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Can you catch a STD from giving oral?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Can you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you? "

Yes :/

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

of cause you can.

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By *adyJayneWoman  over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Yes, Google or NHS direct are your friends here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Can you? "
surely you know this from going to the clinic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Yep. Do a bit of a google search or ask at your clinic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Can you? surely you know this from going to the clinic"

No, I have no need to visit a clinic

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Yes you can. Unless you have symptoms you will need throat swabs to be diagnosed I believe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yes you can. Unless you have symptoms you will need throat swabs to be diagnosed I believe. "

Can it be a serious thing?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. "
do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is this a wind up?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. "

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. "

You can catch stis from women not on the app too remember.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. "
you will probably find women on here look after there sexual health better than a random girl you pick up in the pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk"

If I clicked with someone then yes, I would eventually want to have sex.

Thats what it's all about init lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. "

Do you want them to suck your cock?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Yes you can. Unless you have symptoms you will need throat swabs to be diagnosed I believe.

Can it be a serious thing? "

Gonnorhea in the throat or eye can be pretty unpleasant apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you don't want to do anything "because of the swinging lifestyle"...why are you on here in the first place?

Gonorrhea, herpes and syphilis are commonly caught through oral.

xx

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By *hrobbermanMan  over a year ago

Lanarkshire

No you cannot. Now after you have finished slurping at that rancid, pus-laden, infected minge come over here and suck on this toxic, clap-ridden, septic bell-end which is dripping a yellow-green discharge. A halo of crusty aphids have hatched around the foreskin and that explains the odd-taste.

Such friendly, sexy, oral behaviour is perfectly healthy, risk-free and can cause you no harm whatsoever.

Don't listen to those nay-sayers and panic-merchants. They just want to spoil your fun!

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By *tarbeckCouple  over a year ago

york


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. you will probably find women on here look after there sexual health better than a random girl you pick up in the pub"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab."

I just imagined that women on Fab are more sexually active in general.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk

If I clicked with someone then yes, I would eventually want to have sex.

Thats what it's all about init lol. "

so your happy to risk full sex but not oral. I would advice you to clue yourself up before you embark on anything

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab.

I just imagined that women on Fab are more sexually active in general. "

how would you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is this a wind up?"

No luv

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?"

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom "

What if they don't have any sense?

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By *nicorn on wheelsWoman  over a year ago

scotland


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk

If I clicked with someone then yes, I would eventually want to have sex.

Thats what it's all about init lol. "

Ok not being horrible but publicly insulting women on this site is not going to help you achieve that (no offence) as you put it.

I’d agree that chances are swingers would look after their health possibly more than a lass you meet in a club/pub

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab.

I just imagined that women on Fab are more sexually active in general. "

Possibly but it's also possible that they're more aware of their sexual health, I can't say for sure.

The fact is that sex with comparative strangers carries risks, what we all have to do is decide if we feel the risk is worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk

If I clicked with someone then yes, I would eventually want to have sex.

Thats what it's all about init lol. so your happy to risk full sex but not oral. I would advice you to clue yourself up before you embark on anything"

Who said I was happy to risk full sex without playing safe!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. "

I wouldn't worry too much your a single male on fab and your next post will be havent met anyone please help

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan  over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom

What if they don't have any sense?"

then they shall be sucking my cock.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom "

if you only want women to suck your cock with a condom on.you need to put that on your profile as a lot will refuse. Also sounds as though you will want to give oral with a dam so id pop that on your profile as well as again a lot will refuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk

If I clicked with someone then yes, I would eventually want to have sex.

Thats what it's all about init lol.

Ok not being horrible but publicly insulting women on this site is not going to help you achieve that (no offence) as you put it.

I’d agree that chances are swingers would look after their health possibly more than a lass you meet in a club/pub

"

I'm sorry if I insulted anyone and it isn't my intention at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom "

It's your body if you feel safest using a condom for oral thats up to you. You can also get dental dams for the woman to use

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight. do you want to have sex with women from here? Even with a condom there is an element of risk

If I clicked with someone then yes, I would eventually want to have sex.

