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"I don't know, but I like your skirt! ![]() It’s my 9 year old child’s! I can’t even do it up at the back! | |||
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"I don't know, but I like your skirt! ![]() Haha! Love it. It makes for a nice picture, just don't turn around ![]() | |||
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"Your stories, I told you already!" I haven’t had sex for 14 months, no new stories or experiences to share! | |||
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"Your stories, I told you already! I haven’t had sex for 14 months, no new stories or experiences to share!" Boring! Boring isn't hot! | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() and she's good looking with a good body and you'd like to fuck her. Fab me. | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() You've hid your profile.. nothing to fab dear | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() Should she just be a sillouhette in order to be taken seriously? | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() There isn't anything to fab when it's not hidden dear :P | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() Well I won't bother then ![]() | |||
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"You can’t please everyone all the time and you have never tried to, you can’t be endearing to those that aren’t endeared to you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() Or for any male that agrees with her not to be called a sycophant | |||
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"I'm only fabbing your stuff because you're an awesome forumite with a cool personality , you like mortal Kombat and you fabbed a one my pics a few weeks ago. ![]() I'd give anyone a fab who asks | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() I used to be one that rolled my eyes (I never put it on the forum!) and we crossed swords a few times in the past. You used to irritate me. I think you were something like sea witch at the time. Now, I actually think you’re one of the more genuine posters who does post what she’s thinking. You use the site how you see fit, and it works for you. You’re alright. I’d even go so far as to agree with a lot of what you say. Fab would be poorer without you. | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() That’s fucking decent that is, thank you, that’s nice to read ![]() | |||
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"You have great taste in men, so I like you." ![]() | |||
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"Ignore them mate. Probably jealousy. You crack me up. Always have. I think people probably take you too seriously that’s the problem. If you’ve got it flaunt it and you’ve got it ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() Well said ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() That’s true. I’ve disgareed with people before and received abuse, mostly about how jealous I am of them. I have no need to be jealous of anyone and I’m not (not over something as trivial as looks anyway). I don’t actively dislike anyone on this site either. OP I’m unsure - you can’t win everyone over. Just don’t interact with them. It’s all fine and dandy disagreeing with people but some people like to make it personal | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() People are bitchy and nasty on her posts though. You see it all the time. What’s the point. They should just move on rather than bullying someone or making snidey comments. It would piss me off too | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() Are you new to the forums? Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse. BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience. | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() Me too. It's hell. | |||
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" Are you new to the forums? Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse. BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience." What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother? My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults. Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive. | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() To be fair I think some that are not considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse as well ... from what I hear. | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() No I’m not new. Quite ironic that comment really. There’s me saying don’t let it get to you when that’s exactly what I did. Hypocritical much. Not worth it though, it’s t’internet. | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() An observation based on numerous posters and their style of interaction, occasionally it comes back and bites them on the arse. | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() It's a cross we have to bare!! Especially seeing as I wouldn't fuck single males from here. ![]() | |||
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" Are you new to the forums? Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse. BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience. What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother? My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults. Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive." ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() I don’t remember Bunny Hop getting abuse but I do recal her sometimes posting conflicting statements, I’m not sure who Dotty is. | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() I'm not saying they don't and very desirable is an ambiguous definition as anyone can fit that description. But it's just an observation made. And to be fair I've even received messages from other women calling others attention seekers etc ![]() | |||
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" Are you new to the forums? Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse. BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience. What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother? My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults. Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive." Absolutely! The forums would be a better place for it as well ![]() | |||
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"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? " Lib and Crackers | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() I do, I even got messages from other women calling her an attention seeker. I mean like wtf? That's why I firmly believe hiding your veris is a good idea. | |||
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"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? " Cheese.... With crackers!! Okok... A creamy blue cheese, something crumbly and mature and perhaps a spicy alternative | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() ![]() I believe you but it makes me sad to think it is that way. | |||
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"I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about" ![]() | |||
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"You're real and you're raw. I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people" You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are. You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all. That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character. Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book. P" ![]() | |||
