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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you find you seek different things from different people?
I can have perfectly satisfying "vanilla" sex but I have a whole other side of me that needs a bit more of a challenge to feel satisfied.
I tend to connect with people either one way or the other. Finding someone to satisfy both sides is impossible but is that just part of the fun? Interacting with people on an individual basis? Getting what you want and need from a range of places instead of focusing on one? |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"Do you find you seek different things from different people?
I can have perfectly satisfying "vanilla" sex but I have a whole other side of me that needs a bit more of a challenge to feel satisfied.
I tend to connect with people either one way or the other. Finding someone to satisfy both sides is impossible but is that just part of the fun? Interacting with people on an individual basis? Getting what you want and need from a range of places instead of focusing on one? "
I would.LOVE to try out a gotta both with you xxxx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
My sexuality is multi-faceted and as such finding people that tick all of the boxes is a rarity, especially given one of those facets is bisexuality.
I also don't always want or expect to explore all of the aspects of my sexuality at the same time - it's been suggested on other threads that by not indulging in a particular side of your sexuality you are somehow compromising, but I don't buy into that at all, my sexuality is a virtual buffet where I can choose some or all of what I want at any given time and still come away more than satisfied.
Part of the joy of the site, is that you can meet different people that appeal to different sides of your sexuality. That said, meeting people that touch on all of them is as close to sexual perfection as you can get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did anyone else when they read the title of this thread start singing the theme tune in the head or is it just me
Now the world don't move to the beat of just one drum
What migbt be right for you x may not be right for some..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whatcha talkin' bout Willis? Now, the world don't move to the beat of just one drum
What might be right for you, may not be right for some  "
It takes, Diff'rent Strokes
It takes, Diff'rent Strokes to move the world |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I do, which is why I have more than one regular partner and am still looking for more."
Do you think you'll ever feel it's enough or does finding what you're looking for then lead to you looking for something else? |
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I think having more than one sexual partner can make you realise that different people bring out different aspects of your sexual personality. I don't think you necessarily need to express those aspects to be content. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My sexuality is multi-faceted and as such finding people that tick all of the boxes is a rarity, especially given one of those facets is bisexuality.
I also don't always want or expect to explore all of the aspects of my sexuality at the same time - it's been suggested on other threads that by not indulging in a particular side of your sexuality you are somehow compromising, but I don't buy into that at all, my sexuality is a virtual buffet where I can choose some or all of what I want at any given time and still come away more than satisfied.
Part of the joy of the site, is that you can meet different people that appeal to different sides of your sexuality. That said, meeting people that touch on all of them is as close to sexual perfection as you can get."
I agree, I don't feel like I'm compromising anything when I have fully satisfying sex that doesn't include everything I like.
I like the buffet analogy. Yes it's nice to try a bit of everything but sometimes I'm happy with a sausage roll and a handful of nuts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think having more than one sexual partner can make you realise that different people bring out different aspects of your sexual personality. I don't think you necessarily need to express those aspects to be content."
No. I guess there can be people who bring out a side you don't want exposed too. A more vulnerable side that you want to protect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah definitely. Have an FB that is quite vanilla. I've tried training her up to be more kinky which has worked on occasion however she's still vanilla at heart.
We're both aware we see different people for other activities and kink and that's fine. |
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