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"Since when did fab become such hard work
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
Think it depends on the sunshine!"or the moonlight | |||
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"The only hard thing about fab is spotting the freaks in time." I make it easy and put it on my profile | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
" but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might."Carried away? What do you mean? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might."They’ve got to separate the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to get through. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
They’ve got to separate the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to get through." | |||
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"The only hard thing about fab is spotting the freaks in time. I make it easy and put it on my profile" As I've always said if blokes where betting looking I'd be gay. Sadly they are and I'm not but it would help if everyone did that on there profile | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
Think it depends on the sunshine!or the moonlight "Or the good times.. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? "Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though."value what are they cattle | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"As with all place's it has its ups and downs. But I've not found it hard work to be honest. But then I suppose we all use the site in different ways. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though."Ah right. No, Op, right now I'm finding the site the most enjoyable I have in some time. I hope you find it less hard work soon. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
They’ve got to separate the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to get through."An awful lot, but I have strong arms and am bloody minded. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though."If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded?"They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded?"To right | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."Maybe the want someone decent? | |||
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My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first! | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? "So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem? In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."You're talking quantity, when many women are more interested in quality | |||
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"Full of fools and liars" Agreed | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first! "So why work at it? If there's no chat you're not compatible. Do the searching, it's easier. | |||
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"A bit of hard work never hurt anybody! So... Fancy a shag op? "Somebody had to say it | |||
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"I’m new to the site so intriguing reading the posts. For me it’s been hard work gettin to know people, but that’s to be expectedwhen you’re new. I suppose it depends what you’re after and if the site can provide it in an accessible way. Just a newbies take. "Men struggle to be seen here because there are so many of you compared to other demographics, particularly women. Unfortunately that doesn't change when you're not new. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."I'm looking for someone where there's evidence that they might be interested in me, not just any flesh hole, and someone I'll be safe with. Oh no, I'm so demanding! | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
You're talking quantity, when many women are more interested in quality "More men would mean more chance of finding somebody with "quality". | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first! "Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."but if you have to filter thru 99 to get to the 1 it stops being fun and becomes work i know that would do my head in completelly | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
You're talking quantity, when many women are more interested in quality More men would mean more chance of finding somebody with "quality"."Not necessarily! | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."Cherry picking? You mean only meeting the people they really want to? Shock horror that | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."I'm not moaning; neither are the women with pics of them with gym rats. I'm doing rather well | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!
So why work at it? If there's no chat you're not compatible. Do the searching, it's easier. " Agreed with this. When I want to find someone I do the searching and it's not failed me yet. If the conversations are like drawing blood from a stone, cut your losses and move on to a better one. I've done it numerous times over the years, you don't gel with everyone. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier. I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem. Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? | |||
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"A bit of hard work never hurt anybody! So... Fancy a shag op? "I would | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Cherry picking? You mean only meeting the people they really want to? Shock horror that "They're not if they're moaning when it is handed to them on a plate on here. I don't moan about this site and I'm a single guy. | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!
Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic. "Being older doesn't guarantee riveting conversation. Fancy a chat? | |||
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"Nothing worth having came without effort...wise words.." i disagree never worked hard in my life got lots of things worth having | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers? Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide. I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it?"The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes. | |||
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"I do message people first! I’ve been on fab for years and have met a lot of people. I was merely noticing the dynamics of the site have changed "Were taking back the power  | |||
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"I do message people first! I’ve been on fab for years and have met a lot of people. I was merely noticing the dynamics of the site have changed "Is that because other forums have closed, like tumblr and that’s driven people to here? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. "No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality. I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes. "Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?! | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually."But the same could be said of men I think. | |||
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"I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening. Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist. " | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy."And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? | |||
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"I don’t find it hard work. If I did I would probably just hide for a while and hopefully come back refreshed "Seconded | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes. "If they are getting more and more men from the top of the tree maybe that means they are desirable to those men. Just because you don't fancy them, it doesn't mean men more attractive than you can't. You don't find me attractive, because I'm fat, yet my long term partner does and he's a 10 | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
shussh and get back in that kitchen where u belong i want breakfast "Oooop sorry, just popping my apron on now... | |||
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"I hear you! We previously left our old profile after 2 or 3 weeks as the constant messages from idiots and general rudeness was off putting. We decided to try again, have tighter filters and be more ruthless with the old delete and block when a twat slips through the net. But it's still not much 'fun' and it's a good job we don't take it too seriously or *need* to do this. So far I've: Planned to meet one guy for a coffee who then cancelled on the day. Met one man for a coffee who immediately text to say he'd like 'more' but stopped talking to me when I wasn't interested in seeing dick pics/engaging in dirty chat/swooning over him. Built up good rapport with one guy who just stopped chatting and.removed himself from out friends list with no apparent reason. Arranged for one guy to join us when we travelled to Cardiff on a mini break, only for him not to stand up. So yeah OP, I totally hear you. Hopefully the market will refresh and you'll soon be knee deep in lovely suitors! " I get the "I don't do sex chat and pics" conversation out of the way from the start. That eliminates the wankers. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
shussh and get back in that kitchen where u belong i want breakfast
Oooop sorry, just popping my apron on now... "good girl | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...?"Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."That doesn’t really help if 95 of them aren’t worth meeting though | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them. "Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually."Actually what you're talking about is a worse kind of misogyny... | |||
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"Don't knock the chaff too much, they have needs too. Not talking about liars etc. I think fab has always had cycles of increased wasters being common - it's probably linked to factors outside of here" Someone's chaff is another person's wheat. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy."And do you think the men on here have a healthy sense of reality? | |||
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"I found that it's me not taking it too seriously that makes it hard work; talking to too many men at once and not in the right frame of mind to meet anyone new. I need a shag by the shoulders to liven myself up." Is that a pub kaitlyn ? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And do you think the men on here have a healthy sense of reality? "hope i dont the real worlds shite in comparison | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"You’re not gonna be everyone’s cup of tea, don’t let it get to you.. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? "Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
Actually what you're talking about is a worse kind of misogyny...
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they."corse they would i met shit loads last year and still moaned like fuck about it | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And do you think the men on here have a healthy sense of reality? "Some do, some don't but I would say it affects women more. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"I think your profile name is going to be a small problem  | |||
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"Always has been for a guy like myself. Ignored, messed about, abused etc etc. But one keeps trying, being polite and non pushy and when it works, it works well. Shame there’s an influx of time wasters and ghosters atvthe moment. " There’s men that timewaste too | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"Hello you! I find that when it stops being fun, it's time for a break. It shouldn't feel like a chore! K x | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"Nicely put, good luck with tht one | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!
Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic. "And if she does that, she will get plagued by people she doesn't want to meet asking for meets, they don't want just chat in my experience. They think if you have a chat with them they are owed something. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"phwoooaaarrrr | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they."I don't see that many women moaning. Who would be moaning about fucking loads of hot men? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
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"It can be hard because I make it that way... If I was less fussy I would be having a hell of alot more naughty fun" Stay fussy. Never ever drop your standards. It ain’t worth it.  | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they."I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used? | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!
Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic.
And if she does that, she will get plagued by people she doesn't want to meet asking for meets, they don't want just chat in my experience. They think if you have a chat with them they are owed something. "Plenty of people under 50 are capable of stringing sentences together, and plenty of people over 50 aren't. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually."I had a good giggle at that last statement. You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think. Yeah, you're not a feminist. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy."But it is their reality. | |||
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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos
My veris say I’m friendly ha!
I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!
Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic.
And if she does that, she will get plagued by people she doesn't want to meet asking for meets, they don't want just chat in my experience. They think if you have a chat with them they are owed something.
Plenty of people under 50 are capable of stringing sentences together, and plenty of people over 50 aren't. "That's right I talk in sentences all the time and I'm not 50 no way! And some really old people are in homes and can't talk in sentences at all | |||
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"Always has been for a guy like myself. Ignored, messed about, abused etc etc. But one keeps trying, being polite and non pushy and when it works, it works well. Shame there’s an influx of time wasters and ghosters atvthe moment. There’s men that timewaste too " Agreed and there probably the worst as there’s lots of them. They also pretend to be couples and display pics of unaware wife/gfs. That’s not nice. Still we keep trying eh | |||
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since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
But it is their reality. "I didn’t even need to scroll up to see who that was 
If people who aren’t overly attractive (like me) get a confidence boost from the attention on fab, does it really have any affect on anyone but themselves? Some people can make huge demands on fab, it’s up to you if you go along with them. If someone thinks they’re attractive and you don’t, don’t message them. It’s honestly as easy as that. No need to tear others down just because you think it’s got to their head or whatever.