Thats what it's all about init lol. so your happy to risk full sex but not oral. I would advice you to clue yourself up before you embark on anything

Who said I was happy to risk full sex without playing safe! "

no such thing as safe just safer

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom if you only want women to suck your cock with a condom on.you need to put that on your profile as a lot will refuse. Also sounds as though you will want to give oral with a dam so id pop that on your profile as well as again a lot will refuse"

With a dam?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom if you only want women to suck your cock with a condom on.you need to put that on your profile as a lot will refuse. Also sounds as though you will want to give oral with a dam so id pop that on your profile as well as again a lot will refuse

With a dam? "

Think you need to go and read up about sexual health

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan  over a year ago

sheffield

I was told at the clinic you are most likely to catch herpes, giving a women oral sex is very low risk but giving oral sex to a man you can catch it in the throat if you deep throat

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Some of you are not taking what I said, in the way I meant it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

Do you want them to suck your cock?

Yes and if they have any sense, it will be with a condom if you only want women to suck your cock with a condom on.you need to put that on your profile as a lot will refuse. Also sounds as though you will want to give oral with a dam so id pop that on your profile as well as again a lot will refuse"

No, no don't get me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have you ever done oral before?

Danish x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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Op you give the impression that you think women on here are disease ridden compared to the average lady, yet it seems everyone on this thread knows a hell of a lot more about sexual health than you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Basically you need to go to a clinic and get properly informed. It's your health and up to you to find out safety, sti's, etc. No one else's responsibility

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you don't want to do anything "because of the swinging lifestyle"...why are you on here in the first place?

Gonorrhea, herpes and syphilis are commonly caught through oral.

xx"

I didn't say I didn't want to do anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Have you ever done oral before?

Danish x"

Yes

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By *eelouWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

No offence OP but if you've managed to make it to nearly 40 years old without knowing that STDs can be transmitted orally then I think its best to visit your local clinic before you think about meeting.

Your comments have come across rather derogatory against women who are on this site. If thats how you feel then I'm not sure why you'd want to be here in the first place!

If you wish to use protection for oral sex (condom/dam) then you should state that on your profile for any potential meets to be aware.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Op you give the impression that you think women on here are disease ridden compared to the average lady, yet it seems everyone on this thread knows a hell of a lot more about sexual health than you "

That is not the impression I wanted to give anyone. I'm sorry.

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By *ina VonteeseTV/TS  over a year ago

Leicester

Yes but consider the following using a good quality mouthwash between dicks is a must cholrahexdine based is excellent. Stuff

Sniff test if it's not nice

Then send it away for a wash even then . Resniff

Use common sense.

And if it's forced and you are under pressure to pleasure

No thank you!

Plenty more cock in the world.

Xx

Remember

The lips giving the pleasure have the upper hand xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Op you give the impression that you think women on here are disease ridden compared to the average lady, yet it seems everyone on this thread knows a hell of a lot more about sexual health than you

That is not the impression I wanted to give anyone. I'm sorry. "

youve already said women who dont put a condom on a cock for oral dont have any sense

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Op you give the impression that you think women on here are disease ridden compared to the average lady, yet it seems everyone on this thread knows a hell of a lot more about sexual health than you

That is not the impression I wanted to give anyone. I'm sorry. youve already said women who dont put a condom on a cock for oral dont have any sense"

Totally senseless I was tonight.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Op you give the impression that you think women on here are disease ridden compared to the average lady, yet it seems everyone on this thread knows a hell of a lot more about sexual health than you

That is not the impression I wanted to give anyone. I'm sorry. youve already said women who dont put a condom on a cock for oral dont have any sense

Totally senseless I was tonight."

i was today i always am

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No offence OP but if you've managed to make it to nearly 40 years old without knowing that STDs can be transmitted orally then I think its best to visit your local clinic before you think about meeting.

Your comments have come across rather derogatory against women who are on this site. If thats how you feel then I'm not sure why you'd want to be here in the first place!

