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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?"
No I’m not that far up my own arse to think like that. There’s a few people on here who get very bitter when they are rejected though and blame the other person in some way.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general or specifically on here?
Depends.
They can't really feel the loss of something if they didn't want it in the first place.
However, missing out on something good maybe more accurate.
Bare with me here.
Great sex and/or company is not limited to physical attractiveness alone (as important that it is). There is always a chance that you will have had a better time with B over A but turned B down because of slightly better looks for example. Not a loss but did miss out of something overall better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In general or specifically on here?
Depends.
They can't really feel the loss of something if they didn't want it in the first place.
However, missing out on something good maybe more accurate.
Bare with me here.
Great sex and/or company is not limited to physical attractiveness alone (as important that it is). There is always a chance that you will have had a better time with B over A but turned B down because of slightly better looks for example. Not a loss but did miss out of something overall better. "
Just on here I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In general or specifically on here?
Depends.
They can't really feel the loss of something if they didn't want it in the first place.
However, missing out on something good maybe more accurate.
Bare with me here.
Great sex and/or company is not limited to physical attractiveness alone (as important that it is). There is always a chance that you will have had a better time with B over A but turned B down because of slightly better looks for example. Not a loss but did miss out of something overall better.
Just on here I mean"
Could still apply on here but 99% of the time if somebody ends up saying either "your loss" or "missing out" then neither really applies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn’t bother us, we’ve said many times before because we have a very small window of who we would like to meet and we are the bigger couple (plus we don’t have transport) we know it’s limited, but that’s cool!
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally im the best fuck they never had 
Or the worst lol ....
But is it always just about the fucking bit ? "
they musy only fuck in dreams for that to be true |
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?"
It's only a loss, if it's something you wanted, and couldn't have.
So if someone doesn't want to another person, they're not loosing out on anything.
I've had too many sarky "your loss" "you don't know what you're missing" replies to turning someone down.
Always makes me chuckle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?
It's only a loss, if it's something you wanted, and couldn't have.
So if someone doesn't want to another person, they're not loosing out on anything.
I've had too many sarky "your loss" "you don't know what you're missing" replies to turning someone down.
Always makes me chuckle "
The thing is too. If someone didn’t want me I wouldn’t them so it would be irrelevant to me. Unless you get that grrrrrrr I want you as much as you want me thing I’m not interested anyway. Hence I rarely meet coz I rarely get that! |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?
It's only a loss, if it's something you wanted, and couldn't have.
So if someone doesn't want to another person, they're not loosing out on anything.
I've had too many sarky "your loss" "you don't know what you're missing" replies to turning someone down.
Always makes me chuckle
The thing is too. If someone didn’t want me I wouldn’t them so it would be irrelevant to me. Unless you get that grrrrrrr I want you as much as you want me thing I’m not interested anyway. Hence I rarely meet coz I rarely get that! "
Grrrrrrrr  |
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I mean, it could be that someone doesn't know what they're missing out on. I got turned down by someone last year on grounds that showed they'd totally misread me. That stung. I didn't go on about it, but it was sort of like, I am actually what you claim to be looking for. So maybe it is your loss.
But, things to say in my head, not to the person, because it solves nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?
It's only a loss, if it's something you wanted, and couldn't have.
So if someone doesn't want to another person, they're not loosing out on anything.
I've had too many sarky "your loss" "you don't know what you're missing" replies to turning someone down.
Always makes me chuckle
The thing is too. If someone didn’t want me I wouldn’t them so it would be irrelevant to me. Unless you get that grrrrrrr I want you as much as you want me thing I’m not interested anyway. Hence I rarely meet coz I rarely get that!
Grrrrrrrr "
You know you make me grrrrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is too. If someone didn’t want me I wouldn’t them so it would be irrelevant to me. Unless you get that grrrrrrr I want you as much as you want me thing I’m not interested anyway. Hence I rarely meet coz I rarely get that! "
Same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In general or specifically on here?
Depends.
They can't really feel the loss of something if they didn't want it in the first place.
However, missing out on something good maybe more accurate.
Bare with me here.
Great sex and/or company is not limited to physical attractiveness alone (as important that it is). There is always a chance that you will have had a better time with B over A but turned B down because of slightly better looks for example. Not a loss but did miss out of something overall better. "
Fair point. |
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By *e_jpMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
No, not at all OP. I won’t be to everyone’s taste, just the same as everyone isn’t to my taste. I actually value people being honest, so someone telling me that they aren’t interested isn’t something I get offended about. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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It's a strange one depending how you look at it.
