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Why did you join Fabswingers?
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For me it was simply a chat I had with a older male colleague...
I asked him did he still wanked....
He said nah..
Seriously I said how often do you wank..
He replied nah ....not interested...
I said not even a sneaky one once in a while?
Shaking his head ,nah..
What about thinking of sex or if you see a pretty woman ??
Nah... much rather go out or think about a nice hot meal.......far more satifiying lot less aggregation.
I looked at him perplexed ,think he was just kidding me...
Then it dawned on me he was,nt....
Christ I thought ,I don,t get much as it is and I definitely don,t ever want to get like that....
Best do something about it matey ....
Thus here I am...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a domme partner for a very long time and she put me on her couples profile.
Then she went off in her direction and I went off in mine.
I came back to England and set up a single profile.
But this websight isn't very bdsm or FLR....
I think swinging is a different kind of weirdness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a domme partner for a very long time and she put me on her couples profile.
Then she went off in her direction and I went off in mine.
I came back to England and set up a single profile.
But this websight isn't very bdsm or FLR....
I think swinging is a different kind of weirdness. "
There are other sites more suited to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fun and frolics with like-minded women. I'm single and my friends are paired off and hard to get regular nights out with so when I heard about Fab I thought I'd give it a go as Mr winky had been on bread and water for 4 1/2 years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a domme partner for a very long time and she put me on her couples profile.
Then she went off in her direction and I went off in mine.
I came back to England and set up a single profile.
But this websight isn't very bdsm or FLR....
I think swinging is a different kind of weirdness.
There are other sites more suited to that. "
Can you inbox me a free one?
I'm on the social media version and don't really use it for dateing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have more wide ranging sexual experiences amd find that one partner who shares the same deviences as me to explore further together
One day I hope to tour across America on a motorbike with a woman going to every festival like 'burning man' etc and have as much sex as possible along the way....
one day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic. "
I've had some really nasty unprovoked ones.
2 tango |
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"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
I've had some really nasty unprovoked ones.
2 tango"
You definitely get a more graphic aggressive abuser here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like most joined to meet other swingers to have fun meets and to act out my fantasies, which in the last four years I have but still having a wonderful time meeting other sexy couples and single females |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
I've had some really nasty unprovoked ones.
2 tango
You definitely get a more graphic aggressive abuser here "
I've herd about some worse real life things that happened through this websight.
(Probably not allowed to mention)
Sometimes I get messages responding to my opinions in forum debate...
E.g. if it's pro life vs pro choice
Your inevitably going to get some enraged person inboxing you with something ridiculous...
....furthermore...
I went on a date with an online girl on and Friday. (Asked why she was constantly on her phone)...she was being harrased by a guy....I knew the guy! He was a convicted sex offender living in a new town!
She thought he was abit odd and abusive! I already knew him and didn't know he had been released from prison. |
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I recently left a long term relationship. Only been with one man since I was 16. I was interested in attending a bdsm event as I really enjoy being submissive/hurt etc. And a friend recommended to go to a club before diving right in at the deep end. First club meet I met a couple who told me to join on here. That was in January and I’m still here and met lots of brilliant people, some are still good friends. I really enjoy the social side too. It’s nice to get out and meet new people at clubs, have a drink and let myself go a bit. |
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By *am62Woman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Best thing I ever did, my friend did my profile for me, and I thank her as I've met some lovely genuine people and some now great friends who keep in touch. I was lonely and lost after a twenty year relationship. But not no more I ain't lol. No stress, no where is he, no washing socks and boxer shorts. No crap chatted in me lug holes.. BLISS..Fab is Fab. |
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"Best thing I ever did, my friend did my profile for me, and I thank her as I've met some lovely genuine people and some now great friends who keep in touch. I was lonely and lost after a twenty year relationship. But not no more I ain't lol. No stress, no where is he, no washing socks and boxer shorts. No crap chatted in me lug holes.. BLISS..Fab is Fab. "
. Brilliant...!! Love this reason.... Go girl..!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell u later
Tell us now  "
Ok time to spill
Soooo my mate told me in a pub years ago when i was married
Once that fell apart i joined a broken man lacking confidence
I got a few shags of a local hotty a couple weeks later but didnt like the coldness of the fuck and fuck off i wasnt ready for it during that time i found the forums had a good laugh but after another fuck and go deleted my account
Then realised i missed the forum banter rejoined just for that made a couple friends and before u know it id had a few socials made friends had lots of sex and lots more 1st experiences some good some bad some utterly nutty
And just as id had enough started to get closer to 1 girl in particular and im now as happy as iv been in a long long time
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I joined the usual dating sites a few years after my marriage broke up. I had only had a vanilla sex life and was quite self conscious sexually.
Got chatting to a guy on pof who was quite nice and then he gradually started talking about wanting feminised but I hadn’t heard of half of what he was talking about so he told me to join fab to open my eyes more and we kept chatting.
