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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes it says I've been blocked and I've never seen them or talked to them before.
It's not the same message that comes up when women have blocked all men.
Hope I'm making sense. |
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I have only recently used the block button, and not often.
If I've come accross
someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.
They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block. |
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Some people just block who they’re not interested in if they notice you’ve looked at them. We’ve done it before and people have done it to us. Saves time as if they’ve blocked you, you can’t message them. Don’t worry about it smile. Their loss and move on x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
Sometimes I block men I don’t like the look of, sometimes I block men who are too local, or who I’ve seen on the forums and don’t wish to contact outwith the forums.
People block for plenty of reasons. Don’t worry about it. |
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" Sometimes it says I've been blocked and I've never seen them or talked to them before.
It's not the same message that comes up when women have blocked all men.
Hope I'm making sense. "
I block lots of people I've never interacted with.
They appear on my local updates, negative status & off putting pics. Blocked.
I check Who's Near, and Who's Viewed me, if they don't meet my preferences. Blocked.
It's nothing personal, but it saves people wasting their time, and mine sending messages that will just get deleted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just clicked on a ladies profile and it said I'm blocked and wouldnt allow me to view the profile and another one, it allowed me to view the profile.. But said I was blocked when I clicked on the message thing.  |
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" Sometimes it says I've been blocked and I've never seen them or talked to them before.
It's not the same message that comes up when women have blocked all men.
Hope I'm making sense.
I block lots of people I've never interacted with.
They appear on my local updates, negative status & off putting pics. Blocked.
I check Who's Near, and Who's Viewed me, if they don't meet my preferences. Blocked.
It's nothing personal, but it saves people wasting their time, and mine sending messages that will just get deleted "
Same here... |
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"I just clicked on a ladies profile and it said I'm blocked and wouldnt allow me to view the profile and another one, it allowed me to view the profile.. But said I was blocked when I clicked on the message thing. "
Then she's blocked all men from messaging her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have only recently used the block button, and not often.
If I've come accross
someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.
They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block."
Same.
I know I won't remember them in a day's time, so I want to make sure I don't waste any precious time on them in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they've seen you in here on the forum and take a dislike for whatever reason or they know you from the real world.
I'm still dying to discover someone from the real world in here.... |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"I just clicked on a ladies profile and it said I'm blocked and wouldnt allow me to view the profile and another one, it allowed me to view the profile.. But said I was blocked when I clicked on the message thing. "
Obviously the first one did a search and blocked you to stop you coming up in the search and the second is probably has settings set so your age, gender or something stops you messaging. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"The block button is a wonderful and underused feature on here. "
amen to this....
i dont see how some get so upset/annoyed if people clearly want nothing to do with them...
is it the challenge of "well i can change their minds...."
you get one chance to make a great first impression..... if that impression isn't a positive one, thats not really on them! |
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Since I ran my ‘am I on your hot list’ test that brought all sorts out of the wood work I block anyone who doesnt fit my tick list to prevent me being on their hot list and continually perving my pics.... it’s my prerogative to do so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have only recently used the block button, and not often.
If I've come accross
someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.
They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block."
I do the same. Also if I think a guy will sleep with anyone on the site with no standards then I block them too. I know it’s harsh but.... |
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I have based off of forum posts before. A bit of a 'if you're going to be a tit then you're not seeing my tits' kind of thing I suppose...
Not saying that that's what this is OP, just that more things could get you a block. People are fickle.
V x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah some people judge very quickly.
For instance I once jokingly asked a woman to marry me and she took it litterally  no matter what I said after that was no good and she blocked me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah some people judge very quickly.
For instance I once jokingly asked a woman to marry me and she took it litterally no matter what I said after that was no good and she blocked me. "
leason learned? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be women randomly blocking men in their area, so they don't see their profiles, just in case they know that person, or wanting to keep their meets a distance from their locality. I know of a few who do this. It's not personal, just their preference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be women randomly blocking men in their area, so they don't see their profiles, just in case they know that person, or wanting to keep their meets a distance from their locality. I know of a few who do this. It's not personal, just their preference "
I used to do that a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?  "
If you are talking about forum people blocking, could be they didn't like something you've posted. I've been blocked a lot. I don't always realise, until i click on a random profile and see I can't view it. It happens to most. I just counter block, when I notice |
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"Could be women randomly blocking men in their area, so they don't see their profiles, just in case they know that person, or wanting to keep their meets a distance from their locality. I know of a few who do this. It's not personal, just their preference "
I have a 20mile exclusion zone! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah some people judge very quickly.
