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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? |
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Lol. A guy used to do this to me on holiday once, we used to laugh and say he wouldn't recognise my face.
I don't like it. In a professional situation I hate it. Could you kind of angle your head to look at his face so he becomes aware that you're aware iyswim or just laugh and say "my face is up here" |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
I think you should mention it to them next time you see them that you weren't comfortable with them looking at your boobs during your conversations and hopefully they wont don't it again in future.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How much were they on show? That makes a huge difference in the difficulties of focusing.
It is rare that my gaze will ever wander from a woman's face when locked in conversation, unless said situation offers the opportunity to do so.
It does become increasingly more difficult based on visibility of said boobs though.
Some guys just like "shiney" things and their focus is easily swayed. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I do the sneaky furtive crotch glance. Would never dream of objectifying a man by staring at his bulge when I'm talking to him.
I also notice boobs as well. Again, it's about the stealth perv. I don't think men realise how obvious they are. I spent most of a meeting with one of my team checking they were still there for me. |
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"Do women want men to look at their boobs? "
Therein lies the problem. I am fully aware that if I have a low cut top on men will look if I minded I wouldn't dress like that. If I cover up I don't like it. How are men supposed to know who likes it and when? I think if they assume that most women like to be spoken to face to face guys can't go far wrong. |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice"
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally... |
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"I do the sneaky furtive crotch glance. Would never dream of objectifying a man by staring at his bulge when I'm talking to him.
I also notice boobs as well. Again, it's about the stealth perv. I don't think men realise how obvious they are. I spent most of a meeting with one of my team checking they were still there for me."
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally..."
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
Helps if you don’t have them hanging out lover
I always thought if you look at a woman’s mouth it seduces them subconsciously |
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.
This. It's not acceptable at work.
Is it acceptable in a pub"
For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh). |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it. "
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.
This. It's not acceptable at work.
Is it acceptable in a pub
For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh). "
You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.
This. It's not acceptable at work.
Is it acceptable in a pub"
Depends who you are. I find it creepy when men just stare at me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.
This. It's not acceptable at work.
Is it acceptable in a pub
For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).
You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing"
Men should also be able to control themselves as well in a professional environment |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true.."
My over 40 years experience as an adult woman tell me that men talk to my breasts even when I'm wearing a jumper. |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true.."
Just because some women don't always cover their breasts doesn't mean that all women are like this (and I'd love to know when you've seen me at work like this!). It also doesn't mean that it's acceptable to stare at breasts at work. I manage to ignore both breasts and bulging groins at work just fine. It's called being a respectful adult and controlling myself.
I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.
This. It's not acceptable at work.
Is it acceptable in a pub
For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).
You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing
Men should also be able to control themselves as well in a professional environment "
We do try but alas we fail |
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.
This. It's not acceptable at work.
Is it acceptable in a pub
For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).
You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing"
Then they should learn to control themselves and go away until they can be civilised in polite company. |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..
Just because some women don't always cover their breasts doesn't mean that all women are like this (and I'd love to know when you've seen me at work like this!). It also doesn't mean that it's acceptable to stare at breasts at work. I manage to ignore both breasts and bulging groins at work just fine. It's called being a respectful adult and controlling myself.
I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. "
,,,,its nothing to do with entitlement, its about the basics at the work place, more specifically women who wear very low cut tops and then complain about their boobs being stared at...I'm not commenting on those that cover up |
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"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo"
Yeah, I cover up when I don't want men to look. They still look.
I know it's instinct but surely guys can differentiate between covered and uncovered, professional and sexualised social situations. |
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"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo"
Some women do this. Some women wear clothes that they like, or it's hot and women happen to have big tits. It's not always about what you think about us! |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..
Just because some women don't always cover their breasts doesn't mean that all women are like this (and I'd love to know when you've seen me at work like this!). It also doesn't mean that it's acceptable to stare at breasts at work. I manage to ignore both breasts and bulging groins at work just fine. It's called being a respectful adult and controlling myself.
I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. ,,,,its nothing to do with entitlement, its about the basics at the work place, more specifically women who wear very low cut tops and then complain about their boobs being stared at...I'm not commenting on those that cover up "
The OP has said that she was covered.
Women have breasts. We can't make them go away in the office. But, a bit like toilet activities, we can pretend not to notice them because it isn't the time or place.
I'm a bi woman. I do it every day. |
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over a year ago
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"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo
Some women do this. Some women wear clothes that they like, or it's hot and women happen to have big tits. It's not always about what you think about us! "
I will relay that message to her when I see her at weekend thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..
Just because some women don't always cover their breasts doesn't mean that all women are like this (and I'd love to know when you've seen me at work like this!). It also doesn't mean that it's acceptable to stare at breasts at work. I manage to ignore both breasts and bulging groins at work just fine. It's called being a respectful adult and controlling myself.
I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. ,,,,its nothing to do with entitlement, its about the basics at the work place, more specifically women who wear very low cut tops and then complain about their boobs being stared at...I'm not commenting on those that cover up
The OP has said that she was covered.
Women have breasts. We can't make them go away in the office. But, a bit like toilet activities, we can pretend not to notice them because it isn't the time or place.
