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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do scars bother you?
They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others.
I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics.
The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were.
So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do scars bother you?
They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others.
I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics.
The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were.
So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?"
They don't bother me and I have one or two. One particularly bad one on my arm when i got attacked with a knife. I'm hoping scars don't bother but I am self conscious about mine so thank you for this thread  interested to see the responses |
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over a year ago
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" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X "
Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing
I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p
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They used to I have extensive scarring from the knees down and around my right hips. I hated wearing shorts as they are quite noticeable. I got used to it in the end.
However over last summer I had four more incisions made and further complications. So I’m going to have to go through all the unease again. They look awful at the moment very angry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I knew a lady once who's face had been badly burnt as a child and had left her with prominent scars covering much of her face. When she interacted with someone new their first instinct was to look at her and almost flinch away, happened a lot. But she was very confident herself and would have had a bit of fun with the person about looking at her funny and eventually this put them at ease and they never looked at her that way again. What I'm trying to say is that if you are scarred yourself and you try to hide it or it bothers you then people will pick up on that and then become conscious of how they act around you. But if you are confident and show people that it has absolutely no effect on you whatsoever then that should translate to how they see and treat you. I try to see people for what's inside anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
Out of curiosity how about facial scarring?"
They don’t bother me, have a few small ones on my forehead. They bothered a photographer though, he edited them out, thinking I’d want that. Had him put them back in the image. Had them since I was 1, I’ve never known my face without them.
Same as my knee scar. The scars show on some pics, but they’re always with me, so no point hiding them xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a rather large abdominal scar which I found bad enough but due to a large rapid weight loss, thyroid playing silly buggars. It now looks worse!! I clothe to cover x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X
Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing
I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p
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Ha ha, yes some of mine are like that x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X
Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing
I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p
Ha ha, yes some of mine are like that x
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Im starting to get a collection on my shoulder blades which are summed up as "keeps forgetting they added a new lowhanging bracket" i swear about 4 of my work shirts have holes there now where my normal crouch walk catches it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all our bodies are like a tapestry for our life experiences, scars and the like are just part of the story behind the tapestry.
I only have a couple of small ones with a couple of little stories behind them. But some scars have important life changing events behind them. Each one is part of what makes every individual unique and some provide connections with others who have similar. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't bother me in the slightest. I have my own and I've had people occasionally ask what they are. I'd rather they were openly curious than just stare.
Anyway, surely I it would be weird not to have accumulated a few permanent marks over a lifetime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine used to bother me but most dont even see my scars on my arms and back and no one minds my stretch marks least they haven't said so. I dont mind scars on others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness"
Was very self conscious after key hole surgery last year, but Mr reassured me and now I’m not as self conscious xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness"
Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. |
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Other people’s scars don’t bother me in the slightest. I sometimes get a little self conscious of my excessive tummy stretch marks but soon forget them. No one has ever remarked upon them that I know of. They’re as much a part of me as my smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness
Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. "
Was he Harry Potter? Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness
Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. "
I've a biggie on my chest which I can't bear to be touched as it's super sensitive. Makes me heave to touch it myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness
Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched.
Was he Harry Potter? Xxx"
I’ve never seen Harry Potter. But nah he’d be too old  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?
I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness"
I don’t think I’d like it. Drawing attention to it would make me feel uncomfortable and part of it is more sensitive than the rest so I wouldn’t want it to be touched or stroked either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scars wouldn't bother me at all unless they're too sensitive to be touched and in areas that would make play awkward.
I'm quite grabby when Im really into it and the last thing I'd want to do is hurt someone. |
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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago
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I’m not a fan of my big scars but as they’re on my back I don’t really see them, but if I didn’t have them I’d not be living the life I do so I guess I’ve learnt to accept that they’re part of me.
The keyhole ones on my stomach don’t bother me in the slightest as they’re almost invisible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my scars as they remind me of the shitty times I've had in my life. I've tried bio oil but they didn't fade. I don't like them being highlighted, I feel embarrassed about them. |
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Scars are just life - the accidental ones, the necessary ones, even self inflicted ones - they all have a story to tell, from the mundane to the dramatic or sad. Very very few people have no scars at all of some sort and you never know when you might acquire some more! |
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"I hate my scars as they remind me of the shitty times I've had in my life. I've tried bio oil but they didn't fade. I don't like them being highlighted, I feel embarrassed about them. "
I found Bio Oil didn’t work.
I often get asked how I got mine and I hate talking about them but I feel like I have to justify them. |
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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago
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my man says we all got lifes scars STRETCHMARKS are gods gift of wonderfull child birth happy marks .tummy scars normal from life assisting ops .caulie ears or broken nose sport .and if from fire ect you still here on fab .so live the fab life |
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I was very self conscious about the scars from my first surgery until my most recent surgery. The first ones are tiny and have faded. The most recent one is large and obvious, but is a sign of what I've been through and is nothing to be ashamed about. Although it gets me some sometimes comical reactions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scars on other people don't bother me at all and to be honest I hardly notice them unless they are big ones but I'd be more intruged how and why but would never ask in fear of making someone uncomfortable . I do have a rather prominent cesarian scar which I really hate and am really paranoid about ...luckily it hides in underwear but very noticeable when naked  ....hubby loves it and reasures me it isn't that bad but you know how critical we are of our own body's .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No they don’t bother me, I’m interested in how some people get them. My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X "
Get this.. Scars are like the map which charts the road we ve travelled.. Nearly got mine hidden but then thought no this is me and this shows my survival  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my man says we all got lifes scars STRETCHMARKS are gods gift of wonderfull child birth happy marks .tummy scars normal from life assisting ops .caulie ears or broken nose sport .and if from fire ect you still here on fab .so live the fab life "
So true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived."
