Anyone here particularly into non-binary people? Or any others who identify as non-binary themselves?
Asking because I seem to be a new experience to most that we play with, being an androgynous presenting person with a "female body". I enjoy sex in the same ways many guys do - giving with my hands / strap on.
I'd be interested to hear about others experiences identifying as, or playing with, androgynous people ....
If you hadnt played with a non-binary person before, what would you find useful to know before hand?
Meg |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone here particularly into non-binary people? Or any others who identify as non-binary themselves?
Asking because I seem to be a new experience to most that we play with, being an androgynous presenting person with a "female body". I enjoy sex in the same ways many guys do - giving with my hands / strap on.
I'd be interested to hear about others experiences identifying as, or playing with, androgynous people ....
If you hadnt played with a non-binary person before, what would you find useful to know before hand?
Meg"
Most likely pronouns!
Beyond that not much else beyond their active role. |
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"I'd talk to them first the same as I would with anyone, to find out likes and dislikes.
I'd be more wary of offending them I suppose."
Yes exactly, we're individuals with our own preferences just like anyone else. It's all about the vibe and the intention - wanting to get to know someone and being respectful is a huge turn on. If you're actively listening and they're a half-decent communicator, I don't see how you could offend them. Most will have experience explaining their gender hundreds times already |
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"Anyone here particularly into non-binary people? Or any others who identify as non-binary themselves?
Asking because I seem to be a new experience to most that we play with, being an androgynous presenting person with a "female body". I enjoy sex in the same ways many guys do - giving with my hands / strap on.
I'd be interested to hear about others experiences identifying as, or playing with, androgynous people ....
If you hadnt played with a non-binary person before, what would you find useful to know before hand?
Meg
Most likely pronouns!
Beyond that not much else beyond their active role. "
Awesome  great that you recognise pronouns can be a "thing". If someone asks me mine, it makes a great first impression . |
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I'm Afab non binary/gender queer (high testosterone, polycystic ovary syndrome, camp and butch, performed as a drag queen for 15 years) but can't be arsed with banging on about pronouns. I was all these things before the terminology became popular.
I'll respect pronouns but feel shouty NBs devalue the struggle of trans people. Trans folk are the bravest and most incredible people I know. They get my respect first and foremost |
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"I'd talk to them first the same as I would with anyone, to find out likes and dislikes.
I'd be more wary of offending them I suppose.
Yes exactly, we're individuals with our own preferences just like anyone else. It's all about the vibe and the intention - wanting to get to know someone and being respectful is a huge turn on. If you're actively listening and they're a half-decent communicator, I don't see how you could offend them. Most will have experience explaining their gender hundreds times already"
Some people get offended if you ask questions so that's why I'd be wary. |
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