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Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ? |
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over a year ago
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"
Yes it's definitely veris for me. Alot of fuck veris is a turn off as is playing with women who I deem to be 'risky'. I know it's my issue and not theirs and my judgmental attitude is a shame really as its put me off some very hot men who I get in well with. As I said in another thread, ignorance is bliss! |
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?
Yes it's definitely veris for me. Alot of fuck veris is a turn off as is playing with women who I deem to be 'risky'. I know it's my issue and not theirs and my judgmental attitude is a shame really as its put me off some very hot men who I get in well with. As I said in another thread, ignorance is bliss! "
Yes must admit I do have a mooch at the veris and have passed on a few  |
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"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ? "
That they have a job. Not students. Not unemployed. Or? |
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"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ?
That they have a job. Not students. Not unemployed. Or?"
All this time I thought they were just after my money  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My one veri makes the girls pants drop!!!
(oh wait, is that banter......?) "
Veri's in general make me a bit pukey..... I know it's fab n all but I don't really need an instruction manual or to see the previous occupant of the vagina in question...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As you would like an example, you see a profile and think "Ooh that person looks interesting"
Then you see them post in the forums and realise what a horrible person they are when they don't have the time to carefully craft an appealing profile or get the angle of their selfie just right. |
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"
'Smoker' does it for me every time. Only ever snogged the face off one smoker and all i could taste was ashtray both in my mouth and memory... |
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?
'Smoker' does it for me every time. Only ever snogged the face off one smoker and all i could taste was ashtray both in my mouth and memory..."
So true! |
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"
Frequently... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Moany profiles and statuses are a huge turn off.
Or they start posting statuses about having a threesome etc with another girl he’s fucking all the while still trying to charm me.
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And pics on single men’s profiles of them hanging out of some woman. Even if I liked them that puts me right off. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'd say at least 99% of the people here get a no from me for one reason or another - it might be because of the way they are on the forums, their profile text and/or pics, or their veris (not so much the quantity but the content of both those left and received/displayed), or simply just because I don't find an attraction/connection with them.
It's human nature at work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"
Frequently |
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Minimal profile text or very negative profile text that criticises either the men they are in competition with or the women they have previously messaged. Yes, I am criticising critical people, the irony is not lost on me. |
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"Minimal profile text or very negative profile text that criticises either the men they are in competition with or the women they have previously messaged. Yes, I am criticising critical people, the irony is not lost on me. "
You but we know what you mean |
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"Minimal profile text or very negative profile text that criticises either the men they are in competition with or the women they have previously messaged. Yes, I am criticising critical people, the irony is not lost on me. "
Definitely agree about the negative profiles...We use it to learn about you...being negative really isn’t sexy!! We all get the knobs on the messages, it’s all part of the package!! |
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"
Yes a lot |
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"When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest. "
Forum popularity can be a double edged sword at times.
Have to admit after one such incident where “mister popular” tried to play too many forum women at one time and it all went tits up, meeting the current “in hottie” isn’t something I aspire to these days!
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"When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest.
Forum popularity can be a double edged sword at times.
Have to admit after one such incident where “mister popular” tried to play too many forum women at one time and it all went tits up, meeting the current “in hottie” isn’t something I aspire to these days!
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I must have missed that one... I wanna know who the mister popular is |
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"When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest.
Forum popularity can be a double edged sword at times.
Have to admit after one such incident where “mister popular” tried to play too many forum women at one time and it all went tits up, meeting the current “in hottie” isn’t something I aspire to these days!
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Not an attractive quality to me. |
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"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ? "
It means they get paid for doing what they do. Amateur is the opposite it means they do what they do for no pay.
Anyone who who works for a living is a professional.
It could be suggested that putting the word professional in your profile smacks of a feeling of superiority or snobbery.
{Sits back and waits for the flack!} |
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What puts me off? How long have you got?
Any kind of drugs reference , e.g 420 friendly.
Couples profiles who don't have any pictures of the man.
Couples who want just the girls to play while the man watches.
Any profile that claims "safe sex always" but has bareback pictures.
Close ups of genitalia - male or female.
Cum dripping cocks or cum oozing out of any orifice.
Comments putting down other people to try and make themselves sound good.
Any reference to BBC - a man is much more than the colour of his skin and/or cock.
Put a code word in your message - no I can't be arsed with that!
Any profile that is full of demands and/or ranty.
That's it for starters but there is much more that can and does put me off. It's a miracle I've actually met anyone  |
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"What puts me off? How long have you got?
Any kind of drugs reference , e.g 420 friendly.
Couples profiles who don't have any pictures of the man.
Couples who want just the girls to play while the man watches.
Any profile that claims "safe sex always" but has bareback pictures.
Close ups of genitalia - male or female.
Cum dripping cocks or cum oozing out of any orifice.
Comments putting down other people to try and make themselves sound good.
Any reference to BBC - a man is much more than the colour of his skin and/or cock.
Put a code word in your message - no I can't be arsed with that!
Any profile that is full of demands and/or ranty.
That's it for starters but there is much more that can and does put me off. It's a miracle I've actually met anyone "
I’m with you on some of these.
Especially the full of demands one. Some people on here make me shudder they’re that far up their own arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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On our couples profile, getting messages from couples you think would be fun then seeing a certain person on their veris when you know that person has well over 100 veris and has barebacked most of them.. it just Nah.. forget it!  |
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"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"
constantly |
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"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does
that actually mean ?
They work for CI5 and their boss is George Cowley!  and drive about in fast ford capris "
Haha yes!!!! |
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