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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

I don't know, but I like your skirt!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

Slow news day perhaps. They know you'll bite. Let them entertain themselves maybe they'll wear themselves out.

You did nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't know, but I like your skirt! "

It’s my 9 year old child’s! I can’t even do it up at the back!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Your stories, I told you already!

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't know, but I like your skirt!

It’s my 9 year old child’s! I can’t even do it up at the back!"

Haha! Love it. It makes for a nice picture, just don't turn around

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Banging tits!

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By *ink Panther.Woman  over a year ago

Preston

You are endearing but not to everyone. There are some on Fab I find far from endearing but others think the sun shines out of their arses. That’s life unfortunately lovely, not everyone will find you endearing

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By *HaRiFMan  over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I dunno, it's a hard one some times people take a dislike to someone for unknown reasons and its hard to shake off. When it happens to me I just make light of it and carry on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Your stories, I told you already!"

I haven’t had sex for 14 months, no new stories or experiences to share!

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

I like the over the knee socks you're wearing.. well... not the socks.. more the sexy legs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Your stories, I told you already!

I haven’t had sex for 14 months, no new stories or experiences to share!"

Boring! Boring isn't hot!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. "

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

You can’t please everyone all the time and you have never tried to, you can’t be endearing to those that aren’t endeared to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fucking hell you made my minge twinge with your boobs

Danish x

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me."

You've hid your profile.. nothing to fab dear

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me."

Should she just be a sillouhette in order to be taken seriously?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me.

You've hid your profile.. nothing to fab dear"

There isn't anything to fab when it's not hidden dear :P

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me.

You've hid your profile.. nothing to fab dear

There isn't anything to fab when it's not hidden dear :P"

Well I won't bother then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can’t please everyone all the time and you have never tried to, you can’t be endearing to those that aren’t endeared to you "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me.

Should she just be a sillouhette in order to be taken seriously? "

Or for any male that agrees with her not to be called a sycophant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You get no attention from me, with your hot little ass, none at all!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman  over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Wouldn't worry about them. If they took time out of their day to be bitchy at you then you got their attention and they've no right to complain about you wanting that.

That made sense is my head.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago.

and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her.

Fab me."

I'd give anyone a fab who asks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ignore em.. They re only jealous.. Looking as good as you, well worth putting yourself out there and tbh are we not all seeking attention putting pics up.. Love yours btw

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By *he Ring WraithMan  over a year ago

Bradford

Okay you have my attention ! Now what ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? "

I used to be one that rolled my eyes (I never put it on the forum!) and we crossed swords a few times in the past. You used to irritate me. I think you were something like sea witch at the time.

Now, I actually think you’re one of the more genuine posters who does post what she’s thinking. You use the site how you see fit, and it works for you. You’re alright. I’d even go so far as to agree with a lot of what you say.

Fab would be poorer without you.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I could give you explanations but part of my reasoning is you don’t really want to know which is why you start threads on the same subject until you like the answers.

Prime example last week re your CV.

You appear to be endearing to the majority OP and no one can be everyone’s cup of tea.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

What we arguing about today?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

I used to be one that rolled my eyes (I never put it on the forum!) and we crossed swords a few times in the past. You used to irritate me. I think you were something like sea witch at the time.

Now, I actually think you’re one of the more genuine posters who does post what she’s thinking. You use the site how you see fit, and it works for you. You’re alright. I’d even go so far as to agree with a lot of what you say.

Fab would be poorer without you.

"

That’s fucking decent that is, thank you, that’s nice to read

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By *imandher84Couple  over a year ago

Leeds

Don't get bogged down in those that blow smoke up your arse nor those that piss on your chips... What eloquent metaphors

Anyway my point is don't over analyse the good nor the bad, we can spend that long wondering why/how/what/where/when that before we know it it has passed, good and bad. So to put it as an old friend of mine did when i was struggling.. Stop fecking whinging.

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Moloko - Pure Pleasure Seeker

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwmoMaB6VWc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Send hugs to every one.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've seen you post for a very long time and I've enjoyed your posts, you have a vulnerability about you which I find quite human, underneath the 'takes no shit' demeanour.