We then arranged to meet up and he let me down at the last minute (saying he fell asleep but I’m sure he just got cold feet) and we never met up but I have managed to broaden my horizons on fab so he did me a favour anyway. |
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Someone joined for me. I got all hoity-toity and told him I didn’t need the internet to get laid. Couldn’t resist a little snoop though. One snoop led to another. I deleted the profile he made and started a fresh one. This was September 2014 I think. I’ve not stayed away for long since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell u later
Tell us now
Ok time to spill
Soooo my mate told me in a pub years ago when i was married
Once that fell apart i joined a broken man lacking confidence
I got a few shags of a local hotty a couple weeks later but didnt like the coldness of the fuck and fuck off i wasnt ready for it during that time i found the forums had a good laugh but after another fuck and go deleted my account
Then realised i missed the forum banter rejoined just for that made a couple friends and before u know it id had a few socials made friends had lots of sex and lots more 1st experiences some good some bad some utterly nutty
And just as id had enough started to get closer to 1 girl in particular and im now as happy as iv been in a long long time
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see it was worth the wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got fed up with fellas lying on pof
Thought they'd be more honest on here!
Now there's a thought x
Wow! Stunning body
Thank you x"
Damn a smidge under your age so I cannot message you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got fed up with fellas lying on pof
Thought they'd be more honest on here!
Now there's a thought x"
they are at least here guys are up front that they want casual sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
That’s so depressing. Sorry you have to suffer that shit  "
dont be sorry just stop sending them |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
That’s so depressing. Sorry you have to suffer that shit dont be sorry just stop sending them"
You’re assuming I send abusive messages ? Why would you assume that ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
That’s so depressing. Sorry you have to suffer that shit dont be sorry just stop sending them
You’re assuming I send abusive messages ? Why would you assume that ? "
 it was a joke dude calm down |
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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
That’s so depressing. Sorry you have to suffer that shit dont be sorry just stop sending them
You’re assuming I send abusive messages ? Why would you assume that ? it was a joke dude calm down "
Ha ha *slow clap*
Not sure those getting the abuse found it funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I joined for the abusive messages you get a far higher number here than on other sites and they are far more graphic.
That’s so depressing. Sorry you have to suffer that shit dont be sorry just stop sending them
You’re assuming I send abusive messages ? Why would you assume that ? it was a joke dude calm down
Ha ha *slow clap*
Not sure those getting the abuse found it funny. "
i dub thee sir russ of fabalot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got fed up with fellas lying on pof
Thought they'd be more honest on here!
Now there's a thought xthey are at least here guys are up front that they want casual sex"
Yes but don't seem to understand that when we meet in person I will realise they're not 5'11  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got fed up with fellas lying on pof
Thought they'd be more honest on here!
Now there's a thought xthey are at least here guys are up front that they want casual sex
Yes but don't seem to understand that when we meet in person I will realise they're not 5'11 x"
i have a portable box |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's twofold, on the one hand it's a fairly decent way to chat with people I would never normally associate with, and also I like older women and tinder/bumble aren't really for finding cougars who like young guys |
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By *am62Woman
over a year ago
Bristol |
You don't get judged on fab.. Fat this fat that lol it gave me a complex and I've lost five stone now, and still going. Been called names on another site and it cuts you up but not on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I logged into fabswingers last year, but never gave it a chance and stopped using it after a day.. I came back on the 14th of January after a lady who I met from another app, told me "try fab swingers, you will get your cock sucked in no time" lol so I came back and now I feel as if I'm addicted to fab forums. |
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I joined to meet like minded pepple. People you can laugh and be really open with . That aren't going to judge you for just being you . You don't always find that here but that's ok. We are who we are x |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
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was told about it and was curious at 1st, started to enjoy the social side and thought it was great for no drama fun. How wrong was i on the drama front, people jst can’t handle rejection at all. Still enjoying fun with good friends i’ve made tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the social side as much as the naughtiness.
Unfortunately there are some sad individuals that will say and do anything for a bit of attention!
As for the rest, I've made some amazing friends through the scene both in and outside of clubs xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I didn't feel that being single should mean celibacy. And I like variety  "
Phooooaaarrr !! Great post.
I love the social side of Fab because can talk about anything and everything. Share happy memories and laughs. Anything after that when there is mutual chemistry, is...
Oh and as I enjoy my journey within the lifestyle... wherever that takes me... if I happen to come across a special connection where things just fall into place like they have for many already on here... well... we going to be enjoying an epic adventure together!
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Joined because I thought I would find lots of hot sexy ladies on here; I did of course but now I know that there are even more hot sexy men (for those ladies - not for me) I am here to chat, laugh and post crap in forums ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A women i work with told me that she would have sex with me but i had to join the site first. "
Sounds like she was trying to get you into a pyramid scheme |
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"We joined to fulfill our deepest sexual fantasies .
Which we did , and some
And grab a socail with me ya pair of fuckers "
There isn’t much we didn’t do , but that was certainly one of the few things we didn’t get to do ... but a social ?
Wtf .... Gloswingers never did socials ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thinking it was going to boost my confidence but yeah that back fired on me, no one told me that men will send you dick pics ask you for sexual favours and be blunt. And no one told me Asian men had it really difficult
But the photos are good. Go females |
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Been single for a number of years tried regular internet dating before I stumbled upon fab.
Nice to chat and meet people who are sexualy open minded. That are up for trying new and exciting things that you wouldn't meet in the vanilla world x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stumbled across the site with an ex partner just before I turned 19... me and him didn't meet anyone off here and we left.
After we broke up I joined back up as a single fem basically to have some fun without strings of a relationship.
Been on and off here ever since.
Social side is a lot of fun and well every so often a good shag meet adds to the bonus.
Just wish the drama lamas would naff off |
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