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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
But it says 18 to 99 on your profile  "
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
But it says 18 to 99 on your profile
Ok you got me "
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
But it says 18 to 99 on your profile
Ok you got me
Bless ya "
And our limits are around 38 to 65 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
But it says 18 to 99 on your profile
Ok you got me
Bless ya
And our limits are around 38 to 65 "
Why no younger than About 38? I could probably go older if I was very keen
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Mine’s 25-45! I’ve met guys over 45 before (usually because they’re fibbing in their profile) but it’s very rare I’d meet someone under 25! Most guys I meet are 30+! In the young I look for emotional maturity! If it’s not there - no handsome face or 6 pack is going to persuade me to shag them! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer women my age or older and to have some click going on
With guys, I seem to find myself attracted to younger, like 18-30, and a bit 'laddish'
With a guy, I'm not really arsed about having anything 'in common' with them though, quite happy with one off shag & go meets
I'm not really interested in hook ups at the minute, so everyone's safe. For now |
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Having met some people a lot younger and older than my theoretical age limits, I’d have to say that I don’t really judge people on their age any more.
How they are as a person is much more important and not much to do with the number of birthdays they’ve had - at 50 you can be fun like an irresponsible teenager and at 30 you could be settling into middle age with a cardigan to match |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60. "
Following on from my post. Why the age limits that you have set? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
Following on from my post. Why the age limits that you have set?"
Because it’s the age of men I’m attracted too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 25 on my profile but in reality I couldn't see myself meeting anyone under 35ish really.
Obviously age is just a number but if I looked into their face and they looked young it wouldn't do for me.
Id rather go older than me, and prob dont have an upper limit as long as I fancied them of course |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
But it says 18 to 99 on your profile
Ok you got me
Bless ya
And our limits are around 38 to 65
Why no younger than About 38? I could probably go older if I was very keen
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I have a step grandson your age, it just doesn't sit right with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
Following on from my post. Why the age limits that you have set?"
Lower limit is 23 because I don't meet anyone younger than my eldest child, and I'm rarely attracted to guys over 36 so that's my upper limit (plus guys are often economical with the truth  ) |
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A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you."
I wouldn't say it's ageist, it's down to what you feel comfortable
with and what age group you are attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you."
If age is ‘just a number’ then why is there an age for consent?  Obviously age isn’t just a number, doesn’t matter how you spin it. It isn’t ageist to have preferences. It all depends who you’re attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you.
If age is ‘just a number’ then why is there an age for consent? Obviously age isn’t just a number, doesn’t matter how you spin it. It isn’t ageist to have preferences. It all depends who you’re attracted to"
Oh my dear husband, you’re 4 years below my youngest age limit  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you.
If age is ‘just a number’ then why is there an age for consent? Obviously age isn’t just a number, doesn’t matter how you spin it. It isn’t ageist to have preferences. It all depends who you’re attracted to
Oh my dear husband, you’re 4 years below my youngest age limit "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you.
If age is ‘just a number’ then why is there an age for consent? Obviously age isn’t just a number, doesn’t matter how you spin it. It isn’t ageist to have preferences. It all depends who you’re attracted to"
The age of consent is to ensure those that are not fully matured aren't subjected to harm.
Beyond the age of consent (mid - late teens), age really is just a number. |
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Any age for me as long as I find them attractive. I find if funny people say they won't go wit someone younger than their own kids, but if you didnt have any, would that limit not be there? But also, if I'm looking to date someone I'd like them to be no more than 3 years older than me and not sure about younger, depends how mentally mature they were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of people being very ageist here lol.
I don't have an age range, if you can stimulate me both psychologically and physically then I would certainly reciprocate.
Age is just a number not a definition of you."
I am very ageist. If they don't fit the age I'm looking for I won't be meeting them.
Why is that an issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60. "
My son's are aged 19 and nearly 21. So I couldn't meet your age or near to it.
The ones I met older than 25 to 30 have put me off. So it's over 30s only for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest i have put my younger age limit up and up.
To be perfectly honest since i've done this the quality of my messages have improved. I do meet people younger than 30 but I just don't want messages from them and if I like the look of someone and their profile under that age I will message them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I'm not fussed about the age if it feels right and you have that attraction why not go with it in the end of the day its your life and you should live it how you see fit simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have age limits which are on my profile. We do sometimes meet guys outside this preference but only when we have actually met them socially already and get on well with them.
Most guys younger than our preference are generally to imature for our liking and guys older are to close to our parents ages ... both of which are offputting to us. |
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"To be honest i have put my younger age limit up and up.
To be perfectly honest since i've done this the quality of my messages have improved. I do meet people younger than 30 but I just don't want messages from them and if I like the look of someone and their profile under that age I will message them.
