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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Have an open and honest discussion with them in which you explain why you think it might be fun and a good idea for your relationship whilst all the time being prepared to accept, and respect, that they might say no - it really is that simple.
Some people bring it up as fantasy talk as a first step to gauge interest. |
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I would suggest that if you feel a partner might end a relationship over a request to try something sexual it's probably best not to suggest it.
work on getting to know the person better first and ensuring your relationship is secure enough for you both to be honest about things you'd like to try and secure enough to withstand refusals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that if you feel a partner might end a relationship over a request to try something sexual it's probably best not to suggest it.
work on getting to know the person better first and ensuring your relationship is secure enough for you both to be honest about things you'd like to try and secure enough to withstand refusals "
I'm never sure the best way to do this. It feels like chicken and egg.
If you mention it soon into the relationship it's easier to part if you're not compatible.
If you mention it later you're already 'in love' and it's harder to split when you realise one needs sex 4 times a day and the other only 4 times a year. |
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"I would suggest that if you feel a partner might end a relationship over a request to try something sexual it's probably best not to suggest it.
work on getting to know the person better first and ensuring your relationship is secure enough for you both to be honest about things you'd like to try and secure enough to withstand refusals
I'm never sure the best way to do this. It feels like chicken and egg.
If you mention it soon into the relationship it's easier to part if you're not compatible.
If you mention it later you're already 'in love' and it's harder to split when you realise one needs sex 4 times a day and the other only 4 times a year."
I'm assuming probably wrongly,  that this is an established relationship. I should know better |
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