Had one or two from some females and a couple but I mainly get fellas messaging which I tend to ignore unless they are general chat! I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s why I’m here asking lol |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"But very few messages! Not many winks either! Think I’m doing this wrong ? "
Probably not. Only a small proportion of viewers will consider you (this is not specific to you, this applies to all of us), and only a proportion that consider you will message / wink.
On that basis, "a few views" is not going to cut it. You'll need dozens. Every day.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not saying I expect a reply or message from each person who visits "
Understood, but you do have some sort of expectation as to how visits should relate to messages...?
(and I think my gender was clear before you looked  ) |
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"Had one or two from some females and a couple but I mainly get fellas messaging which I tend to ignore unless they are general chat! I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s why I’m here asking lol "
Probably waiting for them to find you. Given how you've posed your question it would seem that you are yet another of those chaps who hears about fab from somewhere and is of the impression that all you need to do is sign up, create a profile and wait for all the offers from women gagging for sex.
Granted your profile text is better written than most but we single men massively outnumber the ladies and they really do not need to go looking. You need to be more pro active |
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You're doing it right if you gain interest and manage to deflect those who aren't matched. No point in investing time and effort with inappropriate people.
Research how to improve contact levels and interest, via profile amendments and getting to meet socially etc |
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"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x"
Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha. |
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"Had one or two from some females and a couple but I mainly get fellas messaging which I tend to ignore unless they are general chat! I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s why I’m here asking lol
Probably waiting for them to find you. Given how you've posed your question it would seem that you are yet another of those chaps who hears about fab from somewhere and is of the impression that all you need to do is sign up, create a profile and wait for all the offers from women gagging for sex.
Not at all, I was hoping for some insight from more experienced and successful people. Thanks anyway
Granted your profile text is better written than most but we single men massively outnumber the ladies and they really do not need to go looking. You need to be more pro active"
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"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x
Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha. "
Lol, it was the pic that you’ve removed- feminine items on show, and the fact you can’t accommodate. Some people won’t meet attached men, and that definitely have the impression you’re attached xx |
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"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x
Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha.
Lol, it was the pic that you’ve removed- feminine items on show, and the fact you can’t accommodate. Some people won’t meet attached men, and that definitely have the impression you’re attached xx"
Gave, not have xx |
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"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x
Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha.
Lol, it was the pic that you’ve removed- feminine items on show, and the fact you can’t accommodate. Some people won’t meet attached men, and that definitely have the impression you’re attached xx
Gave, not have xx"
Ahh thank you! I am attached but have consent, I didn’t realise however how that may have been misinterpreted. Thank you |
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I'm nosy at profiles but only message once in a blue moon.
Looking for good photos (plural), veris that match our interests and well written profile text that floats our boat. Getting all of this is very very rare and that okay!
We get hundreds of view a day and never think about how this translates to messages as I'm sure they are taking the same steps we are... Or just perving at photos which is fine too! |
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"I'm nosy at profiles but only message once in a blue moon.
Looking for good photos (plural), veris that match our interests and well written profile text that floats our boat. Getting all of this is very very rare and that okay!
We get hundreds of view a day and never think about how this translates to messages as I'm sure they are taking the same steps we are... Or just perving at photos which is fine too! "
Yeah will bear all that in mind, and look to get a few more acceptable photos up! Thanks for taking the time to reply. We all love a good nosy don’t we. |
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