Ok Newbies not sure or just looking?
Now this is some thing to to think about for those who message
This is why before you message some one you have to do your home work and read thier pfile in full frist
Work out from thier pfile how you should message them
Now Ive come cross many on here who dont read pfiles in full just the bottom bit
You only 15 secounds to win someone if you dont in that time afte that is hrad work can be done but half the time you lost the morment
Now if your to full on right away some will be put off by it and if thier new
Rember folk talk and there awful lot out there in the main stream who dont lkie what we doing
Rember folk talk about bad experiences and that is what the press pick on
Now the main stream press dont lkie what we doing
Which why folk must do thier home work
Now a good lot of folk do read pfiles in full message folk in the right way now cos of toss pot on here have hrad time of it cos of those who message folk in wrong way cos they havnt dotn there home work
Now to some of the newbies men i met in my time from here most have listen to my adive and gone on to find meets and have come back to me and said thank you for your adive
These are the things i say to them never asume anything go along with the flow make freinds frist
Rember all are at diffent levels of this do you home work in full be fore your message folk
Then I finaly I tell them this it all not going to happen over night it take time to find what your looking for and you have to find your feet
Then I tell them not to belive all what you red in papers
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Clearly there are people that message despite being in the profile owners "f-off, not interested" list and personally, I've never seen the point.
We all have our likes and dislikes so why bother being a dick and ignoring those likes/dislikes as it's not going to get you anywhere...
Just move on and approach somebody who's profile you fit in with - and take it like an adult if you get ignored or a "no thanks" 
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