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In profiles most line items are self explanatory apart from “athletic/average/curvy etc”. I am about 11 stone in relatively good shape and call
myself average. It really is all about how you se yourself, I’d also call myself fabulous. I am interested what people see as these different labels and are they really important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’m curvy. But, as someone pointed out on the forums a wee while back, curvy is actually for women with small waists, thick hips and a big chest and small legs. I’m therefore not curvy, I’m fat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am what I am!....fairly average with a few curves....some in the right places, some not!! Don't think there is a tick box for that description?!! Lol!  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use curvy because I have a big arse a small waist and medium to large size boobs and a pot belly, I go in and out so therefore I’m curvy! Pictures are your best guide. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I say curvy because I'm fatter than average but ample is such a shit word. I have a visible waist so curvy seems OK. I don't pay much attention to that though, just look at the pictures. |
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"I say curvy because I'm fatter than average but ample is such a shit word. I have a visible waist so curvy seems OK. I don't pay much attention to that though, just look at the pictures. "
Ample is a dreadful word. It conjures up images of large built, matronly old ladies. I can't imagine any of us want to be described in that way  |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I say curvy because I'm fatter than average but ample is such a shit word. I have a visible waist so curvy seems OK. I don't pay much attention to that though, just look at the pictures.
Ample is a dreadful word. It conjures up images of large built, matronly old ladies. I can't imagine any of us want to be described in that way "
I describe myself as ample  |
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I don't think there is any other way to do size / shape descriptions.
Everyone will have their own perspective on their own body. I felt that curvy best described me.
Photos show that those curves are currently on the generous side, along with a tummy.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've recently changed mine from athletic to average because some of the blokes on here would put me to shame lol I'm working on being able to change it back though |
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I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either ."
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "
fabulous does not mean fat in my world |
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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "
Cracking bum too :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!! |
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "
Yeah I'm a stranger to the "rate me" threads. |
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!"
. Well I'm clearly not in my right mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!"
I've put average! I was slim back when I was Nell and now I'm a bit bigger.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!
. Well I'm clearly not in my right mind"
I'd be worried if you were |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!"
 right mind has obviously taken a holiday! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Descriptions are subjective and photos can be deceptive. The only true way of knowing is meeting face to face.
If you’re that hung up on size details then don’t meet online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!
right mind has obviously taken a holiday!"
Well you've given up apparently so average would work for you. It's not exactly a way of selling yourself is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put pretty as that’s what Mr says I am I get confused about the definition of curvy as I have curves and get told I’m curvy, but only have small boobs, so put average xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either .
Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.
Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!
right mind has obviously taken a holiday!
Well you've given up apparently so average would work for you. It's not exactly a way of selling yourself is it? "
I’m not looking to sell myself though so yes I think average is a word that best describes my body type, which is the context it’s relating to on here.
It certainly doesn’t describe my personality or looks which are fabulous... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I've described myself as accurately as possible.
Much as labels may make people squeamish on here, it's the only way of communicating with any relative degree of accuracy who we are and what we look like. In keeping with that, I'm athletic, because I am! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I'm P, and I'm a dancing on ice addict.
Just back from work and watching the final on catch up so shhhhhhh.
Physically I ain't got a clue what I am. Small n squishy with boney bits I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I’m curvy. But, as someone pointed out on the forums a wee while back, curvy is actually for women with small waists, thick hips and a big chest and small legs. I’m therefore not curvy, I’m fat "
You have an amazing body!! Def not fat!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would describe myself as average as curvy can sometimes be misconstrued as meaning fat. My lack of confidence definitely determines my view of my body. |
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