If you wish to use protection for oral sex (condom/dam) then you should state that on your profile for any potential meets to be aware."

I've never been to a clinic to ask about about things like that.. And isn't it obvious that I'm here because like every other man, I want a woman lol.

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

in my opinion, people who are into this lifestyle are often much more clued up on sexual health and much more likely to be getting tested regularly and also be aware of how to make responsible choices for themselves.

People who are not on here still go to clubs and get off with each other and hook up and have booty calls, sex is not saved for the site.

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By *eelouWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"No offence OP but if you've managed to make it to nearly 40 years old without knowing that STDs can be transmitted orally then I think its best to visit your local clinic before you think about meeting.

Your comments have come across rather derogatory against women who are on this site. If thats how you feel then I'm not sure why you'd want to be here in the first place!

If you wish to use protection for oral sex (condom/dam) then you should state that on your profile for any potential meets to be aware.

I've never been to a clinic to ask about about things like that.. And isn't it obvious that I'm here because like every other man, I want a woman lol."

Well you said yourself that you probably wouldn't have oral sex with any woman on this app as you seem to think we're all disease ridden on here!

Good luck with it tho!

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By *amsay BoltonMan  over a year ago

Motherwell

Wow man askin that on here instead a just googling it is as bad as the folk that get their crusty bits out on tv for a doctor to have a wee swatch at. Baffles me

Think giving any oral won’t be much of a issue now coz you’ve pretty much offended most women in here mate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op i dont take offense at anything youve said on this thread i put it down to bad wording a naivity but you really must go away and clue yourself up on sexual health

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By *upergirthukMan  over a year ago

Liverpool UK

You can receive a sexually transmited infection via oral sex, giving or receiving, but the risks are a lot lower than penetration vaginally or anally I'm told.

I go to the GUM clinic every 2-3 months and get checked, sooner if there is a need to obviously, as a lot of serious things can go under the radar.

If you are swinging you should respect those you play with enough to do this regularly and reduce the risk of spreading anything you do contract with others.

There's no stigma in going the clinic these days as it shows you are being responsible and you can get good advice and free condoms when you go too. It's reasonably quick, painless (urine, blood sample and a throat swab covers most things) and the scaremongery of them shoving something the size of a lamp up your japseye simply aren't true. They will swab any discharge if you are concerned you have some but generally it will be a tiny swab of the discharge from the tip of your cock if necessary at all.

Good luck and be responsible.

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By *tarbeckCouple  over a year ago

york


"Op i dont take offense at anything youve said on this thread i put it down to bad wording a naivity but you really must go away and clue yourself up on sexual health"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No offence OP but if you've managed to make it to nearly 40 years old without knowing that STDs can be transmitted orally then I think its best to visit your local clinic before you think about meeting.

Your comments have come across rather derogatory against women who are on this site. If thats how you feel then I'm not sure why you'd want to be here in the first place!

If you wish to use protection for oral sex (condom/dam) then you should state that on your profile for any potential meets to be aware.

I've never been to a clinic to ask about about things like that.. And isn't it obvious that I'm here because like every other man, I want a woman lol.

Well you said yourself that you probably wouldn't have oral sex with any woman on this app as you seem to think we're all disease ridden on here!

Good luck with it tho! "

I'm not good with words... I just meant I'm careful and I would think twice about doing it with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You can receive a sexually transmited infection via oral sex, giving or receiving, but the risks are a lot lower than penetration vaginally or anally I'm told.

I go to the GUM clinic every 2-3 months and get checked, sooner if there is a need to obviously, as a lot of serious things can go under the radar.

If you are swinging you should respect those you play with enough to do this regularly and reduce the risk of spreading anything you do contract with others.

There's no stigma in going the clinic these days as it shows you are being responsible and you can get good advice and free condoms when you go too. It's reasonably quick, painless (urine, blood sample and a throat swab covers most things) and the scaremongery of them shoving something the size of a lamp up your japseye simply aren't true. They will swab any discharge if you are concerned you have some but generally it will be a tiny swab of the discharge from the tip of your cock if necessary at all.

