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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath 
I’m not the cliche giver ... |
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If I feel slightly crap nothing cheers me up and certainly not a bath.
I think telling people who feel rubbish to do something like go for a nice walk is slightly dismissive. Far better to give them a big hug, sit them down and tell them it's OK to feel awful for a bit but if it carries on to seek out the cause and if possible change that or seek professional help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ... "
slightly crap as in ill? A nice bath with scented candles and procecco |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Last night i did a jigsaw ... its really good for making you put your phone down and get off social media and keeping your brain engaged enough that you cant spiral negative thoughts |
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ... "
Trek to the nearest hill or mountain and SCREAM like you've never screamed before........then leg it before farmer gets ya.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ... slightly crap as in ill? A nice bath with scented candles and procecco"
As in just meh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ...
Trek to the nearest hill or mountain and SCREAM like you've never screamed before........then leg it before farmer gets ya..... "
I may need a farmer to get me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I either hide away till the mood passes or phone my friend. Guaranteed she can always snap me out of it and have me laughing in no time x"
Good plan |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ... slightly crap as in ill? A nice bath with scented candles and procecco
As in just meh "
not ill then just not feeling it ,what about a movie ,a comedy liar liar or the mask or Bruce almighty |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ... "
I imagine I have access to the button that blows up the world and I keep pushing it and close my eyes and watch it burn. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??
Anyhoooooo
Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath
I’m not the cliche giver ...
I imagine I have access to the button that blows up the world and I keep pushing it and close my eyes and watch it burn."
Fucked up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm feeling that way today too. Cleaning my kitchen to feel I've achieved something then going for a bath .
We all have off days, sometimes weeks or months. However things do get better.
It's always okay in the end. If it's not ok then it's not the end x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm feeling that way today too. Cleaning my kitchen to feel I've achieved something then going for a bath .
We all have off days, sometimes weeks or months. However things do get better.
It's always okay in the end. If it's not ok then it's not the end x"
Nice philosophy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anything involving avocado.....
Smashing 
Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance).
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People put them on their faces. What's the difference? |
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If I'm just having a meh day, shower, shave my legs, put fresh bedding on as well as clean PJ's and get back into bed feeling the awesome sensation on my legs! Combined with a mug of tea and a chick lit novel, I'm much better after a few hours.
If it's a mild depressive episode, my self care escalates as far as I can manage it- glass of water, then brush teeth, then wash face, shower if I can cope, wash hair next, then try to eat something nutritious that doesn't need much prep (fruit works well)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anything involving avocado.....
Smashing
Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance)."
Smashing sounds so violent.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I felt like this the other night, stag run me a lovely bubble bath and I soaked in there forever. I put some of my favourite songs on and relaxed. I felt so much better after.
I guess it depends on why they are feeling the way they feel. Is it just a bad day or has something happened. Sometimes just meeting up for a coffee and a chat will make everything all good again x |
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By *MP3Man
over a year ago
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"Anything involving avocado.....
Smashing
Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance).
People put them on their faces. What's the difference?"
When you said smash I was picturing something fairly vigorous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what is making them feel shit, if I told my best friend to have a bath when she’s grieving for her Mum she’d kick my head in.
If it’s something trivial then music, walks, and the like can make you feel a bit better.
A bath is actually a good idea though, when I felt shit about that guy last year I didn’t bath or do anything other than brush my teeth for 3 days. Didn’t even brush my hair, I did feel better after a bath and washed my hair!
When I’m feeling particularly stressed or shit, I eat, and I eat crap foods. |
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