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.
I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?
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" I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality. I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually. I had a good giggle at that last statement. You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think. Yeah, you're not a feminist. " | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.
I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?
They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard."You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy? | |||
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" I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality. I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually. I had a good giggle at that last statement. You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think. Yeah, you're not a feminist. "There’s a bit of “mansplaining” in there too, just to add patronising to the anti-feminist stuff | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
Think it depends on the sunshine!or the moonlight
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist. "Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
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" I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually. I had a good giggle at that last statement. You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think. Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1. "Giggling even more. That makes no sense. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.
I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?
They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.
You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy?"I'm not looking for a relationship. I make that clear. A lot of single women are on here even if they say they aren't.. They use this as some kind of alternative dating site. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1. "WTH?!!! That doesn’t make any sense!! | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.
I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?
They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.
You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy? I'm not looking for a relationship. I make that clear. A lot of single women are on here even if they say they aren't.. They use this as some kind of alternative dating site. "Oh and of course all the single men on here are unattached too! People can use the site however the hell they like in my opinion (as long as they are not harming anyone else) | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1.
WTH?!!! That doesn’t make any sense!!"I agree with some feminist ideas but not all. I'm like a libertarian on gender equality. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.
I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.
Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.
Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.
And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.
Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.
I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?
They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.
You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy? I'm not looking for a relationship. I make that clear. A lot of single women are on here even if they say they aren't.. They use this as some kind of alternative dating site.
Oh and of course all the single men on here are unattached too! People can use the site however the hell they like in my opinion (as long as they are not harming anyone else) "I know they can they I just like letting them know that some men will promise you the world for a fuck. A lot of women know this but some don't it seems. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1.
WTH?!!! That doesn’t make any sense!! I agree with some feminist ideas but not all. I'm like a libertarian on gender equality."You're either a feminist or you're not. There's no inbetween. You cannot pick and choose what aspects of feminism you agree with and claim that you're kind of a feminist. You're just a man with an opinion. | |||
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"I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening. Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist. " Or just block everyone and search yourself surely that’s the solution right | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef "It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?"Get the iron out | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?"That's ok if u like men tho as theres lots on here that like other men too. 1 of them on here likes me but I told him I'm not into guys | |||
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"Think there a a few who ruin it for the majority, make it an unenjoyable experience! Hopefully just a phase.." Switch that around and you would be right! | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?"You're not selling yourself here. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
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"I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening. Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist. " I’ve had a few dark messages, like there’s no way I’m going to even going to read the whole thing let alone reply - block, delete, repeat. What is wrong with some people | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
You're not selling yourself here. "I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist. "Basically my point. A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that. I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them. Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
You're not selling yourself here.
I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt"I don't give a monkey's. You're coming across as unpleasant, arrogant, unable to have a basic conversation, etc. I'd swerve for all of those reasons even if your penis excited me. Which it does not. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"Since it became a popularity contest for singles. | |||
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"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites Since non swingers joined Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really" Yes! This | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
Since it became a popularity contest for singles. "Not sure what you mean? | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist.
Basically my point.
A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.
I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.
Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean "I never said I'm a feminist though. Your progressive attitude must affect your ability to comprehend what I'm saying sometimes then. | |||
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" Yeah, you're not a feminist. Basically my point. A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that. I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them. Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean " | |||
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"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites Since non swingers joined Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really Yes! This "Yes, it's now a hook up site. Sometimes it feels like you can't move for 'straight' men wanting phone wanks/group wanks etc, not to mention the glory holes, fuck and go meets and general kinkstering. I feel that in being inclusive to a broader audience, it has lost its core ethos a bit. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"Yeah, me too I joined for the meat These messers need to quit wiv their messin' | |||
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"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites Since non swingers joined Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really Yes! This
Yes, it's now a hook up site. Sometimes it feels like you can't move for 'straight' men wanting phone wanks/group wanks etc, not to mention the glory holes, fuck and go meets and general kinkstering.