Good luck and be responsible. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Op i dont take offense at anything youve said on this thread i put it down to bad wording a naivity but you really must go away and clue yourself up on sexual health"

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I didn't mean anyone is senseless either. I feel as if I've dug myself in a hole tonight

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By *upergirthukMan  over a year ago

Liverpool UK


"You can receive a sexually transmited infection via oral sex, giving or receiving, but the risks are a lot lower than penetration vaginally or anally I'm told.

I go to the GUM clinic every 2-3 months and get checked, sooner if there is a need to obviously, as a lot of serious things can go under the radar.

If you are swinging you should respect those you play with enough to do this regularly and reduce the risk of spreading anything you do contract with others.

There's no stigma in going the clinic these days as it shows you are being responsible and you can get good advice and free condoms when you go too. It's reasonably quick, painless (urine, blood sample and a throat swab covers most things) and the scaremongery of them shoving something the size of a lamp up your japseye simply aren't true. They will swab any discharge if you are concerned you have some but generally it will be a tiny swab of the discharge from the tip of your cock if necessary at all.

Good luck and be responsible. "

By the way, I use condoms for vaginal and anal penetration but prefer oral bare though obviously will use a condom if requested to by the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No offence OP but if you've managed to make it to nearly 40 years old without knowing that STDs can be transmitted orally then I think its best to visit your local clinic before you think about meeting.

Your comments have come across rather derogatory against women who are on this site. If thats how you feel then I'm not sure why you'd want to be here in the first place!

If you wish to use protection for oral sex (condom/dam) then you should state that on your profile for any potential meets to be aware.

I've never been to a clinic to ask about about things like that.. And isn't it obvious that I'm here because like every other man, I want a woman lol.

Well you said yourself that you probably wouldn't have oral sex with any woman on this app as you seem to think we're all disease ridden on here!

Good luck with it tho!

I'm not good with words... I just meant I'm careful and I would think twice about doing it with anyone. "

You're right to be careful. There are many men whose cock I wouldn't want in me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well this went well...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No offence OP but if you've managed to make it to nearly 40 years old without knowing that STDs can be transmitted orally then I think its best to visit your local clinic before you think about meeting.

Your comments have come across rather derogatory against women who are on this site. If thats how you feel then I'm not sure why you'd want to be here in the first place!

If you wish to use protection for oral sex (condom/dam) then you should state that on your profile for any potential meets to be aware.

I've never been to a clinic to ask about about things like that.. And isn't it obvious that I'm here because like every other man, I want a woman lol."

Why have you never been to a clinic? Have you never had sex?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I kissed a girl and I liked it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Rug Munchers and Sausage Scoffers you have been warned!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sanitäter

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham

You can catch cancer from oral as well, due to the HPV virus.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes. Google would tell you this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wonder how many people use condoms for sex but not for bjs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Prob the majority don’t use them for oral

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting as I always do oral always

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Interesting as I always do oral always "

Your in a minority

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I wonder how many people use condoms for sex but not for bjs"

Loads. I've tried oral with condoms on but it's not much fun. Like sucking on a deflated balloon in my opinion.

OP it is of course your decision whether or not you go down on any lady from any walk of life but I echo the sentiments of others (and you have kind of proved it) people in this lifestyle are often more regularly tested and better informed in sexual health than others. That's not me trying to make you give women oral, just my opinion.

The only persons sexual health that you control is your own and so if your personal sexual health risk assessment scores oral as too high then either put things in place to lower it (condoms it dental dams) or ding do it. It's your choice.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"Can you? surely you know this from going to the clinic

No, I have no need to visit a clinic "

So your a virgin!

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I wonder how many people use condoms for sex but not for bjs"

Never for a bi and I wouldn't use a dam either. I am tested regularly as I would be if not on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Guess you may have added yourself to a few block lists OP

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"I wonder how many people use condoms for sex but not for bjs

Never for a bi and I wouldn't use a dam either. I am tested regularly as I would be if not on fab."