Potentially it is their loss, they/you may never know it, but it is not uncommon for great things to pass us by because we never took the chance to try it.
It ma very well be a life changing encounter (for the better or worse who knows).
With that said, sometimes you just instantly know the greatest thing about them will never be able to withstand the worst about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's their loss, they're missing out on the best shag of their life
F&B has cheesy knob.
Couldn't agree more with him.
He is a real stallion
Good opinion eveyone 
This "
Well spoken Senpai |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's their loss, they're missing out on the best shag of their life
F&B has cheesy knob.
Couldn't agree more with him.
He is a real stallion
Good opinion eveyone
This
Well spoken Senpai "
Haha  saw what u did ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?"
Not at all, that's a little churlish. I'd just thank them for their time and then move on.
Then I'd track them down and tie them up in the boot of my car. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?"
Yes!
I'm not "narcasistic"
...I just use logic to deduce that women hate my blunt honesty and they would rather choose a "beautifull liar" over me...
So yeh...
No time wasted.
And often I feel "I dodged a bullet"
If I show a friend/family membour a profile/woman who rejected me they say "you are better than that" (and they are right)
My parents liked one of my exes but shook their heads at others for good reasons (I was foolish) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?
Yes!
I'm not "narcasistic"
...I just use logic to deduce that women hate my blunt honesty and they would rather choose a "beautifull liar" over me...
So yeh...
No time wasted.
And often I feel "I dodged a bullet"
If I show a friend/family membour a profile/woman who rejected me they say "you are better than that" (and they are right)
My parents liked one of my exes but shook their heads at others for good reasons (I was foolish)"
If you’re better than them why message them in the first place?
And that’s brilliant logic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re better than them why message them in the first place?
And that’s brilliant logic "
It's like my friend who is about to marry the honey monster...
It's dillusion and low self esteem making you believe you can't do better...
Or you only find out later how shit she is.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like me!!!
Uni educated good degree
Could run 8 mile per day (before sick)
Got a job and a car
So I don't want some usless person.
I'm ok with women who can't meet my social status. (Perfectly fine)
But I've got job/car/education/fitness/loving personality....
I could date a jobless lazy girl but not if she didn't appreciate what I can bring to the table....
Lazy girl can go date Ferrari men for all I care.
Lazy girls seem to want "ambitious men" when they just sit round doing jack shit claiming to be femenists. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like me!!!
Uni educated good degree
Could run 8 mile per day (before sick)
Got a job and a car
So I don't want some usless person.
I'm ok with women who can't meet my social status. (Perfectly fine)
But I've got job/car/education/fitness/loving personality....
I could date a jobless lazy girl but not if she didn't appreciate what I can bring to the table....
Lazy girl can go date Ferrari men for all I care.
Lazy girls seem to want "ambitious men" when they just sit round doing jack shit claiming to be femenists."
Okay
So who’s loss is it if they reject you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like me!!!
Uni educated good degree
Could run 8 mile per day (before sick)
Got a job and a car
So I don't want some usless person.
I'm ok with women who can't meet my social status. (Perfectly fine)
But I've got job/car/education/fitness/loving personality....
I could date a jobless lazy girl but not if she didn't appreciate what I can bring to the table....
Lazy girl can go date Ferrari men for all I care.
Lazy girls seem to want "ambitious men" when they just sit round doing jack shit claiming to be femenists.
Okay
So who’s loss is it if they reject you?"
Why does there have to be loss involved?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like me!!!
Uni educated good degree
Could run 8 mile per day (before sick)
Got a job and a car
So I don't want some usless person.
I'm ok with women who can't meet my social status. (Perfectly fine)
But I've got job/car/education/fitness/loving personality....
I could date a jobless lazy girl but not if she didn't appreciate what I can bring to the table....
Lazy girl can go date Ferrari men for all I care.
Lazy girls seem to want "ambitious men" when they just sit round doing jack shit claiming to be femenists.
Okay
So who’s loss is it if they reject you?
Why does there have to be loss involved?
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Because that’s what my OP is about |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"If someone won't meet you, do you feel it’s ‘their loss’ ?"
It's no more then a choice. some people go lift, some go right, some say yes, some say no.
If some says no it a only a stepping stone to a path they don't wish to walk you can only invite them. |
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