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Bi guys who are not open poll.
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This is for those who are actively seeking bi guys, men, women or couples. If you don't meet bi guys at all, please ignore.
So, if a guy who has straight in his profile, but says he his bi when he messages you, what's your attitude compared to openly bi men
1. I wouldn't meet him
2. I'd be less likely to meet him.
3. It would make no difference.
4. I'd be more likely to meet him.
Just type a number.
Assume you would otherwise be open to meeting him. I'm trying to gauge attitudes to men on the down low.
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over a year ago
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I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
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Bi curious chocolate boy, but who cares as labels are for knickers and such.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m on this sight really to meet girls , I have straight on my profile simple because I find most girls say they won’t meet bi men ,
My self I have had the odd encounter with the male side ,TVs to tell the truth ,but it does say on my profile that I would meet trans girls xx |
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over a year ago
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
Bi curious chocolate boy, but who cares as labels are for knickers and such. "
Time to update my profile then??
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over a year ago
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
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Try before you bi?  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are. |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are."
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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probably about a 1.5
although i'm not actively seeking I may still entertain the odd message, although most I've talked to put me off by being way too forward, like has been said here a lot most cocks are better in person and I don't need to see a picture |
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies |
mostly 2, but it all depends on the message they send, if its wuu2 it doesn't matter what the profile says, where as if it is a decent message with real words, there is a much better chance. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?"
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was. |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was."
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
"
I don't agree.
For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.
It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
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Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it 
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden "
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about? |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about? "
So you're not straight. Why lie about that, as a woman
I'm intrigued |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?
So you're not straight. Why lie about that, as a woman
I'm intrigued "
Because no one gives a shit if I lie and I don't contact couples saying I'm actually bi and would meet them, as I'm not looking to meet women on here.
I'm not actively bi, and I may never be again, but some men will fixate on it if I put it on my profile.
I have the opposite problem to men who lie about being bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
I don't agree.
For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.
It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.
"
After reading some of the posts, I'm beginning to see things in a different way |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about? "
Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question  |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?
Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question "
I change my mind like British weather. Today, and last night when I was with a man, I could have happily had a pussy on my face. Most of the time, and specifically on here, I don't think about women and I don't get the yearning. I don't see the point saying I'm bi on here, as it might make people think I'm here for women.
I'm very flakey when it comes to my sexual desires. |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?
Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question
I change my mind like British weather. Today, and last night when I was with a man, I could have happily had a pussy on my face. Most of the time, and specifically on here, I don't think about women and I don't get the yearning. I don't see the point saying I'm bi on here, as it might make people think I'm here for women.
I'm very flakey when it comes to my sexual desires. "
Isn't bi curious more accurate then? |
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"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?
As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.
What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?
Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.
Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?
Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it
There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden
I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?
Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question
I change my mind like British weather. Today, and last night when I was with a man, I could have happily had a pussy on my face. Most of the time, and specifically on here, I don't think about women and I don't get the yearning. I don't see the point saying I'm bi on here, as it might make people think I'm here for women.
I'm very flakey when it comes to my sexual desires.
Isn't bi curious more accurate then? "
No. I'm not curious about women, I just find it very rare that I want one. When I do I know exactly what I want to do with her. |
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i don't consider myself bi, but in an mmf i have sucked cock and had my cock sucked by the other guy. But i don't meet single guys as I'm not interested in them. should i be more upfront about my willingness to join in |
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
I don't agree.
For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.
It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.
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I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.
The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.
The 'looking for' information is all that's needed. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
I don't agree.
For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.
It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.
I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.
The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.
The 'looking for' information is all that's needed. "
And as I've said before in response to this suggestion - the "looking for" information would be exactly the same as defining your sexuality.
Single guy puts he's looking for men = bisexual
Single lady puts she's looking for women = bisexual
So no different from what there is now.
The *only* place it would make a difference would be for couples where it would create ambiguity. |
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"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).
I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).
If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.
Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?
I don't agree.
For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.
It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.
I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.
The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.
The 'looking for' information is all that's needed.
And as I've said before in response to this suggestion - the "looking for" information would be exactly the same as defining your sexuality.
Single guy puts he's looking for men = bisexual
Single lady puts she's looking for women = bisexual
So no different from what there is now.
The *only* place it would make a difference would be for couples where it would create ambiguity."
If I just said I was looking for men they'd assume I was straight not bi. |
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By *emini ManMan
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I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.
The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.
The 'looking for' information is all that's needed.
And as I've said before in response to this suggestion - the "looking for" information would be exactly the same as defining your sexuality.
Single guy puts he's looking for men = bisexual
Single lady puts she's looking for women = bisexual
So no different from what there is now.
The *only* place it would make a difference would be for couples where it would create ambiguity.
If I just said I was looking for men they'd assume I was straight not bi. "
And that's my point exactly - using the "looking for" field would be no different from using the sexuality field, so your suggestion is invalid, apart from possibly to couples where it would just create ambiguity. |
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