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This is why my limits are set where they are. I wouldn't meet under 25 most likely, feels too young to me, but the quality of the messages I tended to get from people over 60 left a lot to be desired, too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest i have put my younger age limit up and up.
To be perfectly honest since i've done this the quality of my messages have improved. I do meet people younger than 30 but I just don't want messages from them and if I like the look of someone and their profile under that age I will message them.
This is why my limits are set where they are. I wouldn't meet under 25 most likely, feels too young to me, but the quality of the messages I tended to get from people over 60 left a lot to be desired, too. "
I've never had my limits at over 60 so I don't know but I can imagine. I mean obviously I'm not suggesting but it's only younger people that don't seem to know how to conduct themselves in decent company!
The messages I received from people younger than 30 especially if I said no thank you were just damn right rude.
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"All a bit prescriptive for me...If I specified 25 to 55 I'd run the risk of missing someone really nice just a month outside of my limit...….I prefer to judge on a person by person basis....."
I suspect it's different when you're getting a lot of mail. |
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"To be honest i have put my younger age limit up and up.
To be perfectly honest since i've done this the quality of my messages have improved. I do meet people younger than 30 but I just don't want messages from them and if I like the look of someone and their profile under that age I will message them.
This is why my limits are set where they are. I wouldn't meet under 25 most likely, feels too young to me, but the quality of the messages I tended to get from people over 60 left a lot to be desired, too.
I've never had my limits at over 60 so I don't know but I can imagine. I mean obviously I'm not suggesting but it's only younger people that don't seem to know how to conduct themselves in decent company!
The messages I received from people younger than 30 especially if I said no thank you were just damn right rude.
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Yeah. There are exceptions of course, but I found under 30 and over 60 more entitled than within those bounds. In very different ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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35-45 are my age filters although I have been caught out by someone a lot younger than they claimed and someone older than they claimed...
It’s annoying soneone would change their age on here just to get meets because that’s already an abuse of “trust” let alone proving disrespect toward someone’s preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All a bit prescriptive for me...If I specified 25 to 55 I'd run the risk of missing someone really nice just a month outside of my limit...….I prefer to judge on a person by person basis.....
I suspect it's different when you're getting a lot of mail. "
I was going to say the same actually and it's interesting that men and women are often very different in their response to these kind of questions.
I'm not suggesting for a second that I don't treat people as individuals and that I only stick to my age preferences. it's just obviously another way of filtering things out. |
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"All a bit prescriptive for me...If I specified 25 to 55 I'd run the risk of missing someone really nice just a month outside of my limit...….I prefer to judge on a person by person basis.....
I suspect it's different when you're getting a lot of mail.
I was going to say the same actually and it's interesting that men and women are often very different in their response to these kind of questions.
I'm not suggesting for a second that I don't treat people as individuals and that I only stick to my age preferences. it's just obviously another way of filtering things out."
Yeah. In an ideal world I'd open my filters. My filters are based on the hassle I found from those I've excluded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60.
But it says 18 to 99 on your profile "
lol |
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My worry is that people fib about their ages. Personally, I couldn’t tell the difference between a lot of 18 yr old girls and 15 yr old girls once they get dolled up and that’s a real concern.
We have an 18 yr old ‘child’ and our rule is the people we meet have to be closer to our age than our children’s or parents ages.
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"Mine’s 25-45! I’ve met guys over 45 before (usually because they’re fibbing in their profile) but it’s very rare I’d meet someone under 25! Most guys I meet are 30+! In the young I look for emotional maturity! If it’s not there - no handsome face or 6 pack is going to persuade me to shag them! X"
Wow you are tough but I like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My worry is that people fib about their ages. Personally, I couldn’t tell the difference between a lot of 18 yr old girls and 15 yr old girls once they get dolled up and that’s a real concern.
We have an 18 yr old ‘child’ and our rule is the people we meet have to be closer to our age than our children’s or parents ages.
Lou x "
I feel those who allow their daughters to dress older than they are is bad parenting your suppose to protect your children from the badness in the world not exposing them to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Since being on here I've actually raised my lower age limit because of the lack of maturity really ... Just find it very unattractive. I find equal mentally stimulating conversation more attractive than a sense of entitlement and limited life experiences.
Everyone is different and of course there will be exceptions to every rule |
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"My worry is that people fib about their ages. Personally, I couldn’t tell the difference between a lot of 18 yr old girls and 15 yr old girls once they get dolled up and that’s a real concern.
We have an 18 yr old ‘child’ and our rule is the people we meet have to be closer to our age than our children’s or parents ages.
Lou x
I feel those who allow their daughters to dress older than they are is bad parenting your suppose to protect your children from the badness in the world not exposing them to it"
I’m not saying the girls are going out dressed as hookers, just once they put some lippy on and a nice outfit it’s sometimes difficult to determine their age.