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"I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose. We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round. So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow ![]() i argue with myself daily ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? Cheese.... With crackers!! Okok... A creamy blue cheese, something crumbly and mature and perhaps a spicy alternative" Im crumbly and mature. Come to think of it , I'm a bit blue an all. | |||
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"I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose. We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round. So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() I do too ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Your actually gorgeous - would think your a pornstar if I didn’t see you on this site. Stunner | |||
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"I cop abuse all the time i say suck my wang wenches i got better things to care about ![]() altho the ones who shine my penis make me happy even the egopenis ![]() | |||
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"I know it's difficult sometimes.... But you know what? Maybe we should just all treat each other like we would like to be treated. Maybe the apparent attention seeking (I don't think the last post was BTW) wouldn't happen if people felt loved and others were kind. Kindness is free to give and precious to get - I would hate to think I'd made someone feel upset by something written on a place as trivial as a Fab Forum " Very well said ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Is that supposed to be a compliment ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sick of it! " Libster.... Get your own threadaroo ![]() | |||
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"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? Cheese.... With crackers!! Okok... A creamy blue cheese, something crumbly and mature and perhaps a spicy alternative Im crumbly and mature. Come to think of it , I'm a bit blue an all." Ah but is there an inclusion of spiciness!?! | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() ![]() ![]() That's what I was thinking ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() whats a pornstar looklike ![]() | |||
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"You don’t need to be endearing. Just be yourself and ignore the shady bitches. Responses just fuel their fire. Leave them to rot in their own sour milk. " Love that ![]() | |||
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"You're real and you're raw. I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people" You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are. You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all. That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character. Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book. P" Nope, mic drop! My number 1! | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() Or just rise above the drama llama level. | |||
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"You don’t need to be endearing. Just be yourself and ignore the shady bitches. Responses just fuel their fire. Leave them to rot in their own sour milk. Love that ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sick of it! Libster.... Get your own threadaroo ![]() Ssshh... I'm trying to steal the attention. | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() There you go, lass! rack up a point on the arse licker board. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Sick of it! Libster.... Get your own threadaroo ![]() I bloody know ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve seen you take some shit. I’ve seen folk kiss your arse too. It’s the way of the world i suppose. We all get differing opinions and snidey comments thrown at us but I suppose that’s what makes the forum go round. So long as they don’t start inboxing abuse (Cos that shit is waayyyy uncalled for) just let it go over your head. They’ll be arguing with someone else tomorrow ![]() I’d agree with this! I’m definitely not jealous of you op as I’m happy with who I am - flabby bits et al! Sometimes I find you vulnerable and endearing- sometimes I find you annoying and self absorbed and I’ll make no bones about it - I’m not two faced! However - I wouldn’t want you to leave fab or the forums for your own sake - as I think you use the forums as a kind of therapy at times - and the forumites as your agony aunts and uncles - and your own little Jiminy Cricket! It’s an unusual way to use the forums and fairly unique in itself - and as such it’s bound to cause contention at times! However - if you allow yourself to be harried off here by forumites who don’t like you/approve of what you say (and I’ll confess I don’t always approve of what you say) - then where will you go? Who’ll be your Jimini Cricket? Because I think that’s something you definitely need! In the meantime, as I said, when it comes to the heart I think you should try a ‘proper ‘ relationship dating site - not a shagging site! Xx | |||
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"I've noticed you get the odd snidey comment to. I can only think that it's because on occasion you have started or joined in with a thread and said how attractive you think you are and HOW YOU THINK YOU ARE BETTER THAN MOST WOMEN. That's going to annoy some people. I quite like your threads, I find them funny but they do usually go a bit sour. " Hang on, I never say I think I’m better than most women. That’s other people’s interpretation on what I actually say. Yeah I call myself hot and comment on me being attractive but that’s me talking about myself. I never actually say I’m better than most women. | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() ![]() ![]() Indeed your a 10/10 flipping sexy. | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Glorious | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() ![]() ![]() its a worldy this kid knows how to graft ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() Easier said than done and I'm guilty of saying the above myself. Not everyone is super head strong or mentally resilient, so when a lot of negativity piles up in your personal life it can really get into your head. | |||
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"You're real and you're raw. I think some cant cope with it because it doesn't fit in with their "perfect world of perfect people" You make the hotpics all the time and you do it without the bollocks of the faux persona that goes with some that make it there. I personally think some don't take kindly to it. They go to a lot of effort to get there whereas you just take a pic and whoop there you are. You openly and honestly talk about yourself, how your mind is working, warts n all. That's a brave thing to do, again, some won't like that as it shows strength of character.... REAL character. Yes, you're a fucking mad head, but you're an honest true one who isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes in, who won't accept less than she wants and there's sweet fuck all wrong with that in my book. P" This ![]() | |||
