Hey everyone,
Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??
Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?
I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.
People who reply with one word answers piss me off!
Rant over and happy Sunday everyone
Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It regularly changes , but it’s dependent on how you feel.
It’s changed for me at the moment hence I spend less time on here. Forums are the same really - mails are the same but it’s actually me that’s not bothered
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love it 
You haven’t always though
No but i live in the now
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift thats why its called present  "
Seriously thoughtful quote 
I’m being pedantic
It can be hard work - it’s so fucking cheesy at the moment that I come armed with crackers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love it
You haven’t always though
No but i live in the now
Yesterday is history
Tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift thats why its called present
Seriously thoughtful quote
I’m being pedantic
It can be hard work - it’s so fucking cheesy at the moment that I come armed with crackers "
it can be your right im just in a happy mood for now so taking advantage if it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use fab for the forums and couples profile to meet. I love fab but I do occasionally get fed up and leave but I always come back as I miss you lot so much x |
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I do through phases with it. Sometimes I get bored of it and leave it alone for weeks and months, but other times I really enjoy it, like now after a long break away. I've accepted to enjoy it when it's good and leave it alone when it feels like a chore. |
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"Hey everyone,
Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??
Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?
I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.
People who reply with one word answers piss me off!
Rant over and happy Sunday everyone
Xx
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Up your age range as a lot of older people can only talk about it and talk a lot about loads of other stuff too from knee pain to bunions and worse. |
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By *hill44Man
over a year ago
hinckley |
"Hey everyone,
Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??
Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?
I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.
People who reply with one word answers piss me off!
Rant over and happy Sunday everyone
Xx
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Yes it can be hard messaging on here ,much better a face to face social I find |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"I cba to chat to many people on here and would rather meet and socialise in person."
i cracked the screen on my phone so its not 100% clear. I read that as would rather meet and socialise in prison! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s what you make of it. Sometimes it can be exceptionally rewarding. There are however many occasions it can be tough.
I enjoy it, the forums can bring some light hearted relief at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I habe stopped actively looking for meets so I end up going with the flow and occasionall chatting with people without the pressure of trying to chase the elusive meet.
When my mojo is back, things might change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone,
Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??
Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?
I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.
People who reply with one word answers piss me off!
Rant over and happy Sunday everyone
Xx
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I agree one or two word answers are a nightmare but many women in their initial replies don't have more time than to say thanks until of course you generate some kind of rapor and then conversation ensues ,it takes two to create good conversation |
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"I cba to chat to many people on here and would rather meet and socialise in person.
i cracked the screen on my phone so its not 100% clear. I read that as would rather meet and socialise in prison! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep intending to leave as I'm really not feeling it at all anymore, then somebody talks me in to staying but each time I do stay I then start feeling like I'm more motivated to leave.
One of these days I will leave.... |
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I've mostly noticed it's not the site. It's where I live and the demographics thereof. I've pretty much given up on trying to message people to arrange meets, sick of writing thoughtful messages that languish, unread. |
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"I've mostly noticed it's not the site. It's where I live and the demographics thereof. I've pretty much given up on trying to message people to arrange meets, sick of writing thoughtful messages that languish, unread. "
It’s the same a little further up the M5 too. People say you get what you put in to FAB...I disagree.
But, that said, I appreciate what it’s like for us blokes and how inundated women get.
Just think it’s a shame everyone gets tarred with the same brush, that’s all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been on and off here for years and there has been a definite shift in how interaction plays out, maybe it’s just me older and wiser, it’s getting more difficult to get anything going, I find the forum the best place to be, even if it’s just for a nosey, I know there are many that love it now and I am still a regular every day, but it has changed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I habe stopped actively looking for meets so I end up going with the flow and occasionall chatting with people without the pressure of trying to chase the elusive meet.
When my mojo is back, things might change."
I’m a bit like that at the moment, think we’ll just meet at clubs now MrsC x |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Hey everyone,
Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??
Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?
I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.
People who reply with one word answers piss me off!
Rant over and happy Sunday everyone
Xx
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If you don't like the way someone converses delete block move on.. simples.
The day I stop enjoying fab (for whatever reason ) I'm off... I'm here for fun not to add to the stress of the real world.  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"I've mostly noticed it's not the site. It's where I live and the demographics thereof. I've pretty much given up on trying to message people to arrange meets, sick of writing thoughtful messages that languish, unread.
It’s the same a little further up the M5 too. People say you get what you put in to FAB...I disagree.
But, that said, I appreciate what it’s like for us blokes and how inundated women get.
Just think it’s a shame everyone gets tarred with the same brush, that’s all. "
but on the other hand, where i live there is a saturation of profiles so it could also work against us in that way too maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just need that South Yorkshire spirit back, most OG FAB and club swingers simply expect the same respect for play time that we give, some newer swingers unfortunately haven’t had that respectful play pleasure. Enjoy who or what you play with when you do...remember you are absolutely fucking FABulous xxxx |
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"I've mostly noticed it's not the site. It's where I live and the demographics thereof. I've pretty much given up on trying to message people to arrange meets, sick of writing thoughtful messages that languish, unread.
It’s the same a little further up the M5 too. People say you get what you put in to FAB...I disagree.
But, that said, I appreciate what it’s like for us blokes and how inundated women get.
Just think it’s a shame everyone gets tarred with the same brush, that’s all. but on the other hand, where i live there is a saturation of profiles so it could also work against us in that way too maybe? "
Where you live (London/Essex) is where I've had the best results when it comes to meeting people... So yeah either dumb luck or maybe that part of the world is friendlier! |
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