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The best way to verify before a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi i would like to know what is the best way to verify before a meeting? As on skype they can fake a video as we had a few block fake a woman videos,thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi i would like to know what is the best way to verify before a meeting? As on skype they can fake a video as we had a few block fake a woman videos,thank you"

Get them to take a pic touching their left ear or holding a sock

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh thank you i will do that as on video we could see only for few seconds x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi i would like to know what is the best way to verify before a meeting? As on skype they can fake a video as we had a few block fake a woman videos,thank you"

I usually have a phone call or FaceTime with someone but I do take ages getting to know someone first.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

Had a video conversation on Kik, hard to fake a natural conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi i would like to know what is the best way to verify before a meeting? As on skype they can fake a video as we had a few block fake a woman videos,thank you"

How do you fake a conversation over Skype?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes we did some phone call to 1 couple once and only he spoke when i said can i speack with her please , comes some record voice says only hello how are you lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi i would like to know what is the best way to verify before a meeting? As on skype they can fake a video as we had a few block fake a woman videos,thank you

I usually have a phone call or FaceTime with someone but I do take ages getting to know someone first. "

Me too. I’m usually pretty sure by the time I get to even thinking about meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I will try to do that those days is deficult lol we found man in profile as woman with photo verification lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry i sent you private msg by mistake as im new to forum, its easy to do that as i saw on google and youtube aswell as i had a feeling it was something wrong with the video so i wanted to check

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’ve always FaceTimed and had a bit of a natural chat or conversation. The agreement is only when both of the other couple are there two....never separately.

Weeded out a few like this after the excuses came flooding in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes we did some phone call to 1 couple once and only he spoke when i said can i speack with her please , comes some record voice says only hello how are you lol x"

I wouldn't class 4 or 5 words enough, probably a few questions would soon tell you if their genuine people lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you i dont have facetime as im on samsung but that is a great idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi i would like to know what is the best way to verify before a meeting? As on skype they can fake a video as we had a few block fake a woman videos,thank you

I usually have a phone call or FaceTime with someone but I do take ages getting to know someone first.

Me too. I’m usually pretty sure by the time I get to even thinking about meeting. "

I met two guys in the last week that I’ve been chatting to for nearly 2 years, when I first joined here. One of them I know all about his work, his family, friends on Facebook and the other pretty much the same. It was like meeting old friends and very relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol yeah i always as ff for phone call as the man i always know his there lol , but some we catch quick that there is no woman and others make us loose time lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol yeah i always as ff for phone call as the man i always know his there lol , but some we catch quick that there is no woman and others make us loose time lol"

When I met a couple, we set up a group on whatsapp and all 3 chatted. You can do that on kik if you don’t want to exchange numbers. You can even video chat on there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like that its good when we know each others but sometimes here is deficult lol we have been here before and we left because of fakes and now we decide try again and we found there is mpre fake than before lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes we was doing that before and we catch a lot of people as we say we only talk on group and then they try to talk in private

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dont varies come after a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont varies come after a meet

*veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dont verify as cam but we just want to see who they are as we are not going to meet a woman and then turn up a man or a couple lol so we wpuld like to know even for us dont loose time lol

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"Dont varies come after a meet

I think it was more about verifying the person is who they say they are before a meet is arranged x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes it is i want verify before a meet for see who they are x

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I always video chat/FaceTime x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always use Kik video call. I actually insist on it. It's a great way to chat without giving out my number. Plus I get to see who I'm chatting to x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Facetime is the probles as i dont have iphone only ipad but i dont want to give my email x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think is the best way i wasnt sire of on kik they can fake x as i didnt know they can fake on skype lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think is the best way i wasnt sire of on kik they can fake x as i didnt know they can fake on skype lol x"

I’ve found Skype ok in the past but I’ve had long chats face to face. No different than video calling on phone or computer.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"I think is the best way i wasnt sire of on kik they can fake x as i didnt know they can fake on skype lol x"

There's no way to fake a conversation as they can't predict what's going to be said ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes the thing is on skype they havent said anything as they say the microphone didnt work etc lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes i dont mind do phone call aswell x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes the thing is on skype they havent said anything as they say the microphone didnt work etc lol x"

That’s dodgy then I’m afraid. I had that with a guy a few years ago, turns out he was 10 years older and 8 stone heavier. He always said his screen or microphone wasn’t working.

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By *unningFoxWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I have anxiety and I absolutely can’t have phone calls with strangers so better go for social than talk with them on phone. For some reason talking with customer services it’s fine.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social first, no touching, pick a pub or cafe you don't usually go to neither too close to home or too inconvenient. They'll show up or they won't. And you'll know, and the danger is minimised because of the public place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have anxiety and I absolutely can’t have phone calls with strangers so better go for social than talk with them on phone. For some reason talking with customer services it’s fine. "

I’m the opposite, I hate calling banks or anything in a professional way but no problem talking to strangers in a romantic sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes the only thing is if we need to travel or make plans with babysitter an it will turn up some man nor woman or couple x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh the phone call it would be just for see of there is a woman nothing else, but we have kids so before anything we should know its not only the man in x

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes the only thing is if we need to travel or make plans with babysitter an it will turn up some man nor woman or couple x"

Sure. But unfortunately face to face is the only foolproof way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dont like call banks or anything aswell lol i try to do everything online lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yez this is true and off course before anything else we want have some drinks or coffe etc as we dont want to sleep with the whole site, we need to be all ok with that etc ... x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dont varies come after a meet

*veris

Oops. Big fingers small keys

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