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Are we becoming so shallow minded in life in which we judge on things before seeing it.
So what type of people are you?do you judge on others before knowing them? Or you have a secret way of judging on others?
Share us your thoughts please
With love
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I usually read books on recommendations or subjects that capture my imagination.
People on fab I mainly shag because I find their ‘covers’ attractive.
I wouldn’t read a book I didn’t find interesting same as I wouldn’t shag a fabber I didn’t find attractive. |
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"For me I know the person on take a peek before judging.Well at least I try that as much as I can."
Oh I'm very non judgemental I may not like certain things what people do like smoking I hate it never did it but if others want to then fine but won't mean I'd be disrespectful I suppose if people are fine with me then I'm fine with them  |
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"For me I know the person on take a peek before judging.Well at least I try that as much as I can.
Oh I'm very non judgemental I may not like certain things what people do like smoking I hate it never did it but if others want to then fine but won't mean I'd be disrespectful I suppose if people are fine with me then I'm fine with them "
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"I usually read books on recommendations or subjects that capture my imagination.
People on fab I mainly shag because I find their ‘covers’ attractive.
I wouldn’t read a book I didn’t find interesting same as I wouldn’t shag a fabber I didn’t find attractive."
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"I usually read books on recommendations or subjects that capture my imagination.
People on fab I mainly shag because I find their ‘covers’ attractive.
I wouldn’t read a book I didn’t find interesting same as I wouldn’t shag a fabber I didn’t find attractive.
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What is your secret? |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't judge people or books in general
If someone on wheelchair ask to meet you guys for sex,how you'll decide whether to meet or not?"
I, Red have in the past, we got on and it worked well.
I find people who are interesting attractive over physical attraction.
The mind is a wonderful thing.
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"I don't judge people or books in general
If someone on wheelchair ask to meet you guys for sex,how you'll decide whether to meet or not?
I, Red have in the past, we got on and it worked well.
I find people who are interesting attractive over physical attraction.
The mind is a wonderful thing.
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On here I make snap judgements based on what I see, so yes I do judge a book by its cover. However, I have been proven wrong which can be a great discovery.
In my day to day life I’ve learnt not to judge from the outset but see what develops over time, sometimes though this approach is tested to the limit. |
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"I judge everyone on everything and then go from there.
Any little thing can put me off. If that means I'm shallow I'm fine with that. "
Well that is your point of view and I respect it.
I am on wheelchair so I guess if I send you a message you'll say no before knowing me.
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"On here I make snap judgements based on what I see, so yes I do judge a book by its cover. However, I have been proven wrong which can be a great discovery.
In my day to day life I’ve learnt not to judge from the outset but see what develops over time, sometimes though this approach is tested to the limit."
Thank you for your lovely words.
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"I usually read books on recommendations or subjects that capture my imagination.
People on fab I mainly shag because I find their ‘covers’ attractive.
I wouldn’t read a book I didn’t find interesting same as I wouldn’t shag a fabber I didn’t find attractive.
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What is your secret?"
My secret?
About what lol? |
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"I usually read books on recommendations or subjects that capture my imagination.
People on fab I mainly shag because I find their ‘covers’ attractive.
I wouldn’t read a book I didn’t find interesting same as I wouldn’t shag a fabber I didn’t find attractive.
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What is your secret?
My secret?
About what lol?"
About judging on things in your life. |
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"I judge everyone on everything and then go from there.
Any little thing can put me off. If that means I'm shallow I'm fine with that.
Well that is your point of view and I respect it.
I am on wheelchair so I guess if I send you a message you'll say no before knowing me.
With love
Maz"
Yes I would say no before knowing you. Not sure why you think the wheelchair would be the reason, just from what I said. |
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Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look. |
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"I judge everyone on everything and then go from there.
Any little thing can put me off. If that means I'm shallow I'm fine with that.
Well that is your point of view and I respect it.
I am on wheelchair so I guess if I send you a message you'll say no before knowing me.
With love
Maz
Yes I would say no before knowing you. Not sure why you think the wheelchair would be the reason, just from what I said. "
Than why you'll say no? |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look. "
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz"
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet? |
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"I judge everyone on everything and then go from there.
Any little thing can put me off. If that means I'm shallow I'm fine with that.
Well that is your point of view and I respect it.
I am on wheelchair so I guess if I send you a message you'll say no before knowing me.
With love
Maz
Yes I would say no before knowing you. Not sure why you think the wheelchair would be the reason, just from what I said.
Than why you'll say no?"
Too far away, too tall, too many veri's.
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"We don't judge as everyone should be who they want to be without judgement.
So if I send you a message asking to meet, how you'll decide if yes or no?"
That's easy...you won't have read our profile so it'll be a no. |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?"
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz"
Ok. I think you'll find its divided fairly evenly between people who don't judge on looks and people who do.