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"I like your business cards, subtle of white colouring. Even has a watermark. You like the colouring? That’s bone. " Always. | |||
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"I’ve learnt it’s a much more enjoyable experience on here to not give a fuck when people make it clear they don’t like you or your opinions . I’ve been accused of lacking empathy loads of times , and you seem to be similar . You say it as you see it . You’re honest and open , and you think it’s better to possibly hurt someone’s feelings and help them , rather than say nothing . You’re not a sycophant like loads of the other forumites . You won’t just say nice things to gain favour or to get yourself liked . This approach won’t win you universal lauding , but does that really matter ? I like the open , honest and candid way you come across on here . But having said that , it probably isn’t me you’re trying to appease . If you want to be universally liked on here I suggest you just say nice things to everyone all the time , and never say anything remotely controversial . Always show the utmost sympathy to everyone who needs it , even if they don’t deserve it and have caused their own issues . Never make any comments about size , weight , skin colour , age , sexual preference , spelling and grammar , politics , music likes , how to bring kids up , etc..... Always make comments about how you like cake and biscuits , join in on BBW chat and say what food you are enjoying as you’ve had a miserable day , say how happy you are that your children’s school is recognizing gender issues and that it’s about time tampon bins were put in the boys toilets . Follow this advice and you’ll soon be the most popular forumite ever ![]() ![]() Hahaha. Love it. Best advice yet ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve learnt it’s a much more enjoyable experience on here to not give a fuck when people make it clear they don’t like you or your opinions . I’ve been accused of lacking empathy loads of times , and you seem to be similar . You say it as you see it . You’re honest and open , and you think it’s better to possibly hurt someone’s feelings and help them , rather than say nothing . You’re not a sycophant like loads of the other forumites . You won’t just say nice things to gain favour or to get yourself liked . This approach won’t win you universal lauding , but does that really matter ? I like the open , honest and candid way you come across on here . But having said that , it probably isn’t me you’re trying to appease . If you want to be universally liked on here I suggest you just say nice things to everyone all the time , and never say anything remotely controversial . Always show the utmost sympathy to everyone who needs it , even if they don’t deserve it and have caused their own issues . Never make any comments about size , weight , skin colour , age , sexual preference , spelling and grammar , politics , music likes , how to bring kids up , etc..... Always make comments about how you like cake and biscuits , join in on BBW chat and say what food you are enjoying as you’ve had a miserable day , say how happy you are that your children’s school is recognizing gender issues and that it’s about time tampon bins were put in the boys toilets . Follow this advice and you’ll soon be the most popular forumite ever ![]() ![]() And the award for the most passive aggressive post goes to.... | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Don’t worry about it. Everyone on Fab is seeking attention in one way or another. I know I am!!! (Mrs ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Just keep it real sister! Represent when people on are holidays ![]() | |||
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"I'm personally just annoyed at people's lack of enthusiasm for cheese boards. ![]() Said the actress to the stinking bishop. | |||
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"I'm personally just annoyed at people's lack of enthusiasm for cheese boards. ![]() ![]() Busted. | |||
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"Have you seen the op’s latest status? Feckin brilliant! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Funny as fuck. Even funnier when you think a couple of days ago she said she doesn't beg for Fabs. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() ![]() ![]() Don’t think it’s just on the forum.. Some statuses cry out ‘Look at me’ too! | |||
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"Have you seen the op’s latest status? Feckin brilliant! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Changes her mind daily - but many of us do I think? I remember putting a status up yonks ago saying I wouldn’t post another picture until I’d lost a stone! Think I lost a pound before I put another dozen pics up! ![]() | |||
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"Have you seen the op’s latest status? Feckin brilliant! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Think she’s being ironic! | |||
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"Have you seen the op’s latest status? Feckin brilliant! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But it sure is funny when people don’t get that. ![]() | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple..." I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple..." Pear is my preference, and stilton | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple..." A tart chutney or caponata too please. | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? " Oh heaven! With crusty bread ![]() | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? " I'd dip that so deep. Would you like me to dip that, deep? | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? I'd dip that so deep. Would you like me to dip that, deep?" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You can't make everyone like you, so why waste time or energy giving a shit about it. If someone baits, ignore it. Are the opinions of online strangers really worth getting worked up over. " Exactamundo Oh... And I do have some rather delicious Farmhouse Chutney to accompany my cheese troughing!! ![]() | |||
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"Have you seen the op’s latest status? Feckin brilliant! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Irony can get you into a whole heap of trouble on here! Once offered a revolving door gangbang for five hundred fabs or something daft - wasn’t half an hour before someone offered to nick a door! ![]() | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? I'd dip that so deep. Would you like me to dip that, deep?" It’s only about an inch deep, so just the tip? | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? I'd dip that so deep. Would you like me to dip that, deep? ![]() ![]() I’ve got palpitatations! I’m either horny or middle age has caught up with me! | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? I'd dip that so deep. Would you like me to dip that, deep? ![]() ![]() Haha. Must admit that gave me a little tingle! ![]() | |||
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"Bit of brie, some apple... I had baked Camembert with loads of garlic the other day, would you like to dip into that? I'd dip that so deep. Would you like me to dip that, deep? ![]() ![]() ![]() Got to love a tingle ![]() | |||