And by shielding your child from all the badness in the world you risk raising a naive and potentially vulnerable teenager/young adult. Age appropriate knowledge can be powerful in helping them to protect themselves and become resilient adults.
Lou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was 18yrs old I use to fantasise having sex with a couple, so for that reason we would consider 18... and one day we will be 99yrs old and would still like to be playing, so for this reason we would consider a 99 yrs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ideal is 35-46 but I will go older if they are youthful, my own partner is 50 this year. I will occasionally go younger but usually I've found it's a mistake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I’m 45 I prefer guys in their 30’s ideally sometimes a tiny bit younger
Rare I’m attracted to anyone my own age or older tho "
45? No way I would have said at least late 20's early 30's looking through your pics like wow just wow |
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"Now I’m 45 I prefer guys in their 30’s ideally sometimes a tiny bit younger
Rare I’m attracted to anyone my own age or older tho
45? No way I would have said at least late 20's early 30's looking through your pics like wow just wow"
Haha are you flattering me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I’m 45 I prefer guys in their 30’s ideally sometimes a tiny bit younger
Rare I’m attracted to anyone my own age or older tho
45? No way I would have said at least late 20's early 30's looking through your pics like wow just wow
Haha are you flattering me "
I could be why is it working |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I’m 45 I prefer guys in their 30’s ideally sometimes a tiny bit younger
Rare I’m attracted to anyone my own age or older tho "
Im same, although im still into guys in their mid 20s
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"Would love to play with a pert 18 year old body, but find ladies of all ages sexy,would love to meet a sophisticated woman in her 50s or 60s too"
My 18 yr old and her friends think it’s disgusting when ‘Pervy old men’ approach them in clubs ... those old men are usually in their early-mid 30’s
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It is definitely the person not the age but I do have a preference. 25-35 for me. Have gone younger and older when things are right. When you meet someone in a club you don’t know their age and it is about attraction and chemistry. For me there is also something a little naughty about being with a guy half my age and a confidence boost too! The older woman younger guy is definitely a thing for me. |
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"Would love to play with a pert 18 year old body, but find ladies of all ages sexy,would love to meet a sophisticated woman in her 50s or 60s too
My 18 yr old and her friends think it’s disgusting when ‘Pervy old men’ approach them in clubs ... those old men are usually in their early-mid 30’s
Lou x "
And actually not all 18 year olds are pert anyway
In fact many of us older ladies could give them a run for their money even after kids haha |
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By *wentMan
over a year ago
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"Would love to play with a pert 18 year old body, but find ladies of all ages sexy,would love to meet a sophisticated woman in her 50s or 60s too
My 18 yr old and her friends think it’s disgusting when ‘Pervy old men’ approach them in clubs ... those old men are usually in their early-mid 30’s
Lou x
And actually not all 18 year olds are pert anyway
In fact many of us older ladies could give them a run for their money even after kids haha "
Such a huge gulf in ages around and all can be great. Attraction is probably the key word. But it's not looks. It's the beauty is deeper than just looks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would love to play with a pert 18 year old body, but find ladies of all ages sexy,would love to meet a sophisticated woman in her 50s or 60s too
My 18 yr old and her friends think it’s disgusting when ‘Pervy old men’ approach them in clubs ... those old men are usually in their early-mid 30’s
Lou x
And actually not all 18 year olds are pert anyway
In fact many of us older ladies could give them a run for their money even after kids haha "
Well like I said age is just a number as long as its legal and it feels right let the fun begin I say |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Would love to play with a pert 18 year old body, but find ladies of all ages sexy,would love to meet a sophisticated woman in her 50s or 60s too
My 18 yr old and her friends think it’s disgusting when ‘Pervy old men’ approach them in clubs ... those old men are usually in their early-mid 30’s
Lou x
And actually not all 18 year olds are pert anyway
In fact many of us older ladies could give them a run for their money even after kids haha "
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"Would love to play with a pert 18 year old body, but find ladies of all ages sexy,would love to meet a sophisticated woman in her 50s or 60s too
My 18 yr old and her friends think it’s disgusting when ‘Pervy old men’ approach them in clubs ... those old men are usually in their early-mid 30’s
Lou x
And actually not all 18 year olds are pert anyway
In fact many of us older ladies could give them a run for their money even after kids haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know some lady’s and gents on here like younger guys like myself. But what are your age limits.
Personally I wouldn’t go over 60. "
For me 27-50 is my age limits set. Have blocked messages outside of this range. Won't go younger as I have a son in early 20s and it would just feel wrong. Older than 50 I am just not attracted. If I'm searching I may find the odd one but generally not. So upper not set in stone but lower is. |
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