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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums?  I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
Onky a few people use the forums.
Most just use the profiles ans messages unlike us sad bastards they have friends in real life tk talk to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people spend more time in chat than in the forums, some spend more time sending faf messages and wanking over hot pics than being in the chat rooms and some spend more time wanging their walnut whip out and bustin rhymes in the forums than faffing people.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
The number that uses the forums is very small by comparison to the rest of the site - and the regulars probably make up a large chunk of those that do - ergo you see the same names popping up time and again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or:
Fab is like a bus.
The chat rooms are the front of the bus where everybody moons.
The back of the bus is the forums where all the cool kids hang out.
Those who are neither are stuck at the bus stop. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
"The number that uses the forums is very small by comparison to the rest of the site - and the regulars probably make up a large chunk of those that do - ergo you see the same names popping up time and again "
Or same people, different names |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site. "
Some I've spoken to are not even aware of the forums. They don't get past the messaging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site. "
Heck even places like reddit you start to see familiar names comming up.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site.
Some I've spoken to are not even aware of the forums. They don't get past the messaging "
 at first I thought the forums were not for me.. But now I've become and addict |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site.
Some I've spoken to are not even aware of the forums. They don't get past the messaging
at first I thought the forums were not for me.. But now I've become and addict"
That's what's always drawn me back. It's so easily addictive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves "
There’s an introduction forum...  well I never knew that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that? "
No its jist down below on the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that? "
Only if you can’t get it for free |
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that?
No its jist down below on the list "
Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle.  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that?
No its jist down below on the list
Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle. "
There's an island of free beer and jam?!
Hang on, did you hear about this on a note written in crayon? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that?
Only if you can’t get it for free "
I think I found it on the message board |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that?
No its jist down below on the list "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are too cliquey for must that's why"
They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
There’s an introduction forum... well I never knew that."
That's because you don't need any introduction |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
I’m new *raises hand and grins* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up.
Onky a few people use the forums.
Most just use the profiles ans messages unlike us sad bastards they have friends in real life tk talk to"
he's right you know  
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"They are too cliquey for must that's why
They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.
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It's the truffle pig noises |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"They are too cliquey for must that's why
They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.
It's the truffle pig noises"
Don't forget the cold faces |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are too cliquey for must that's why
They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.
It's the truffle pig noises"
 Thought as much.. *Squuuiuuweeeeeesaaallllllll* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are too cliquey for must that's why
They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.
It's the truffle pig noises
Don't forget the cold faces"
*Ghengis shows Gemini the warm face* |
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"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that?
No its jist down below on the list
Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle.
There's an island of free beer and jam?!
Hang on, did you hear about this on a note written in crayon? "
and
Yes, but it was your handwriting. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up.
Onky a few people use the forums.
Most just use the profiles ans messages unlike us sad bastards they have friends in real life tk talk to"
Oh lordy that made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
Most ppl just wanna perv or hook up. Forum is more specialist and mostly filled with "addicts" (in the nicest possible way)..... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"They are too cliquey for must that's why
They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.
It's the truffle pig noises
Thought as much.. *Squuuiuuweeeeeesaaallllllll*"
*shivers*
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves
Don't I have to pay for that?
No its jist down below on the list
Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle.
There's an island of free beer and jam?!
Hang on, did you hear about this on a note written in crayon? and
Yes, but it was your handwriting. "
Curses, foiled! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people are busy chatting or meeting people. Or wanking. "
I just got sent a pic of someone holding a green fruit object in Denmark and I'm not sure if it's an avocado or a really green papaya..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
Pop a status inviting people to come join you, in here. See how that fairs. Like an open day event, there's a chap on here with pizza. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
Different people use the Forums at different times, to fit in around work, shift patterns, home life, holidays and personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
New people do post but they often get jumped on and made fun of, or bitched at for asking questions that The Clique don't approve of. |
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By *rozacMan
over a year ago
london |
"Some people spend more time in chat than in the forums, some spend more time sending faf messages and wanking over hot pics than being in the chat rooms and some spend more time wanging their walnut whip out and bustin rhymes in the forums than faffing people.
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The last part intrigues me |
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Only a tiny % of fab users use the forum. Of them you have your hard core posters. These are not necessarily swingers or involved in the scene, but just like posting regularly. The forums are not exactly welcoming to new people. There certainly is a clique. I have often been shot down for suggesting how the forums can be made friendlier. The irony is certainly not lost on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only a tiny % of fab users use the forum. Of them you have your hard core posters. These are not necessarily swingers or involved in the scene, but just like posting regularly. The forums are not exactly welcoming to new people. There certainly is a clique. I have often been shot down for suggesting how the forums can be made friendlier. The irony is certainly not lost on me."
I've been on here for a few months now but don't come on here regularly and I totally agree with you
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"Or:
Fab is like a bus.
The chat rooms are the front of the bus where everybody moons.
The back of the bus is the forums where all the cool kids hang out.
Those who are neither are stuck at the bus stop."
And the ones who meet and fuck or go to swingers clubs got of at the first stop |
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Get involved name of the game, every part of the site. I don't really get In box's unless I've met people in clubs so forums and chat room open doors to talk to people using the site to let them know we are actual people and we are good people and not just meet beaters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see lots of new people "popping up" but the regulars scare the shit out of them and they scarper. Only the thick skinned stick around. We are a good bunch really, we even socialise and occasionally get naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see lots of new people "popping up" but the regulars scare the shit out of them and they scarper. Only the thick skinned stick around. We are a good bunch really, we even socialise and occasionally get naked "
The naked thing only happens on full moons these days now though. In a leap year  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
forums is like a lily club you're either in or not lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. forums is like a lily club you're either in or not lol"
lil |
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