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Ppl are really fucked up, right?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought I was a mess, but the more time I spend here makes me feel positively fucking sorted mentally.....
......is that why ppl come here then? To make themselves feel better?
Just a thought.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them "
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy.... "
Not every one can get into the swing of things,yes I went there lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm actually on here more than I am on other social media sites these forums are good some pointless but a lot are totally chilled whilst trying not to be put on timeout lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy.... "
Well it's easier to admit to being beaten down online, even if you've got pictures of yourself, we're all strangers here for the most part.
You'd be surprised how well people can keep things inside all day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy....
Not every one can get into the swing of things,yes I went there lol"
Haha, but there's only one way forward, otherwise you're staying still or even worse reversing back into that shit and those demons.... .... Run forrrrreeeesssttt, run.....!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy....
Well it's easier to admit to being beaten down online, even if you've got pictures of yourself, we're all strangers here for the most part.
You'd be surprised how well people can keep things inside all day "
I just see ppl here and wanna give them a big hug and tell them shit'll get better and buy them a pint, even big hairy guys! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy.... "
In what way exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho"
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy....
Not every one can get into the swing of things,yes I went there lol
Haha, but there's only one way forward, otherwise you're staying still or even worse reversing back into that shit and those demons.... .... Run forrrrreeeesssttt, run.....!!! "
I hear you loud and clear.
It is very easy to get caught up in your own taughts.
Just reminding yourself that is all it is,taughts and they will pass. Life is for living, as you only die once. I fight every day with myself to remember that,enjoy the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up.... "
The ass/pussy smelling dude yesterday was an exception, no guilt there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just see ppl here and wanna give them a big hug and tell them shit'll get better and buy them a pint, even big hairy guys! "
Sending you big hugs hun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up....
The ass/pussy smelling dude yesterday was an exception, no guilt there "
What a tool he was ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy....
Not every one can get into the swing of things,yes I went there lol
Haha, but there's only one way forward, otherwise you're staying still or even worse reversing back into that shit and those demons.... .... Run forrrrreeeesssttt, run.....!!!
I hear you loud and clear.
It is very easy to get caught up in your own taughts.
Just reminding yourself that is all it is,taughts and they will pass. Life is for living, as you only die once. I fight every day with myself to remember that,enjoy the moment. "
I think some ppl haven't truly been tested yet. If you've worked through your shit, you value a healthy state of mind and attitude more than anything, more than material shiz, because you know what'll happen if you lose it..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up....
The ass/pussy smelling dude yesterday was an exception, no guilt there
What a tool he was !"
Dicka like that make this place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up....
The ass/pussy smelling dude yesterday was an exception, no guilt there
What a tool he was !"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again."
.....that helped me..... Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again."
Exactly this. Talking about struggling is helpful. Sad that people think that kind of opening statement is helpful, as much as I don't believe it was intended to be as poorly put. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen. "
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again.
.....that helped me..... Xx"
Like Nora said, I get what you mean. You can't answer every cry for help, it'll drain you. Taking the time to make someone feel a bit better occasionally.. It's very much worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again.
Exactly this. Talking about struggling is helpful. Sad that people think that kind of opening statement is helpful, as much as I don't believe it was intended to be as poorly put."
Missing the point of this post entirely. It's a loving post.... Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up....
The ass/pussy smelling dude yesterday was an exception, no guilt there " i never feel guilt over humour its beneath me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence.... "
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gets me up and down regular
My mentality been ok tho
Only time I get down is if I'm sarcastic (my natural default defense) to one those haunted ppl, then I feel bad for not picking them up....
The ass/pussy smelling dude yesterday was an exception, no guilt there i never feel guilt over humour its beneath me "
Yeah, but you're funny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again.
Exactly this. Talking about struggling is helpful. Sad that people think that kind of opening statement is helpful, as much as I don't believe it was intended to be as poorly put.
Missing the point of this post entirely. It's a loving post.... Xx"
I know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence....
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest. "
Tell me more? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence.... "
Mostly my problem x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again.
Exactly this. Talking about struggling is helpful. Sad that people think that kind of opening statement is helpful, as much as I don't believe it was intended to be as poorly put.
Missing the point of this post entirely. It's a loving post.... Xx"
I got the point just think you worded it really badly without meaning to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just in case anyone ever expects me to be tactful, it's probably not gonna happen. Think Ricky in afterlife and you'll get me.... "
Fuck I've developed a forum stutter now.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence....
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest. "
Yes a lot more than that but my lack of confidence has all my issues behind it if that makes sense? X |
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence....
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest.
Tell me more? X"
No it’s ok. I just quietly observe sometimes and I just think that quite a lot that’s all. No particular examples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence....
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest.
Tell me more? X
No it’s ok. I just quietly observe sometimes and I just think that quite a lot that’s all. No particular examples. "
OK, no pressure x |
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence....
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest.
Yes a lot more than that but my lack of confidence has all my issues behind it if that makes sense? X"
Yes totally makes sense! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen.
Lots of fragile ppl here. I see a lot of missing confidence and ppl mistake that for something physical or transfer it to their past etc..... .....when in reality in the present there's nothing wrong with them and they're adorable, just missing confidence....
I think it’s often a lot more than just that to be honest.
