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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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"That god for that.
I seem to get men who cant understand why I can be so fussy!!!"
They just trying their luck hun.
FFS - just cos you on here does NOT mean you are easy game.
If any give you hassle - send em over to me, lol
Not really - just block and delete em.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't just do it with anyone, there has to be some kind of spark, mentally AND physically!
So, no!
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Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?
For me, definately not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?
For me, definately not "
Apparently there are ladies out there who would blind fold themselves, and not speak a word before, during and after sex, and expect the man to leave without uttering a single word!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?
For me, definately not
Apparently there are ladies out there who would blind fold themselves, and not speak a word before, during and after sex, and expect the man to leave without uttering a single word! "
So that is why the ladies who need the spark have a problem, as men seem to tarnish us with the same brush, or so it seems at times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No not my cup of tea at all, but then when you think of the greedy girl nights that some ot the clubs arrange... but is a club different to meeting individually? so many things that can happen from being fussy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction."
Not even in the MMF situation?  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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Are there people out there that could do it with just anyone?
For me, definately not
Apparently there are ladies out there who would blind fold themselves, and not speak a word before, during and after sex, and expect the man to leave without uttering a single word! "
but that is a fantasy - and if set in the correct conditions - then why not???
Its the turn on of the unknown in that type of circumstance, not just shagging anyone for the sake of shagging..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.
Not even in the MMF situation? "
Thats a bit different as the sexual act is between 3 people. I'm talking about a couple having sex with a couple then having sex with another couple 20 minutes later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have to admit when i first joined this site i would av shagged a barbers floor, but im back to being my usual fussy self & theres nothing wrong with that.
Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought 
we live & learn tho  |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought
we live & learn tho "
What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????
I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!
Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.
I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.
Not even in the MMF situation?
Thats a bit different as the sexual act is between 3 people. I'm talking about a couple having sex with a couple then having sex with another couple 20 minutes later."
There's a name for that..... swinging I think.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought
we live & learn tho
What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????
I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!
Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.
I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!"
like i said im learning
i meant getting all attatched when you see them a few times, that im not down for, being friends that can have sex, talk about anything & no nippyness or jealousy works best for me, looks certainly arnt everything as theres lots of other attractive qualities in folks for me anyways
babbling here & forgetting what im on about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have known people to have sex with someone straight after having sex with someone else!! Could you do that?? I couldnt, even if there was an attraction.
Not even in the MMF situation?
Thats a bit different as the sexual act is between 3 people. I'm talking about a couple having sex with a couple then having sex with another couple 20 minutes later.
There's a name for that..... swinging I think. "
You might call it swinging, I call it rank - you dont let just anyone have a grope.
Swinging is having sex with other people with your partner present or with consent, not seeing how many fires you can poke in an evening. |
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What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????
I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!
Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.
I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!"
I really miss the one that got away. He is drop dead gorgeous of a hunky rugby player, with a very good looking friend 
Unfortunately, he was not ready for the notion of NSA fun, and decided not to meet up again, shame, as I really like him, and thought we had a bit of spark between us  |
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i find sum people will jst sleep with anyone game,jst coz u swing doesn't mean u easy.lol. looks and personality r both soo important !saying that id still fxxk 50cent if he had no personality.lol!xx |
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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago
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Some people assume cos your on a swingers site your game for it anytime anywhere, which again im ashamed to admit, but i did too when i first joined! Loads of horny people that can have sex without feelings getting in the way i thought
we live & learn tho
What has having sex without feeling getting in the way got to do with being fussy????
I have lots of sex, with several playmates - but i still have to fancy them!!!!
Fancying someone does not constitute to having "feelings" for them - it means that there is an attraction.
I like to be able to enjoy who i have sex with - not have to close my eyes and wish it was all over......hmmppphhh!!
like i said im learning
i meant getting all attatched when you see them a few times, that im not down for, being friends that can have sex, talk about anything & no nippyness or jealousy works best for me, looks certainly arnt everything as theres lots of other attractive qualities in folks for me anyways
babbling here & forgetting what im on about "
aaaaaaaaaaaaaah- yes there are other "attrative" qualities - as yu say.
And whatever they are - it is personal to yu and still constitutes being fussy!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course not, you owe nobody a sympathy shag!
If someone is not what you like, then why settle for them? I certainly wouldn’t.
I ( them fem half) think that the only people who have a problem with fussyness are the people who don’t get any lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....
I did cause I was hornier than a horny thing on horny boy day..... needs must. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....
I did cause I was hornier than a horny thing on horny boy day..... needs must."
The time to worry is when they come at you with a plastic bag ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....
I did cause I was hornier than a horny thing on horny boy day..... needs must.
The time to worry is when they come at you with a plastic bag ! "
lol lol lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mind ya , once, someone asked me to put a brown paper bag over my head ... and the lights were out ffs.....
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Be grateful he/she considered you as a one-bagger, and not a two-bagger, or worse still, a "I'd rather chew my arm-off" the morning after!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is me as well, there has to be a spark, so do know what you mean.
Spark for me has to be mentally as well.
and they are there hun - just need to filter thru the chancers.
xx"
Totally agree with this! Good advice  |
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