Why the need to put others down?
Thats just like the "a real woman has curves only dogs like bones" kinda statement |
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So relieved to read these comments on this thread. I have quite a prominent scar from my neck to my butt crack on my back and I am very paranoid about it. To the point of even contemplating telling potential playmates before getting naked as it makes me feel so self conscious, but I don’t feel quite so bad after reading the comments on here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.
Oh well, I haven't really lived then  "
Dont worry i'll fetch my cane and the antiseptic cream 
Go get your pants off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't take much notice of scars.
If there was a big one that looked like it was from an operation I might be nosy and ask what the OP was.
One of my old regular partners has scars from bowel surgery and was worried the first time he undressed in front of me, covering them with his hands. So, I moved his hands and kissed them, before I sucked his cock. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't take much notice of scars.
If there was a big one that looked like it was from an operation I might be nosy and ask what the OP was.
One of my old regular partners has scars from bowel surgery and was worried the first time he undressed in front of me, covering them with his hands. So, I moved his hands and kissed them, before I sucked his cock."
Somone once asked me if my chest scar was from surgery i couldnt help but laughing thinking what the hell kind of operation that would have been and how bad the surgeon would have had to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.
Oh well, I haven't really lived then
Dont worry i'll fetch my cane and the antiseptic cream
Go get your pants off "
Done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.
Thanks.
Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf?"
Yep. I've no visible scars though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.
Thanks.
Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf?
Yep. I've no visible scars though "
And to be honest that just says I'm a clumsy fuck. Not exactly a sign of really living! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit "
I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!
Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit
I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!
Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though"
it’s not actually in any of my pics  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit
I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!
Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though
it’s not actually in any of my pics "
Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit
I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!
Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though
it’s not actually in any of my pics
Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that "
You’re correct |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit
I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!
Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though
it’s not actually in any of my pics
Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that
You’re correct "
Although it is better to be safe than sorry. I really should check in person :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit
I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!
Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though
it’s not actually in any of my pics
Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that
You’re correct
Although it is better to be safe than sorry. I really should check in person :p "
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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I have one that didn't heal well (my fault, I was back in the gym a few days later rather than let it heal).
Cancer is a shit boring story. So I tell everyone I got it in a knife fight when I was rescuing blind baby dolphins from ninja pirates.. pretty sure everyone believes me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m looking for the right tattoo to cover my appendix scar, it doesn’t bother me with people I know and you can hardly see it I’m told but to me it stands out and hate it on new meets. I quite like scars on others though, it’s character and tells a story, just not on me |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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I don't care if people have scars from accidents or even self inflicted. I slept with a lovely girl who was a self harmer and it didn't put me off.
Seen a bdsm inflicted scar of a horrible word though recently and I think it's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever seen in my life. A major hard on killer that does put me off. |
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"Do scars bother you?
They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others.
I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics.
The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were.
So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?"
I have one on my face. As a child, not so great, as children can be cruel. I did have plastic surgery at 16 but only to reduce the scare so it’s still there. I’m not bothered about it and forget it’s there till people notice and point it out (usually a few years after I’ve met them!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am very aware of my cs scar as its a bit lopsided but i always wear corsets when playing to cover it and don't like anyone touching my tummy...it's not stopped me having fun though.If it bothers anyone they can always find someone else. I'm a bit like Morrisons Wonky veg...still tasty no matter how it looks |
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I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol |
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Scars don't bother me in the slightest on other people in fact I find them rather sexy much of the time, but strangely as soon as I got a big gnarly one myself I had it tattooed over  |
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"Scars don't bother me in the slightest on other people in fact I find them rather sexy much of the time, but strangely as soon as I got a big gnarly one myself I had it tattooed over "
Ha ha if I got all my scars covered with tattoos, I reckon there would only be my nose and toes without ink lol |
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By *upremexMan
over a year ago
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Not at all. If you get close enough to my face" and many won't. I have a scar under my eye, I was bitten by a dog as a child and almost lost my eye. The older you get the less scars show and I have been lucky that way and scars are apart of someone. |
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"I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol"
I was told to rub the bio oil in quite vigorously, not gently. To break down the scar tissue. Twice a day for 15 minutes. Scar is now just a faint flat white line.
I have other scars that are raised and white but no-one has ever mentioned them which I find a bit odd. |
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"I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol
I was quite rigorous with the rubbing in of the bio oil, but doesn’t seem to have done much. Scar Gel has definitely faded it within a couple of weeks; going to keep using it for the recommended 2 months and see how it goes.
I was told to rub the bio oil in quite vigorously, not gently. To break down the scar tissue. Twice a day for 15 minutes. Scar is now just a faint flat white line.
I have other scars that are raised and white but no-one has ever mentioned them which I find a bit odd. "
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Slightly different to accidents or surgery! 