No one can be everyone's cup of tea and only those that dislike you could honestly tell you why they do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ignore them mate. Probably jealousy. You crack me up. Always have. I think people probably take you too seriously that’s the problem. If you’ve got it flaunt it and you’ve got it

Ps The thing that made me laugh more than anything else has on here was the scrunched up loo paper in your knickers. .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont really mind love i do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You have great taste in men, so I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You have great taste in men, so I like you."

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"Ignore them mate. Probably jealousy. You crack me up. Always have. I think people probably take you too seriously that’s the problem. If you’ve got it flaunt it and you’ve got it

Ps The thing that made me laugh more than anything else has on here was the scrunched up loo paper in your knickers. . "

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By *he riverdeep69Couple  over a year ago

North west ish

Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't tend to take a dislike to anyone on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. "

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal"

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too "

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience."

Me too. It's hell.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience."

What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother?

My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults.

Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive.

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience."

To be fair I think some that are not considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse as well ... from what I hear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience."

No I’m not new. Quite ironic that comment really. There’s me saying don’t let it get to you when that’s exactly what I did. Hypocritical much. Not worth it though, it’s t’internet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too "

An observation based on numerous posters and their style of interaction, occasionally it comes back and bites them on the arse.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple  over a year ago

North west ish


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

Me too. It's hell. "

It's a cross we have to bare!! Especially seeing as I wouldn't fuck single males from here.

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By *adyA01Woman  over a year ago

Wellington

I like you xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother?

My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults.

Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive."

. And you always know who it’s going to be too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience."

I don’t remember Bunny Hop getting abuse but I do recal her sometimes posting conflicting statements, I’m not sure who Dotty is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

To be fair I think some that are not considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse as well ... from what I hear. "

I'm not saying they don't and very desirable is an ambiguous definition as anyone can fit that description. But it's just an observation made. And to be fair I've even received messages from other women calling others attention seekers etc

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother?

My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults.

Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive."

Absolutely! The forums would be a better place for it as well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? "

Lib and Crackers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

I don’t remember Bunny Hop getting abuse but I do recal her sometimes posting conflicting statements, I’m not sure who Dotty is."

I do, I even got messages from other women calling her an attention seeker. I mean like wtf?

That's why I firmly believe hiding your veris is a good idea.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? "

Cheese.... With crackers!!

Okok... A creamy blue cheese, something crumbly and mature and perhaps a spicy alternative

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose.

We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round.

So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You're real and you're raw.

I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people"

You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are.

You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all.

That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character.

Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book.

P

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

To be fair I think some that are not considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse as well ... from what I hear.

I'm not saying they don't and very desirable is an ambiguous definition as anyone can fit that description. But it's just an observation made. And to be fair I've even received messages from other women calling others attention seekers etc "

I believe you but it makes me sad to think it is that way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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"I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're real and you're raw.

I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people"

You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are.

You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all.

That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character.

Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book.

P"

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've noticed you get the odd snidey comment to. I can only think that it's because on occasion you have started or joined in with a thread and said how attractive you think you are and how you think you are better than most women.

That's going to annoy some people. I quite like your threads, I find them funny but they do usually go a bit sour.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose.

We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round.

So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow "

i argue with myself daily

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about

"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board?

Cheese.... With crackers!!

Okok... A creamy blue cheese, something crumbly and mature and perhaps a spicy alternative"

Im crumbly and mature. Come to think of it , I'm a bit blue an all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose.

We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round.

So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow i argue with myself daily "

I do too

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham

I know it's difficult sometimes.... But you know what?

Maybe we should just all treat each other like we would like to be treated. Maybe the apparent attention seeking (I don't think the last post was BTW) wouldn't happen if people felt loved and others were kind. Kindness is free to give and precious to get - I would hate to think I'd made someone feel upset by something written on a place as trivial as a Fab Forum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? "

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No chutney?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No fruit?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sick of it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about

"

altho the ones who shine my penis make me happy even the egopenis so win win

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know it's difficult sometimes.... But you know what?