Yes a lot more than that but my lack of confidence has all my issues behind it if that makes sense? X"
you make sense, but it doesn't make sense that you're not oozing confidence, you're kinda gorgeous and articulate too, js xx |
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"I get what he means though just perhaps not the best way to say it maybe. Im often reading things and thinking to myself fab is the last place you should be. I think a lot of people are here thinking it will help but it is probably making things worse. Just speaking generally. Having said that I’ve seen people post things and have a lot of support but I’ve also seen the opposite happen. "
100% agree with this |
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There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock. |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock. "
Very nice way of looking at things x |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock. "
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside.... |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock. "
Love this x |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside.... "
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock. "
Yeah, you made hotlist, just for your hot mind |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too "
You know what I mean though, some ppl just let you know everything and they see everything in you too, no hiding |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too "
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head. |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too "
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head. "
I’m keeping my slop well and truly in my head! Nobody needs to hear that shit! |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head. "
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I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main. |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head.
I’m keeping my slop well and truly in my head! Nobody needs to hear that shit! "
I'm gonna be really challenging.... So apologies in advance.... But....
I reckon when you let them see it, and they actually love it, that's when you'll realise it's not shit at all, it beautiful and it's you, and then you'll get your spark and confidence |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main."
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x |
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"We all have our demons, it;s just that not everyone is willing to be open about them
Yeah but I see ppl in here that are so beaten down by demons.... It makes me sad to see ppl crushed like that, with no fight or energy.... "
It's good for people to express themselves no matter what demons they are carrying. Never underestimate the power a caring word can have even coming from the disposable world of fab.
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head.
I’m keeping my slop well and truly in my head! Nobody needs to hear that shit!
I'm gonna be really challenging.... So apologies in advance.... But....
I reckon when you let them see it, and they actually love it, that's when you'll realise it's not shit at all, it beautiful and it's you, and then you'll get your spark and confidence "
I was messing lol. My spark is positively blinding |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main."
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head.
I’m keeping my slop well and truly in my head! Nobody needs to hear that shit!
I'm gonna be really challenging.... So apologies in advance.... But....
I reckon when you let them see it, and they actually love it, that's when you'll realise it's not shit at all, it beautiful and it's you, and then you'll get your spark and confidence
I was messing lol. My spark is positively blinding "
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head.
You have a ladle hanging from both ears "
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x"
One love |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love "
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover! |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover! "
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
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It's a tough place for many people, irrespective of their degree of mental wellbeing. Internet sites support people with huge diversity, including some who don't potentially engage with others in a healthy way.
That said, there are tons of great people,so it's navigable to stay away from those who may not be in your best interest. |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
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I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx |
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"It's a tough place for many people, irrespective of their degree of mental wellbeing. Internet sites support people with huge diversity, including some who don't potentially engage with others in a healthy way.
That said, there are tons of great people,so it's navigable to stay away from those who may not be in your best interest. "
It's a tough one, we're told to treat ppl equally, caned by some if we don't, but the reality is you need to treat ppl very differently I think.... |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx"
Look deep x |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x"
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx"
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble"
I'm short bursts xx
Love a brummie too, lived there for a while |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble"
Get a room you two lol |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol "
Come with us? Xx |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx"
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x"
You know it makes sense x |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x
You know it makes sense x"
We can look after each other x |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x
You know it makes sense x
We can look after each other x"
Fab could use a little more caring |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x
You know it makes sense x
We can look after each other x
Fab could use a little more caring "
Well as long as at least a few of us do it’s a start x |
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"I'm gonna wake up tomorrow, read this, and slap myself for being soft....
But know that some of us are grateful for that xxxxxxx"
Any time x
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again." |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x
You know it makes sense x
We can look after each other x
Fab could use a little more caring
Well as long as at least a few of us do it’s a start x"
Sharing is caring |
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"I like that I can be messy here and others are ok with that. I have found much compassion, care and challenge on here. It’s been good for my mental health in the main.
What she said ^
Let it hang out and be loved x
One love
With an arse like that, whatever you say my lover!
I have more wise words....come closer let me whisper them to you
I'm all yours, just talk with your eyes xx
Look deep x
.....are you flirting with me? I'm trouble, js.... Xx
I think I maybe. Something tells me you cpuld handle trouble
Get a room you two lol
Come with us? Xx
Don’t need asking twice, I’m in x
You know it makes sense x
We can look after each other x
Fab could use a little more caring
Well as long as at least a few of us do it’s a start x
Sharing is caring "
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"Saying "I thought I was a mess but.." Isn't helping things.
People get broke by all sorts of things, people can fix themselves, with the kindness and compassion of others though.
We also deal with them in different ways. You're only seeing part of their epic walk through life.
It can happen to any of us, at any time. Grief, Loss, Addiction, Depression.. We're not a mess. We're human. Pack animals that need a little extra loving every now and again. "
xxx |
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"There's something about people who are happy to get down and dirty with all aspects of the human body and weird sex, that makes people very down to earth but also supportive. Like nurses and doctor types who will sooth you whilst you vomit all over them and they almost don't care.
You can get as messy with your thoughts and emotions here as you like and it doesn't really shock us.
I think. Not all obviously. But generally that is what I find. And you get to see cock.
Loved that
People people are a lot more.... ...idk, like their heads flip open and the let you see inside....
I reckon Yes, you've seen their boobs/cock and arse, why not some of the slop in their head too
Not sure anyone should ever see the slop in my head.
I’m keeping my slop well and truly in my head! Nobody needs to hear that shit!
I'm gonna be really challenging.... So apologies in advance.... But....
I reckon when you let them see it, and they actually love it, that's when you'll realise it's not shit at all, it beautiful and it's you, and then you'll get your spark and confidence "
And what Autumn said |
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Maybe people use this site as a tool to get their frustration out similar to how some may shout and hurl abuse at football.
Doesn't make it right but we all need an outlet. |
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"Maybe people use this site as a tool to get their frustration out similar to how some may shout and hurl abuse at football.
Doesn't make it right but we all need an outlet. "
I think often people need to get something IN rather than out. What's in is already in and going nowhere..... |
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