So how do you decide who to message or meet? |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz
Ok. I think you'll find its divided fairly evenly between people who don't judge on looks and people who do.
So how do you decide who to message or meet?"
I message everyone and try to know them, if chemistry is there we go on, if not we say it will not work in a respectful way.
Will you go out with me for cup of tea?
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"Are we becoming so shallow minded in life in which we judge on things before seeing it.
So what type of people are you?do you judge on others before knowing them? Or you have a secret way of judging on others?
Share us your thoughts please
With love
MAZ"
Have you not done just that by you opening statement? |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz
Ok. I think you'll find its divided fairly evenly between people who don't judge on looks and people who do.
So how do you decide who to message or meet?
I message everyone and try to know them, if chemistry is there we go on, if not we say it will not work in a respectful way.
Will you go out with me for cup of tea?
Maz"
No, you're younger than our lowest age range. |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz
Ok. I think you'll find its divided fairly evenly between people who don't judge on looks and people who do.
So how do you decide who to message or meet?
I message everyone and try to know them, if chemistry is there we go on, if not we say it will not work in a respectful way.
Will you go out with me for cup of tea?
Maz
No, you're younger than our lowest age range. "
To bad. Hope to get across in BDSM club so we can chat face to face.
With love
Maz |
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I'm not ashamed to say yes.
If I don't find you attractive then I won't meet you.
Even if I do find you attractive certain types of picture and things in profiles can put me off.
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"Personally I prefer to get to know the person, I don't judge by looks.
Its a shame it doesnt work both ways. I get judged before they know me.
Welcome to my world mate.
Maz"
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz
Ok. I think you'll find its divided fairly evenly between people who don't judge on looks and people who do.
So how do you decide who to message or meet?
I message everyone and try to know them, if chemistry is there we go on, if not we say it will not work in a respectful way.
Will you go out with me for cup of tea?
Maz
No, you're younger than our lowest age range.
To bad. Hope to get across in BDSM club so we can chat face to face.
With love
Maz"
Sure! If you see us at a social or a club say hi. |
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"Yes I judge a book by its cover on fab. I don't have time to establish a relationship with people on here to find out if I really like them as a person so I judge in the first instance based on how they look.
So for you on fab you judge base on how they look.Thank you for sharing.
With love
Maz
Why do you ask Maz and how do you decide who you'd like to meet?
To be honest I am on wheelchair due to being shot when I was rescuing others ,so I wanted to try understanding how people on fab decide who to meet and their way of thinking.
Maz
Ok. I think you'll find its divided fairly evenly between people who don't judge on looks and people who do.
So how do you decide who to message or meet?
I message everyone and try to know them, if chemistry is there we go on, if not we say it will not work in a respectful way.
Will you go out with me for cup of tea?
Maz
No, you're younger than our lowest age range.
To bad. Hope to get across in BDSM club so we can chat face to face.
With love
Maz
Sure! If you see us at a social or a club say hi. "
Do you visit clubs in London? |
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I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.  |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure. "
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure. "
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure. "
I think Im taking offence at the word judge, it just sounds so judgy 
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
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Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks. |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
I think Im taking offence at the word judge, it just sounds so judgy
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Well how about giving me your opinion in my profile if I sent you polite message requesting to talk together.
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
Maz"
I already looked. You look and sound like a nice guy and if you were closer I'd probably meet you for a coffee if we got on in mails.
If someone turns you down it just means you're not compatible. If they are rude, report them.
Don't assume it's because of the wheelchair. They might not like tall men or beards or your age.
There's literally thousands of people on here who don't want to meet me, for many different reasons. I'm ok with that. |
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"Are we becoming so shallow minded in life in which we judge on things before seeing it.
So what type of people are you?do you judge on others before knowing them? Or you have a secret way of judging on others?
Share us your thoughts please
With love
MAZ"
In day to day life never judge anyone before taking the time to get to know them as a person and see what makes them tick.
But on here most definitely & I think if most people are honest they would say the same.
Why would you have sex with someone of here just because there a "nice person"?
From fabs I like to look at someone and they make my knees go weak. I want to RIP there clothes off the minute I lay eyes on them.
If that makes me a shallow person then so be it. |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks."
What? 
Who mentioned a him?
You’re sounding very judgemental yourself old sport. |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
Maz
I already looked. You look and sound like a nice guy and if you were closer I'd probably meet you for a coffee if we got on in mails.
If someone turns you down it just means you're not compatible. If they are rude, report them.
Don't assume it's because of the wheelchair. They might not like tall men or beards or your age.
There's literally thousands of people on here who don't want to meet me, for many different reasons. I'm ok with that. "
Thank you for your lovely honest words, unfortunately some ladies think they can be rude just because I am on wheelchair, and I got shot helping others, they don't understand that they may get an accident and become worth Than me.