Maybe we should just all treat each other like we would like to be treated. Maybe the apparent attention seeking (I don't think the last post was BTW) wouldn't happen if people felt loved and others were kind. Kindness is free to give and precious to get - I would hate to think I'd made someone feel upset by something written on a place as trivial as a Fab Forum "

Very well said

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner"

Is that supposed to be a compliment

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

You don’t need to be endearing. Just be yourself and ignore the shady bitches. Responses just fuel their fire. Leave them to rot in their own sour milk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sick of it! "

Libster....

Get your own threadaroo

Maybe you have and I've just not seen it yet.

P

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board?

Cheese.... With crackers!!

Okok... A creamy blue cheese, something crumbly and mature and perhaps a spicy alternative

Im crumbly and mature. Come to think of it , I'm a bit blue an all."

Ah but is there an inclusion of spiciness!?!

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner

Is that supposed to be a compliment "

That's what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner"

whats a pornstar looklike

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You don’t need to be endearing. Just be yourself and ignore the shady bitches. Responses just fuel their fire. Leave them to rot in their own sour milk. "

Love that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You're real and you're raw.

I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people"

You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are.

You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all.

That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character.

Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book.

P"

Nope, mic drop! My number 1!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

I don’t remember Bunny Hop getting abuse but I do recal her sometimes posting conflicting statements, I’m not sure who Dotty is.

I do, I even got messages from other women calling her an attention seeker. I mean like wtf?

That's why I firmly believe hiding your veris is a good idea."

Or just rise above the drama llama level.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You don’t need to be endearing. Just be yourself and ignore the shady bitches. Responses just fuel their fire. Leave them to rot in their own sour milk.

Love that "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sick of it!

Libster....

Get your own threadaroo

Maybe you have and I've just not seen it yet.

P"

Ssshh... I'm trying to steal the attention.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner"

There you go, lass! rack up a point on the arse licker board.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sick of it!

Libster....

Get your own threadaroo

Maybe you have and I've just not seen it yet.

P

Ssshh... I'm trying to steal the attention. "

I bloody know

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose.

We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round.

So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow "

I’d agree with this!

I’m definitely not jealous of you op as I’m happy with who I am - flabby bits et al! Sometimes I find you vulnerable and endearing- sometimes I find you annoying and self absorbed and I’ll make no bones about it - I’m not two faced!

However - I wouldn’t want you to leave fab or the forums for your own sake - as I think you use the forums as a kind of therapy at times - and the forumites as your agony aunts and uncles - and your own little Jiminy Cricket! It’s an unusual way to use the forums and fairly unique in itself - and as such it’s bound to cause contention at times!

However - if you allow yourself to be harried off here by forumites who don’t like you/approve of what you say (and I’ll confess I don’t always approve of what you say) - then where will you go? Who’ll be your Jimini Cricket? Because I think that’s something you definitely need!

In the meantime, as I said, when it comes to the heart I think you should try a ‘proper ‘ relationship dating site - not a shagging site! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've noticed you get the odd snidey comment to. I can only think that it's because on occasion you have started or joined in with a thread and said how attractive you think you are and HOW YOU THINK YOU ARE BETTER THAN MOST WOMEN.

That's going to annoy some people. I quite like your threads, I find them funny but they do usually go a bit sour.

"

Hang on, I never say I think I’m better than most women. That’s other people’s interpretation on what I actually say. Yeah I call myself hot and comment on me being attractive but that’s me talking about myself. I never actually say I’m better than most women.

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By *ellowyellowXMan  over a year ago

cardiff

I like your business cards, subtle of white colouring. Even has a watermark.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner

Is that supposed to be a compliment "

Indeed your a 10/10 flipping sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner"

Glorious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner

Is that supposed to be a compliment "

its a worldy this kid knows how to graft

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

I don’t remember Bunny Hop getting abuse but I do recal her sometimes posting conflicting statements, I’m not sure who Dotty is.

I do, I even got messages from other women calling her an attention seeker. I mean like wtf?

That's why I firmly believe hiding your veris is a good idea.

Or just rise above the drama llama level.