I feel that in being inclusive to a broader audience, it has lost its core ethos a bit."You forgot women looking for surrogate boyfriends/husbands. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist.
Basically my point.
A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.
I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.
Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean I never said I'm a feminist though. Your progressive attitude must affect your ability to comprehend what I'm saying sometimes then. "If by progressive attitude you mean being able to read when you use the words "I'm more of a feminist" then yes. Comprehending what you're saying generally isn't difficult, I do wonder sometimes though if you actually understand what you're saying. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
You're not selling yourself here.
I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt
I don't give a monkey's. You're coming across as unpleasant, arrogant, unable to have a basic conversation, etc.
I'd swerve for all of those reasons even if your penis excited me. Which it does not. "I see what's happening as Im not stupid. Ur not a man pretending to be a lady cos ur verifications say so but I think u only got into dark mode when I started having chew with the guy who needs viagra. R u 2 seeing each other | |||
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"The actual site is more often than not hard work not the offshoots such as clubs.Clubs are more straightforward. Go visit, get down and dirty or not, but always stimulating in some way, also Face to face many things can be seen or sensed and detoured around, but on the site that is not the case." This has absolutely nothing to do with ratios. I would rather there be 10 genuine women on here and five of them have no interest in me than what has to be waded through to get to the gems. Thats why clubs are better and thats been said many times here. My definition of a genuine woman someone who is kind and humble even if they are not interested in joining up with me. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.
Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.
If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.
Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?
In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.
Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?
Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.
I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.
I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.
I had a good giggle at that last statement.
You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.
Yeah, you're not a feminist.
Basically my point.
A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.
I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.
Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean I never said I'm a feminist though. Your progressive attitude must affect your ability to comprehend what I'm saying sometimes then.
If by progressive attitude you mean being able to read when you use the words "I'm more of a feminist" then yes.
Comprehending what you're saying generally isn't difficult, I do wonder sometimes though if you actually understand what you're saying. "Saying I'm more of a feminist than you think doesn't equate to saying I'm an actual feminist. no you're frequently wrong and quick to judge assuming I'm a bigot etc when I have veris off bisexual couples when I have just played Straight. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
You're not selling yourself here.
I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt
I don't give a monkey's. You're coming across as unpleasant, arrogant, unable to have a basic conversation, etc.
I'd swerve for all of those reasons even if your penis excited me. Which it does not.
I see what's happening as Im not stupid. Ur not a man pretending to be a lady cos ur verifications say so but I think u only got into dark mode when I started having chew with the guy who needs viagra.
R u 2 seeing each other"Never met the man. It might just be possible that I'm a real woman who thinks you're being a jerk. | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
You're not selling yourself here. "In a swing he'll probaly be gone soon once he realises that it's not hook a fuck Him and his wrinkly member Pal welcome to the forums where genuine likeminded people chat banter and have a good old laugh and are not just int in getting there penis wet The exits over there | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"yep got to agree..hard work lately and ive been on an off this site for about 10 yrs | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
"It's what you allow it to be..... | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
You're not selling yourself here.
In a swing he'll probaly be gone soon once he realises that it's not hook a fuck
Him and his wrinkly member
Pal welcome to the forums where genuine likeminded people chat banter and have a good old laugh and are not just int in getting there penis wet
The exits over there "But you commented on his cock? Body shaming? | |||
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"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites Since non swingers joined Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really Yes! This
Yes, it's now a hook up site. Sometimes it feels like you can't move for 'straight' men wanting phone wanks/group wanks etc, not to mention the glory holes, fuck and go meets and general kinkstering.
I feel that in being inclusive to a broader audience, it has lost its core ethos a bit.
You forgot women looking for surrogate boyfriends/husbands. "So maybe the site should just be for couples? I'm ok with that, if it makes things more streamlined.This is coming from a straight single man who interacts with couples on Fab. No conspiracy theories here but more people = more potential revenue for site. Fab cannot be all things to all men which unfortunately by accident or design it sells itself as. | |||
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"Fab is a great tool for swingers who've met at clubs to keep in touch with each other. That's about it. " And for seeing your sexy pics | |||
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"Since when did fab become such hard work
since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK
Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef
It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?
That's ok if u like men tho as theres lots on here that like other men too. 1 of them on here likes me but I told him I'm into guys"come on sweetheart | |||
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