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
Maz
I already looked. You look and sound like a nice guy and if you were closer I'd probably meet you for a coffee if we got on in mails.
If someone turns you down it just means you're not compatible. If they are rude, report them.
Don't assume it's because of the wheelchair. They might not like tall men or beards or your age.
There's literally thousands of people on here who don't want to meet me, for many different reasons. I'm ok with that. "
yea,,actually im the only person thats wanting to meet you,,nightmare eh |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks.
What?
Who mentioned a him?
You’re sounding very judgemental yourself old sport."
By him I ment the person who is sending you the message.
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks."
Why? We personally aren't on here to date or to form a relationship (if a friendship occurs naturally that's great), getting to know someone well enough to be sure we like them takes many weeks and many meets and most people including us don't want that |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks.
Why? We personally aren't on here to date or to form a relationship (if a friendship occurs naturally that's great), getting to know someone well enough to be sure we like them takes many weeks and many meets and most people including us don't want that"
Can you please give me your opinion in my profile disregarding the age limit that you put.
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
Maz
I already looked. You look and sound like a nice guy and if you were closer I'd probably meet you for a coffee if we got on in mails.
If someone turns you down it just means you're not compatible. If they are rude, report them.
Don't assume it's because of the wheelchair. They might not like tall men or beards or your age.
There's literally thousands of people on here who don't want to meet me, for many different reasons. I'm ok with that.
Thank you for your lovely honest words, unfortunately some ladies think they can be rude just because I am on wheelchair, and I got shot helping others, they don't understand that they may get an accident and become worth Than me.
With love
Maz"
I like it when people are rude when they don't want to meet me - it makes me happy that I won't be meeting them.
It doesn't matter if you were born needing a wheelchair or if you've only used it for a few days. You're still *you*. X |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks.
Why? We personally aren't on here to date or to form a relationship (if a friendship occurs naturally that's great), getting to know someone well enough to be sure we like them takes many weeks and many meets and most people including us don't want that
Can you please give me your opinion in my profile disregarding the age limit that you put.
Maz"
Your profile is fine, it says what you want, describes your physical features and has plenty of picture. It doesn't say too much about what you can offer apart from massage though. |
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"Are we becoming so shallow minded in life in which we judge on things before seeing it.
So what type of people are you?do you judge on others before knowing them? Or you have a secret way of judging on others?
Share us your thoughts please
With love
MAZ
In day to day life never judge anyone before taking the time to get to know them as a person and see what makes them tick.
But on here most definitely & I think if most people are honest they would say the same.
Why would you have sex with someone of here just because there a "nice person"?
From fabs I like to look at someone and they make my knees go weak. I want to RIP there clothes off the minute I lay eyes on them.
If that makes me a shallow person then so be it."
Thank you for your honest opinion, can you please tell me your honest opinion in my profile.
With love
Maz |
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
Maz
I already looked. You look and sound like a nice guy and if you were closer I'd probably meet you for a coffee if we got on in mails.
If someone turns you down it just means you're not compatible. If they are rude, report them.
Don't assume it's because of the wheelchair. They might not like tall men or beards or your age.
There's literally thousands of people on here who don't want to meet me, for many different reasons. I'm ok with that.
yea,,actually im the only person thats wanting to meet you,,nightmare eh "
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
It’s fab... most people couldn’t lie straight in bed!
Well at least try to know the second part before saying no, don't just judge him by how he looks.
Why? We personally aren't on here to date or to form a relationship (if a friendship occurs naturally that's great), getting to know someone well enough to be sure we like them takes many weeks and many meets and most people including us don't want that
Can you please give me your opinion in my profile disregarding the age limit that you put.
Maz
Your profile is fine, it says what you want, describes your physical features and has plenty of picture. It doesn't say too much about what you can offer apart from massage though."
Thank you for that.
With love
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"I don't believe anyone who says they don't judge on looks at all. If they don't find the person attractive in any way shape or form, they'd still consider meeting them? Sure.
Can you please look to my profile and tell me your opinion.
Maz
I already looked. You look and sound like a nice guy and if you were closer I'd probably meet you for a coffee if we got on in mails.
If someone turns you down it just means you're not compatible. If they are rude, report them.
Don't assume it's because of the wheelchair. They might not like tall men or beards or your age.
There's literally thousands of people on here who don't want to meet me, for many different reasons. I'm ok with that.
Thank you for your lovely honest words, unfortunately some ladies think they can be rude just because I am on wheelchair, and I got shot helping others, they don't understand that they may get an accident and become worth Than me.
With love
Maz
I like it when people are rude when they don't want to meet me - it makes me happy that I won't be meeting them.
It doesn't matter if you were born needing a wheelchair or if you've only used it for a few days. You're still *you*. X"
Wow girl you are amazing.
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