"

Easier said than done and I'm guilty of saying the above myself.

Not everyone is super head strong or mentally resilient, so when a lot of negativity piles up in your personal life it can really get into your head.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You're real and you're raw.

I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people"

You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are.

You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all.

That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character.

Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book.

P"

This

You were Seawitch and Teabags and Fag and Slippers when I was on before so I know what you're describing.

You're brutally honest and frank which is unusual, especially in a woman. Some people will view it as arrogance and might be intimidated about how unashamedly you address things, ANY things!

As pp's have already said, what does it really matter if not everyone likes you? Such an outspoken person will always attract attention, both positive and negative. It's up to you whether you chooses to engage with the negative stuff or not.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan  over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

This thread's gotten a lotta attention judging by post rate. Jus sayin!

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Edit your posts down people - it makes this thread too long to read.

I don't buy the jealousy shtick (as said by a poster above). It's an easy way of belittling others.

You don't like everyone Op. You don't get along with everyone. Other people are the same. You do get a lot of shit. You have, on occasion, given some out. I dunno. Carry on as usual, you'll never win everyone around so you might as well do you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've disagreed and rolled my eyes several times on some of your threads OP but more for the frustration, as mentioned above, for seemingly not actually wanting to listen to advice or opinions than anything else.

If this comes across as dislike that's not the case at all and I'll gladly apologise if it's ever come across that way. It's incredibly hard sometimes to read comments as they are intended from people you don't know.

I respect you for your brutal honesty at times even if I disagree with points you make. That's what makes forums interesting and we can't all agree all of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like your business cards, subtle of white colouring. Even has a watermark."

You like the colouring? That’s bone.

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By *ellowyellowXMan  over a year ago

cardiff


"I like your business cards, subtle of white colouring. Even has a watermark.

You like the colouring? That’s bone. "

Always.

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By *risrugbyfanMan  over a year ago

yate

A wise person said to me to save your mental health stop living your life online (fb,Instagram, fab or whatever site )and actually go out and meet people .live in the real world ,not behind a keyboard /screen where nearly every thing is photo shopped or fake .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just be who you are, you can't really avoid it. I didn't get where I am today by giving a toss what other people think....oh, wait..

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I will also say though that for good or I'll, very few people attract comments on their threads as you do. Not just in terms of number but in terms of actual engaged content.

Like you or not, people engage with your threads. Isn't that kind of the point?

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

I’ve learnt it’s a much more enjoyable experience on here to not give a fuck when people make it clear they don’t like you or your opinions .

I’ve been accused of lacking empathy loads of times , and you seem to be similar . You say it as you see it . You’re honest and open , and you think it’s better to possibly hurt someone’s feelings and help them , rather than say nothing . You’re not a sycophant like loads of the other forumites . You won’t just say nice things to gain favour or to get yourself liked . This approach won’t win you universal lauding , but does that really matter ?

I like the open , honest and candid way you come across on here . But having said that , it probably isn’t me you’re trying to appease . If you want to be universally liked on here I suggest you just say nice things to everyone all the time , and never say anything remotely controversial . Always show the utmost sympathy to everyone who needs it , even if they don’t deserve it and have caused their own issues . Never make any comments about size , weight , skin colour , age , sexual preference , spelling and grammar , politics , music likes , how to bring kids up , etc.....

Always make comments about how you like cake and biscuits , join in on BBW chat and say what food you are enjoying as you’ve had a miserable day , say how happy you are that your children’s school is recognizing gender issues and that it’s about time tampon bins were put in the boys toilets . Follow this advice and you’ll soon be the most popular forumite ever

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know, but I like your skirt!

It’s my 9 year old child’s! I can’t even do it up at the back!"

too many pies eh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve learnt it’s a much more enjoyable experience on here to not give a fuck when people make it clear they don’t like you or your opinions .

I’ve been accused of lacking empathy loads of times , and you seem to be similar . You say it as you see it . You’re honest and open , and you think it’s better to possibly hurt someone’s feelings and help them , rather than say nothing . You’re not a sycophant like loads of the other forumites . You won’t just say nice things to gain favour or to get yourself liked . This approach won’t win you universal lauding , but does that really matter ?