It's unreal the amount that don't test Even couples say we always use condoms so no need to yet do oral

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By *orkie321bWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you really need to educate yourself on STIs and safer sex.

It baffles me that someone can reach your age and not know the risks and has never been to a gum clinic to be tested.

Do you realise you could have contracted something the first time you had sex and passed it on to every person you have been with since?

Instead of worrying about disease riddled fabber take some personal responsibility for your own sexual health and that of your partners - go and get bloody tested!

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP it's mostly been said above - the one thing that's not been mentioned is you do know some STIs can be transmitted even with using a condom?

As others have said the *only* person you can rely on for your sexual health is yourself and that's by being responsible and getting regularly tested - in a lot of areas you don't even have to go to a clinic these days, just go to https://sh24.org.uk/ where not only do they have all the information you could possibly need but you can (if in an area covered by it) order a free test kit that covers pretty much all the testing you need - they post you the kids, which are easy to use, you send them back and get a text message with the results a fee days later.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you really need to educate yourself on STIs and safer sex.

It baffles me that someone can reach your age and not know the risks and has never been to a gum clinic to be tested.

Do you realise you could have contracted something the first time you had sex and passed it on to every person you have been with since?

Instead of worrying about disease riddled fabber take some personal responsibility for your own sexual health and that of your partners - go and get bloody tested! "

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By *ilkenWoman  over a year ago

Manchester


"I wonder how many people use condoms for sex but not for bjs

Never for a bi and I wouldn't use a dam either. I am tested regularly as I would be if not on fab.

It's unreal the amount that don't test Even couples say we always use condoms so no need to yet do oral "

Sadly that's true there are probably nearly as many who give lip service saying they get rested so others think they are safe but never get tested at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes you definitely can. I suggest googling “nhs sti oral” and going to the first link you find. Unless you want to give yourself a heart attack don’t look at lots of other sites which sensationalise - the NHS is best.

Also an STI clinic is well worth your time. Just tell them you swing - my wife and I did and they didn’t turn a hair. Ok, the nurse smirked when I told her about bisexual threesomes but hey.

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By *ogerBottomsMan  over a year ago

Aberdare


" you will probably find women on here look after there sexual health better than a random girl you pick up in the pub"

Entirely this.

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By *oul BrothaMan  over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I cannot believe a 38 year old man is asking the question...

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By *ophleeCouple  over a year ago

Fareham


"Op i dont take offense at anything youve said on this thread i put it down to bad wording a naivity but you really must go away and clue yourself up on sexual health"

This

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By *electableDalliancesCouple  over a year ago

leeds


"Can you? surely you know this from going to the clinic

No, I have no need to visit a clinic "

Anyone having sex should know their status, we are lucky that there are free clinics readily available. The people that work there are unshockable and just want to help, it really is worth the 20 mins it takes to get checked for peace of mind and knowing your looking after yourself and potential partners.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you? "
of course you can

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can you? "
you can catch some sti wearing a condom so oral sex you're unprotected

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I cannot believe a 38 year old man is asking the question..."

I'd rather everyone felt comfortable to ask without fear of ridicule.

If you don't know something there's only one way to find out

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman  over a year ago

Victoria, London

you need to make it very clear you've got a hang up about std's, and that all sex will be covered/protected.

been with guys who when they turn up obviously freaked out about contracting something, which makes me feel like I'm some sort of disease ridden tart. a few I've stopped the meet.

we all need to be careful and responsible, and you need to be responsible and go to the clinic first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I cannot believe a 38 year old man is asking the question...

I'd rather everyone felt comfortable to ask without fear of ridicule.

If you don't know something there's only one way to find out"

It never hurts to ask a question. Granted at that age he should know, but at least he's asking and isn't been ignorant

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I cannot believe a 38 year old man is asking the question...

I'd rather everyone felt comfortable to ask without fear of ridicule.

If you don't know something there's only one way to find out

It never hurts to ask a question. Granted at that age he should know, but at least he's asking and isn't been ignorant"

There are many people in my age range and older who have no idea. There's a big rise in sexual health problems in the over 60s due to it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab.

