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"Is it another form of prostituting/escorting? Because it is a way of paying for sex in my eyes, so should we report it?" Thats about it as I see it sad really. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? " Two adults consenting in a business transaction. No one else's concern. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? Two adults consenting in a business transaction. No one else's concern." totally and butt out of other peoples business what ever works for them works for them | |||
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"No. How does it differ? " It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours." Absolutely. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours." But the man is still paying for sexual services. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? Two adults consenting in a business transaction. No one else's concern. totally and butt out of other peoples business what ever works for them works for them" Absolutely. But consenting adults paying for sex is not permitted on this site. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. " Many men spoil women in regular relationships. I think they see it as a relationship in that dynamic. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. " Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours." | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it" Daddy dash. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours." I'd say it's more insecure than stupid that they feel they have to pay for it but yeah, you're right in what you say and if a woman wants to take advantage of that then good luck to her. As long as the situation is 100% consensual then it's of no one's concern. | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it Daddy dash. " Doesn't have a ring to it | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it" so do I | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem " I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it Daddy dash. Doesn't have a ring to it" Lol. I agree. I’d be out the door like a flash if someone started that malarkey | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it so do I " Context! The world would run much more smoothly and people would be less offended and appalled if they could let go of the meaning and use of words in and of themselves, but instead looked at things in the context that they are being used. | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it so do I Context! The world would run much more smoothly and people would be less offended and appalled if they could let go of the meaning and use of words in and of themselves, but instead looked at things in the context that they are being used." You will end up banging your head on here unfortunately | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. " I think what I'm trying to say is that if it's a couple on here who have that relationship between them... then that's their thing ... if however they .. or it's a man or girl trying to proposition others on here for payment ... then report | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it so do I Context! The world would run much more smoothly and people would be less offended and appalled if they could let go of the meaning and use of words in and of themselves, but instead looked at things in the context that they are being used." Why? I can’t get my head around it at all. To me it’s an ultimate no no. Be different if I said everyone who does that is a weirdo. Why can’t people have opinions on things if they’re not being nasty about it? | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. " A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. " That’s not the same! | |||
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"I find that daddy/baby thing very unnerving, I get squeamish when I read or hear it so do I Context! The world would run much more smoothly and people would be less offended and appalled if they could let go of the meaning and use of words in and of themselves, but instead looked at things in the context that they are being used." Really,thanks but no thanks,but thanks for your input | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! " There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. " Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. " I have no problem with it in the right scenario. I don’t usually use it but one guy I do because he’s a sexy dad. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. " Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that | |||
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"As a father of two girls I find in unnerving, right,that's all I'm saying on the matter, I'm off into the knitting thread " And that’s fine, it’s not a scene you are part of and you won’t understand it. You don’t have to. I don’t associate the word with a parent. | |||
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"I’d love a sugar mommy! Line up ladies!! " You beat me to it! | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that " Lots of my friend’s don’t understand that I would like a swinging partner but it’s because I can separate the physical from the emotional within that scenario, bit like not associating certain terms with the obvious. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that " I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness " I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic?" Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread" It's Thursday ... the is a rant thread | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread It's Thursday ... the is a rant thread " Please go in my knitting thread | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread" Because there are sooooo many DYNAMICS to everything. Nothing is straightforward | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread Because there are sooooo many DYNAMICS to everything. Nothing is straightforward " Ssssssssshhhh no need to shout | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread Because there are sooooo many DYNAMICS to everything. Nothing is straightforward Ssssssssshhhh no need to shout " I will come on the knitting thread if you carry on. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours. But the man is still paying for sexual services. Only a problem on here if it's a girl wanting payment to be the baby ... or a guy offering to pay for services ... if it's a couple who have that agreement between them and just looking for others to join them ... not a problem I think it's pretty much a given that the essence of a sugar daddy /baby relationship is that the man provides the woman with money/material goods and the woman provides the man with sex. It's essentially contractual and thus not the same as one party providing the other with gifts without any expectation of an equivalent reward. As I say, absolutely nothing wrong with that if that is what you are into, but as its clearly sex for payment it's against site rules. A true sugar daddy (or mummy) and baby relationship is much more than money/gifts in exchange for sex is it not? There is a supportive side to it too, gifts can and do get given regardless of sex. If people want to look at it as black and white as that how do you view this... A few years ago I was flat out broke, my at the time Fwb (then girlfriend, now ex) helped me financially with things. We were also obviously having sex. It's not that difficult to make the direct similarities but in no way was it in exchange for the sex. That’s not the same! There are lots of dynamics though. The guy that I had known for a year wanted to add a power element to it by offering to buy me lingerie/shoes, give me an allowance. I said no but it was his kink and he would have gotten sex with or without gifts. I know a married couples that pays his wife money for different sex acts, it’s all role play and keeps the sex fun for them. He gets lots of bjs that way. Yeah I get that. It’s the calling someone daddy thing that I don’t like. The whole daddy sex scenario thing. Horses for courses and each to their own One person's "kink" is another's norm and all that I agree. I’m not knocking it. Just saying I don’t understand it and it’s not for me and never will be. Just like 2 men together will never be for me. We’re all different thank goodness I'm not ... I'm cloned ... call me Dolly ... bah Or is that a whole other dynamic? Why do people keep mentioning that word dynamic? It grinds my gears!! Right I'm definitely going into the knitting thread Because there are sooooo many DYNAMICS to everything. Nothing is straightforward Ssssssssshhhh no need to shout I will come on the knitting thread if you carry on. " Oh please do it's very interesting | |||
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"These types of questions always throw up so many judgments. While this site is not designed for 'business' use if two consenting adults decide to meet on that basis then it is their choice. People also forget that for some the exchange of money/gifts etc is also a bit of a turn on or even fetish. It doesn't always mean a sign of desperation" But that's an argument for openly allowing paid sex on the site. | |||
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"No. How does it differ? It's a power transaction. And if men are stupid enough to pay for it, women are smart enough to exploit these men. Their concern. Not yours." if it doesn't affect me and everyone consents then it's not my concern. | |||
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"These types of questions always throw up so many judgments. While this site is not designed for 'business' use if two consenting adults decide to meet on that basis then it is their choice. People also forget that for some the exchange of money/gifts etc is also a bit of a turn on or even fetish. It doesn't always mean a sign of desperation But that's an argument for openly allowing paid sex on the site. " .. No i think its an argument to be accepting that people are adults and may engage in that privately. I'm not saying people should advertise services and random offering of cash is still not likely to be received well. | |||
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"Is it another form of prostituting/escorting? Because it is a way of paying for sex in my eyes, so should we report it?" Yes | |||
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