I like the open , honest and candid way you come across on here . But having said that , it probably isn’t me you’re trying to appease . If you want to be universally liked on here I suggest you just say nice things to everyone all the time , and never say anything remotely controversial . Always show the utmost sympathy to everyone who needs it , even if they don’t deserve it and have caused their own issues . Never make any comments about size , weight , skin colour , age , sexual preference , spelling and grammar , politics , music likes , how to bring kids up , etc.....

Always make comments about how you like cake and biscuits , join in on BBW chat and say what food you are enjoying as you’ve had a miserable day , say how happy you are that your children’s school is recognizing gender issues and that it’s about time tampon bins were put in the boys toilets . Follow this advice and you’ll soon be the most popular forumite ever "

Hahaha. Love it. Best advice yet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Edit your posts down people - it makes this thread too long to read.

I don't buy the jealousy shtick (as said by a poster above). It's an easy way of belittling others.

You don't like everyone Op. You don't get along with everyone. Other people are the same. You do get a lot of shit. You have, on occasion, given some out. I dunno. Carry on as usual, you'll never win everyone around so you might as well do you. "

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I’ve learnt it’s a much more enjoyable experience on here to not give a fuck when people make it clear they don’t like you or your opinions .

I’ve been accused of lacking empathy loads of times , and you seem to be similar . You say it as you see it . You’re honest and open , and you think it’s better to possibly hurt someone’s feelings and help them , rather than say nothing . You’re not a sycophant like loads of the other forumites . You won’t just say nice things to gain favour or to get yourself liked . This approach won’t win you universal lauding , but does that really matter ?

I like the open , honest and candid way you come across on here . But having said that , it probably isn’t me you’re trying to appease . If you want to be universally liked on here I suggest you just say nice things to everyone all the time , and never say anything remotely controversial . Always show the utmost sympathy to everyone who needs it , even if they don’t deserve it and have caused their own issues . Never make any comments about size , weight , skin colour , age , sexual preference , spelling and grammar , politics , music likes , how to bring kids up , etc.....

Always make comments about how you like cake and biscuits , join in on BBW chat and say what food you are enjoying as you’ve had a miserable day , say how happy you are that your children’s school is recognizing gender issues and that it’s about time tampon bins were put in the boys toilets . Follow this advice and you’ll soon be the most popular forumite ever "

And the award for the most passive aggressive post goes to....

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By *hatterley64Couple  over a year ago

Hertford


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? "

Don’t worry about it.

Everyone on Fab is seeking attention in one way or another.

I know I am!!!

(Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Don’t worry about it.

Everyone on Fab is seeking attention in one way or another.

I know I am!!!

(Mrs"

Many of the forumites pretend not to be but are the biggest attention tarts going!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. "

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish

Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)

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By *r.BlondeMan  over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? "

Just keep it real sister! Represent when people on are holidays

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think you are stunning. Way too far away but still.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm personally just annoyed at people's lack of enthusiasm for cheese boards.

Deleting profile later.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I'm personally just annoyed at people's lack of enthusiasm for cheese boards.

Deleting profile later. "

Said the actress to the stinking bishop.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm personally just annoyed at people's lack of enthusiasm for cheese boards.

Deleting profile later.

Said the actress to the stinking bishop.

"

Hi Estella.

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I'm personally just annoyed at people's lack of enthusiasm for cheese boards.

Deleting profile later.

Said the actress to the stinking bishop.

Hi Estella. "

Busted.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)"

Funny as fuck.

Even funnier when you think a couple of days ago she said she doesn't beg for Fabs.

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By *hatterley64Couple  over a year ago

Hertford


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that?

Don’t worry about it.

Everyone on Fab is seeking attention in one way or another.

I know I am!!!

(Mrs

Many of the forumites pretend not to be but are the biggest attention tarts going!"

Don’t think it’s just on the forum..

Some statuses cry out ‘Look at me’ too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can't make everyone like you, so why waste time or energy giving a shit about it.

If someone baits, ignore it. Are the opinions of online strangers really worth getting worked up over.

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)

Funny as fuck.