For instance I once jokingly asked a woman to marry me and she took it litterally no matter what I said after that was no good and she blocked me. leason learned?"
Yeah I'm learning to stay off fab when I'm d*unk lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?
If you are talking about forum people blocking, could be they didn't like something you've posted. I've been blocked a lot. I don't always realise, until i click on a random profile and see I can't view it. It happens to most. I just counter block, when I notice "
Yes forum women and some who I have found when searching for locals.
Counter block haha I like that
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Yes some women demanded to meet me one night late in a leyby for some fun I said to get I was unavailable and not into meeting randoms I’ve never spoken too she said I was a waster and blocked me lol. No
I just valued respect and safety and like to get to know people first. |
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"I have only recently used the block button, and not often.
If I've come accross
someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.
They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block."
This for us too along with if they have veris from others that we wouldn’t wish to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I think there are a number of women who blocked me because of the crap I post on the forum, because of my profile text or because of my age, sexuality, marital status or simply not finding me remotely attractive enough. My biggest surprise was that there weren’t more, but I’ve realised that’s because I’m pretty irrelevant to those that haven’t.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?
If you are talking about forum people blocking, could be they didn't like something you've posted. I've been blocked a lot. I don't always realise, until i click on a random profile and see I can't view it. It happens to most. I just counter block, when I notice
Yes forum women and some who I have found when searching for locals.
Counter block haha I like that
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Stops them from potentially having a sneaky peak, when I'm offline |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No but i've had three women block me immediately after reading/deleting my message.
No dick pic, no pet names, just a regular message with a picture attached. I'm used to people reading and not replying, makes sense not to bother if you're not interested, but outright blocking me just seems a little OTT  maybe I made them dryer than a butt-first slide down a sand dune, who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocking really isn't personal, in many ways I like it... if local girls block me, it saves me having to sift through their profiles if I'm looking for a new potential meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually return the favour if they block me and just block them in return so they can't see my profile even if they decide to unlock..."
But then you miss out on the chance to see them coming crawling back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "
Maybe its something you have posted its happened to a lot of people on certain threads over the years. |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
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I think 'Block' carries the wrong connotations and would have been better called 'Hide' as that is what it's used for really.
We can browse and look back at those that have winked/looked at us. If they are not what we are looking for then we will block them so we don't interact in searches. To us it is just a way of hiding those we have no immediate interest in or our preferences don't align.
We also block people that are too local to us too, as we have a rule that we won't meet people in our own small town due to having public facing jobs.
I'm sure some people must wonder what is going on when they are in the middle of looking at our profile, at the same time we view theirs, decide they are not of interest to us and hit the block button.
There is no malice in it, there is just no point in having those individuals potentially wink or message us if they're profile doesn't interest us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "
I block a lot. If someone annoys me in the forum I block. I block all people nearby. I block for loads of reasons. I wouldn’t take it personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "
Were you hoping to chat or perhaps meet someone who has made it clear they want no correspondence from you?
Counter block them, that'll teach them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you sure they blocked you?
you messaged me a few times the other night saying I had blocked you and I very obviously had not"
Now we're getting somewhere! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't think I would get so. Many replies to this.
Thanks to everyone who replied. I'm going to put it down to me being in their area, my profile and things I have posted in forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you sure they blocked you?
you messaged me a few times the other night saying I had blocked you and I very obviously had not"
That was just me being d*unk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block women who pop up on my local updates whose statuses or photos make me or .
Oh my status is proper shite too "
That's pretty awful in fairness. I'll let it slide though as you have wings  |
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "
Mate , we’ve been blocked by half the forum !
Not only would we never speak one to one with them , least of all ever even want to meet them , but it’s just the way it is .
Don’t worry about it , at least it saves you wasting your time messaging them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?
Mate , we’ve been blocked by half the forum !
Not only would we never speak one to one with them , least of all ever even want to meet them , but it’s just the way it is .
Don’t worry about it , at least it saves you wasting your time messaging them "
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"Just noticed I can't message some people because I'm not a site supporter.
Good job I like the forums so much "
It's a setting on you profile you can blanket block certain groups ie no verifications not site supporters.0 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just noticed I can't message some people because I'm not a site supporter.
Good job I like the forums so much
It's a setting on you profile you can blanket block certain groups ie no verifications not site supporters.0 "
Ohh, I didn't know you could blanket block groups of people.
That explained alot |
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