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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly ?
Depends on the scenario and how horned up I am
I've allowed people to have a fondle or a grope in clubs & saunas that I wouldn't engage with here if they were to message me
There have been times when I've found that scenario overwhelming, but, on occasion, if the flame is already fully lit, I can go with it |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Extremely high (sometimes to my detriment maybe) I haven't had sex in two years now, but 18 months of those have and still include a stressful situation that is still unresolved, so maybe my full attention hasn't been given and many poor messages are just easier to just ignore! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure I’d class it as high standards. I just know what I want and won’t settle for anything less. It’s not really a standards thing it’s just what I personally want. Not easy to find for me but maybe one day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me.
I doubt that
I thought you had raised them, but I see you're back. Welcome anyway... "
Haha. Yeah I’m half back ish, for now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yay! NORA'S back! We missed you 
Aw thanks. Hope you’re doing ok x"
yeah I'm doing great thanks, better than what I was doing a few weeks ago.
The forums have been great help, so many great people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yay! NORA'S back! We missed you
Aw thanks. Hope you’re doing ok x yeah I'm doing great thanks, better than what I was doing a few weeks ago.
The forums have been great help, so many great people. "
Yes there are. Good to hear it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they dropped there knickers I’ll drop my standards  (joke)
I go of personality sounds cheesy but if you can have a laugh with them then I’m sure your gonna have a good time with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens.."
Absolutely agree with this because I never quite understand what people mean when they say standards!
Does that mean that anyone they don't want to meet is substandard?
I think has already been mentioned it's about personal preference and knowing what you want and not compromising on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..
Absolutely agree with this because I never quite understand what people mean when they say standards!
Does that mean that anyone they don't want to meet is substandard?
I think has already been mentioned it's about personal preference and knowing what you want and not compromising on that "
For me standards mean knowing what I want and not compromising. I don't look for men out of my league I seek humour and intelligence. Mutual attraction and a spark |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Incredibly high.
No ones going to admit to having low standards on here though! But mine really are high. "
Mine are pretty low, if you're talking about physical appearance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..
Absolutely agree with this because I never quite understand what people mean when they say standards!
Does that mean that anyone they don't want to meet is substandard?
I think has already been mentioned it's about personal preference and knowing what you want and not compromising on that
For me standards mean knowing what I want and not compromising. I don't look for men out of my league I seek humour and intelligence. Mutual attraction and a spark "
I completely agree with you I was just saying I never quite understand the term standards because it's suggesting certain people are substandard. I know that's not what most people mean when they use it and think they mean preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some it doesn't seem they have particularly high standards; more a particular look they go for.
I don't have a particular look I'm attracted to, so they might think I'll fuck anyone, whereas I need a high level of attraction, not just a tick of the "he looks the part" box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..
And today's prize for voicing my thoughts exactly goes to.... "
Schooled by yoda of course!! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I think we all have standards some differ very widely,but i would never lower my standards just for the sake,my standards are high how high are yours"
Mine aren't as high on here as in the real world. Still reasonably high though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have very high standards in most things I do, the way I dress, manners etc. and that is the same rule for the people I choose to associate with off here. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"I think we all have standards some differ very widely,but i would never lower my standards just for the sake,my standards are high how high are yours"
How very dare you accuse me of having standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're appropriate - it's not about high or low, as that implies a kind of judgmental position. I have preferences and maintain them, sometimes exploring new ground too."
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