Even funnier when you think a couple of days ago she said she doesn't beg for Fabs. "

Changes her mind daily - but many of us do I think?

I remember putting a status up yonks ago saying I wouldn’t post another picture until I’d lost a stone!

Think I lost a pound before I put another dozen pics up!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)

Funny as fuck.

Even funnier when you think a couple of days ago she said she doesn't beg for Fabs. "

Think she’s being ironic!

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)

Funny as fuck.

Even funnier when you think a couple of days ago she said she doesn't beg for Fabs.

Think she’s being ironic!"

But it sure is funny when people don’t get that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bit of brie, some apple...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple..."

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple..."

Pear is my preference, and stilton

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"Bit of brie, some apple..."

A tart chutney or caponata too please.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? "

Oh heaven! With crusty bread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? "

I'd dip that so deep.

Would you like me to dip that, deep?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that?

I'd dip that so deep.

Would you like me to dip that, deep?"

. Flippin ek Lola. You can’t refuse that!

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"You can't make everyone like you, so why waste time or energy giving a shit about it.

If someone baits, ignore it. Are the opinions of online strangers really worth getting worked up over. "

Exactamundo

Oh... And I do have some rather delicious Farmhouse Chutney to accompany my cheese troughing!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Have you seen the op’s latest status?

Feckin brilliant!

(I reserve the right to steal it and use it later!)

Funny as fuck.

Even funnier when you think a couple of days ago she said she doesn't beg for Fabs.

Think she’s being ironic!

But it sure is funny when people don’t get that. "

Irony can get you into a whole heap of trouble on here!

Once offered a revolving door gangbang for five hundred fabs or something daft - wasn’t half an hour before someone offered to nick a door!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that?

I'd dip that so deep.

Would you like me to dip that, deep?"

It’s only about an inch deep, so just the tip?

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By *ust PeachyWoman  over a year ago

Prestonish


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that?

I'd dip that so deep.

Would you like me to dip that, deep?

. Flippin ek Lola. You can’t refuse that! "

I’ve got palpitatations! I’m either horny or middle age has caught up with me!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that?

I'd dip that so deep.

Would you like me to dip that, deep?

. Flippin ek Lola. You can’t refuse that!

I’ve got palpitatations! I’m either horny or middle age has caught up with me! "

Haha. Must admit that gave me a little tingle!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bit of brie, some apple...

I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that?

I'd dip that so deep.

Would you like me to dip that, deep?

. Flippin ek Lola. You can’t refuse that!

I’ve got palpitatations! I’m either horny or middle age has caught up with me!

Haha. Must admit that gave me a little tingle! "

Got to love a tingle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not saying the following because we've met, nor want to meet I'm going to say the following based on my opinion of you and your posts.....

I think you're great! Your posts make me chuckle and long may they continue. Even your status made me lol. You have a great sense of humour and you like asking interesting questions.

I don't understand the negativity you've received in the past. I can't say I've ever seen you deserve the horrid attitudes others have given you.

So what if you enjoy people looking at you. So what if you enjoy other people throwing compliments at you. This is FAB. This is a social networking site. This is exactly the place to be to present yourself in any way you see fit.

The issue isn't you! I think alot are envious of your figure. Not jealous but envious. The green eyed monster brings out the worst in a person. Then there's the men who you dare to reject. You can't win and I doubt you ever will.

Chin up pretty lady! Keep rolling your eyes and continue to work FAB however you think best for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm not saying the following because we've met, nor want to meet I'm going to say the following based on my opinion of you and your posts.....

I think you're great! Your posts make me chuckle and long may they continue. Even your status made me lol. You have a great sense of humour and you like asking interesting questions.

I don't understand the negativity you've received in the past. I can't say I've ever seen you deserve the horrid attitudes others have given you.

So what if you enjoy people looking at you. So what if you enjoy other people throwing compliments at you. This is FAB. This is a social networking site. This is exactly the place to be to present yourself in any way you see fit.

The issue isn't you! I think alot are envious of your figure. Not jealous but envious. The green eyed monster brings out the worst in a person. Then there's the men who you dare to reject. You can't win and I doubt you ever will.

