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Are threesomes overrated ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve never had a threesome, always been just short of getting the numbers together, (usually 2 short etc). But I’ve thought long and hard about the logistics of a threesome, both MMF and MFF, mainly MFF though.
Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ But then say the ladies started getting it on and I wasn’t needed, I’d feel like a spare prick.
Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?!
So my question to those sexually pioneers out there in Fabland, is did it live up to expectations and did you run into logistically problems you didn’t envisage. Or did you think never again I’ll stick with one on one ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really is a minefield and best avoided.
Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It really is a minefield and best avoided.
Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left "
Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t worry about either of the ladies feeling neglected by you in a FFM as usually the guy is more of s spare wheel if both women are truely bi
In my exsperience that is but that is usually my main reason for doing it |
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By *riggler90Couple
over a year ago
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I love a good mff! I'm a bisexual lady so if I'm enjoying some willy then lady can be happily sat on my face. They can even kiss which is like a sexy triangle. Of course sometimes it doesn't go so well and if Im in a club and Im getting left out I'll either whine like an abandoned puppy (joking) or leave them to it and find some alternative action to join in with  (not joking) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t worry about either of the ladies feeling neglected by you in a FFM as usually the guy is more of s spare wheel if both women are truely bi
In my exsperience that is but that is usually my main reason for doing it "
I wouldn't mind being a spare wheel in a mff, plus a could always watch during those moments when my penis isn't needed lol
Go for it Tame, you'll not know fully till you try it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really is a minefield and best avoided.
Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left
Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it. "
Have you tried a club? Could be a good way to dip your toes as it were. |
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no they are not overrated. I enjoy them but my preference is me and three guys just works best for me. One of my gentlemen friends got a mardy on as me and the other woman werent paying him any attention  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never had a threesome, always been just short of getting the numbers together, (usually 2 short etc). But I’ve thought long and hard about the logistics of a threesome, both MMF and MFF, mainly MFF though.
Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ But then say the ladies started getting it on and I wasn’t needed, I’d feel like a spare prick.
Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?!
So my question to those sexually pioneers out there in Fabland, is did it live up to expectations and did you run into logistically problems you didn’t envisage. Or did you think never again I’ll stick with one on one ? "
I’m only interested in MFM and my one and only one so far was so worth it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It really is a minefield and best avoided.
Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left
Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it. "
I refuse to believe you have a fragile ego |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ "
Deli counter style tickets should prevent any confusion. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?! "
Had three fab meet threesomes, two were great, the other, meh, that's all I'll say. The multitasking was the hardest part, two cocks to entertain at the same time but got the hang of it by the third time, not overrated.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’
Deli counter style tickets should prevent any confusion. "
Always thinking! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It really is a minefield and best avoided.
Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left
Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it.
I refuse to believe you have a fragile ego "
I’d storm off in a huff, not that they would notice! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with. "
But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I think it's best not to overthink these things. I don't have much experience but the times I have been indulged have been just amazing. Especially the mff where the guys knew each other and 1 was a regular lover of mine Both straight but neither had any issues with cock rub |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.
But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other. "
Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.
But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.
Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer "
The countdown clock |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.
But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.
Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer "
What are you logistic coordinator from threesomes or something ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.
But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.
Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer
What are you logistic coordinator from threesomes or something ? "
Now that should totally be a job! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.
But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.
Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer
The countdown clock "
Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had some really good fmf experiences that mainly fall into 2 categories.
A) dominant male directing actions of 2 submissive females
B) 2 females having fun sharing a male
When it hasn't worked, is when I haven't really been compatible with the other female. I like to share and take turns regularly (swaps) regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We very very recently found a new partner, it was a magnificent experience again and I’m not exaggerating when I say that finding a woman that fancies both of us and we both fancy her can lead to the most intense spontaneous fuck fest imaginable.
No tame, not overrated if all three are in lust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve never had a threesome, always been just short of getting the numbers together, (usually 2 short etc). But I’ve thought long and hard about the logistics of a threesome, both MMF and MFF, mainly MFF though.
Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ But then say the ladies started getting it on and I wasn’t needed, I’d feel like a spare prick.
Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?!
So my question to those sexually pioneers out there in Fabland, is did it live up to expectations and did you run into logistically problems you didn’t envisage. Or did you think never again I’ll stick with one on one ? "
No, they are fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It really is a minefield and best avoided.
Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left
Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it.
Have you tried a club? Could be a good way to dip your toes as it were."
Which one do you club first?  |
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We've had one and it was better than we could ever have imagined! It probably helped that we knew her, and that both females are bi. It was unexpected but there was no awkwardness at all and we were all careful not to take any liberties. It was beautiful and can't wait for next time! |
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"We've had one and it was better than we could ever have imagined! It probably helped that we knew her, and that both females are bi. It was unexpected but there was no awkwardness at all and we were all careful not to take any liberties. It was beautiful and can't wait for next time! "
Now that sounds like fun and well orchestrated. I've done MFM which is great with the two guys on the same wavelength. Need to get involved in a good FMF and be piggy in the middle to try out the differences. |
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