I just imagined that women on Fab are more sexually active in general. "

You shouldn’t make assumptions. None of my real life friends are on here and they have 100 times more sex than I do!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

my local clinic are brilliant even referred me to terence higgins trust for counselling i was pretty fucked up about my sexuality and just so nervous just being able to honestly chat to someone i got an education from all these agencies now they send me a txt every 3 months and i pop along simples x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it worries you that much then you really ought to be thinking about a monogamous relationship, one that’s built over time and getting to know each other, letting the other person know that you have a fear of sti and you would prefer for both of you be checked out together at a clinic before engaging in a sexual relationship, try as much as you like to protect yourself by wearing condoms through penatrative sex there will always be a risk if you’re not wearing protection and who wears dental dam when you’re kissing ! Yes kissing can transmit sti the chances are very slim, the people most likely to catch an sti from kissing are those with low immune systems however there’s no guarantees, one of the biggest things is honesty from partners, I’ve been lucky in the past whereby previous fwb have been honest when they’ve potentially put me at risk thankfully I got the all clear and they had weeks of antibiotics, that level of trust and honesty isn’t always going to happen on here, it’s also one of the reasons I don’t just play randomly and like to know who my fwb are playing with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I cannot believe a 38 year old man is asking the question...

I'd rather everyone felt comfortable to ask without fear of ridicule.

If you don't know something there's only one way to find out"

catch it and see ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab.

I just imagined that women on Fab are more sexually active in general.

You shouldn’t make assumptions. None of my real life friends are on here and they have 100 times more sex than I do!"

Same and they usually have a lot more d*unken unprotected mistakes and often put themselves in far riskier positions

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If what you all mean by a clinic is visiting a doctor and having tests, then yes I've done that and all good.

I do need to clue myself up more though.. I also think I need to stay off here when I'm d*unk lol.

I now see how my wording offended people and I apologise for that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab.

I just imagined that women on Fab are more sexually active in general.

You shouldn’t make assumptions. None of my real life friends are on here and they have 100 times more sex than I do!"

My sister is more active than I am and not on here or any other site. My friends are the same and I don’t think they get tested as much as I would.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I cannot believe a 38 year old man is asking the question...

I'd rather everyone felt comfortable to ask without fear of ridicule.

If you don't know something there's only one way to find out"

I had no idea you could catch stis in the throat and eyes until I joined here. Previous to being on here I hadn't really thought much about sexually transmitted diseases as I was with the same man for 30 years

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If what you all mean by a clinic is visiting a doctor and having tests, then yes I've done that and all good.

I do need to clue myself up more though.. I also think I need to stay off here when I'm d*unk lol.

I now see how my wording offended people and I apologise for that. "

I reckon most people don't know about clinics/ testing. 'Other people' catch stuff. "No need to get tested if it hasn't turned green or dropped off."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The stupidest question is the one thats not asked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More than anything I want to give oral, but I'm not sure if I want to do this with any women on this app, due the the swinging lifestyle. No offence to any of you ladies.. But I just thought I would throw the question out tonight.

I don't know the figures but women who aren't in to swinging have stis too. I don't know if your risk would he significantly increased by meeting someone from fab."

I would think it was possibly less. I know lots of people on here, including myself, that get checked regularly, aswell as using a condom. The only time I have ever known anyone, that isn't on here, to go get checked is if they have symptoms, so... Bet he would expect a blow job without protection tho, but he doesn't need to go to the clinic

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By *erby DomCouple  over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Get some dental dams if you are concerned.

I beggars belief that you even need to ask a question like that on here when the answer is a google search away.

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By *upergirthukMan  over a year ago

Liverpool UK


"I wonder how many people use condoms for sex but not for bjs"

I'm one but I was told at the GUM that the risks are extremely low. If people want to use condoms for oral I'm happy to but there is an element of risk in everything and to me if I'm getting blown with a jonnie on I may as well just have a posh wank and a penpal. Ffs

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