Chin up pretty lady! Keep rolling your eyes and continue to work FAB however you think best for you. "

Word! That’s nice to read and appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words "

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? "

Welcome home

Chin up, don't look back, just straight ahead ! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board?

Lib and Crackers"

With smashed avocado.

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same "

but there's a difference between abusive messages and flippant comments on a moderated thread

Cant like everyone its human nature to get rubbed up the wrong way by different personalitys everyone isnt everyones cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same but there's a difference between abusive messages and flippant comments on a moderated thread

Cant like everyone its human nature to get rubbed up the wrong way by different personalitys everyone isnt everyones cup of tea

"

I wouldn't refer to rude and unpleasant comments on a thread as flippant.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same but there's a difference between abusive messages and flippant comments on a moderated thread

Cant like everyone its human nature to get rubbed up the wrong way by different personalitys everyone isnt everyones cup of tea

I wouldn't refer to rude and unpleasant comments on a thread as flippant. "

I agree with LMS but I suppose sometimes the context is hard to read and the content is actually someone point of view that agree or not needs to be respected.

It’s people that press ‘send inbox’ and purposefully make a point of telling someone nasty things that are hard to fathom for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same but there's a difference between abusive messages and flippant comments on a moderated thread

Cant like everyone its human nature to get rubbed up the wrong way by different personalitys everyone isnt everyones cup of tea

I wouldn't refer to rude and unpleasant comments on a thread as flippant.

I agree with LMS but I suppose sometimes the context is hard to read and the content is actually someone point of view that agree or not needs to be respected.

It’s people that press ‘send inbox’ and purposefully make a point of telling someone nasty things that are hard to fathom for me. "

Agreed. At least what's said in the forum is there for everyone to see.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You have a mind of your own and opinions... There will always be people that don't agree with you, and will take your opinions far more personally that they should...

Some people take a disagreement in one thread, so personally that it jades their view on anything you post.

Nothing you can really do about it, so just carry on being you!

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By *mstillere2Man  over a year ago

middleport

What i have seen so far you seem pretty nice and great pics plus your finger smells of teen spirit whats not to like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother?

My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults.

Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive."

Well said.. We are what we are but some feel they have to state their case instead of just going on their way... Sad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. "

Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that.

It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant.

Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that.

It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. "

Thats not attenti9n seeking its a re run like big bang theory on e4

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You engage with the negative posters, giving them more excuse to engage in return. Why not simply ignore the downers?

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

..


"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre.

My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people.

I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words

Reminds me of those who sympathise with people who've received abusive messages, whilst being guilty themselves of sending same "

Absolutely

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By *ire_bladeMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Haha I've missed you op

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By *iss.HoneyWoman  over a year ago

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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet.

That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway).

I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either.

OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal

People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too

Are you new to the forums?

Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse.

BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience.

I don’t remember Bunny Hop getting abuse but I do recal her sometimes posting conflicting statements, I’m not sure who Dotty is."

Yeah, probably why people got a bit miffed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant.

Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that.

It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. "

What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it.

Or do a new one.

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By *ire_bladeMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant.

Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that.

It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do.

What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it.

Or do a new one. "

Fanny prep now that's a thread we all need in our lives

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No fruit? "

How about quince jelly?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant.

Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that.

It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do.

What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it.

Or do a new one. "

It’s actually called fanny prep but it’s full, just had a read through it and as expected, loads of negativity there as well. That was 4 years ago I think!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking.

Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking.

I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there.

I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation?

I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people.

I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? "

Question is are you an attention seeker?

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Ah the fanny prep thread! It's odd seeing how many have UNLOSed since. I find that sort of thing really fascinating, more threads with an insight like that into someone's sex life would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fondest congrats on reaching number one in the tit parade OP.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just dropped in to say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just dropped in to say hello."
is it me your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book.

However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think?

Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant.

Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that.

It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do.

What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it.

Or do a new one.

It’s actually called fanny prep but it’s full, just had a read through it and as expected, loads of negativity there as well. That was 4 years ago I think!"

4 years! Time for a new fruity fanny thread.

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