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"I'm not saying the following because we've met, nor want to meet I'm going to say the following based on my opinion of you and your posts..... I think you're great! Your posts make me chuckle and long may they continue. Even your status made me lol. You have a great sense of humour and you like asking interesting questions. I don't understand the negativity you've received in the past. I can't say I've ever seen you deserve the horrid attitudes others have given you. So what if you enjoy people looking at you. So what if you enjoy other people throwing compliments at you. This is FAB. This is a social networking site. This is exactly the place to be to present yourself in any way you see fit. The issue isn't you! I think alot are envious of your figure. Not jealous but envious. The green eyed monster brings out the worst in a person. Then there's the men who you dare to reject. You can't win and I doubt you ever will. Chin up pretty lady! Keep rolling your eyes and continue to work FAB however you think best for you. ![]() ![]() Word! That’s nice to read and appreciated ![]() | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Welcome home ![]() | |||
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"So... What would be on everyone's favourite cheese board? Lib and Crackers" With smashed avocado. | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() but there's a difference between abusive messages and flippant comments on a moderated thread Cant like everyone its human nature to get rubbed up the wrong way by different personalitys everyone isnt everyones cup of tea | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I wouldn't refer to rude and unpleasant comments on a thread as flippant. | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I agree with LMS but I suppose sometimes the context is hard to read and the content is actually someone point of view that agree or not needs to be respected. It’s people that press ‘send inbox’ and purposefully make a point of telling someone nasty things that are hard to fathom for me. | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Agreed. At least what's said in the forum is there for everyone to see. | |||
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" Are you new to the forums? Women who are considered very desirable by many forum males get a lot of abuse. BunnyHop was one example, pretty sure Dotty had a similar experience. What a wasted emotion jealousy is, why bother? My philosophy is don't like something you read, move along, if you disagree with someone debate respectfully. Abuse should have no place anywhere, let alone on a forum where we are meant to be adults. Bitchiness, snide comments and general nastiness is so unattractive." Well said.. We are what we are but some feel they have to state their case instead of just going on their way... Sad ![]() | |||
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"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book. However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think? Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. " Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that. It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. | |||
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"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book. However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think? Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that. It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. " Thats not attenti9n seeking its a re run like big bang theory on e4 | |||
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"I saw a woman once be so very rude and unpleasant about you on a thread that you hadn’t even started but it was about you. That same person then went on another thread and complained about how bitchy women are on here! Bizarre. My long winded point is that people form opinions, rightly or wrongly. There’s nothing you can do about those people. I like you and your threads. You definitely have a way with words ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Absolutely ![]() | |||
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"Some people like you. Some people don't. In the grand scheme of things what does it matter. I don't buy into the anyone who posts negative things is jealous tho. People can have different points of view without being jealous of a random woman on the internet. ![]() Yeah, probably why people got a bit miffed | |||
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"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book. However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think? Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that. It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. " What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it. Or do a new one. ![]() | |||
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"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book. However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think? Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that. It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it. Or do a new one. ![]() Fanny prep now that's a thread we all need in our lives ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book. However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think? Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that. It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it. Or do a new one. ![]() It’s actually called fanny prep but it’s full, just had a read through it and as expected, loads of negativity there as well. That was 4 years ago I think! | |||
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"Starting a thread specifically about myself and oh yeah don’t forget to fab my pics cos I’m hot, that is attention seeking. Bumping an old thread that isn’t even meant to do any self promotion it’s literally just explaining what happened, I don’t see that as attention seeking. I didn’t see it before, other people have and have pointed out to me that I do get a lot of negativity towards me but now I’m noticing it myself. An eye roll here, a negative or bitchy comment there. I just don’t understand why I get this much shade, does anyone have a plausible explanation? I don’t care but I’d like to get on with people. I wanna be an endearing mother fucker so how do I go about that? ![]() Question is are you an attention seeker? | |||
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"The fruit pastels post on one of your old profiles was hilarious for me and made you a bit of a fab legend in my book. However I have to point out the obvious, why do you even care about what strangers on the internet think? Do your thing. Own it and ignore the negativity on here. It's pretty irrelevant. Ahh the fanny prep, I’d bump the thread to read again but I’m attention seeking if I do that. It’s not that I care about what people think, I don’t, it’s just the unnecessary negative comments that I get on almost any thread/any subject I do. What's the fanny prep one called? I'll bump it. Or do a new one. ![]() 4 years! Time for a new fruity fanny thread. | |||
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