a feeling..."
What she said^
Attraction is a two way street also.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Difficult question to answer.. I don’t have a certain preference but something in someone’s eyes can send me wild! Love a good set of shoulders on a man, someone who smells good enough to eat. Personality, attraction and a need to rip their clothes off. I can’t for the life of me be attracted to “skinny boy” body’s (even in older guys) even with an amazing personality it just totally puts me off! "
hehe I’m in here then as I’m s big guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Desire for adventure, stronng sense of self, wicked sense of humour and I'm a tit man (sorry to lower the tone) so a lovely set is always appreciated x damn I forgot eyes.........they must have eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I knoe im gonna sound shallow but bum and hips makes me physically attracted.
For a one of thats enlugh for something longer personality is a big factor but thats more so in sexual compatibility.
Ie we wont ever spend enlugh time together for other traits to be impkrtant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all....what really attracts you to a person is looks personality size age or something else
Can’t really explain it... it’s subjective I suppose. The obvious ones I guess are typical: eyes, smile, animated when chatting, funny, someone that you just feel drawn to, I guess.
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When someone really speaks to my mind I should add |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's totally different person to person for me ... intelligence, humour & personality (these shine through looks) now here is where it differs for friends, partners, lovers or just sex because the chemistry, needs and wants are different in each case!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially his face. After that, it's what comes out of his mouth- or what he types.
I can go off someone I find very attractive if all he talks about is sex. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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In order of importance, face, personality, body. Obviously pictures are usually the thing I first see but there needs to be a connection beyond looks. Flirty banter without being crude is a turn on. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
It's a really difficult thing to put my finger on.
A man who has an assertive, charming, kind nature about them with a handsome face. Couple that with him being tall and biggish built and I'm in heaven  |
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"It's a really difficult thing to put my finger on.
A man who has an assertive, charming, kind nature about them with a handsome face. Couple that with him being tall and biggish built and I'm in heaven "
Daaaaamn . Almost there apart from the handsome bit |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Usually big boobs, big eyes and most importantly, banter. I also seem to have a thing for neurotic birds om the past. Tryna change that bit though. Not sure if thats within my control however. |
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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago
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I guess it depends on the situation?
In real life it's probably going to be that first glance with a twinkle in the eye and a shy, sexy smile.
Once chatting it will be wit, intelligence and charm.
On here it will be eloquence and wit.
Flipped heck I am sounding demanding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess it depends on the situation?
In real life it's probably going to be that first glance with a twinkle in the eye and a shy, sexy smile.
Once chatting it will be wit, intelligence and charm.
On here it will be eloquence and wit.
Flipped heck I am sounding demanding "
Not at all x just know exactly what you like. Self assured and aware of your attractions, it's a great quality |
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"If I had a vagina, I'd look for cock pics.....
You wouldn't....."
So true you really really wouldn't.
When I was a single fem I automatically deleted messages from cocks. If that was their best feature I wasn't interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually big boobs, big eyes and most importantly, banter. I also seem to have a thing for neurotic birds om the past. Tryna change that bit though. Not sure if thats within my control however. "
Sure I've seen you mentioned big boobs on here several times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I had a vagina, I'd look for cock pics.....
You wouldn't....."
I don't have much choice in this forum. But you're right I prefer lady features.....
....yours are rather charming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its all the private bits of the ladies that are on display on here ... Not much else to be attracted to is there ?
Oh there is the odd profile text that occupies the senses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attraction is a strange phenomenon that sometimes defies logical explanation.
A combination of looks, personality and intelligence. Each in their own proportion that when mixed together sets off that spark of attraction "
Well said! Personality keeps it going for me though therefore without the right attitude and sense of humour it won't get far even if the "looks" are a head turner... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially there looks , both facial and shape ,
But there are other thing I find , when I get to know people who are not initially “stunners” but as time goes on there personalities come though and then I find they are every bit as attractive as the “stunners” . So basically the actual attraction I like are the people not the looks x |
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