I'm a bi woman. I do it every day. "
Weird that eh, I do it as well |
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"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo
Some women do this. Some women wear clothes that they like, or it's hot and women happen to have big tits. It's not always about what you think about us!
I will relay that message to her when I see her at weekend thanks "
I don't think she has a problem with it tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing. "
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear "
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue. |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...
It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.
i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..
Just because some women don't always cover their breasts doesn't mean that all women are like this (and I'd love to know when you've seen me at work like this!). It also doesn't mean that it's acceptable to stare at breasts at work. I manage to ignore both breasts and bulging groins at work just fine. It's called being a respectful adult and controlling myself.
I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. ,,,,its nothing to do with entitlement, its about the basics at the work place, more specifically women who wear very low cut tops and then complain about their boobs being stared at...I'm not commenting on those that cover up
The OP has said that she was covered.
Women have breasts. We can't make them go away in the office. But, a bit like toilet activities, we can pretend not to notice them because it isn't the time or place.
I'm a bi woman. I do it every day.
Weird that eh, I do it as well"
For me this also extends to, say, gym changing rooms. Do I theoretically appreciate the fit women wandering around with no clothes on? Sure. Why is it theoretical? Because I'm not a creep. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing. "
It happened to me in a pub a couple of weeks ago,sat down and jeans were tight around my crotch, couple of women friends were staring and laughing |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue. "
Yeah my mate Jeff wants a pic as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.
Yeah my mate Jeff wants a pic as well "
Yeah yeah. We all know you have a bit of an obsession with Tame’s big willy |
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"At the end of the day men will stare at tits, passed a bit of time though"
And women don't appreciate it when it's not appropriate.
I pass time by imagining things. Sometimes these include tits I've seen. But I don't inflict my desire on someone (particularly at work, it is inflicting). |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue. "
Tell your mate Sue, there’s two on my profile, if she wants a better look she will have to wait till I’m lost again and in her vacinity. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.
Yeah my mate Jeff wants a pic as well
Yeah yeah. We all know you have a bit of an obsession with Tame’s big willy "
It's scary |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the end of the day men will stare at tits, passed a bit of time though
And women don't appreciate it when it's not appropriate.
I pass time by imagining things. Sometimes these include tits I've seen. But I don't inflict my desire on someone (particularly at work, it is inflicting). "
I meant the thread passed a bit of time |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.
Tell your mate Sue, there’s two on my profile, if she wants a better look she will have to wait till I’m lost again and in her vacinity. "
Ok I’ve told her.
Ps. She said what’s a vacinity? |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
I always do the two fingers into their field of vision and direct them up to my eyes saying "Up here dude, eyes please."
Works beautifully. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.
So it’s not just a male thing.
Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear
Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.
Tell your mate Sue, there’s two on my profile, if she wants a better look she will have to wait till I’m lost again and in her vacinity.
Ok I’ve told her.
Ps. She said what’s a vacinity? "
It’s like vicinity, but sucks better. |
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"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice
Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally..."
Or women dress more professionally  when at work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked."
Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
I think it's in a man's DNA to do so, lol. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.
Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too."
Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key |
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I'm very aware of when my eyes start to wander southwards. I'm not saying I don't look, but I do make a conscious effort to look women in the face. Being tall doesn't help, you're having to look down to start with. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.
Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.
Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key"
Not together I hope |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.
Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.
Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key"
Or we could go for some personal responsibility? If you're at work, don't look at people inappropriately. If they're dressed inappropriately, speak to them or whoever it's appropriate to speak to. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.
Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.
Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key
Or we could go for some personal responsibility? If you're at work, don't look at people inappropriately. If they're dressed inappropriately, speak to them or whoever it's appropriate to speak to. "
Thank for the advice,I will do that (.)(.) |
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over a year ago
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"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me. "
O Noooooooo, please tell me that ladies don't notice..
I must admit to having realised that my eyes are pointing the wrong way and feeling rather embarrassed. |
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"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me.
O Noooooooo, please tell me that ladies don't notice..
I must admit to having realised that my eyes are pointing the wrong way and feeling rather embarrassed."
They notice. Most of them don't mind you looking as long as you're not staring. |
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. What if he says I prefer the view I have right now,thank you?
Yes, because that's completely appropriate at work... "
Height may come into play during conversation as it's not always comfortable to be constantly looking up while talking (try it) but yes, people should behave in a right time right place manner. |
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"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. What if he says I prefer the view I have right now,thank you?
Yes, because that's completely appropriate at work... Height may come into play during conversation as it's not always comfortable to be constantly looking up while talking (try it) but yes, people should behave in a right time right place manner."
I do. I interact with the very tall through to the wheelchair bound, and I manage to look at their faces. |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
Haha think your giving yourself a big head..
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ?
Haha think your giving yourself a big head..
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How so? |
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How do you ladies feel if a guy looks at you as you walk past him at work? Is that also seen as in appropriately taking advantage as you're looking the other way? |
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"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?
I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.
What’s it about ? "
Maybe they were trying to prove they can concentrate on two things at the same time  |
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